I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 197 These Two Brothers Are Invincible
On the barrage.

"Oh shit! I got goosebumps!"

“It’s so scary.”

“It’s like seeing the life of a scumbag.”

“It’s so graphic.”

"Not all of them can live to a nursing home. Some of them are killed by their mistresses. My family was like that. They were sent to heaven early."

Nani?

"True or False (Horror)"

"Happy."

what?
"Good luck picking you up!"

What the hell!

You guys~

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Brother, don't think I am exaggerating. You can look at your friends around you or read some stories in the newspapers.
Any man who betrays his marriage and family will not have a good ending.

why?
Very simple.

Because such men will ultimately not be able to escape three painful prices.

The first one became notorious and was abandoned by everyone.

You're messing around outside.

First of all, your reputation among your friends will be ruined.

Even though your friends may always be laughing and joking with you, they will always be criticizing you behind your back.

Once the truth is revealed and your reputation is ruined, you will definitely be abandoned by everyone.

Second, your bad behavior will directly affect your children and the elderly in your family.

Your child will feel inferior because you are laughed at by classmates.

Your parents will also live in the gossip of neighbors all day long, and the most important thing is that they can't hold their heads up even though they are over 50 years old.

Your wife will no longer love you.

Third, when you have nothing left, you run back like a stray dog, begging for your wife's forgiveness.

Maybe she would maintain this marriage because of the children, but she had already lost heart.

It is no longer possible to give 100% love and trust.

This is especially true when you are old and need to go to the hospital, which is very painful because no one will take care of you.

So your final destination can only be a nursing home."

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"What the military advisor said is absolutely right. Men who do business outside pay great attention to integrity. If the partner has bad character, basically everyone will be wary of him. I remember what my boss said before. He said that if he is not honest to his own wife, how can he be honest to his partners?"

"You think your friends will all say you're awesome, but in reality, the things they say about you behind your back are just making fun of you."

"Anyway, you can't really make money from fooling around, and if you make it, it's gone right away. There are people like this around me, and they're constantly going downhill."

. . . . .

Man: "Thank you, Advisor. You put it so bluntly. Now I know what to do."

Lin Feng: "Okay, then go live a good life with your wife."

Hang up the mic,
Lin Feng turned around and said to Yu Huanshui: "How's it going, Brother Shui, I saved another one, am I awesome?"

Yu Huanshui nodded: "Awesome."

At first, he thought that all the live streamers were those uneducated internet beggars.

And sitting here, he truly felt that Lin Feng was doing something very meaningful.

Not only Yu Huanshui said it was awesome.

The screen is full of comments saying "Awesome".

For a while, all kinds of gifts flooded the live broadcast room.

Lin Feng took a sip of water, patted the large whiteboard behind him and said to the live broadcast room.

“Brothers, keep the picture I drew today firmly in your mind, and think of it when you can’t control yourself.

My wife hates you.
Your parents blame you.

The child cuts off ties with you.

You may even get sick and lose your life.

Aren't you afraid?

If a rich man is unfaithful, he will become poorer; if a poor man is unfaithful, he will become even poorer.

All this is caused by desire and greed.

Don't think that the woman outside is so good. If she is really good, she won't be entangled with a man with a family.

So wake up.

Once you build your happiness on the pain of your partner, all you will be left with is a broken home.
A marriage in ruins,
A broken body,
And a rotten reputation.

Listen to the military advisor's advice, and return to your family as soon as possible while your lover has not completely given up on you."

okay.

This topic ends here.

The military advisor now has an incredibly strong logical mind.

Hurry to the next one.

Ding~
"Hello, military advisor."

It's a girl.

Lin Feng: "Hello, tell me about your situation."

"Military Advisor, I am 26 years old and he is the same age as me. We have been married for two years and have a child."

Raymond Lam: "Married family, how old are the children?"

"One year and three months."

Lin Feng: "So what problem are you facing now?"

"I have no problem with my husband, but I have a little problem with my mother-in-law."

Raymond Lam: "Conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, do you live with your mother-in-law?"

"No, we live separately now."

Raymond Lam: "Who will take care of the child? Is it my mother-in-law?"

"No, no, I took it all by myself."

Raymond Lam: "We can live separately and still take care of the child by ourselves, so there shouldn't be any conflicts with my mother-in-law."

"It's just that I'm too tired to take care of the child by myself. I need her to help me take care of the child for two or three days a month, but my mother-in-law refuses."

Lin Feng: "What's the reason?"

"Because we have a small factory, and she needs to take care of the factory affairs, and also needs to cook for the apprentices we hired. She also has a small vegetable garden, and most importantly, my sister-in-law is only 11 years old, and she needs to take care of her daughter."

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Lin Feng: "No, sister, you've made it very clear. It's not that grandma doesn't want to help you take care of the baby, it's that she's too busy!"

"I know, but I feel uncomfortable!"

Lin Feng: "Don't feel uncomfortable, sister. Since the other party's family has a factory, your husband should have a good income. There is no need to make this matter so complicated. Just hire a nanny.

As for how to communicate and get along with elders, to put it bluntly, the best way to get along is not to get along.

As for the elderly, we only need to fulfill our filial duty and not ask them to do anything for us."

. . . . .

"Military advisor said it very well. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is indeed not easy. The best way is not to have it."

"I'm not afraid of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. What I'm most afraid of is a husband who wants his wife to stay with his mother and get along with her."

"Really, my husband is like that. He wants to relax himself, so he leaves us at home and lets his mother not work to take care of the baby with me. As a result, there are a lot of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law."

"In fact, it's okay if the mother-in-law is not strong. If the mother-in-law is strong, and you have a husband who makes you live with your mother-in-law for a long time, it will be annoying."

"Just treat each other with respect. Giving gifts and having meals together during festivals is good enough. If you really live under the same roof, you can't have a good family life."

. . . . .

Girl: "Military Advisor, listen to me. I have been watching your live broadcast for a long time. I don't know who to tell about this. I want to tell you that my family situation is a little special.
My parents passed away early, and I only had one grandfather.

My brother got autism because my parents passed away early, and there was no one in my mother's family who could help me.

When I was working, my grandmother was sick and most of my money was spent on her medical treatment, so I didn't have much savings.

So I have no source of income.

I really don't have much say at home. I also want to hire a nanny, but my in-laws strongly disagree.

My child was allergic to milk protein when he was born. He grew up drinking amino acid milk powder. He has a very serious allergic constitution.

He didn’t sleep much until he was seven months old. I took care of him by myself. I really have been doing this from the time he was born until now... "

Lin Feng raised his hand to interrupt: "Sister, this is a typical case of postpartum anxiety.
Now, describe it to me. As soon as you say the first sentence, you start thinking about your original family and the pain you are suffering now.

You can't control your emotions right now, so I think it's necessary to ask your husband to come over and listen."

Girl: "My husband hasn't come back from the factory yet. He works very hard every day. He goes to work at 7 am and doesn't come back until or pm."

Lin Feng: "So after you give birth to the baby, it will just be you and the baby at home?"

"Correct!"

Lin Feng frowned: "No wonder, sister, you have typical postpartum depression, you have to let your husband know."

Girl: "I've started to see the baby these past two days, and I feel very irritated. My head hurts, and I can't sleep."

Yu Huanshui came over and said, "It is indeed postpartum depression, and it looks very serious."

Lin Feng nodded: "Sister, don't let your imagination run wild now, you must go to a psychologist for treatment.

This is really important.

Because you have been suppressing yourself for too long, it will definitely leave pathological changes.
And then you will find that your child is now one year old. A one-year-old child is at a critical point where he needs early childhood education from his mother.
If you are in a bad mood at this time and the love and care you give to your child is not stable enough,

Your child will inevitably have character defects."

Girl: "Military Advisor, can those friends stop scolding my husband? My husband works really hard every day. It can be said that more than two-thirds of his income comes from his work. He uses the money he earns to buy us a car and a house."

Lin Feng: "Sister, you are communicating with me, don't look at the barrage, just listen to me, go see a psychologist, and then hire a nanny.

Do you know why I asked you to hire a nanny?
It's not about having a nanny to help you take care of your children, but about having someone to help you take care of your children together.

We are not just leaving our children to the nanny.

You will find that when there is someone who can help you or there are other people around you, you will not be so anxious.

And let me tell you a very realistic issue: enjoying the service of others is a very effective way to quickly improve your mood.

why?
Because I spent money to have others come to our house to do things, I would be more confident.
At this time, when I see others doing things for me, I will have a sense of superiority, and this will also have a good effect on my mood.

This is human nature.

Trust my sister."

Girl: "But I don't know how to communicate with my parents-in-law."

Lin Feng pushed the microphone towards Yu Huanshui: "You tell her."

Yu Huanshui: "No need to communicate, sister."

Girl: "But our salary is just a way of paying our wages. It's not like we get paid based on how much we earn."

Yu Huanshui: "Then your husband's salary is not enough to hire a nanny?"

Girl: "Because my child uses that milk powder, it costs more than 5000 yuan a month."

Yu Huanshui glanced at Lin Feng.

Lin Feng said unhappily: "What are you looking at me for? Tell me."

Yu Huanshui: "Sister, if it doesn't work, just sell the diamond ring."

Lin Feng nodded.

Men with life experience are different.

Look at Brother Shui’s thinking.

Yu Huanshui: "Sell the diamond rings and hardware. We are all living together. Why keep those things? It is better to solve the current problems.

Right, little one... Ahem, military advisor."

Raymond Lam: “No problem.”

But sister,

You go sell the hardware.
But regarding the matter of hiring a nanny, you must make sure your husband stands firm and let him talk to your mother-in-law.

Let him say it's what he's looking for.
The reason is also well explained.

I come home after a hard day at work and my wife has to take care of the kids so she can't do the housework. If she can't do it, I have to do the housework myself.
I've worked a fucking day and I'm so tired. What's wrong with hiring a nanny to cook for me and do the housework at home?
The reason is completely valid! "

Girl: “Yes.”

At this moment, she seemed to suddenly understand.

Lin Feng: "Right, sister, there are always more solutions than problems. As long as you and your wife are of one mind, your life will get better and better."

Yu Huanshui raised his hand: "Military Advisor, I have something to add."

Lin Feng: "Come on, tell me."

Yu Huanshui: "Sister, Brother Shui is an experienced person, let me tell you, postpartum anxiety disorder is a psychological disease.

If you can't ease up, you will find that your demands on your husband will gradually increase in your marriage.
You will dump all your annoyance with your children, dissatisfaction with your mother-in-law, and all kinds of messy and annoying things on your husband.

His life will definitely not be easy.

You will find yourself picking on him for all sorts of little things, even if he throws the garbage incorrectly, you will get angry with him. "

Lin Feng nodded: "Brother Shui is right, this is a symptom, so don't think this is a small matter, it is very serious.
Because if a woman is self-isolating at home, she must punish another person to achieve her inner sense of security.
Then your husband will suffer in the future.

And you also said that he is already very tired after going to work every day.

This is likely to be your emotional crisis. "

what?
What should I do then?

The girl was visibly flustered.

Lin Feng glanced at Yu Huanshui and said, "As someone who has been through this, tell me what you think."

Yu Huanshui: "First of all, you must tell your husband about your situation and let him understand you, then go see a psychologist, take medicine if necessary, and counsel him if necessary.

My husband can't be so busy anymore, so he should put down the work at hand.
Let him accompany you to the park for a walk, watch a movie, buy some beautiful new clothes, and dress up your sister, and she will naturally feel better. "

"Thank you, Brother Shui, thank you, Military Advisor, thank you so much, woooo."

The girl actually started crying with excitement.

. . . .

On the barrage.

What the hell!

Gouzi: "I actually cried when I heard that, woo woo."

Stranger: "Ah, it's not easy for women either."

Xiao Wan: "I know that the military advisor is warm-hearted, but I didn't expect that Brother Shui is also so warm-hearted (crying to death)."

Brother Long: "These two are amazing! I won't say more. From now on, I will be a die-hard fan of our room (awesome)."

The stream flows: "Two grown men made a depressed little girl look completely healthy, awesome!"

Hahahahaha.

(End of this chapter)