At the beginning, Gu Jia and Jiang Nansun were intercepted, and Qiao Yingzi pursued them

Yan Peng nodded hurriedly, "Brother Fan, you're so kind to tell me this honestly, and you didn't target Tian Yulan because of Nan Li's report. I want to say thank you in advance for your magnanimity."

Qin Fan said carelessly, "I'm not being magnanimous. I'm just being too lazy to argue with her for your sake. If I were to use some tricks to make Tian Yulan fall, you'd be caught in the middle. Given our relationship, I wouldn't do that!"

"I understand! My gratitude is all in this cup of tea. I'll toast you!"

Yan Peng felt very emotional, his brother-in-law was really kind!

I have been idle for half my life and have not made many close friends. To be able to meet such a good brother-in-law like Qin Fan, I must have helped at least eighty old ladies cross the street in my previous life to have such a blessing!

After drinking tea, Qin Fan tried to persuade him again.

"Let's get back to the point. After all this talk, you should know what to do next. The reason Tian Yulan is so calm is because she holds the financial power. If you want to compete with her for the position of head of the family and make her voluntarily submit to you, you must hold the money in your own hands."

Yan Peng hesitated. "But, my salary card is with her. If I go home and ask her for it, not only will I not get it back, but I'll probably get scolded."

Qin Fan was speechless. "Don't you work at your family's factory? If you need a salary card, just go to the finance department and get a replacement. Or just tell your parents and ask them to give you a new one. The old one will be invalidated."

"Also, have your parents give you the monthly allowance directly. Don't repay the loan for now. Have the bank deduct Tian Yulan's money directly."

"After these three attacks, I don't believe Tian Yulan can remain calm!"

After Qin Fan said this, Yan Peng became even more hesitant.

"If I said that, my parents would definitely guess that Tian Yulan and I had a conflict."

"Isn't this perfect?" Qin Fan asked back.

"Ok?"

Seeing that Yan Peng hadn't reacted yet, Qin Fan slapped his forehead.

"What's wrong with your brain? They're your parents, not Tian Yulan's parents. They're definitely on your side!"

"Besides, what parent wants to see their own son being controlled by their daughter-in-law? Do you think your parents would be happy to see you become as soft as noodles all these years?"

"Don't you think about why they interfere in your family affairs so frequently? It's because you are too indecisive, so they have to be strong-willed."

This was the first time Yan Peng had heard such a statement. "You mean, my parents did that to support me?"

"I don't know your parents, and I don't dare to jump to conclusions, but if I put myself in their shoes, if my son had a personality like yours, I would definitely be anxious."

Yan Peng couldn't help but fall into deep thought, "In that case, the conflict between Tian Yulan and my parents is ultimately because of me!"

"That's definitely part of the reason. If you're independent enough, you can keep your parents out of the family. If they want to interfere in your family affairs, they can only do so through you.

The problem now is that you, a fence-sitter, are unreliable. They'll directly bypass you and confront Tian Yulan, which will of course lead to conflict."

Seeing the changing expression on Yan Peng's face, Qin Fan gave some advice.

"How about this? Call your mother right now and tell her clearly about the conflict between you and Tian Yulan. Tell her that you will not compromise this time. Let's see what your mother's attitude is."

"That won't do! My mom will definitely faint from anger. Her heart has always been in poor condition..."

"Then give it to your father! Is your father in good health?"

Yan Peng didn't hesitate any longer and walked out to call his father.

Looking at his back, Qin Fan finally felt relieved.

After so much effort, I finally persuaded this fence-sitter. It was really not easy!

To be honest, from the very beginning, Qin Fan really didn't consider Tian Yulan. She was a few years older than Fan Shengmei, and she was too self-centered and had a sharp tongue. Qin Fan didn't like her very much.

Instead of trying to conquer Tian Yulan, wouldn’t it be better to flirt with those girls in Ode to Joy?

Unexpectedly, Yan Peng seemed to be relying on him. Not only did he make him take the blame, but he also pestered him like a dog-skin plaster, which made him very annoyed.

If I don't give them something to do, how can I vent the anger I'm holding in my heart?

Then let Tian Yulan and Fan Shengmei play human pyramid!

Wow, it’s exciting just thinking about it!!

.......

679: This is how you pry open the corner!

When Yan Peng came back again, he had a relaxed smile on his face and gave Qin Fan a thumbs up.

"Brother Fan, you're absolutely spot on. You guessed it right! When my dad heard I wasn't going to compromise this time, he told me straight up, 'This should have happened a long time ago.'"

"At first I was worried he would scold me, but I didn't expect his attitude to be even more aggressive than mine. So I asked him to prepare a separate salary card for me and transfer the allowance for my family to the new card. He agreed without hesitation."

"It just reminds me that even if we argue, we must not shortchange the children."

Hearing this, Qin Fan just smiled and said nothing. How could this be considered as predicting the future? Which parent would like to see their son so weak?

Yan Peng continued to ask, "Brother Fan, what should we do next?"

"Let her hang out for a month first."

"Tian Yulan's monthly salary of 20,000 yuan is definitely not enough. She has to enroll her child in so many tutoring classes, pay the mortgage, and add to that her daily living expenses. When that happens, won't she come to you with begging for money?"

Yan Peng was happy at first, but then became a little worried.

"Isn't this... a bit too cruel to the child? Ziyou is in fifth grade now, and it's the critical moment for him to sprint to Hanlin. If he can't attend tutoring classes because of money, then I, as a father, would be very irresponsible."

Qin Fan nodded. "Your concerns are not unreasonable, but if you were to cover the cost of those tutoring classes, Tian Yulan's salary would be enough to cover the expenses, and then your goal of forcing her to surrender would be defeated. I can't help you with this issue, so make the decision for yourself."

Yan Peng began to waver as usual, feeling that neither this nor that was right, and he felt extremely irritated.

Seeing this, Qin Fan changed the subject, "I remember you disapproved of Tian Yulan's overly pushy attitude towards children. In fact, we can use this opportunity to force Tian Yulan to reduce the number of tutoring classes. This will also reduce the burden on Yan Ziyou."

Qin Fan's suggestion was not entirely out of calculation. Yan Ziyu was quite pitiful.

At such a young age, he was under too much mental pressure from Tian Yulan. In order to escape his mother's high-pressure policy, he imagined a friend who liked to play football.

Fortunately, it’s not split personality, otherwise it would be really troublesome.

Since Qin Fan knew about Yan Ziyou's tragedy, he didn't want him to end up like the original drama, so he suggested that Yan Peng hold onto the tuition for the tutoring class.

Yan Peng hesitated, "But Hanlin..."

"Hanlin is Tian Yulan's expectation for the child. Don't always take Tian Yulan's ideas as your own. Think carefully about what you expect from the child."

Yan Peng nodded subconsciously.

His expectations for his child were actually quite simple: he wanted his child to go to a school based on his academic performance, and that when Yan Ziyu graduated from university, he could come back and inherit their family factory.

If Yan Ziyou doesn't like running the family business, then he can hand the company over to a professional manager. After all, the family has money, so there is no need to worry about the children going hungry in the future.

Yan Peng and Tian Yulan basically have two extreme ideas. One is to let nature take its course and not force the child to learn as he or she wishes. The other is to try his or her best to fight for a future for the child.

It cannot be said that the two people’s ideas are wrong. It can only be said that the differences in their backgrounds and growing environments determine their different expectations for their children’s future.

There was a saying circulating on the Internet before: if the mother is weak, the woman will become a merchant; if the father is strong, the woman will become a minister; if the family is prosperous, the woman will stay in her hometown; if the family is poor, the woman will move to another place.

This sentence is not a very comprehensive summary, and there are many examples in reality that contradict it. Apart from its meaning itself, it reveals the relationship between people's living environment, thinking and cognition, and the education of the next generation.

The parents are of ordinary means and cannot help their children much. They can only urge their children to study and hope that their children can get into a good university in the future and create their own happiness.

Parents with better conditions will teach their children by example from an early age, help them distinguish right from wrong, and pass on their own thoughts, understanding of society, how to handle interpersonal relationships, business thinking and other excellent aspects to their children.

When children enter society in the future, they will have a strong ability to adapt to society.

When making arrangements for their children, this type of parents will basically consider everything clearly, from which university to attend, what major to choose, to where to work after graduation, and they will do a lot of preliminary preparation for this.

The conditions mentioned above not only refer to material conditions, but also conditions in various aspects such as thoughts, cognition, and cultural literacy.

Coming from a wealthy family like Yan Peng, when he was making plans for his children, the thing he mentioned most was the family business. He hoped that Yan Ziyou would inherit his parents' company in the future.

Tian Yulan was born in a poor family and had a strong sense of inferiority and urgency. When she was raising her child, she had only one thought in mind, which was to make Yan Ziyou an excellent student, better than children of the same age.

As for what kind of university Yan Ziyou will apply to, what major he will study, and what job he will do after graduation, Tian Yulan herself has no idea.

To put it bluntly, Tian Yulan has a typical poor person's way of educating children.

I don’t have any resources to help my child, so I can only support him and let him fight and struggle on his own.

Her thinking, cognition, social relationships, and even her own achievements have determined that she cannot plan her child's life like her parents from wealthy families. She just simply hopes that her child can get into a good university and have a better future than herself.

The problem is that Yan Peng's family is not poor. His parents live in a detached villa and earn several million yuan a year. Such family conditions exceed 95% of families.

Therefore, Tian Yulan’s educational thinking seems very inconsistent.

.......

680: Trick the silly girl!

Qin Fan has another perspective on raising children.

He does not pursue how good Xia Huanhuan's grades are, nor does he forcefully arrange his child's life. Instead, he values ​​how much Xia Huanhuan loves something.

I hope that no matter what my children do, they will do it with great interest and enthusiasm.

Because Qin Fan has plenty of money, his children have countless opportunities to try and make mistakes. He is not worried at all about his children failing, hitting a wall, or losing money. Instead, he is most worried that his children will have mental problems after encountering setbacks in the future.

Some people even lose their love for their career and life due to the heavy blow.

As for Peng Jiahe, it was because her grades were so bad that Qin Fan had no choice but to urge her to study hard.

In fact, Qin Fan has the same attitude towards Peng Jiahe. He supports Peng Jiahe's love for live streaming and racing, and never says that she is wasting her time on trivial things.

Female protagonists like Song Qian, Tong Wenjie, Tian Yulan, and Nan Li, even though they have very different personalities and perceptions, are essentially the same type of people: a group of anxious middle-class people.

They hope that their children's future achievements will surpass their own, but they don't know how to achieve their goals. Like headless flies, they enroll their children in this class and that class.

I started to study from kindergarten until college and entered society.

When I see parents from wealthy families sending their children to private schools, I also want to send my children there.

Seeing that wealthy people cultivate hobbies for their children, I also follow suit and sign them up for this interest class and that interest class.

Seeing the wealthy sending their children abroad to study, I would sell everything I have to send my own children abroad.

This group of people don’t even know why they do this. They just think that since rich people do it, it must be good. Since it is good, they must also do the same for their children.

Spending a lot of money on children's education often does not yield good results.

After Qin Fan's lengthy analysis and guidance, Yan Peng was completely fooled.

Yan Peng finally made up his mind to give Tian Yulan a hard beating to let her know that when an honest person gets angry, it can be fatal!

……

At night, Qin Fan hugged Xu Hongdou's fragrant body and was about to go to sleep.

Suddenly, he received a WeChat message from He Minhong.

"You're forcing your mother like this, going against her will, manipulating her choices. How are you any different from those who assaulted your mother? Even though you didn't physically assault her, you were just as violent, verbally abusive. You think you're doing this for your mother's good, but is what you think is appropriate really what your mother needs?"

"I personally think that your method is not feasible. Please think twice!"

Qin Fan was confused and thought that this girl must have sent the message to the wrong person.

Before he could reply, He Minhong sent another WeChat message.

"Brother Qin, don't get me wrong. I was going to send the last message to Yu Chuhui, but after I edited it, I thought of what you said to me before."

"I kept asking myself, what does Yu Chuhui's control and verbal abuse of her mother have to do with me? If it's none of my business, why would I send a message to accuse her?"

"Even though I've forced myself to suppress my impulse, I still have a lot to say, but I have nowhere to say it, so I have no choice but to send it to you."

That's what happened.

"Well done. If you have anything you want to say in the future that you can't tell the person involved, you can send it to me."

"Yeah, Brother Qin, you're so nice!"

"You just said that Yu Chuhui took her mother to the Magic City?"

He Minhong thought typing was too slow, so he sent a voice message back, "Here's what happened. A few days ago, Yu's mother suddenly called Yu Chuhui and said that Yu's father was abusing her at home. Yu Chuhui was very angry at the time, cursing and threatening her on the phone, and argued with her father for a long time."

"The next day, when Zhenzhen treated us to ice cream, Yu Chuhui was lamenting how Mom was being abused and bullied by Dad at home, and how she had to serve Dad like a nanny, and then take care of her parents-in-law. No one in the family treated her as a human being."

"I got anxious when I heard that, so I told her to bring her mother over and stay away from her father."

Qin Fan frowned as he listened. This silly girl must have been tricked again.

.......

681: Understand! Two women team up?