What kind of experience is it for Shanghainese to drift north?

After working in M ​​Company for a month, I encountered a technical problem, which was rather tricky. I couldn’t find a complete tutorial on the Internet, so I had to go to the Capital Library.

It took me half a day to find the computer materials I wanted in Area C on the fifth floor of Block B of the library. When I was about to go home, I suddenly saw a figure standing in the next area between the bookshelves on the first floor. Familiar girls.

The other party was wearing a white and elegant long dress, was a little petite, and was struggling to reach a book on the upper shelf.Being a gentleman, I went over and helped her take down the book, and glanced at the cover. It was an analysis book of Luke Parcival's play "Macbeth" by Shakespeare.

It turns out that the foreign literature area is next door.

"Thank you... Oh, Senior Zhang?" The girl cried out excitedly when she saw me, "I didn't expect to meet you here."

"Huh?" I took a closer look at the girl in front of me again, and then suddenly remembered that she was a junior of mine in the Department of Literature of F University. We had participated in the compilation of several issues of the school newspaper together.

Her name seems to be Yu Ruoxuan, and she looks very delicate. The first time I saw this name in the editor-in-chief column, I thought it sounded nice, and her parents must not be common people. (Don’t ask me why a computer science student joins the literature department, just to gain experience)

"I remember... Yu Ruoxuan, right?" I was surprised, then smiled, "You came to Beijing?"

She said that she was admitted to B University to continue her postgraduate study in the Department of Literature, but she never thought that I would come to Beijing.I told her that there are many job opportunities in Beijing, and I came here after receiving an offer from M Company.When chatting with Yu Ruoxuan about the past, I noticed that she was already holding a collection of Heine's poems in her hand.

Are you studying Shakespeare?I ask her.

She nodded and said that she was looking for information for her dissertation, and was still deciding whether to study Heine or Shakespeare.Heine's poems are full of charm and strong irony, while Shakespeare's Macbeth brought her a sad feeling of advancing on the edge of a knife. The more you look at it, the more you will sink your feet in a pool of blood. If you don't go forward with blood... …

"Then the way back is equally tiresome." I continued lightly, "The penultimate paragraph of the third act of "Macbeth."

"So the senior also understands!" Yu Ruoxuan said pleasantly.

I glanced at the book in her hand, coughed lightly and said it was nothing, I just knew a little bit.Heine's poems are indeed very beautiful. It is a pity that no one has been able to perfectly translate the artistic conception, especially the Deutschland, Ein Wintermärchen.Therefore, it is best to read the original German version if possible.

"Macbeth" is a very unique work of Shakespeare, which can arouse the anxiety deep in everyone's heart.Luke Parcival has directed four Macbeth performances. He is a good director and the curated performances are very contagious.If you want to research this, take a look at William Hazlitt's review as well.

After I finished speaking, I saw her face was full of admiration, and I couldn't help feeling a little proud.

Yu Ruoxuan listened to me and went to borrow more books. Before we parted, she asked me to exchange V letters, saying that I was knowledgeable and talented, and she would contact me when she encountered difficulties in her thesis.I humbly declined, you can go to a supervisor for your thesis, it’s okay to work on computers, I am a layman in foreign literature and dare not mislead her.She blushed and said that her tutor was too busy...

I walked to the stairs and looked back a little, and found that she was still looking at me from a distance. I waved to her, and then she turned around completely and disappeared behind the bookshelf.

...Is this girl interested in me?

If you rate her, Yu Ruoxuan is undoubtedly a very good girl.My initial affection for her came from her name, followed by the fact that her articles were written very well, she won many awards, and her literature class scores were among the best in their department.She has a handsome appearance and elegant demeanor. In my impression, she is still a flower of their family.It was not difficult for her to enter B University after taking the postgraduate entrance examination, but it made many boys who chased after her dream of F University.

Unknowingly, the weather has entered winter.After staying in this city for a long time, I gradually became familiar with this feeling.

Although I have a fondness for the capital, Beijing will never be my home.If you don't pay attention to keeping warm, you will be very cold, and then you will miss the air filled with Shanghainese, even if the cold in the south will freeze to your bones.

I am living in Beidiao, but I don't have such great ambitions... I am a little ashamed, but I can't blame me.Because I am Shanghai Silver.

This time I was honored to be invited to answer "What kind of experience is it for a man to date someone who is much older than himself (greater than 10 years old)?"

For this question, I believe I can say that I am very knowledgeable... Right to speak:

Thank you.

Let me tell you about my friend’s experience first. In college, there was a classmate named Xiao Qiao who took a professional class with me (he was my roommate for a short time). He was not tall, and he was fair-looking. favorite type.But he has a preference (or fetish) for the opposite sex, and he likes older sister types who are older than him.

Therefore, not long after he entered university, he dated two seniors when he was a freshman. One was a senior, and the other was about to graduate with a master's degree. Both of them were above average in appearance.But they both ended up breaking up quickly, for reasons he didn't tell me. (However, I later heard some rumors that his skills were not good enough)

When Xiao Qiao told me about these things in the dormitory, she sighed in frustration, shook her head and said, "They are not mature enough."

Although he deliberately turned around and blocked the table with half of his thin body, I still saw the Galgame screen on his screen. (In order to write this answer, I specifically checked that game. At that time, the character he captured was a wife with big breasts (declined to provide tickets))

I'm actually quite surprised that he is an attribute of mature women, because he usually doesn't show it at all in school (except for the class with a beautiful female professor, he must attend every time).But with Freud and the Oedipus complex (Note 1) gradually being understood, this hobby is actually not very unusual in modern times.

After a year, he moved out from our dormitory.At first he was too shy to say anything, but his ex-girlfriend later reported that he was with a female office worker.It might be hard to believe it, but that white-collar worker is not only a rich woman, but also 18 years older than him. (He was 20 years old that year, and the other party was 38 years old) But the age difference didn't seem to affect their love at all.The white-collar workers took him out of the dormitory and arranged for him to live in a house in Jing'an District. He was picked up by a special car to school every day.

One night after Xiao Qiao moved out for a month, I received a call from him, and he told me a shocking secret with the smell of alcohol.He said he later found out that the rich woman was a married person with a husband...a real wife.Although she has already planned to divorce, Xiao Qiao is currently a mistress, and the most unbearable thing for him is that in the eyes of others, he is just a poor face of a rich woman for money.Especially when he saw the way his colleagues around the woman and the classmates who knew about him looked at him, he was really sad, not to mention that when they walked together, they were often regarded as mother and child by unsuspecting passers-by.Not long after, their relationship ended in a breakup, and Xiao Qiao was arranged by her family to go on a blind date with her peers.

So back to this question, the benevolent sees the benevolent and the wise sees wisdom, sometimes it will not only have a negative impact on one's own interpersonal relationship (no discrimination is meant, but this is the case in the current social situation), but it is also difficult to maintain a long-term relationship.On the other hand, if you really want to pursue true love, you don't have to worry too much about your age. The happiness of yourself and the other party is the most important thing.

Note 1: The Oedipus plot, commonly known as the Oedipus plot, originated from ancient Greece.When Oedipus didn't know his parents, he killed his father and married his mother.

That night, after taking a shower, I went into Fu Pingqiu's room in my pajamas to warm up the heat.It is different to have heating in the north. This alone can make many southerners want to return home.

I sat on one side of the bed, and Fu Pingqiu sat on the other.I turned on the computer and checked X, and suddenly I saw that the age difference love "Pinghu Qiuyue" also replied. He wrote a love story about a middle school teacher (male) he knew and his student (male).If I didn't know that Fu Pingqiu was gay, I might laugh at him again, thinking that he made it up for popularity and sex...