Live broadcast: Take our ancestors to see modern China

[The parents shifted the focus from eating to studying. The child was helpless. After calming down, the parents picked up a piece of pork ribs and put it in the child's bowl. They watched her eat the pork ribs bit by bit with satisfaction, as if it was a symbol of her complete surrender.

Parents are very happy and feel they have won. They think they are good at disciplining their children and that their children dare not disobey them.

Her parents even proudly added after she ate the ribs: "Isn't this delicious?"

This is what happens when parents who have lived a mediocre life discover that they have absolute power over their children, and then they start to use that power desperately, regardless of whether their children live or die.】

It seems like this is just a gamble and the parents are the winners, but shouldn’t parents and children be the closest relatives? When did they become the two parties in the gamble?

If you grow up in such an environment, will you still be a cheerful and optimistic person in the future?

There will be psychological problems, right?

《It's this sentence again. Every time I hear it, I feel really annoyed and helpless.》

"Usual"

《Really, three sentences cannot be separated from learning》

"Parents are teaching their children what it means to live under someone else's roof. I support you, so you have to listen to me."

"I showed it to my mother, and she said this child is really ignorant..."

Ordinary people want to find absolute authority for their children to obey. This is the sadness of the children and the parents.

[The netizen happily went to watch the long-awaited Mao Buyi concert, but when he arrived at the scene, he couldn't find his ticket. He thought it was stolen or accidentally dropped on the road, but he never expected that it was hidden by his mother.

Netizens asked her mother why she didn't let her go to see it, and her mother's attitude and words were suffocating.

"What are you questioning?"

“What’s your top priority right now?”

"Have you figured it out?"

But she has already finished the exam, what else is there?

"I have finished the college entrance examination"

"The exam is over"

But the mother’s answer was:

“You still have a long way to go in life”

"I've only walked a short distance and you're asking me if I have anything else"

"Because you have regrets about your youth, do you want me to experience that, too?"

"Yes, ask your grandmother yourself, did she allow me to chase stars when I was a child?"

"So you admit it?"

This matter was already very infuriating, but when she returned home, her mother took out the ticket to show her, and madly showed off her victory. It was really pathetic. 】

After hearing this speech, everyone felt as if they were being firmly controlled by someone, without any time or space for themselves.

Are they biological mother and daughter? They must be enemies.

At first I thought he was worried about his child’s studies, but now that the high school entrance exam is over and college has not started yet, he should have time to do what he wants.

But as a mother, she extinguished her child's ideals and shattered her dreams.

Since I have been treated unfairly, shouldn't I have given my children full support? Instead, I have doubled down on the attacks and torture.

It's so suffocating!

The First Emperor felt that although schoolwork was important, spending time and energy on things he liked within a limited time could also be considered a reward.

But his mother's actions reminded him of himself. He also endured all kinds of cold treatment when he was a child, but setbacks only made him stronger, and he did it. He became the king of Qin and defeated Lu Buwei. The entire Qin was unified under his hands.

Exhaling slowly, the First Emperor rubbed his brows and thought about his son. He thought that he had poured a lot of effort into his son and only hoped not to let him down.

Fusu didn't know what his father was thinking, otherwise he would have been very excited. Looking at what happened to Tianmu in later generations, he felt that his lord had become more approachable, and his teachings to him were becoming increasingly strict.

But it did not make him lose his determination. Fusu just wanted to work harder to share the worries of the adults.

[Because the mother doesn't have it, her child can't have it either.

Because the mother's life is unhappy, her children's life cannot be happy either.

This is not the mentality a normal mother should have. From now on, the most important thing in your daughter's life is to escape from you. 】

Li Shimin looked at his prince. He was very good to his child and gave him whatever he wanted. A partial parent's behavior would only make the child further away from them.

A harmonious family is the foundation of everything. Parents are especially important to their children. In a good family environment, where father and mother love each other, brothers and sisters support each other, and the family is harmonious, everything will prosper.

Holding Empress Changsun's hand tightly, the emperor and the empress smiled at each other, their eyes fixed on each other.

How suffocating can China's repressive education be?

The girl was shouting at the top of her lungs behind her mother.

"When you did well on the test, you said the test was easy."

"When I took a difficult test, you said my level was not good enough, then you just need to say that I don't have the ability or the brain is not good enough."

Then my mother said something that really hit the pain point:

“I’m telling you, you’re pretty bad.”

"Just tell me I'm bad, that's it. I know I'm bad!"

The mother was walking in big strides in front, and the girl was following behind with her schoolbag on her back. Her steps gradually slowed down and became heavier. Maybe at that moment she wanted to escape, but found that there was nowhere to go, so she could only continue to follow behind in silence.

Even if you can't see the girl's face, you can still feel her grievance and unwillingness.

You are bad to begin with. These six short words give me a feeling of powerlessness and total denial. 】

If it were a home like this, I would really want to escape.

There was silence under the sky. It was so ridiculous that parents denied their own children. They gave birth to them with so much effort, but they thought that the children were failures. Without any support and encouragement, how could there be any motivation in life?

"This is why I don't like going home. There's no communication, and being a parent puts pressure on everything I do."

"Why do you think I am not as good as my brother? She said: Because you are not as good as your brother."

Two sparrows want to give birth to a phoenix

"Sometimes the advantage of living on campus is that you won't be rejected so quickly."

"Strong Resonance"

"This is one of the reasons why most post-00s are reluctant to get married, they are afraid of becoming (him/her)"

"I suddenly understand why children nowadays are always depressed and commit suicide by jumping off buildings"

"Some parents are still quibbling, insisting on making their children angry. Do they think they are right if they can't regulate their emotions themselves?"

It seems that people in later generations still favor boys over girls. They think boys are more valuable than girls. I don’t know how long they have believed this.

But after seeing so many sons who grow up but still don’t support their parents, they can’t help but wonder, does raising sons really provide for old age?

A person's growth is under the care of his parents, but the surrounding living environment also has a certain influence.

Everyone felt that this was the first time they had heard of depression, and it seemed that people committed suicide because they could not bear it anymore.

Life has no direction, and everything is only denied, which really makes people lose the motivation to survive.

It is no wonder that in many videos seen in later generations, the little compliments in life make people feel precious and happy for the whole day.

This can be considered as a cure.

A saying from later generations, "The world is in tatters, but there are always people patching it up," is heartwarming.