After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

For fear of not enjoying the view enough, everyone went into a teahouse not far from home and sat by the windows on the second floor to enjoy the magnificent view.

When the time came, firecrackers were lit from both ends of the street. The sound was so crackling and deafening, and the air was full of the smell of sulfur.

Even if Xia Ran and the others were still some distance away from that area, they could still choke someone to death, so what the person said was absolutely true.

After all the firecrackers had stopped going off, Xia Ran felt like her ears were no longer usable. They kept buzzing. She had miscalculated.

Of course, she took a lot of photos, took photos for others, and asked others to take photos for her.

Xia Ran looked at everyone's heartfelt smiles and felt very happy. That's it.

In the end, the group turned back and stepped hard on the street. The whole street was soft, and there was a thick layer of paper scraps under their feet.

There is a sound when you step on it, which is very fun.

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On the morning of the fifth day, Xia Ran went to Aunt Ming's house to pay New Year's greetings and brought some steamed buns she had made.

Xia Ran also accepted a red envelope from Aunt Ming, drank a bowl of seafood soup, and chatted with Aunt Ming for the whole morning.

Chen Jin came over in the afternoon.

Xia Ran first took Chen Jin to see her yard, and then the two of them sat at home drinking tea and chatting, and unknowingly they talked about the issue of urging marriage.

Chen Jin frowned and said, "I'm getting fed up these days, all of them are urging me to get married. What does it have to do with them whether I get married or not? They worry more than the other, it's so annoying. It's better for you to be free alone, no one will care about you."

"Well, as long as you can enjoy being alone, it is indeed very comfortable when you are alone. As for those who urge you to get married, just ignore them. I hope that you will get married in the future because the other person is good and worthy, not because you are forced to get married because it is your turn. If you dare to treat marriage with a makeshift attitude, it will dare to reward you with a horrible ending.

Don't rush into marriage just because you are influenced by others. What is there to envy about marriage? Most people's marriage is just three meals a day, endless housework, endless worries, endless children to take care of, and endless elderly people to serve. It's just a mess.

The importance of marriage is like a second life. You are not afraid of being bullied by others because of your single status, so why are you in such a hurry? "

"I'm not in a hurry, and my parents don't push me. It's just that some of my relatives are particularly annoying and keep nagging me. They tell me to find a partner and have children while I'm still young, otherwise I won't be able to have children when I'm older.

I don’t know what they were thinking, but one after another, some people even introduced me to divorced couples with two children. I am a second marriage, so I can accept other people’s second marriages, but I cannot accept overly complicated family relationships.”

"You're right to think so. Don't be someone's stepmother if you can. That job is much more difficult than your career. It can't be taken lightly or seriously. It's not right for you to take care of the child, and it's not right for you to ignore the child. No matter what you do, it's wrong.

The key is that it is most likely that you are working in vain. Other people's children are not worth your heart and soul. No matter how good you are to them, once you meet their biological mother or relatives on her side, all your efforts will be wasted. Why bother to endure the hardship? "

When Xia Ran read novels in later generations, she felt particularly indifferent and speechless about those novels that were keen on becoming someone else's stepmother.

I always feel that those heroines are mentally ill. It’s not like they can’t have children, so why do they have to settle for raising someone else’s children?

I always feel that it will influence the thinking of a large number of young girls, who will think that older men who are remarried are just like the male protagonist in the book, loyal, faithful and giving them a sense of security.

In fact, men who have experienced some relationships and marriages are more realistic, less empathetic, and less loyal.

On the contrary, people who are like a blank slate value feelings more.

Some things, once the floodgates are opened, will be like an endless flood that cannot be stopped, such as irresponsibility to family and infidelity in relationships.

Some people live the same way no matter who they are with, and it doesn't vary from person to person.

It is possible to choose to commit the crime openly or secretly, depending on the woman's family background, but there is no other difference.

It’s better not to challenge that one in a million chance.

What's more, in reality, people who remarry and end up getting divorced all have some problems to some extent, it just depends on whose problem is more serious.

Chen Jin pinched her brows and said, "I think so too. Besides, my last relationship was already annoying enough. I'm not ready for the next one. I'm just annoyed by these people's urging to get married."

Xia Ran said with a smile: "What's so annoying about this? If someone urges you to get married, you can just pick on her shortcomings and that's it. For example, if her in-laws have complicated relationships and she is bullied by them every day, you can pick on this point; and if a man is not very honest when he goes out and is clingy with others, you can attack him on this point.

If your children are disobedient and difficult to manage, you can deal with this. If they are dark-skinned and ugly, or have bad relationships with others, these are all weaknesses and shortcomings, and they are all areas where you can make the most of them. After doing this, you can at least deal with more than 90% of the aunts and uncles.

As for gay men who are urging you to get married, just attack their work and ask them how much benefit they received from that person in this matter? What price do they plan to sell you for? If they still don't tell the truth, just find other shortcomings to attack them. For example, they are short, ugly, their work is not so good, their children are useless, their wives are not so good, you can find them everywhere. They have no shame, why should you give them face? "

If an acquaintance suddenly becomes enthusiastic about urging the person to get married or introducing a partner to the person, it means that the benefits have already been agreed upon or the person has been sold out directly, especially for those who have no abilities but are eager to "pursue progress" and climb up the social ladder.

Chen Jin replied helplessly: "I wanted to fight back, but my family always thinks that we are all acquaintances and we will see each other every day. It's not good to make it too awkward and embarrassing."

"Your logic is wrong. If they treat you as a relative, you should naturally treat them as relatives. Others have slapped you in the face, so why should you be embarrassed?

These people are pushing you so hard because they either can't stand seeing you do well or be carefree, or they have already sold you by the pound to the person they introduced them to, and maybe they have already negotiated the terms."

Chen Jin said in surprise: "It shouldn't be that serious, right?"

Xia Ran: "Haha, not really? As for, very much so. There are also some fathers who introduce their pregnant mistress to their own sons, let their own sons marry them, and then let their own sons raise their younger sons.

And I have heard of many such things. Just think about it, even biological father and son are like this, let alone relatives. If there are no interests involved, they would not be so happy. Some things cannot be said or evaluated.