After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

After Xia Ran finished speaking, he paused again and said to Li Qingchun: "As for whether to talk to him in a threatening tone or to talk to him in a gentle way by playing the family card, it depends on the other party's personality. Whichever method works best, use that one. The process is not important, the result is important. There is only one goal, buy a house, buy a house, and buy a house.

Take advantage of his existing guilt and buy a house in the name of the child. He should be more receptive to it. After all, the child is his, his own. It is psychologically different from you unilaterally dividing the common property of the couple. Think carefully about what to do and say.

Also, you can tell him that you know he will have a son in the future, and you are willing to give up your position so that his family can have a son. You know that once he has a son, he will have less fatherly love for Doudou. You can't let Doudou lose his father's love and have an insecure life. This is unfair to Doudou. Just talk to him carefully until he agrees.

If you have exhausted all possible means and he still refuses to give in, just hire a lawyer to sue him. The worst outcome is that the property will be divided equally, and their family's reputation will be ruined. Anyway, when the incident happened yesterday, many people were present and there were many witnesses. They can definitely put their family on the pillar of shame. Don't be afraid of public opinion. After all, you are the victim, what are you afraid of?"

For people who work in these units, the units are their source of power and face, but they are also constraints. It depends on how they are used.

No matter what they do in private in such units, at least they look presentable on the surface, and generally they will pay special attention to their own reputation, unless they can cover up everything with one hand, or simply give up the job.

Generally speaking, I would agree to anything that can be solved with money. Money can be earned again, but I cannot afford to gamble with my career.

At this moment, Li Qingchun had thought it through thoroughly and made up his mind to do it. Even though many people nowadays are not used to buying houses and are waiting for their companies to allocate houses, who cares? He would just get it first.

"That's it. Thank you so much, Sister Xia. I'm sorry. I came here to thank you, but I didn't expect to tell you all these dirty things. I'm sorry for causing you trouble."

Xia Ran: "Hey, it's okay, you're welcome. We're all women, so it's only natural for us to help each other. Just do it boldly. You have a job to back you up, so you don't have to be afraid of anything. Just do it.

With this house, at least you two have a place to live. If you don't live in it, you can rent it out to earn some income. There are many places to spend money when children grow up. You can be hard on anything, but you can't be hard on money."

Xia Ran has seen many silly women who, in order to have their children, would voluntarily leave the house when getting divorced, letting their ex-husbands spend their own money and take other women out to eat and drink, while they themselves had to eat coarse food with their children, as if they didn't want a penny and were very stubborn.

If Xia Ran were to say, this isn't having backbone, this is pure stupidity!

If you have money, even if the child is not awarded to you, when the child grows up, you can directly give him (her) a house or a car, and he (she) will be closer to you than anyone else.

If you don't have money, even if you live frugally and raise your child alone with coarse food, the child may still blame you for blocking his path to success and for not providing him with better material living conditions.

They may even feel that you are nothing, not as pretty and capable as other mothers, and that you are a waste.

People are realistic, and children are no exception.

Real life doesn’t care whether you have integrity or what your character is like. It only cares whether you can take out money to buy rice and vegetables.

Money is needed everywhere. Face and dignity are all meaningless in the face of real life. Living without lacking money is the smart thing to do.

When she got divorced in her later life, she was not stupid. She did not suffer any loss, but she did not gain any advantage either. It was not because she was generous and did not want to gain any advantage, but mainly because the other party was quite poor and did not have much money to gain.

Later she even thought that it would have been better if she had chosen someone with more money. She foolishly chose someone who looked honest. But in the end, the guy who looked honest was not really honest and was even worse than the one who was only interested in money.

Find a rich man. In case of divorce, the little money left by the other party will be enough for her and her children to live comfortably.

Unlike her, there is not much property to divide when getting divorced. Isn't that depressing?

She just got a money-eating beast with a leaky bottom. It's true. She made a mistake at the first step, and then made mistakes at every step. Maybe she is not destined to enjoy the blessing of a man.

Is she unworthy?

may be.

Others can get cars, houses, and even a steady stream of money from various men, whether familiar or unfamiliar.

But she couldn't even get a free cup of milk tea. Sometimes she thought that she despised herself and felt that she was not capable enough and was not worthy of eating certain special meals.

Look, even if she were to start over again in her life, she would still be destined to fight alone and never thought of relying on a man.

Hehe, but if you think about it the other way around, this is also good. Only when you spend the money you earned through hard work can you feel at ease and have a clear conscience.

What you have worked hard for yourself cannot be taken away easily by others.

Then the two of them left with the child. They came with heavy hearts on their shoulders, but their steps were noticeably lighter when they left.

Of course, a lot of gifts were left behind. Xia Ran asked them to take them back, but they refused to agree, saying that they had brought them specially and there was no point in taking them back.

Xia Ran thought about it and decided to stay. They took a lot of things, including cigarettes, alcohol, tea, canned snacks and so on.

Li Shuangqiang and the others put away the cigarettes, alcohol and tea for the time being and save them for entertaining the guests. As for the canned snacks, the two of them could just eat them directly.

Actually, Xia Ran really wanted to go and see the fun, and fan the flames from the side. She wanted to be the first to know the new gossip, but when she thought about the pile of things she had to do, she gave up.

Just wait and see, she will know the result sooner or later. She is determined to eat this melon.

She finally discovered that since her rebirth, she had the potential to be a "troublemaker", who loved to get involved in things and was eager to create chaos.

In the past, she always took a detour. When she encountered a fight on the street or some conflict, she would run away faster and farther than anyone else.

Of course, it was also because she didn’t have much money before and she didn’t have enough confidence. She didn’t dare to get involved for fear of being blackmailed, accidentally injured, or even more afraid of getting hurt herself, because she couldn’t afford to lose and couldn’t afford to gamble.

That's why she likes to think twice before doing anything. Or maybe it's because she has no one to support her, so she looks a bit cowardly.

Even when having a disagreement or conflict with someone, you have to think it over several times, try to be tolerant as much as possible, and try not to say sharp words to avoid hurting others and yourself.

Unlike now, she does what she says and says what she wants to say, without worrying too much. It all depends on her mood. This kind of life is more enjoyable.

Sure enough, money makes cowards brave.