After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

You have to believe it. There are too many things that cannot be explained by science and medicine, and in the end they can only be attributed to metaphysics.

In Xia Ran's memory, the adults in the village would call back the souls of their children every few days, especially the little children, who would suddenly lose their souls.

Almost every household knows how to do this, and the effect is great, it works immediately.

"Yeah, I took note of it."

Then there were all kinds of words of thanks, and Xia Ran listened to a lot of them. Finally, they talked about who was taking care of the child.

Li Qingchun couldn't help but burst out the tears that had just stopped flowing, "My mother-in-law is watching. I suspect she did it on purpose."

"What do you mean?" Xia Ran asked. Is there something hidden? She didn't see Doudou's family until she left yesterday. They were really generous.

"Now we are enforcing family planning. Doudou's father and I both work in government agencies, so we can only have one child. After I gave birth to Doudou, she was extremely unhappy. She kept saying that their Chen family would have no descendants. She was always throwing things around at home and making sarcastic remarks. She also caused a lot of trouble. If Doudou's father hadn't been okay, she would have wanted a divorce when I just came out of confinement.

I have been taking care of the child by myself, and the child is usually placed in the nursery. She has always disliked our Doudou, but recently, she suddenly became enthusiastic about Doudou, saying that she was idle at home anyway, and she was her grandmother, so she would definitely take good care of Doudou.

I thought she had finally figured it out and accepted her fate, so I didn't think much about it. I thought that even if she didn't like Doudou, Doudou was still her granddaughter. But this happened yesterday. People locked the child at home and went to visit relatives. She didn't come back until lunch time. "

"Are you sure you did it on purpose?" Xia Ran asked.

"Almost. Her various behaviors after she came back yesterday showed that she wanted Doudou to have an accident so that she could free up her spot. After this incident, I finally figured it out. I should have divorced a long time ago. I've been holding on for so many years, and I'm tired of it."

When Xia Ran heard this reason, she actually thought it was very normal and was not even surprised. Perhaps, she had heard too many dirty things. "If you are sure, then divorce. There are thieves who steal for a thousand days, but there is no one who can guard against thieves the day before. Your man is not doing anything."

If men had done anything, they wouldn't have reached this point today. It's sad to think that women who can't decide the gender of their children bear all the blame for not having a son. It's ridiculous to think about it.

"You don't advise me? Many people are advising me, saying that I am not living with my mother-in-law, as long as the man is good, I can be fine, and I shouldn't be too picky."

"You know your own feelings. If you are happy, continue. If you are unhappy, leave. Others are just others. Your own feelings and sensations are the most important and the most real. Others cannot live your life for you. You don't need to consider their opinions. If you have a formal job, you don't have to worry about having no place to live or no food to eat. What do you have to worry about? You can't live without money, but not having a man won't have much impact."

Li Qingchun said: "Well, I've made up my mind. I'll get a divorce when I go back. I've had enough of this kind of life. I earn as much as he does, so there's no need to put myself in a difficult position. Besides, there's Doudou. I don't dare go back to that home anymore."

Xia Ran: "If you want to divorce, then divorce. Remember to ask him for child support. Also, divide up your marital property. If you've suffered emotionally, don't suffer financially. You can lose one, but not both."

"I can leave the house with nothing, as long as the child is mine."

Xia Ran's heart sank when she heard this. What kind of nonsense is this? Another fake noble fairy who doesn't eat grains. "No, you are right. It should be the other party who should be kicked out, not you. Don't do such a stupid thing. Don't be so noble and say you don't want money. Only idiots would do that.

Are you going to spend your hard-earned money on another woman and her child? Are you stupid? If it were me, I would make them suffer. Taking advantage of the fact that Doudou's father knows he is in the wrong, boldly ask for the property he deserves. A man's guilt won't last for two days, and it will be gone in an instant.

You can save the money you get as an education fund for Doudou. Now is not the time to be angry or pretend to be noble. Besides, if you don't take it now, after you have worked hard to raise the child, he might come to pick peaches, and even ask Doudou to support him in his old age.

Since you can't avoid Doudou's requirement to support him in his old age, let him raise the child with you. Moreover, if you can ask for more money during the divorce, you must ask for more money right away. Men are very strange creatures. They only care about and love the children they raise, regardless of whether they are their own.

Some men feel that once the child belongs to the woman, it has nothing to do with them. After a long time, they will not care about the child at all and treat the child as a stranger. There is still a difference between a child born by oneself and a child born by one's wife. After all, the experience of being pregnant for ten months is missing. How can we describe the love they have for the child? There is, but not much.

Men are strange creatures. Sometimes they pay special attention to bloodline, and sometimes they don't care about bloodline at all. It's hard to judge. When they don't have a son, they pay a lot of attention to bloodline. They always think that not having a son is a big deal, a hurdle that can't be overcome. There is no one to inherit the throne of the family. They feel that they will be extinct and they feel sorry for their ancestors.

Once they have a son, they don't care about blood. Some men would rather raise other people's children than their own. There are many such men. So, if you can ask for more child support at one time, ask for more at one time. Because, it is very likely that this divorce will be the only child support you can get. "

Too many women cannot get any alimony after divorce. It is useless to sue them because you can always use the excuse of not having money. It cannot be enforced.

Whether to give or not depends entirely on conscience, but conscience is not a common thing.

So you must get what you can get at once first.

It was just like the time when Xia Ran helped Hai Juan get a divorce. The money that Hai Juan's mother and daughter would most likely get would only be the money from the divorce, and there would be no more.

There is a high probability that you will not be able to get back the child support in the future.

A few years later, Lu Jialiang had a new wife and other children, and it was almost impossible for him to get child support.

It's not a question of whether they are willing to give, but whether they have the ability to give. You can just dismiss them by saying they don't have money. You can't really go to them to get food.

Li Qingchun said: "Doudou's father is still good to Doudou and still loves Doudou very much. He should not ignore Doudou."