After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

Also, don't rush into marriage. If you find a suitable partner, you can date first and enjoy the sour taste of love. As for marriage, don't rush. Take a look at the other person's family and the kind of people their parents are. It's easy to get into a marriage but hard to get out of it, so you must treat it with caution."

Chen Jin was shocked. Is this true?

"What? There is a father who introduces his mistress to his own son? Is he sure that this son is his biological son? What is he trying to do? I don't understand."

"I am absolutely sure that it is all true, and I have heard of many similar cases. There are also some women who introduce their ex-boyfriends to their best friends, and then they continue to have an affair with each other privately, and work together to deceive their best friends.

There are also some men who introduce their ex-girlfriends to their buddies, so that their buddies are covered in cheating. So, once some people stop being human, they are really not human, even worse than animals. "

Xia Ran said that her ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends were all deliberately beautified, and some people even introduced their P friends to their brothers and girlfriends.

So, there are all kinds of birds in a big forest. You will get used to them after seeing them more often.

"It suddenly feels so scary and ridiculous!"

"It's okay to feel scary, but the human heart is the most difficult to deal with."

Xia Ran hasn't mentioned the various examples in later generations of wives defrauding insurance, pua husbands, and getting rich by divorcing or losing their husbands.

People can face the world with a kind heart, but it is never too much to be more careful and cautious about some things.

Xia Ran never believed in pie-in-the-sky things.

When something good happens, first ask yourself why you deserve it? Do you deserve it? Then think about what the other person wants.

She never believed in being nice and loving to someone for no reason.

It's like some men with average family background and average conditions in all aspects, suddenly a beautiful woman with excellent conditions in all aspects agrees to marry him.

This man is most likely the one chosen by the beauty to take over, otherwise what would the beauty want?

Are you seeking your ordinariness or mediocrity?

Or a man who seems to be excellent in every aspect suddenly falls in love with an average-looking woman, either because the woman is rich or powerful.

If he has neither of these two things, then he can only take advantage of this woman's life.

Of course, there is one exception, that is, it is a predestined fate, or the other party is controlled by unnatural means and methods.

Otherwise, without exception, there must be some ulterior motive.

What is marriage? Marriage is an exchange of interests, a cooperation, and a weighing of pros and cons with a clear price tag.

In this cooperation, what can you provide? What can I provide? Both sides should show their contributions and see if the combination of the things provided by each other is greater than 1.

If it is greater than 2 and it is a complementary relationship, the cooperation can last longer and the relationship will be correspondingly much more stable, just like the two ends of a scale. Only when the two forces are evenly matched can they maintain balance and stability for a long time.

I am most afraid of those who walk on one leg, where one person is about to break his leg, while the other person has not yet taken a step or has a broken leg and cannot walk.

Then parting ways is the final destination of this cooperation, there is no other way.

"Let me think about it. If it really doesn't work, I'll move out."

"Well, this is one way. But in the future, when you meet those relatives who take advantage of their seniority, don't hold back when you speak. You should criticize them when you should, and you should criticize them when you should. Don't be polite. They haven't even cleaned up their own butts, and they come to meddle in other people's affairs. They are just spoiled.

Such people who have no sense of propriety can only learn their lesson if they are severely punished. Then they can do their job with confidence.

Don't be afraid of offending people. Think about it, if such a person treats you like this when you are doing well, do you still expect that she will come to help you when you are in trouble? It is impossible. Once such a person gets the chance, he will step on you more harshly than a stranger.

As long as you think about this clearly, you will find that these relatives and friends will become unimportant and will just be insignificant outsiders.

What is a wife? Close your eyes and think about it. If you need money or help, who will help you? These people are the wives you should cherish.

Everyone else is an outsider to you, even if that person is very awesome or even powerful.

No matter how powerful or awesome they are, they will not help us a cent, so why should we give in, why should we compromise ourselves to accommodate others?

His existence does not bring any benefits, and even only harms. Just like some side branches in ancient times, they cannot get any benefits from the main branch, but once they commit a crime, you will be one of the nine clans. I wonder if you will be upset.

Don't think that this distinction is a bit too realistic. I have heard of a saying: people who have helped you will most likely continue to help you when you ask for help from them; but if the people you have helped are unfortunately in trouble, most of them will not help you. At this time, these people will stay away from you farther than anyone else, and if they don't deliberately come up to step on them, they are considered to be good people.

And this statement is also confirmed by my shallow life experience. This statement is true and it can’t be more true.”

This is what Xia Ran realized when he was in his thirties, after suffering many losses and falling into many traps.

I still understand it a little late.

People must learn to demystify some power and halo, and also learn to simplify the people and things around them.

Some of the relationships that you once carefully maintained are actually a false proposition, the most hypocritical scam, and a shackle that only binds you and is of no other substantial use to you.

Chen Jin: "I really believe this. A friend who I grew up with heard that I was divorced and did a lot of damage to my reputation. I always considered her as a friend, and it was a coincidence that I knew about this. If I hadn't seen her true face, I wouldn't have believed that it was her."

"Female competition is normal, especially for those who have been compared to each other since childhood. Their competitive spirit is even more alarming. In fact, no one's disguise is perfect. There must be traces of it. After all, no matter how good the disguise is, it is difficult to change one's nature. It's just that most people choose to trust their friends and don't think about it that way."

Xia Ran does know a very simple way to roughly screen out suitable female friends, which is to see how big the difference is between the photos they take of themselves and the photos they take of others.

Some women would like to add a twelve-level filter to every photo of themselves. Even if they have short legs, they can make them look long legs. With the beauty filter turned to the maximum, an ordinary person can be turned into a celebrity who no one can recognize.