After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

Only the bride price is really given to the woman, but the fucked up thing is that many girls don’t spend a penny of the bride price themselves. Don’t you think this is ridiculous?

But all the criticism from the public was borne by these innocent and pitiful girls. They didn't get any benefit at all. So let's just say it's fucked up or not.

The whole society is scolding girls, saying that girls nowadays are not as good as girls in the past and that girls nowadays only care about money.

When you cursed, were you targeting the wrong person? Did these girls spend the money? No.

Then why is the whole society scolding today's girls for being realistic? Today's girls only care about money and not people.

Who are you scolding for taking the money? He kept shouting "You are selling your daughter" and was extremely unconvinced.

You should openly criticize these parents who don't treat their girls as human beings.

We must punish those who, just because they have a little more meat, feel at ease lying on the backs of their sisters and taking advantage of others' misfortunes.

What's the point of scolding the "target object"? It's not them who spent the money.

Why don't you scold the culprits? Is it because you don't dare? Or is it because these men are the beneficiaries of this fucked-up incident and are the proud ancestors of their families?

Men who are scolding other families for selling their daughters these days, what do you have to be wronged about? Didn't you get the money for marrying your wife by selling your sisters?

How dare you keep yelling about this and that every day? Since you want to start a revolution, why not start with revolutionizing your own lives first?

First, be an upright man who lives up to his conscience, does not wrong or owe anything to his sisters, and does not oppress them, and lives a man who is upright in this world.

Instead of sucking blood from a family, complaining while sucking blood that others are treating you like a blood bag.

The people who are bleeding and donating blood are not you Yaozu, so what are you yelling about?

Do you think it's appropriate to scold these blood bags?

You blood bags haven't even started cursing yet, how can it be your turn?

I just want to ask, have these girls benefited from this relationship? How dare you curse them?

These beneficiaries are still jumping around happily every other day, and they have completely understood the double standards.

If Xia Ran were to say, in the whole incident, the most innocent and pitiful people are these girls.

Being born a girl was not their intention, nor was it something they could decide.

If given a choice, I'm sure few girls would be willing to come into this world where they are not welcomed.

We are all individuals, and who doesn’t want to be loved and treated kindly by this world?

They are all independent individuals - people, but they cannot make their own decisions. It’s sad to think about it.

Some people seem to be born to exist and serve their families and the great men in their families.

But? Why?

We are all born as human beings for the first time. Why are we the victims and the “objects” that can be bought and sold in the eyes of others?

The transaction (marriage) between the two families seemed to have something to do with them, the parties involved, but it also seemed to have nothing to do with them.

It is said that having a relationship with her means being "sold", and no matter whether life is good or bad, she, the person involved, needs to bear it all. No one can replace her, no one can be responsible for her, only herself.

She said it had nothing to do with her because the money from "selling bodies" would not go to these girls.

Some families even go into debt in order to pay the high bride price to marry a daughter-in-law, and aren't these poor girls responsible for paying off the debt?

It is obvious that they don't have to owe foreign debts, and it is obvious that they don't have to endure this hardship, and she shouldn't have to bear it.

But in this fucked up world, people are naturally divided into two categories because of their gender.

One type is born to enjoy all the resources of the whole family, including their siblings from the same mother.

One type of people are born indebted to their parents and start to repay the favor shortly after they are born, but no matter how hard they try, they can never repay it.

They also have to be prepared to sacrifice at any time for the proud ancestors of their families, always be ready to pave the way for them and devote themselves to them, even if they are sold several times, they have no regrets.

When some parents sell their daughters, they feel as if they have finally caught a fat lamb and will not give up until they have skinned and scraped off all the fat.

They never consider how the girls from their families will deal with themselves and survive after they do this.

Moreover, the higher the price the parents demand, the harder life the girls will have in their husband’s family.

In the eyes of their husband's family, they were bought into the family, and whether they live or die in the future is all decided by the buyer.

However, the consequences of such a shitty transaction had to be borne by the innocent girls.

What did they do wrong? Just because they are women, should they be punished and suffer? Should they not resist?

Xia Ran just couldn't understand, was this marriage necessary?

If you must marry, then just marry Yaozu to Yaozu.

Yaozu and Yaozu are a true match. Not only do they share the same values, but they also grew up in the same environment. They are a perfect match among perfect matches!

What's more, existing laws stipulate that whoever buys the house or car and pays for it owns it, and even if they divorce, they cannot take a single cent away.

It is almost impossible to make some money or launder money through marriage nowadays, as the current laws have blocked almost all loopholes.

On the contrary, if things go wrong, women can go in with nothing or go in with a bulging pocket and come out with heavy debts.

It’s not that difficult to get a fully paid house that has been renovated and is ready for move-in. There aren’t many issues that require attention.

Anyway, it belongs to whoever buys it, even if a name is added to it.

But girls need to be extra careful when it comes to mortgage housing and dowry decoration. This is a big pitfall and requires special attention.

1. Refuse dowry decoration under any reasons and requests. Don’t give valuable furniture, appliances, decorations, cars, etc. as dowry.

All dowries should be deposited in the form of money into a separate card before getting the marriage certificate. Just leave it there. Remember not to deposit a penny into this card after marriage. Just leave it there.

Save the money you earn after marriage separately. In this way, this money will be your personal pre-marital property and no one can take it away.

Second, if it is an installment house, the source of funds for the down payment must be clarified before marriage, and its ownership and who will repay the loan must be discussed clearly.

As long as the man is more careful and does some tricks, it is easy to turn his pre-marital property into a post-marital debt of both parties.

There is a lot to do here, and you must make sure you understand it clearly.

When discussing these core issues, you either need a signed written document, or a WeChat chat record, or you can secretly record a video or audio. In short, you have to be a villain first and a gentleman later, and you must keep evidence.