Live broadcast: Take our ancestors to see modern China

[I saw a girl who got up early to cook three dishes and a soup for her family. She was expecting her mother's praise, but her mother's reaction made her feel at a loss.

My mother said sarcastically: "Am I praising you? You and I prepared so many dishes for lunch, now let's see how we are going to eat so many dishes."

If you don’t know how to eat, just get up and I’ll eat it.

He also emphasized that these were the vegetables he had bought for two days and his daughter cooked them all at once.

I'm not saying this, but having a daughter who is so good at cooking, not only does she not get any compliments, but she also finds ways to be sarcastic to you. Don't go too far.

＜Sometimes our parents are the first bullies we encounter＞】

A question popped up in the minds of ancient people: How can cooking be wrong?

In the previous example, the parents cooked the meal, but the children refused to eat. This is understandable after all, they contributed their own effort.

But this time it was the child who cooked, so how could it be wrong again?

Besides, aren't vegetables bought to be eaten? Thinking about the refrigerators in later generations that can store food, they are somewhat similar to their ice cellars.

People in later generations often eat fruits and ice cream from there, which is a great enjoyment in the hot summer.

Having said that, this time not many people support the mother's actions in the video.

“There is food to choose from”

“That’s right, I’m hungry just looking at all that food.”

"Let's get to work. We don't have as much food as in later generations."

Everyone couldn't understand it either, perhaps they thought it was a waste?

But you can also save it, without having to be so weird. I guess you will have to think about it again the next time you cook.

[When the girl explains to her mother that dark skin is beautiful in America.

"Mom, dark skin is beautiful in America, you know?"

But my mother asked me sarcastically: "You are a beauty."

The tone was full of disbelief.

After receiving her daughter's affirmative answer, the mother snorted with disdain and shook her head to indicate that she did not agree with this point of view.

Laugh at, deny.

The daughter continued to ask her why she didn't believe she was a beauty, and she continued to suppress her in a joking tone.

"You grew up as a little black girl, a clown girl, and I have never liked your lips since I was a child."

"We would say it's a 'pig's mouth', like a pig, a pig's mouth."

After saying that, he burst out laughing.

Everyone's self-confidence and confidence initially come from the recognition and support of their parents. If even the closest people continue to deny and suppress you, would such a family atmosphere really be suffocating?

＜Whether it is American beauty standards or not, you are beautiful＞】

“Is this a foreigner?”

"Of course. People in later generations mostly have the same skin color. This is the first time I've seen someone this dark."

"You two are wrong, this person is definitely Chinese, they speak the same language, they just look a little dark, but they are not ugly."

Under the canopy, everyone was arguing, but no one said anything to suppress anyone.

To them, a normal person should have regular facial features and a round face. They even think that people who look wealthy have good food at home.

During the war years, food was very scarce, not to mention getting fat.

Although many ladies pursue fair skin, this yellow skin color is common to everyone and has nothing to do with ugliness. There are no birthmarks or disfigurement.

[I saw this conversation between a parent and a child.

"This cake is so delicious, so you have to study hard to eat such a delicious cake."

Child: “It’s so hot.”

"Study hard so you can sit in the office and turn on the air conditioner every day"

Child: “I really want to go out and play”

"When you go to college, you can go wherever you want to go."

Child: “It’s so expensive.”

"So you have to study hard so that when you grow up you don't have to look at the price when buying things."

Although the parents have good intentions, such descriptions are very depressing to children and will make them lose the desire to chat within 3 seconds.

They are always told to study hard. Although they understand the truth, who can stand such advice every day?

"And now I blame myself for not calling them"

"Studying hard may not be the most omnipotent thing, but it is the most useful thing for you at the moment."

"So when you go to college, you can't just go wherever you want to play [laughing and crying]"

"This is the truth."

Ancient students never thought that they would be urged to study even when watching an entertainment video. Who knows this feeling?

The emperors felt that it was against common sense to buy things without looking at the prices. They were not wealthy people. Besides, even the richest man could not buy things without looking at the prices. Otherwise, buying cars and houses would not become the top priority for working people in society in the future.

Speaking of money, Emperor Wu of Han couldn't help but look at his purse. The next moment, the man suddenly stood up straight, as if to say, Your Majesty, no money!

Liu Che's eyes were filled with resentment. Didn't he collect some savings from the private treasury of some officials some time ago? What a stingy guy!

[The Chinese-style learning of domestic children is so crazy in the eyes of foreigners.

"What is that building? It's brightly lit every day. Is it a factory?"

“No, it’s a school.”

The foreigner laughed in disbelief.

"What school is open at 9:20 at night?"

“Maybe it’s a high school.”

"The students are still in school? When do these kids go home? 10 o'clock?"

"Maybe 9:30, I don't know (I can't remember)"

"So what time do they go to bed? It must be around 10 o'clock! This is too miserable, my God!"】

The princes of all dynasties could relate to this, but considering the time, they had to study in the morning, afternoon, and evening, and the subjects they studied must have been very complicated.

The princes during the reign of Emperor Kangxi were very empathetic. They would enter their study at 3:00 p.m. and finish at 4:00 p.m. They would read the articles several times a day.

The school time in later generations is not much different. I used to see college students traveling frequently and thought that students in later generations had plenty of time to study and could travel around.

Emperors who often handled government affairs until late at night: This time is very good.

Ministers with dark circles under their eyes: They have never gone to bed early since the canopy was installed.

"/Everything is up to fate/: "This is all for your own good" May I ask how to solve this problem? 】

『/娴仙吖/: My answer is that we are a transaction. I told her directly that this world is a huge exchange. You raised me so that you can grow old and I will just take care of you. It's just like working to earn money. He gives you a salary and you work for him.

Just like when you spend money to buy a house, it is the same exchange of interests, so you have no right to dominate me. If you push me too far, you will not see me. Don't doubt the truthfulness of what I say, you know me. 』

『/Little Pudding/: When I grow up: Why is this child not close to me?』

『/奇妙美男/: So it is best to stay away. I don’t miss my childhood. My adulthood is far more exciting than my childhood.』

"/Waiting for Ascension/: We, the post-90s generation, are healing ourselves while raising our children."

『/十二一一/: My mother kept looking at me and smiling, and then she said sincerely, "You are really pretty. I wish I were you."

"/Love Rises with the Wind/: You have to see your child crying before you let go, even though you can go happily!"

"/Left Atrium/: I feel sorry for their hard work, but I also hate their selfishness. "

"/Yang Kaixin should be happy/: I don't understand why there is a competition between mothers and daughters. Girls will look good as long as they dress up. "

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Everyone feels that the people in the comment section are not only speaking up for people who have received Chinese-style education, but perhaps also trying to redeem their childhood selves.