Xiu Erdai's daily essays

3893_Become the actual master

Eldest brother: "But, I still have to let go. I can't ask Yunxiazong to handle all the affairs in my way. There are many ways to deal with everything. Some of them may not look very pleasing to me, but they are not. Mistakes are not harmful to Yunxia Sect, so I should tolerate them."

Big brother: "I must learn to accept things that are not perfect but not wrong. I serve Yunxiazong, not the other way around. I look forward to the day that everything that happens in Yunxiazong, even if it is stupid or chaotic, will not I can't stand it anymore, I hope that I can accept everything in the Yunxia Sect, but that is the future, and I can't do it now."

Me: "Don't force yourself. If you don't like it, don't like it. If you don't like it, point it out and change it. You don't need to force yourself to like it."

Senior Brother: "If it's just my own business, I can change it at will, but this matter also involves other disciples of Yunxia Sect, especially the stewards who have a lot of contact with me. They are used to trying to figure out my way of doing things. , I am used to doing things according to my orders, so that sometimes I don’t even dare to make decisions by myself.”

Senior brother: "I am the manager of Yunxiazong, but I am not the decision maker of Yunxiazong. Even after I become the head, I don't have the right to make decisions. The problem now is that everyone trusts me too much, trust my judgment There will be no mistakes, I believe that as long as you listen to me, there will be no problems."

Big brother: "This kind of trust is a pressure on me, and it is also on them."

Senior brother: "When my master was in charge, the managers were more used to making their own decisions. As long as my master didn't say anything, they would go on doing it on their own. At that time, they trusted my master's ability to cover the bottom line, so they didn't touch it. On the bottom line, they can play freely, and the atmosphere is much more relaxed.”

Me: "Every headmaster has his own style. When Elder Yue was the headmaster, he was stricter than headmaster Zhou. And it's not that everyone trusts you to the point where they don't dare to think for themselves. It's more like being lazy to think, because you'll have a reliable answer anyway."

Senior Brother: "Part of this kind of laziness is trust in me, and part of it is actually trust in my master's ability to cover the bottom line. Because my master has not resigned, so if there are major problems, my master will definitely come forward. He is my backing."

Eldest brother: "But, what about when my master leaves office? What about when I officially become the head? I no longer have people behind me. How will everyone's trust in me change? Just like now, I will leave all the decisions to you. To me? Or more suggestions for fear of accidents?"

Eldest brother: "In addition, monks who focus on management all have a desire for power. Purely obeying orders is not in line with their preferences. They will fight for power. Fight from other managers, and fight from me."

Eldest brother: "It's not a fight to take away my position as the head or the heir to the head, but to get more right to speak from me. It's best to make me empty and become the head in the actual sense."

Me: "Since you have the ability to become the actual master, why don't you kick you and take your place and become the actual master yourself?"

Big brother: "There will be a lot of disturbances in direct replacement, such as the hostility and scrutiny of many people, and many people will think, 'Since you usurped the throne, then if I usurp your position again, you have nothing to say?' Then There will be a never-ending, ever-widening struggle for power until one man overwhelmingly dominates all competitors."

3894_ What needs to be matched

Me: "You became a big brother with an overwhelming advantage."

Senior Brother: "But that was in the past. Many people convinced me, so I became Senior Senior Brother, but there is still some distance between Senior Senior Brother and Sect Leader. Now that I am getting closer and closer to the Sect Leader, many people Will question whether I am qualified to be a good head."

Senior brother: "Of course, my management ability has been recognized, but what the head of the sect needs is not only the management ability, but also the ability to grasp the direction of Yunxiazong. If I can’t show it, then what’s the difference between me and ordinary stewards? Can’t other stewards not do what I can do?”

Me: "If you have been away for a long period of time and do not participate in the Yunxia Sect's affairs, and during this period, other stewards have managed the Yunxia Sect in an orderly manner, does it mean that you are not too special?"

Eldest brother: "On the one hand, yes. But I also need this kind of orderliness. Yunxiazong can't lose its order because of the temporary departure of the head. After all, there are many accidents. The head may suddenly be involved in some quarantine area, or be seriously injured. Being unable to take charge for a while, can't the whole clan fall into chaos because of this?"

Me: "...it's too complicated, just tell me what I need to cooperate with. I don't study management, so I don't need to understand the trade-offs in the management department."

Big Brother: "Even if you're not interested, it's not bad to know at all, in case someone cheats you."

Me: "I prefer to use my emotions as a basis for judgment: as long as I feel unhappy, I will hit the person or thing that makes me unhappy."

The little follower nodded repeatedly, and threw a bunch of dead branches onto the fur ball. The dead branches bounced on the fur ball's back and hit the senior brother's arm.

The elder brother confiscated the dead branches and said to me: "Except for Yuhe, the secret realms you go to are all biased toward uninhabited secret realms? Or the secret realms of Yougap, where there are people, but people are like passers-by there, and there is no cultural system. Secret realm. Do you want to go to another secret realm with people and a cultural system?"

Me: "That kind of secret realm is actually similar to the main world? It may be like the current world of cultivators or mortals, or it may be like the main world in a certain historical period. Even Yuhe, whose values ​​seem to be a bit different from the main world , but in fact, if you just say 'love beauty and become crazy', there are also people in the main world, but it's not like that in the whole city."

Big brother: "What about a world of giants who can eat glutinous rice balls in the glutinous rice balls secret realm, one bite at a time?"

3895_ uncontrollable bad feeling

Me: "If there is still a level of spiritual power that can digest the secret realm of glutinous rice balls, it's a bit scary. It seems that we have almost no power to fight back when we enter there?"

Big brother: "Yes, a very dangerous secret realm. It is even more dangerous than a purely offensive secret realm like Qi'an. Especially giants have likes and dislikes, emotions, and impulsiveness just like us. Maybe they look at us like we are small Worms, when they suddenly find us in the way, crush us."

Me: "Then don't go."

Big brother: "What if the giants are friendly to us?"

Me: "Putting your life and death on the other person's mood is always very dangerous."

The big brother stroked the hairball's head: "It's an uncontrollable terrible feeling."

Me: "...if you really want to go, I can accompany you, at least I can take you back with me in an emergency."

Eldest brother: "Okay, that's it. We'll set off when things are arranged on my side. You prepare first."

Me: "... What are you preparing for?"

Big brother: "Prepare to be bullied, embarrassed, and not treated preferentially."

Me: "Is that place for you to train your mind or for me?" 'Not being treated preferentially' seems to be the item I should train.

Big Brother: "The place we go together must of course be suitable for everyone we go to."

Me: "But since we are going together, will we be together all the time? Will we be separated?"

Eldest brother: "We will be together. After I get there, my main plan will be spent on this matter. I will absolutely guarantee that we will not be separated."

Me: "Isn't that still using your brain? Maybe it's more suitable for you to go there alone? Only then can you really relax."

Big brother: "No, completely thinking about nothing is not really relaxing for me. I still need to think. I like to make calculations, but occasionally I need to be less serious, less serious, and more error-tolerant."

I'm just a crooked thinking project?

Me: "Why is the fault tolerance rate so high? You have demanded an 'absolute guarantee', won't there be a lot of pressure?"

Big brother: "Because you will cooperate with me. Even when I miscalculated and caused us to separate, you will try your best to find me and come back to me. Therefore, I can make mistakes because you will make up for my loopholes."

Me: "Okay, let's work together. But I still hope that the place is not too dangerous."