Xiu Erdai's daily essays

05212-Prove with practical actions

Me: "It is easy to make the disciples of Yanxing Sect unhappy. Although the disciples of Yanxing Sect understand the seriousness of this subject under the intensive and systematic teaching, the people of the outer sects do not understand it. The outer sects still regard this as 'what , does this still need to be studied?’ Daily life. Of course, others would be unhappy when others joke about things that they take seriously; but from the standpoint of ‘others’, they only think that this is obviously a trivial matter, so why do they go online at every turn? They are also not happy. If you are not happy, you are not happy, so it is easy to create a estrangement."

He Daoyou: "Will there be a gap between the Yuanying stage of the Yanxing sect and the Yuanying stage of the outer sect? So the gap will disappear only after the stage of transforming gods? Is the gap completely gone in the stage of transforming gods?"

Me: "I don't know. I don't have much experience in getting along with disciples of Yanxingmen, but I have also met Jindanqi disciples of Yanxingmen who had a good conversation with disciples of Jianzong and Zhongsumen. No, it still depends on the individual, right?"

He Daoyou: "The Zhongsu Sect may be okay, but there must be a gap in communication with the disciples of the Jianzong. The disciples of the Jianzong treat the disciples of the Yanxing Sect just like treating the disciples of Liuli."

Me: "Although there will be some discomfort when getting along, because the female cultivators that the disciples of Jianzong get along with every day are not from Yanxingmen, but it is absolutely impossible to be praised by Liuli people. The men of Jianzong, yes The great beauties who lead the Hehuan sect can chop off their faces without hesitation, and they don't have the nerve to pity the fragrance and cherish the jade."

Me: "Look, I mentioned 'man' when describing the disciples of Jianzong. This is also a stereotype, and female nuns of Jianzong often get angry about it, but so what? Impressions are impressions, I think the disciples of the Medicine Sect are arrogant and arrogant, I think the disciples of the Zhongsu Sect are cold and alienated, I think the disciples of the Yunxia Sect have been brainwashed by the sect, and there are stereotypes everywhere. I am not saying that this impression is correct, but if you want to change, you must not just verbalize it It must be proved by actual actions.”

Me: "For example, the public's stereotypes of Dao Xiu are that they are reckless, rude, and suppressed by the upper limit, but the existence of Senior Long Linghu has overturned all these stereotypes. As long as Senior Long Linghu exists for a day, then the world's sword repair His contempt will be slapped in the face by unshakable facts. Takashi-senpai is the fact that is opposed to the public impression, and the fact that makes the bigots speechless."

Me: "The problem with Yan Xingmen's low-cultivation disciples is that they want to refute the prejudice and discrimination of the world, but they can't fight back with facts. They can only refute verbally with examples from seniors, but sometimes they look at the data. If you don’t use it enough, you won’t be able to remember which senior you should use to refute the current situation, or even if you refute it, you will be blocked by the other party’s casual sentence, “Does other people’s affairs have anything to do with you? You speak so sincerely” Go down and talk."

05213 - Need for pleasure and enjoyment

Me: "If an individual wants not to be discriminated against, he needs to be strong; if a group wants not to be discriminated against, it needs most of the individuals in the group to be strong together. In fact, what Yan Xingmen has been doing is the latter, cultivating more More and more powerful female cultivators. As a disciple of Yan Xingmen with a low cultivation level, what you have to do is not to complain about the discrimination of the world. Improve yourself. One day, among the entire group of monks, especially among the monks with advanced cultivation, female cultivators will become the mainstream, and when the number of male cultivators is firmly suppressed, the discrimination will naturally disappear."

Me: "However, I personally think that it is unlikely to have that kind of absolute advantage. Unless males die on a large scale due to genetic defects, males and females are both human beings. There is no essential difference in the innate conditions of cultivation. How can one party absolutely overwhelm it?" What about the other side? Even in the era when female cultivators were severely discriminated against and suppressed, the proportion of high-level cultivators who were female cultivators was not suppressed by male cultivators. Inherent conditions are there, human beings are human beings, and gender is not important."

Shen Jinyu: "Boring human beings."

Me: "There are several non-human beings here, why are you complaining about me as a human being?"

Shen Jinyu: "Because human affairs have nothing to do with foreign races, if they don't care, they won't complain."

Wang Mengxiang: "I still care about it, and I have also done some research on gender discrimination. After all, I have used both genders. When doing the same thing with different genders, you will get different responses. It feels quite interesting."

Me: "Well, you might as well be more objective and calm when doing research, and be less angry. Sometimes disciples of the Yanxing sect might as well take advantage of others' discrimination to benefit themselves more frankly. After all, discrimination is often accompanied by contempt, and once the opponent If you despise you, he will have more loopholes to defeat."

Me: "There is no need to appeal verbally. Let the discriminator suffer more losses because of discrimination, and he will naturally reduce discrimination. In addition to awakening the same kind, appealing sometimes seems to be asking for sympathy and counting on the opponent's conscience. It’s too reliable, especially in such a realistic place in the realm of comprehension, rather than teaching opponents to respect, it’s better to let them learn to be afraid.”

Me: "Of course, this is just my personal understanding, and I am not a disciple of Yanxingmen after all, so no matter how I understand it, it may be a bit scratchy. In the end, disciples of Yanxingmen must find a way of life that makes them happy."

Me: "I think that no matter how serious the research is, if it is to be carried out for a long time, the researchers must find the points in the research content that make them happy, happy, and addicted. They can't be supported by a sense of responsibility or anger alone. Enjoy. We must enjoy our true selves, if we don’t enjoy, why would we become what we are now, and why have we been working hard on the path we chose?”

05214-On Tao

Me: "There are many ways to protect female cultivators and oppose discrimination. Just like disciples who imitate embroidered pictures to deceive people, some rely on verbal hype, and some rely on careful arrangements to lure the volunteers into the bait. Different routes lead to the same goal. Every Yan Xingmen Disciples can practice the main purpose of Yanxingmen in the way they like."

Me: "As far as Yunxiazong is concerned, it is also loyal to the sect. Some people work hard to take care of the daily chores of Yunxiazong, while some people don't worry about everything and only practice swords and alchemy and play with spirit beasts and spirit plants every day; the former is on the road to management. Practice loyalty, and the latter maintains loyalty on the road of force. There is no distinction between good and bad, and everyone is right. There is only one goal and countless methods.”

Me: "If you find that you don't like all the ways you can think of to lead to the goal, then maybe what you don't like is the goal itself, then I suggest changing to a different goal, that is, changing to another school."

He Daoyou: "I'm sure I like the goal of my sect."

Me: "Then concentrate on finding a way. There must be a way that can not only make your life happy, but also lead you to your goal. That is your way."

He Daoyou: "Yes. Thank you, senior, for your guidance."

Me: "I'll emphasize it again, I'm speaking from a bystander's family, you can just refer to it, don't believe it, and take the professional guidance of the sect as the standard."

He Daoyou: "You still need to read tutorial books other than professional textbooks, to open up your mind, in case your vision is too narrow and you will be put in the ditch."

Wang Mengxiang: "The goal is clear and flexible. Congratulations, you have a bright future. You are worthy of worshiping the same mascot as me, and your vision really shows your IQ."

I:"……"

Wu Poping: "Are you discussing the Tao?"

Shen Jinyu: "Yeah, you two can still hear it? Shouldn't I praise you for not breaking down?"

Wu Poping: "Have you seen it?"

Shen Jinyu nodded to me, Wang Mengxiang and Myriad Lizard: "Except for the three of them, I have seen them all. Of course, there are not many 'others' here."

Wu Boyang's voice was much softer than Wu Boping's, and he asked, "Why didn't you react when you saw it?"

Shen Jinyu nodded to Fellow Daoist Next Week: "Isn't she crying badly enough?"

Wu Boyang looked at Daoyou He: "With your cultivation base and your lack of understanding of Ruanxiang, why can you keep calm?"

He Daoyou: "I brought defensive equipment, and I made some mental preparations before coming here...someone taught me some very useful coping skills."

05215 - Simplify the complex

Shen Jinyu: "Besides, Daoyou He is still young, and he doesn't have much real feelings about sex and love. Unlike Daoyou Zhou, he is not as easy to break out of demons."

Zhou Daoyou's voice was hoarse: "I haven't lost control yet."

Shen Jinyu: "Is your self-control your own achievement, or is it relying on the extra spiritual roots?"

Zhou Daoyou's eyes became more relaxed.

Shen Jinyu: "Let me first declare that if Zhou Daoyou died here or was taken away by the secret realm of the furnace because of demons, I will not take any responsibility. Even if the Yanxingmen official came to ask me for an explanation, I would still answer this: she Serve it right."

Daoyou Zhou: "Indeed... I deserve it."

Shen Jinyu: "You Yanxing disciples, if you are anti-discrimination, you should concentrate on anti-discrimination. Don't fall in love with outsiders who don't understand your discrimination logic. You will harm others and yourself. When you need it, make an appointment. Don't talk about feelings. It's two wounds."

He Daoyou: "Yan Xingmen also has examples of forming Taoist couples with outsiders or maintaining long-term stable love relationships."

Shen Jinyu: "There is a chance. For example, this fellow Daoist Jiang is willing to think from your point of view, and he can understand you to a certain extent, but how many people are there? Not to mention that this includes people who can People who understand you but don’t want to fall in love with you, this fellow Daoist Jiang is also an example.”

Shen Jinyu: "Even if Jiang Daoyou's sexual orientation is not male, he is unlikely to have feelings for Yan Xing's disciples, because Yan Xing's disciples are too able to pressurize themselves, and Jiang Daoyou prefers to decompress. Simplified things, but Yan Xingmen's daily life is the opposite."

He Daoyou: "I also like simplistic things, but many people say that I think too simple and too naive. They say that the world is complicated."

Me: "The world itself has never said that it is complicated. Our planet has existed for at least billions of years, and we have seen countless kinds of creatures. The planet's evaluation of our group of intelligent creatures is probably: 'It can really make trouble. Never I’ve seen such a boring creature. I don’t know when it will kill itself. It shouldn’t be too long. It’s impossible to live for [-] million years...’ Such.”