I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 207 Brother Shui is very angry

Lin Feng added the girl’s private message and will coordinate the subsequent matters after the live broadcast.

While sending the girl off the mic.

Various gift special effects lit up the room again.

On the barrage.

Xiao Wan: "Military Advisor is so warm-hearted. Not only does he have a positive view on love, but he also has a positive view on the world. I must support him."

Gouzi: "Military Advisor, you are the only person with the highest light card level since I watched the live broadcast."

Stranger: "My family is in trouble, and he really helps (thumbs-up)."

Brother Long: "This is the only emotional blogger I follow. I have really learned a lot from him, including correct values, healthy emotional state, and most importantly, finding my true self."

July: "It's our military advisor who deserves our honor! (Proud)."

The stream flows: "Positive energy! You are worthy of being my Tamagotchi (dog head)."

elder brother,
You...

"Forget it, it's our brother who swipes the most."

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Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Seeing the screen full of praise, Raymond Lam also smiled knowingly.

Turning around, Yu Huanshui was also looking at him and smiling.

And give a thumbs up.

Not only for Lin Feng's kind act of supporting the girl, but also for what he said just now.

It turns out... I have been troubled by my original family for so many years.

That pain permeated my life like a parasite.

Looking back suddenly, Yu Huanshui saw scenes from the past.

this moment,
He decided.

He wants to break out of his cocoon and live a different life.

Raymond Lam: "Brothers, I don't know what's going on tonight. All the people connected to the microphone are full of bitterness and hatred. It's really annoying."

puff~
Hahahaha.

"But I also hope that my words can really bring some strength and warmth to my brothers.

I saw a lot of pain in the comments, as if that's what life is like.

I want to tell these people,
Don't envy other people's lives.

If you are born safely without any congenital disease.

If your family is intact and has not suffered from domestic violence.

If the environment you grow up in is safe enough, the claws of trafficking will not reach you.

If you have equal opportunities for education, you don't have to bear the burden of life too early.

If you have met friendly teachers and classmates, and have never been harmed or bullied.

If you are healthy and have all your limbs intact, you can feel the beauty of this world 100%.

If you have never suffered from hunger or cold, you may not be rich, but at least you have enough food and clothing.

If you don't develop bad habits, you will ruin your life.

If you have never experienced a natural disaster or man-made disaster in your lifetime.

If you have a few close friends, the one you love is by your side.

If the land beneath your feet is peaceful and prosperous, you have never felt the cruelty of war.

If you want to enjoy the unpolluted natural resources and breathe the fresh air.

Then congratulations on becoming one of the millions of ordinary people!
you need to know,

Just by living well, we are already survivors in this world.
Every ordinary day without halo is already a tomorrow that many people cannot reach.

Cherish this hard-earned ordinariness."

. . . .

On the barrage

"Just Live Well" "We Are Already the Survivors of This World"

my God!

The hair on my body stood up.

"I haven't encountered any of these. It turns out that I am the happiest person in the world!"

"I always complain about why my family has no money, but my dad says we are not hungry. When I think about it, compared to many people who don't have enough food, I am really happy."

"I suddenly remembered a saying: Some people live a luxurious life, and we live an even more luxurious life."

"Like the military advisor just said, some people have done their best just to stay alive."

"Really, the seemingly most ordinary life is out of reach for some people."

"Just like those children in war-torn countries, eh!"

"Yes, we are lucky to be born in a peaceful country."

. . . . .

okay,

Don't feel sentimental anymore.

These few mics took too long, and the brothers behind were getting impatient.

Next one next one.

Ding~
"Hello, military advisor."

It's a girl.

Raymond Lam: "Hello, what's your emotional problem?"

"I want to ask about my current relationship with my husband, who is 10 years older than me."

Raymond Lam: "How old are you this year?"

"I'm 41 this year."

Raymond Lam: "So my husband is 51 this year."

"Correct!"

Lin Feng smiled and shook his head: "I said, brothers, do you think so highly of me? Middle-aged couples also come to consult me ​​about their marriage problems?"

Girl: "I have been watching Junshi's live broadcast for a while. I think you have a very positive outlook on life and see things more clearly than most people, so..."

Lin Feng: "Okay, tell me. If it doesn't work, we have external help."

As he spoke, Raymond Lam pulled Yu Huanshui and his chair in front of the camera.

"Brother Shui is older than me, and he is also an old hand when it comes to marriage. Sister, tell me about your situation, and Brother Shui and I will give you some advice."

Yu Huanshui smiled bitterly.

I thought to myself, what the hell kind of an experienced driver am I?

The marriage life is a mess.

The wife looks down on her, and the son looks down on him.

I just got my divorce done yesterday.

A total marriage failure.

never mind,

Listen and see.

Girl: "Because he is 10 years older than me, and now he is at his age and has some problems at work, so the whole family has to rely on me alone, I feel very stressed,

Although I also know that he is under a lot of pressure, I can no longer accept any negative emotions from him.

Sometimes he would call my name and ask if I had time today and if we could chat about something.
Then my emotions were that I was under a lot of pressure at work and I no longer had the energy to accept anything from you.”

Lin Feng gave Yu Huanshui a look.

Yu Huanshui adjusted his glasses and asked, "It means that your husband gives you a lot of negative emotions."

"Correct!"

Yu Huanshui: "You said he had some problems at work, I didn't understand, do you mean he still has a job but just encountered some problems? Or is he unemployed and at home?"

"Unemployed and at home."

Yu Huanshui: "So what about lying down at home?"

"He is not lying down, because he is also trying to actively look for other job opportunities."

Yu Huanshui glanced at Lin Feng, turned his back and whispered, "I don't think there's any problem. Who can work smoothly all their life? Besides, they are not idle and are actively looking for a job."

Lin Feng smiled and said, "Just say whatever you think, no need to look at me."

Yu Huanshui was stunned for a moment.

This feeling of trust... He hasn't felt it for a long time.

Taking a deep breath, Yu Huanshui turned to the screen again and asked, "Sister... may I ask if you have any debts?"

"If you ask if there is, yes, but I am not worried about this debt."

Yu Huanshui: "How much debt do you have? You have to tell me."

"There are probably less than 200 million mortgage loans for houses in Hong Kong now."

Yu Huanshui was stunned for a moment, "Well, sister, can you tell me how much your annual income is?"

“Two hundred a year.”

???

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"Hong Kong has a house", "less than 200 million mortgage", "200 income per year"

"The key point is that it is less than 200 million (dog heads)."

Damn you rich woman!

This is awesome!
"My cell phone dad, how did you get me to the rich area all of a sudden (laughing to death)."

"A group of ordinary people listening to upper-class stories (Sunglasses)."

"Kochi, this auntie is amazing."

"What aunt? Call me sister."

"Rich sister (haha)!"

. . . . . .

Yu Huanshui: "So you are living apart?"

"No, but we don't live in the country."

Yu Huanshui: "Where?"

"Singapore." Yu Huanshui: "Sister, your personal income ability is very strong. The debt is not a pressure based on your income."

"Yes, there is no pressure, because the house is rented out and it belongs to me."

Yu Huanshui: "It's like you have no debt."

"The debt is the children, the children's schooling and so on."

Yu Huanshui shook her head: "No, sister, sending children to school cannot be called a debt, this is called an expense."

"Yes, it was the expenses. The child went to an international school, so the expenses were very high. If we didn't have the child, we would have been financially independent. It was at this age that he had some problems at work, and then some emotional barriers arose between us."

Yu Huanshui: "How long has your husband been in this state?"

"Half a year!"

Yu Huanshui: "How long has your marriage lasted?"

"15"

Yu Huanshui: "Did your husband shoulder the majority of the family expenses before the first half of the past 15 years?"

"Yes, he is the main person."

As soon as these words came out, Yu Huanshui's brows furrowed.

"Sister, you are wrong. In the past 15 years, he has shouldered the heavy responsibility of the family and has contributed a lot to the family.
In the past six months, the other person has been unemployed and has some negative emotions, which makes you feel overwhelmed and want to stay away from him. Is there something wrong with you? "

Girl: "I want to stay away because he has lost his job, and I have to shoulder the responsibility of the family, and then..."

Yu Huanshui: "Then what? You just forgot the other person's efforts in the marriage over the past 15 years.
Now that he is no longer capable, you start to despise him."

Girl: "I don't dislike him, but I can't take on his work difficulties and troubles because I have to support this family.
I am also very stressed out at work, and I want to work harder.
If you ask me to care about him again, I don't have the energy to receive anything anymore.

So I can only let him consume it himself.”

Yu Huan smiled bitterly: "You really don't dislike him, you are just selfish."

Well. . .

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"Haha, Brother Shui, that's a good rebuttal."

"To put it bluntly, I dislike men because they are old."

"Yeah, he's 51, and she's only 40, and she makes 200 bucks a year. With that kind of ability, who would want to serve an old man?"

"She wants a divorce, but she needs a reasonable reason, and everyone must agree."

Clicked.

. . . .

Girl: "No, I do this for my family and my children."

Yu Huanshui: "But you ignored your husband. You ignored that as your husband, he also needs emotional comfort. This is the responsibility and obligation of a wife.
You have been married for 15 years. You are much older than me, so you should understand this principle better. "

As he spoke, Yu Huanshui suddenly became excited.

Lin Feng glanced at Yu Huanshui.

I knew he was thinking of me.

When Yu Huanshui was young and glorious, Gan Hong's family all tried to curry favor with him.

But when he was down and out,

In my marriage life with my wife, because I have no money, my wife complains about me everywhere. She always says that I am not good enough, I can't afford it, and I have no future.

When I went to my parents-in-law’s house, I couldn’t even bring out a decent gift.

Suffering the contempt of my father-in-law and mother-in-law,
Drinking red wine worth dozens of dollars, eating low-quality mooncakes, and being ridiculed by the whole family,
Finally, my wife cheated on me.

The unemployed husband the woman was talking about at this moment was in a situation very similar to Yu Huanshui's.

How could he not think of himself?

Girl: "I think you are wrong. I am not selfish, and I don't dislike him. I am just very tired from work."

I noticed that Yu Huanshui was a little excited.

Lin Feng patted his shoulder, signaling him to calm down first.

Let me ask.

Lin Feng: "Sister, let's not talk about the above topic for now. Tell me first, what is the problem you want to connect with me on the mic?"

"I just want to know how to let him digest his emotions and adjust himself, so as not to bring too much emotion to me."

Lin Feng smiled: "Then why do you want to get married?"

The woman froze for a moment.

Raymond Lam continued: "What do we mean by marriage? Isn't it about two people facing the ups and downs that the world brings us together?

He is in trouble now, and you told him to solve it himself and not to bother you.

Then why live together?
Isn't it enough for everyone to live their own lives? "

The woman was speechless again.

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"You have to be a military advisor, you hit the nail on the head, you hit the nail on the head (awesome)."

"You see, women look down on men who have no money (smile)."

“He just had no one to discuss it with.”

"But the woman refused to communicate."

"The sorrow of middle-aged couples."

. . . . .

The woman was silent for a while and then said, "But we are also individuals. We have our own lives and our own values."

Lin Feng shook his head: "Sister, it's hard to imagine that you are 40 years old. It's hard to imagine that you are someone with an annual income of 200 million."

The woman was puzzled: "What do you mean?"

Raymond Lam: "Don't you understand? For the past 15 years, you have enjoyed the love this person gave you in the relationship. Now that the other person is incapable, you say that you are separate individuals. Why didn't you say anything when you got it?"

The woman remained silent three times.

Raymond Lam: "You said you earn 200 million a year, live in Singapore, own a house in Hong Kong, and for the past 15 years, your partner has been the breadwinner in your marriage.
Even if I use my toes to guess, sister, your current wealth and life are inseparable from the other party's connections and resources, right?"

The woman remained silent.

Apparently Lin Feng was right.

Lin Feng threw the pen onto the table and said with a smile, "So what's wrong with Brother Shui saying you're selfish just now?"

You first enjoy the love and resources that the other person gives you.

Now that people are older and can no longer work, you begin to be able to tell the difference.

And you come here and tell me that adults should take care of themselves.

Don't you think it's ridiculous?
Maybe I've been abroad for too long and forgot the saying that goes "When disaster strikes, everyone flees."

You are not pure and refined egoism! "

Woman: "I...I'm not."

Raymond Lam: "You are not what? You let him digest his negative emotions by himself, so what is the marriage consciousness we are talking about today?
Isn't it just two people warming each other?
Isn't it that among the thousands of lights there is one that is lit for you?
Isn't it just two people working together, advancing and retreating together?
Isn't it just giving a warm hug to the other person when he/she is in a bad mood?
This is the meaning of marriage, sister."

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"Have you been abroad for too long?" "I forgot there's an idiom that goes 'when disaster strikes, everyone flees'"

Lore!

Xiao Wan: "Hahaha, this sister is silent again."

Gouzi: "Why is he 10 years older than her? It was because he was successful and rich (disdain)."

Brother Long: "We can share the good times, but we will never endure the hardships."

Stranger: "200 per year, what's so hard about it? I just feel like I can handle things on my own."

Clicked.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "We say that no matter how loving a couple is, once they get married, the wife will always be very picky about the man.
Especially those middle-aged couples, the wife even dislikes her husband.

Dislike her husband's incompetence.
Complaining that her husband can't give her the life she wants,
She always puts herself in the position of a victim and believes that all the misfortunes in life are caused by her husband.

There is even a saying circulating on the Internet: I married you hoping that you could protect me from the wind and rain, but I didn't expect that all my wind and rain were brought by you.

For these words,
The military advisor has his own understanding.

I think that the ignorance and innocence of a girl before marriage is because her father has withstood the hardships and helplessness of life.

The mother bears the trivialities and fatigue of the family.

Once you grow up and start a family again, you change from being the protected person to being the responsible person.

So it is not your husband who brings you wind and rain, but the wind and rain of life itself that will come to everyone.

In the past 15 years, your husband has a good career, strong ability, high income, and he is 10 years older than you.
It is equivalent to replacing your parents, providing you with fine clothes and delicious food, letting you live in a mansion, drive a luxury car and wear famous brands.

Now that your husband is failing, you feel under a lot of pressure and don’t want to share his emotions.

But you don't know that the pressure from wind and rain has always been there, and it was your husband who bore it for you in the past.

Now you are the master of the house.

It's only been half a year.

Do you feel like you're about to die?
Have you ever thought about how your husband managed to get through the past 15 years?
Sister,

You should have some conscience!"

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"It's not your husband who brings you wind and rain" "It's the wind and rain of life itself that rains on everyone"

Absolutely amazing!
Awesome!

"I'm here to be a princess, not a nanny. If I want to be a nanny, I can do it in my own home. Why should I marry you (dog head)?"

"You need to have a royal father, but you are a girl who dreams of being a princess (sunglasses)."

"If there's a woman who listens to me, I lose (smile)."

"When the baby was young, I took care of him. When he was older, I came out to earn money with my husband. I went to construction sites and experienced everything. To be honest, as a woman, I think women are much more flexible than men."

"You have to be happy with this thought."

"What men fear most is not being tired, but their wives' lack of understanding."

"Whether his wife understands or not is none of our business (picking nose)."

"It's a typo, it's family (laughing to death)."

"That's right, you love someone else's wife."

Hahahahaha.

(End of this chapter)