Xiu Erdai's daily essays

3588_Half of myself

Me: "If some of my words make you feel uncomfortable, you can tell me directly, and I will try my best to modify my words. Although I can't guarantee that I can adjust the words to make you happy, at least, I can shut up. "

Senior Liao Li: "When you speak to the elders of Yunxia Sect, do you usually address them as 'you' or 'you'?"

Me: "You."

Senior Liao Li: "Why?"

Me: "Because in my sense of words, 'you' has a sense of distance, and it is a term for unfamiliar people."

Senior Liao Li: "Don't you show respect?"

Me: "Respect with a distance. My familiarity with the elders of Yunxia Sect, I mean, I think I am familiar with them, making it difficult for me to use the word 'you' to them, too distant and reserved, But in fact, I often stalk the elders, and sometimes dig up their black history and complain. If I still use the word "you", I no longer have a sense of looking up, but it seems that I have done something wrong Or a bad thing is a guilty conscience and requires special courtesy.”

Senior Liao Li: "Are guest elders considered one of our own?"

Me: "It counts as half."

Senior Liao Li: "Then you don't need to change the way of addressing me, just use 'you' to address me."

Me: "Thank you Elder Liao."

Senior Liao Li: "Don't, I'm still called senior. You elders of Yunxia Sect, the water is too deep. I'm just here to exchange benefits, and I don't want to get involved too much. Also, let me ask, in front of Bao inquiring about this kid's discussion of these things , do you think it is appropriate?"

Me: "I have an agreement with Bao Inquiry, without my consent, they will not report my affairs indiscriminately."

Zhang Feng: "Yes, that's right, those who have a serious agreement, even signed the contract in front of audiences all over the world."

Senior Liao Li: "A contract to inquire about?"

Me: "I can still believe some of them. Because I have my father, senior brother and uncle Qi Xi as my backers."

Zhang Feng: "...Elder Qi also counts?"

Me: "Forget it, do you think you offended Mr. Qi not deep enough? Not so deep that if I give him a reason, he will impulsively hit you again?"

Zhang Feng: "Is it malicious inducement to make Elder Qi a reason to beat us?"

Me: "I don't think it counts? Uncle Qi can see through my little thoughts at a glance. After seeing through, he still bullies you according to my wishes. Of course, he wanted to bully you in the first place and used me as an excuse."

Senior Liao Li: "Boy Pei, don't be too conceited. Maybe you have gained the upper hand a few times in getting along with Bao Inquiry, but Bao Inquirer has been able to develop vigorously even after offending various sects all the year round. It can be seen that it is very predictable."

Me: "I will be careful. In fact, what I believe in is not my method of dealing with Bao Inquiry, but, I believe in the field control ability of the elder brother."

3589_ The foothold is beneficial to oneself

Senior Liao Li: "Entrust your own safety in the hands of others? Haven't weaned yet? Even if you can't give up your dependence, you don't think about the people you depend on? Maybe it's a heavy burden for him? Or it doesn't count. Heavy, but impatient to handle?"

Me: "If you are impatient, Eldest Brother will tell me. Eldest Brother will not wrong myself, so I don't have to wrong myself for my thoughtfulness. If you want to ask for help, you can ask for help directly. All trusting that they won't give me a false surface of kindness."

Me: "The monks are very self-centered, so I believe that those who are willing to treat me kindly are because they can benefit from this behavior, rather than being forced."

Senior Liao Li: "Maybe they flatter you to please Elder Pei indirectly, or they are afraid that if you don't please you, Elder Pei and your brothers and sisters will make things difficult for you?"

Me: "My father won't take any actions with low cultivation bases too much, so no matter how low-cultivation people please me, it won't affect my father, and high-cultivation powers who are at the same level as my father, if needed Do things in a flattering way, then just flatter my father directly, why detour to me?"

Me: "As for being made things difficult for those who don't please...there are so many people in the world, and those who don't like me account for the vast majority. How can my brothers and sisters find trouble one by one? They are very busy, and my brothers and sisters are now the focus of attention." They are all their apprentices, so my father is even more busy, he doesn't even have time to pay attention to me, the only apprentice he is still teaching, how can he still have time to care about how others treat me?"

Senior Liao Li: "You have to know that not everyone can think things through so clearly. Many people don't follow logic in doing things. They think it's better to do things, so they do it. You are a second-generation repairer with a strong backing , it feels more beneficial to me to be friends with you than to be enemies with you, so I please you."

Me: "Well, it's still more beneficial for me to settle down. When they try to please me again and again but find that they haven't gained any benefits, they won't be willing to talk to me anymore."

Senior Liao Li: "Tsk, I'm too lazy to argue with you. Just ask about that, Zhang...what's the matter?"

Zhang Feng hurriedly introduced himself.

Senior Liao Li listened as if he didn't listen: "Oh, okay, Zhang boy, you want to start a game and explain the transformation of the gods. So, do you need a host? It is the position where the main voice is face to face with the audience."

Zhang Feng: "The specific form has not yet been determined. Maybe this time I will not show up, and only show the written report directly."

3590_ host

Senior Liao Li: "I want a host."

Zhang Feng: "What does senior need this host for?"

Senior Liao Li: "I want to be the host."

Zhang Feng: "..."

Senior Liao Li: "I want to show up in public to prove to the world that I am still alive. As a reward, I will check your reports."

Zhang Feng: "...can you give me some time, I can discuss it with my seniors?"

Senior Liao Li: "Yes. Before Master Pei's God Transformation Tribulation begins, as long as you agree to my conditions, this transaction can be carried out. After that time point, it will be unnecessary."

After the communication with Senior Liao Li was cut off, Zhang Feng asked me: "Does the third son think that Senior Liao's request has meaning?"

Me: "Not sure, actually I don't know Senior Liao very well, but since the elders of my sect have invited Senior Liao to be the guest elder of our Yunxia Sect, then it is certain that he will not do anything that would endanger the Yunxia Sect."

Zhang Feng: "It doesn't seem to mean that he will harm Bao Inquiry?"

Me: "Will your report harm Yunxia Sect?"

Zhang Feng: "Of course not. The protagonist of this report is the quasi-elder of Yunxia Sect. We have already offended Yunxia Sect one or two... If you count Huigu, there are three elders. I really don't want to add another one. Especially since Senior Yu came from a debt collection office, he is more terrifying than the other three elders combined."

Me: "How terrible is the debt collection office? Where is it scary? The debt collection task I do has become a fan entertainment, and I don't feel any tension."

Zhang Feng: "If you don't get debt collection, you can't feel the horror of debt collection offices of various sects, and it's unreal to watch the whole process of their work, because it's hard for you to understand what they do to debtors. What. Those things are the fatal injury of the debtor, not yours, and you may even feel that the debtor is defeated by that trivial matter, is weak, and the debt collection is too easy."

Me: "What's terrible about the debt collection office is its grasp of people's hearts?"

Zhang Feng: "I feel so."

Me: "You are also very good at grasping people's hearts."

Zhang Feng: "It's different. We focus on the excitable side of most people. The debt collection office focuses on the most desperate point of a person. The debt collection office is more precise."

Zhang Feng: "Hey, third son, do me a favor. Let's deal with our pressing issues first. If you invite Senior Liao Li to be the host, will we ask if it will be passive?"

3591_ Negotiation experience

Me: "I can't guarantee this for you. However, Senior Liao Li is not a very patient person. What you need, such as interacting with the world, Senior Liao is unlikely to participate. He is the host, probably really. I just want to speak unilaterally to the whole world, or to specific people."

After receiving the news brought back by Zhang Feng, Bao Inquired did not know what they discussed, but within a day, they gave an answer. On behalf of Bao Inquired, Elder Ji Quan said to Senior Liao Li: "We agree with the deal you proposed. Need Sign a formal contract?"

Senior Liao Li: "No need. If you agree, you agree. I believe in your verbal promise."

Elder Ji Quan: "..."

Maybe Elder Ji himself couldn't believe his verbal promise.

Senior Liao Li was still critical: "Why did you give me an answer and change people? What about that kid Zhang?"

Elder Ji: "We feel that we should try our best to be as solemn as possible when replying to seniors. Zhang Feng is only in the foundation-building period, and it is difficult for him to say some things, and if he needs to sign a contract, he is also difficult to write."

Senior Liao Li: "If I want to sign a contract, will you sign it?"

Elder Ji: "Yes."

Senior Liao Li: "Face to face?"

Elder Ji: "...Yes."

Senior Liao Li: "Are you brave enough?"

Elder Ji: "It's not enough, but fortunately, I have negotiated with Elder Pei Ji at close range, and I am used to this kind of pressure."

Senior Liao Li put away his joking attitude, he seemed a little upset, he might want to say, "Shao Te, like Pei San'er, use Elder Pei to suppress me", but his reason told him that Elder Ji and the attacking major were close together. Communicating from a distance and practicing courage, it seems that the most peak record is indeed Elder Pei. That's right, Elder Ji just narrated the facts.If you react too much to the facts, you will appear as if you have a guilty conscience.

But maybe, Senior Liao Li didn't know Elder Ji's negotiation history?By the way, is that meeting between Elder Ji and my father counted as a negotiation?What happened?

Senior Liao Li: "How are you going to arrange my job as host?"

Elder Ji: "The specific process is still being planned, but in general, all you need to do is to comment casually. During the comment process, it is indicated that you are the special host of this program, and your point of view does not mean that Bao inquires and is not accepted. It is limited to inquiring and inquiring, that’s all.”