Ahem, in fact, no matter what Yan Peng said, his expression would change, just to arouse Yan Peng's sense of crisis.
"In that case, Tian Yulan doesn't really care where you go. She only gets angry because you haven't been home for a long time."
When Yan Peng heard him say that, he stopped laughing.
"It's been more than half a month since the beginning of the cold war between her and me, and she seems to be very calm the whole time. This shouldn't be the case. I'm her husband. Why aren't I worried at all after ignoring her for so long?"
"Brother Fan, don't you think we're using the wrong method?"
Qin Fan looked at him with disdain.
"Look at you, such a loser! It's only been a few days, and you're already wavering? I tell you, once the arrow is shot, there's no turning back. You and Tian Yulan have gotten to this point. Either she gives in, you give in, or we get divorced. There's no fourth option."
If you waver and run back to make peace with Tian Yulan, how can I take advantage of the opportunity?
Yan Peng instinctively grabbed his wrist, "Then what should I do?"
"Calm down, calm down, let's go to the tea room and have a drink while we talk."
Qin Fan hugged Yan Peng and walked into the tea room. He boiled a pot of water and made a cup of Pu'er tea for them. He smelled the fragrance of the tea and then spoke slowly.
"If you want to subdue Tian Yulan and make her obediently become your wife in the future, you must start by targeting her character weaknesses. Think about what character weaknesses your wife has."
This really stumped Yan Peng.
"What weaknesses could she have? She's a strong woman, she earns more than me at work, and she manages everything at home perfectly. Her children's grades are always among the best..."
Qin Fan hurriedly waved his hand to stop him, "Stop, stop. I asked you to think about her weaknesses, why are you praising her?"
Yan Peng laughed awkwardly. "We've lived together for more than ten years, and I feel that Tian Yulan is better than me in every aspect. I can't think of any weaknesses she could have."
"Everyone has weaknesses, and Tian Yulan is no exception. I understand now. The reason you're so cowardly isn't just because you're soft-hearted. There's another reason: after living together for so many years, you've developed a certain admiration for Tian Yulan."
"I always think that no matter what difficulties I encounter, she can always find a solution. Moreover, she is very opinionated and sticks to her word. Over time, you will be completely controlled by her."
Yan Peng was frightened and wondered if I was really controlled by Tian Yulan?
Seeing that his face was full of doubts, Qin Fan continued to induce him.
"Think about it. Over the years, has Tian Yulan ever followed your lead on any of the family matters, big or small? I'll find you a piece of paper. List them out one by one, and then we'll analyze them."
Yan Peng immediately shook his head, "No need to list them, she basically has the final say on family matters."
"What about the child?" Qin Fan asked.
The gloom on Yan Peng's face deepened. "Whether it's the child's food, clothing, expenses, or studies, it's all Tian Yulan who worries about it. I haven't really taken care of it."
"Did you not care, or did she not let you care?"
"She always complains that I can't manage things well. For example, when it comes to housework, she thinks I'm clumsy. Every time I start, she asks me to stand aside."
Qin Fan clenched his right fist and hit it on the palm of his left hand, pretending to understand.
"That woman is really clever. She uses a series of small things to get you started, then finds fault with you all the time, constantly undermining your self-confidence. Once you get tired of being told off, you give up on yourself and hand everything over to her. Then, she naturally takes control of the family."
Qin Fan was confusing concepts again. In fact, this was the case in many families. The wife thought her husband was not efficient at work and was clumsy, and thought it would be better for her to do it herself, so she drove her husband aside.
When I finally finished the housework, I was so tired that my back and waist ached. I turned around and saw my husband with his feet on the coffee table, leisurely browsing his mobile phone. I felt unhappy again and started complaining that he didn't know how to help.
Qin Fan deliberately brought up this kind of ordinary things in life to guide Yan Peng's thinking, telling him that Tian Yulan had a purpose. Through this subtle way, he continuously suppressed him until he lost confidence and chose to lie down.
Yan Peng was dumbfounded and stared at Qin Fan in a daze.
"Brother Fan, why do I feel like you're making Tian Yulan sound so sinister? This kind of thing is very common. She likes doing housework and taking care of the children, so let her do it. It's just a good thing I can be freed up..."
Qin Fan interjected, "More time to play games?"
Yan Peng smiled awkwardly and did not comment.
"Have you ever thought about who controls your family's finances? Where's your paycheck? And what about the 20,000 yuan your parents give you every month? Who between you two is managing that money?"
"Besides that, whose account did you use to pay your mortgage?"
The series of questions confused Yan Peng. After hesitating for a long time, he said with difficulty, "They are all with her."
Qin Fan sneered, "I finally understand why Tian Yulan is so calm. The family's financial power is in her hands. Even if you want to go out and have fun, you don't have the money. When your private savings are gone, you will go back on your own without her urging you."
After Qin Fan's seemingly plausible analysis, Yan Peng felt a chill down his spine, and two villains in his mind were fighting fiercely with each other.
A villain said that his wife would never be that kind of person and she didn't have such deep thoughts.
Another villain said, come on, for so many years, Tian Yulan has been controlling herself step by step to achieve the goal of completely controlling this family.
.......
677: Initial results are achieved! The day is just around the corner!
Yan Peng said with a bitter face: "Brother Fan, why do I feel that you are not talking about my wife, but an enemy of mine, a mortal enemy who wants to take my life."
This statement itself is problematic. Which man would let another man help him analyze his wife's personality?
Isn’t this nonsense!
It just so happened that Yan Peng was suppressed too harshly, and with Qin Fan's constant provocation, he has now developed a strong rebellious mentality and doesn't want to be controlled by Tian Yulan anymore.
However, due to the accumulated prestige over the past decade, this rebellious mentality was not enough to support Yan Peng in confronting Tian Yulan in the short term, which is why he was so conflicted.
Qin Fan pointed his finger at the table and emphasized, "I didn't say your wife was scheming. Think about it yourself, where did I say she was scheming?"
"It still means the same thing..." Yan Peng muttered.
"You misunderstood. What I actually wanted to say is that Tian Yulan's actions aren't scheming, but a survival instinct!"
"To put it bluntly, she was afraid of poverty when she was young. No matter what she has, she subconsciously holds it tightly in her hands. This gives her a sense of security."
Qin Fan's words are always a mixture of truth and lies, making it difficult to tell which ones are true and which ones are false.
Sometimes he doesn't even tell lies, but he will interject the truth from an unexpected angle and guide the other person's thinking.
Therefore, to Yan Peng, these words were absolutely the truth.
Even Tian Yulan herself has said more than once that she was afraid of poverty when she was a child, and she didn't want her children to suffer the same hardships and be looked down upon as she did, so she tried her best to enroll her children in this class and that class, and urged her children to strive for first place.
"Yan Peng, you might think that I have a bad impression of Tian Yulan because of Lili, so I say bad things about her. I admit that this is a factor. I am really fed up with your wife. As long as she contacts me, it is always bad news!"
Tian Yulan and Nan Li have been holding a grudge against each other for many years. The two women were like this before they got married. Yan Peng could certainly understand Qin Fan's resentment towards his wife.
"If you hadn't told me, I'd be surprised. Although Tian Yulan and Nan Li didn't get along well before, they seemed to be getting along fine on the surface. But everything changed after the child entered fifth grade."
"Tian Yulan is not only becoming increasingly paranoid about her child's studies, but she's also becoming increasingly anxious about other things. She and Nan Li have even had two fights in two weeks..."
"three times!"
Qin Fan helpfully added, "The third time didn't count as a quarrel, but your wife is really cruel."
"What happened to her?" Yan Peng had a question mark on his forehead.
"After the child's baseline test, Tian Yulan wanted to talk to Zhong Yi in person, hoping he wouldn't discriminate against the child in and out of class. You're aware of this, right?"
Yan Peng nodded. "I tried to persuade her not to be so impulsive. It was just a baseline test and it didn't mean anything. But she didn't listen to me and insisted on confronting Teacher Zhong."
"Not only did you not support her, no one in the entire parent group supported her. Later, Tian Yulan approached Lili, hoping that Lili would go with her to find Zhong Yi. Lili said that she was busy with work recently and had no time to take care of it, so she pushed the matter to me."
Yan Peng listened intently and asked casually, "I'm still wondering why you agreed to mess around with Tian Yulan at that time. This is totally unlike your character."
Qin Fan spoke for a long time but did not get to the point, just to confirm with Yan Peng whether he knew the inside story.
If he didn't know, Qin Fan could continue to fool him. If he knew, he would have to change his approach.
Before he could even open his mouth to ask, Yan Peng asked the question first.
Qin Fan immediately caught the details here. Tian Yulan did not tell Yan Peng the whole story.
Qin Fan made a decision instantly and looked at Yan Peng with an extremely complicated look. He kept looking at him for more than a minute.
The depressing and silent atmosphere made Yan Peng very uncomfortable. He felt his scalp tingling, his cheeks burning, and all kinds of inexplicable feelings.
"Brother Fan, what's wrong with you?"
A flash of anger crossed Qin Yingdi's face, but he concealed it well.
"The Wei Nuan Home Textiles store where Lili works has a partnership with the mall where Tian Yulan works. You knew about this, right?"
"Did they have a conflict at work?" Yan Peng asked tentatively.
"No, Tian Yulan came to me and asked me to go with her to Zhong Yi to ask for an explanation. I certainly wouldn't agree to such an outrageous request and flatly refused her, but Tian Yulan refused to give in."
Yan Peng's heart instantly rose to his throat. Based on his understanding of his wife, she would never give up so easily. She must have done something to make Qin Fan very unhappy.
Sure enough, Qin Fan's low voice sounded again.
"As you know, Lili recently followed their president to join Weinuan Home Textiles as acting marketing director. She hasn't secured her position yet, so she needs to show some results to the top management. After thinking about it for a while, she came up with a plan for a home experience center."
"In Lili's opinion, no matter how much Tian Yulan quarreled with her, they were still related. This plan would also be beneficial to Tian Yulan's business, so she sent it to her."
Yan Peng's expression suddenly tensed, "Did Tian Yulan threaten you with this plan?"
Actor Qin shook his head. "It's not really a threat. More accurately, it's a deal. I'll go with her to talk to Zhong Yi. She supports this plan on behalf of their mall."
If Tian Yulan were here, she would tear Qin Fan's mouth apart!
It was clearly Qin Fan who proposed the deal, so how come it became his own when he said it?
"What then?"
Actor Qin spread his hands. "You know what happened next. She and Zhong Yi had a falling out and started arguing right there and then. I couldn't stop her. After Tian Yulan left the school, she immediately went to the Education Bureau and reported Zhong Yi."
"I know about this. I'm talking about the cooperation between the two companies. Is there any problem?" Yan Peng asked again.
"Ugh!!!"
Emperor Qin sighed deeply again, "Your wife is really speechless."
"That day, after we parted at the school gate, I was driving back to the company. On the way, I suddenly remembered that Zhong Yi was Zhang Xueer's boyfriend. I hurriedly called her to remind her not to act rashly. If she offended Zhong Yi, she would also offend his girlfriend."
"At that time, Tian Yulan had already left the Education Bureau. She thought I had deliberately kept this from her, causing her to do something wrong. So, in anger, she sent an email to the senior management of Wei Nuan Home Textiles to complain about Lili."
"Did she really sue Nan Li?"
Yan Peng was stunned, his jaw almost dropped to the ground.
.......
678: Tian Yulan + Fan Shengmei! A flying experience!
"If you don't believe me, call Tian Yulan now and ask her if she has sent a complaint email to Wei Nuan Home Textiles."
After Qin Fan said this, Yan Peng believed it 90%.
This kind of thing is not difficult to verify, and it can be clarified with just a phone call. I don't think he would make up something casually, and it would be easily exposed.
Yan Peng thought for a moment and said, "I still don't understand why Tian Yulan would report Nan Li. Even if she thinks you're deliberately hiding the news, she's blaming you. Why is she taking her anger out on Nan Li?"
Qin Fan sneered, "Think carefully about it. Hasn't your wife taken her anger out on so many people over the years? She's just that kind of person. She always thinks that everything that goes wrong is someone else's fault, and she's the only one who's at fault."
"Honestly, who is responsible for what happened to Zhong Yi?"
Even if Yan Peng is Tian Yulan's husband, he can't lie with his eyes open. Tian Yulan must bear more than half of the responsibility for Zhong Yi's dismissal. There is really no way to wash away this.
Yan Peng sighed, "Brother Fan, I'd like to apologize on behalf of Tian Yulan. By the way, did the letter of accusation have much impact on Nan Li?"
"How could it not have any impact if someone reported her? Lili is in a very difficult situation right now. I heard that some people in the company's upper echelons have already complained about her, saying that she can't even maintain the shopping mall she works with and is unfit for the position of marketing director."
"Ah this!"
Yan Peng didn't know what to do. Even if he apologized again, it would not be able to make up for Nan Li's loss.
By the way, Tian Yulan has a really bad temper. Not satisfied with destroying Zhong Yi's job, she also wants to destroy Nan Li's job.
If you keep offending people like this, sooner or later you'll have enemies everywhere...
After a moment of silence, Qin Fan took the initiative to comfort him.
"I'm telling you this not to ask for an apology, but to say that Tian Yulan is truly ruthless. She's so ruthless to those who are even close to her, so you can imagine how she'd treat others."
"That's one of the reasons why I didn't want to get involved when you asked me for help."
Yan Peng apologized profusely, "I understand what you mean. Please apologize to Nan Li for me. Tian Yulan was really inconsiderate in this matter."
Qin Fan waved his hand. "What I've said to you is all my speculation and judgment of Tian Yulan's behavior as a bystander. Of course, it's mixed with my subjective emotions. You should be rational and don't let me influence you."
This is too shameless. She scolded someone else's wife in front of her husband, and then hypocritically advised her not to be affected?
What should I do if I have been affected?
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