After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

It would be better to start over in a new environment.

"Okay, this yard is really nice, so I'll take it seriously, right?"

"Well, you can come over anytime, just choose a room you like."

Chen Jin came with a lot on her mind and left with her baggage.

In reality, there are not many people who truly want us to live well and care about us, so we must learn to always put our own feelings and thoughts first. Apart from ourselves, everyone else is just another person.

Xia Ran often said this to herself to remind herself to learn to love herself well.

When you reach a certain age, you will find that truly happy and comfortable marriages do exist, but they are extremely rare, even so rare that they can be ignored.

Most people, especially women, are giving in, compromising, suffering, and even going through tribulations in the siege of marriage.

Many seemingly harmonious and happy families are maintained through the self-sacrifice and dedication of many women.

This is also the sadness of the entire society.

Why did the marriage relationship gradually disappear in later generations? It is because more and more women received better education, knew more, and began to think about what marriage actually brought to women?

After careful consideration, they realized that they were at a disadvantage. This was a losing business, and everyone gradually became unwilling to do it.

One by one they began to awaken.

They are no longer willing to continue playing the role of selfless contributor in marriage like their mothers did.

But these women are only half awake. They have only learned to pursue their own feelings, started to learn to enjoy life, and started to impose these things on the men, making some men begin to suffer.

Xia Ran always felt that the day when these women understood how to cut ties with their own families and were willing to break free from that shackle, that would be the day when they would truly awaken.

When the high amount of bride price is used by parents to buy cars and houses for the family's eldest brothers in the name of love and gratitude.

I hope these girls won’t be so stupid, know how to resist, know how to think for themselves, leave a way out for themselves, and hold the betrothal gifts tightly in their own hands.

Whether your brother can afford to marry a wife has nothing to do with a "money-losing commodity" like you.

Who cares who gives birth!

Xia Ran felt that there was nothing wrong with asking for a bride price and that it should be asked. After all, children are born by women, and in the process of nurturing life, both career and health are greatly damaged and things are delayed.

This money can also be used for emergencies or to supplement household expenses.

Instead of being ruthlessly exploited by parents and greedily supporting the proud elders in the family, this is shameless and unworthy.

It's disgusting that he clearly treats the girl as an object to be traded and still shamelessly does it in the name of "for you" and "in the name of love".

They also say that this is the current social situation and that it is difficult for parents like them and they have no choice.

Don't pay a high bride price because your son can't afford to marry a wife, etc.

But what does it have to do with the girls if their son can't afford to marry? The son is not born to the girls in the family.

To put it bluntly, such parents do not love their daughters and do not treat them as human beings.

(Off topic: I saw a video a few days ago, where a girl from a certain place in the southwest was asked by her parents for a dowry of 90 yuan. The man actually paid 70 yuan, and the girl's parents intercepted all the 70 yuan. It seemed that the girl only gave her a few quilts as a dowry. This operation really shocked the author!

The worst thing is that this girl didn’t even realize how terrible and outrageous her parents’ actions were. She even said that her parents had a hard time. It’s obvious that these parents don’t care whether she lives or dies…)

So, some girls, don't be silly. Whether your parents have an easy life or not is none of your business.

If there is no this girl, there will be other girls or Yaozu. You are just an accessory born out of someone's primitive impulse. Don't take it so seriously and don't be so picky.

Your parents’ difficulties are not caused by you, so what does it have to do with you?

Girls, don't take on the responsibilities of being a parent on your own shoulders. Your thin and weak shoulders can't carry such a heavy pot.

Wait until your parents are too old to move, and then just pay their living expenses normally.

If your brother can't afford to marry, that's his own business. Even if he has money and lives a good life, he won't give you two sons.

So, why spend a lot of money on those brothers?

What are brothers and sisters? Those who support each other are called brothers and sisters, and those who are supported unilaterally are all classified as blood suckers.

But don't mention the words "blood ties" or slander this word. Some people are not worthy of this word at all.

With this money, wouldn't it be nice for girls to save it and spend it? Or buy themselves a small home, wouldn't that be nice?

Why would you do something like throwing meat buns at a dog and never come back? And it's a bottomless pit.

If you are unlucky enough to encounter such a family, the best thing for girls to do is to stay away from their parents, brothers, and hometown, as far away as possible.

With a vast land area of ​​960 million square kilometers, there is always a place suitable for you, just choose one.

Our motherland is so vast, where can we not survive?

As long as we get rid of these blood-sucking bugs, every day will be sunny and every day will be a good day.

Don't empathize or even sympathize with some parents casually, because some parents don't deserve empathy at all.

People who are too empathetic and soft-hearted are not blessed.

A person's blessings in life are limited. If you give all your limited blessings to others, you will naturally no longer have these blessings.

Good fortune and bad luck grow and decline at the same time. When good fortune is exhausted, only bad luck remains.

Life is so long, and without enough blessings to protect yourself, how are you going to live this fucked up life when the sky is falling and the earth is breaking apart?

Be a little crueler, love yourself a little more, and think more about yourself.

It's not selfish, girls. You have plenty of opportunities to repay your parents, and you don't need to waste a moment.

Live your life well first, which is better than anything else.

What I fear most is that my life is a mess, and I am still concerned about this and worried about that every day. These are all illnesses and need to be treated.

Xia Ran has a special say in this matter. It was only after she suffered countless losses in later life that she finally understood the reason behind it.

It was such a simple and straightforward truth, but no one taught her or told her at the beginning.

It was not until she proved it herself and almost died that she understood it, but it was too late by then. She had missed too many opportunities and things.

Only regrets left!

Xia Ran has seen some girls who, even though they had no place to rent in their own families, still used all their own and their husbands' earnings to buy a house for their brothers on their natal side, and then had to pay the mortgage every month.

The key point is that the little girl she gave birth to is still a left-behind child in her hometown village, but she knows how to buy a school district house for her younger brother. Don’t you think it’s ridiculous?

Xia Ran couldn’t understand what was going on in these people’s minds.

If you have several million in your hands and you don't need a place to live, it would be understandable if you could lend a helping hand.

But buying a house for your younger brother when you don’t even have a house to live in yourself is out of line.

She always feels that this world is full of wonders, and it challenges her cognition every day.

[The data and reading volume of this book have always been very poor, and it has long been unbearable to look at. I have been able to persist until today, all thanks to the support of those loyal fans who are still following the updates. I sincerely want to say thank you for your love and loyalty.

From now on I plan to write freely and casually. Anyway, I have hit rock bottom and it can't be any worse. Every day I am generating power for love. Therefore, I will write what I want to write in the future.

I just hope that some of the dear children who read this book carefully can get something from it, even if it is just a little bit, then I won’t have written it in vain. This book will have its meaning and value! 】