After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

Xia Ran smiled. "Whether it's that serious or not, you can just give it a try. If you think it's hard to get the money, you can try another method. You can propose to take out all the savings you two have and buy a small house for your Doudou as a dowry, which can also be regarded as compensation for Doudou. No one can move this house. Doudou must wait until he is over 25 years old to dispose of it by himself.

Doudou is the biggest victim. She was forced to come into this world, or you two brought her into this world without her consent. She has to face a single-parent family at such a young age. Since the family relationship cannot be perfect, then give the child corresponding material security," Xia Ran suggested directly.

A man who has failed to convince his own mother not to favor boys over girls in several years is obviously unreliable.

But Doudou’s mother is so young, good-looking, and has a good job. She will most likely not be able to withstand the pressure from the outside world and will choose to remarry.

Once she remarries, it is hard to say whether Doudou is still the most important person in her heart, as motherly love will also change.

There are few people like Xia Ran who don't care about outside opinions, and she didn't become like this overnight.

Li Qingchun really listened to Xia Ran's suggestion. It was true. It would be a waste if the money was not spent. So he said, "It would be good to buy a house, but it's not cheap. I'm afraid he won't agree."

To be honest, if it wasn't a last resort, who would be willing to give up their property? Of course, this was her bottom line. Now that she heard there was a better option, she would naturally choose the one that was more beneficial to her. She wasn't stupid.

As for her original thought that as long as Dou Dou was hers, she would be willing to leave the house with nothing, she had already forgotten it, mainly because she was led off the topic by Xia Ran's words.

Xia Ran continued, "Then find a way to make him agree, force him to agree. If he doesn't agree, it means he doesn't love the child. If he doesn't love the child, doesn't it also mean that he agrees with what his mother did yesterday? We have to rely on public opinion and rumors to force him to agree.

You have to think carefully. If you spend the money now, Doudou can still have a house in his name. If you don't spend it now, neither you nor Doudou will basically be able to touch this money.

Even if he still cares about the child, he hears his mother talking about it every day, saying that it is a girl, that Doudou cannot carry on the family line, and that there must be a son. Even if he doesn't care at first, he will care after hearing it more. Over time, his care for the child will fade.

It's okay if he disagrees. Just let yesterday's incident go, let his mother establish the reputation of deliberately harming her granddaughter, and see which one he chooses in the end. Don't be afraid of the house or yard, and don't be afraid of the distance. Just give the child a piece of land. When the child grows up, she can rebuild it herself. At least there is a place to build. "

Li Qingqiu, who had been silent the whole time, said to Li Qingchun: "Sister, just do as Comrade Xia said. It's not your turn to say it, so we'll come forward to say it. But Comrade Xia, what if they deliberately hold the child hostage?"

"They will definitely give up the child, there is no doubt about that, because they are still waiting to have a son. If they don't give up the child, will they have to give up their job? Will they be willing to do that? Of course, they may really use the child to threaten you and make you give up your property.

So, what you need to do is to give up the child rather than the property. Of course, this is a superficial move that you have to do in order to let the other party see it. You cannot let him use the child to control you, otherwise you will be in a passive position. Once you are in a passive position, it will be difficult to negotiate conditions.

If they hold the child tightly, it's fine. You can agree to it, but the matter must be filed with the police. If anything happens to the child during his growth, it will be considered as intentional murder by their family, because they have a criminal record. Don't worry, they will give up the child. If they don't make room for him, how will her little golden Sun Yaozu be born?

If they make a fuss here, you can also make a fuss back. The old lady is so anxious to attack the child. Is it because she already has a little grandson and can't wait, so she throws a basin of dirty water on him first? As long as you are brave enough to go out and make a fuss, and put down your face, they will compromise.

If you don't have any shrewd people on your side, you can hire some powerful old ladies and old men to help you. Don't be so rigid, open your mind. What you are fighting for is not just money, but the guarantee of your and your daughter's future life. A mother is strong, no one can stop your determination to seek benefits for your daughter, just go for it."

Xia Ran tried her best to persuade him. She didn't mind making trouble. Of course, while she didn't mind adding fuel to the fire, she also hoped to get some benefits for the child Doudou.

Owning one or even multiple houses in Shanghai, what else can you expect from fatherly or motherly love?

In case you lack love in the future, you can sit in your own house and cry. If you don’t feel comfortable crying in this one, you can move to another one and continue crying. Cry in one set and look at another set. How nice it is.

It’s better than being homeless and wandering the streets with no food to eat.

Li Qingqiu nodded repeatedly after listening to this, feeling as if he had suddenly realized something. He didn't dare to think about it before, for fear that others would say that his Li family was taking this opportunity to seize the wealth of his ex-brother-in-law's family. Now, he decided to buy a house and put it in Doudou's name.

In this way, no one will suffer any loss or take advantage. Even though Doudou is a girl, she is still the biological child of her sisters.

Her sister's future burden will be lighter, and she can also vent her anger. After what happened yesterday, her family was so furious that they wanted to go to the house and tear that old hag apart.

If the two families had not been old friends for many years, and if it weren't for the fact that they were relatives, and if one move could affect the whole body, he really wanted to bring people to beat them up. Now, this was just the right thing to do, and the other party had nothing to say.

After thinking this through, Li Qingqiu said, "That makes sense. Let's do it. Thank you so much today, Comrade Xia."

"You're welcome. I just can't stand the preference for boys over girls. I also can't stand some people who are so ungrateful that they insist on having it all. What's wrong with girls? Aren't girls children? Besides, Doudou is such a good kid. A house is a fixed asset that can't be taken away easily by others. It's the most stable and reliable guarantee for a child.

You don't need to say anything else, just say it is compensation for Doudou. After all, Doudou almost got into trouble because of his biological mother. You can morally blackmail him and force him to compensate Doudou, otherwise you can spread this matter widely. You can also go to his unit and talk about it to see if anyone dares to marry him casually?

Who can guarantee that they will give birth to a son? If the money is not enough, you can let him borrow it. Of course, the borrowed money can be used to deduct some of the child support. If he doesn't want to, it means he doesn't love the child. Where the money is, there is love. "