After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

When these women take photos for others, they are either photographed as short and frail, or the photos they take are all ugly.

Or people who, when posting a group photo, photoshop themselves into a flower and ignore others, or who distort the lines in order to photoshop themselves and deform the others, are not good people.

I won't discuss other aspects of this kind of woman, but there is one thing that is definitely true, and that is that she is not broad-minded and has an extremely narrow mind. She is particularly intolerant and cannot stand others being better than herself.

No matter how well she disguises herself or how much of a good person she seems on the surface, she is not someone you can trust in depth and you must stay away from her.

As for what men are like, it depends on the values ​​and behaviors of the people who are closest to them. Basically, his values ​​are the same, with almost no exceptions.

You have to know that the saying that the smell is the same is not groundless. He basically did not run away, it was exactly the same.

After all, if you walk along the river, you will get your feet wet. Moreover, the fact that they can play together shows that their cognition is similar, otherwise they will not play together for long.

Just like when some women foolishly boasted that all her husband's friends had mistresses but her husband was the exception and remained a virgin for her, Xia Ran really wanted to laugh.

Just like if many of a woman’s close friends are divorced, and some of them are divorced because their husbands cheated on them or because they disliked their husbands, then this woman’s marriage will definitely not last long.

After all, birds of a feather flock together. As time goes by, people are assimilated and become the same kind of people.

If you have a mistress, I must have a mistress too.

I'm divorced, why don't you get divorced and still live happily? You must get divorced, otherwise how can we continue to play together?

This is true human nature.

Xia Ran said: "If you want to know whether a person is worth making friends with, there is another way, that is to have a falling out, a complete break-up, and see their true reaction at that time, and everything will be clear, and it will be obvious at a glance. This applies to any relationship.

If a person has good character, even if she has a quarrel with you, she will only talk about the facts and will not slander your character.

Even if he feels that his values ​​are different from yours, the most he can do is to unconsciously distance himself from you instead of slandering you, retaliating against you, or even pulling you down.

Those with bad character will not only distort the facts, but also confuse right and wrong to ruin your reputation, and even form cliques to isolate you and pull you down.

These people have no bottom line. Their only bottom line is whether they can continue to profit from it. They only care about the benefits. Once they can no longer profit from it, you will immediately become their mortal enemy. "

Chen Jin nodded and said, "What you said seems to make sense."

When I got divorced, I witnessed human nature and got to know the true face of my ex-husband's family again.

If she hadn't seen it with her own eyes, she wouldn't have dared to imagine how bad human nature could be.

She had been too well protected by her family and had everything going smoothly for her. The biggest loss she had ever suffered in her life was in her marriage.

As a result, this loss left her with broken bones and bruises all over her body.

"You're right. And I won't be dating in the short term. I don't think I can trust men anymore. I feel like my trust has collapsed."

Xia Ran: "I understand. If you don't want to talk about it for now, then don't talk about it. However, there are still many good men. Don't deny all male compatriots because of one rubbish."

Men and women in this period are still desirable and worth talking to.

After all, the Western theory of sexual freedom has not yet been fully introduced, and this theory has not had time to poison the entire social value system.

After being cheated on, both men and women are prone to a collapse of trust, and may even experience self-doubt and denial.

I feel like I am really bad and not worthy of being loved by the other person, which is why they cheated on me.

Almost everyone goes through a process of trust collapse, cleansing, thinking it through, self-healing, and rebuilding trust.

Of course, this is also an extremely rare opportunity to restart, a restart like nirvana rebirth.

As long as you get through it, the rest of your days will be happy and good days.

Some women even experience great success in their careers and financial fortunes after experiencing the low point of divorce.

Just like some stars, when they are very popular and loved by everyone, they choose to retire, get married, have children, and raise their children.

After suffering a lot in a marriage, once they come to their senses and choose to divorce, they will immediately throw themselves into work and vigorously develop their careers.

Anyone can deceive us except our career.

Finally, Chen Jin asked Xia Ran for some more sauce and said, "The sauce at home has been almost eaten up. It's because you made it so delicious. I'm not in a good mood today, so I won't give you the money. I just want to take advantage of you and leave."

Xia Ran said speechlessly: "You took advantage of Chili, but you didn't even look at how much you brought with you when you came here. I wasn't being polite to you. Tell me if you want to eat."

Before leaving, Chen Jin ran over and hugged Xia Ran, "Okay, I've made a note of your promise, and you are not allowed to regret it."

What I think in my heart is: Fortunately you are here, I feel much better.

Nowadays, a divorced girl who stays in her parents' home will more or less be subjected to unfriendly looks and worldly prejudices from some people, no matter how much her parents love her.

Especially during the Chinese New Year, she was really sad and under a lot of pressure.

Everyone else is having a reunion, visiting friends and family, but she is all alone.

The key point is that she was the one who was cheated on. Whenever I think of this, I feel indescribable discomfort and disgust. Is she really that bad?

The aftermath of this incident was too serious, beyond her imagination.

Every night when I wake up awake, every unintentional moment, it can jump out at any time and sting me.

Xia Ran hugged Chen Jin back. No matter how well the other person hid his fragility, she saw it.

Xia Ran has no other advantages except good eyesight, but sometimes having too good eyesight is not a good thing.

"Don't worry, others may not be able to do it, but you have enough. I will leave here in a while, and you can consider moving in with me then, and help me look after the house. There are many houses here, you can just pick one you like. And help me take care of the cats, dogs, flowers and plants at home," Xia Ran arranged without any politeness.

Get busy. When you are busy you won’t have time to think about other things.

Besides, someone still needs to take care of the house. If it is left empty, problems are likely to occur and it is more likely to break down.

Chen Jin is the most suitable one. After the previous incident, Chen Jin probably wouldn't feel at ease living in her original house now.

What's more, there are a lot of acquaintances there, asking questions one by one, and that by one. Even if it's not annoying, it's annoying.