Xiu Erdai's daily essays

05208 - absorbed what

Wang Mengxiang: "The speculation is reasonable."

Shen Jinyu: "What else could be the collective fantasy in Ruanrou Township?" He laughed.

Me: "Collective eunuchs?"

Shen Jinyu put away her smile and looked at me expressionlessly instead.

Me: "Group sex is the daily life of Ruanxiang, and it is a fact. Of course, the illusion has to add new ideas on the basis of the facts, and add some situations that have not happened in Ruanxiang, but it is easy to arouse everyone's intense emotions. In the field, this matter has to be related to sex, and sexual intercourse positions are no longer enough to look at, and you reject the high-end technology of the Acacia Sect out of inferiority, then being eunuched should be the most important event that can make you collectively lose control."

Shen Jinyu: "Don't 'you', you are now in the gentle village, wrapped in the hallucinatory fog of the furnace secret realm, if the furnace cauldron secret realm wants us to have the dream of being castrated, you will not be able to escape."

Me: "Look at the concentration of fog around me, especially the layer close to my skin. There is no fog at all. It is treated the same as the myriad lizard, so I should not fall into the illusion like the myriad lizard. .”

At the beginning, I still had some mist that was thinner than other places, but as I refined all the mist that touched my skin into Tongmingguo, the mist left a space for me, and I was determined not to touch me.

Pei Kong: "You will lose as soon as you touch it, and the miser will feel very distressed."

Xiao Sui: "Touching the master's skin only makes it lose a little bit. Let's see how many transparent fruits you get in total. How can it be worthy of the master's worth? How dare the secret realm feel distressed?"

A few transparent fruits prove that I really poached resources from the furnace secret realm, so the furnace secret realm refused to touch me again, and then the myriad lizard, which has been refused to be close to me by the fog since the fog appeared, came out of the furnace secret realm again. What was taken there?When the myriad lizard was close to the negative aura, did it really just touch it and not absorb anything?

Me: "Fellow Daoist Zhou, do you think the myriad lizard has absorbed something from the mist or the secret realm of the furnace?"

Zhou Daoyou did not answer, as if completely immersed in her own thoughts, said: "He likes myriad lizards very much. This is one of the evidences that I suspect that he is cheating. I think it is evidence. I think this evidence is very solid, After all, besides the people who searched for the cauldron, who else would like the appearance of a myriad lizard?"

Me: "It's narrower to say that. Although I don't like the appearance of myriad lizards, objectively speaking, some people do like lizards and like them very much, just like most people like cats and dogs. Same depth. Not sure why I like it so much, but those creatures just hit their sweet spot.”

05209-impression

Me: "Sometimes cuteness is very strange. Maybe others can't understand it, but the person involved just likes it, likes it very much, and is fascinated when he sees it."

Daoyou Zhou: "I know that many people don't like the monks of the Yanxing Sect very much."

Your topic jumps like a fan of mine.

But as an idol with bad fans, I can still pick it up.

Me: "I don't particularly like it, many people still yearn for it."

Daoyou Zhou: "What you yearn for is a 'female' cultivator, not the Yanxingmen. Just like people who like gentleness, what they yearn for is a stove, not an equal bed partner."

Me: "Most orthodox monks, especially the top ten disciples, don't think that way."

Zhou Daoyou: "But when the top ten disciples look at the top ten disciples of other sects, they look at their cultivation, character, and behavior style, and they don't look at gender. Only when they get along with disciples of Yanxing sect, do they pay special attention to gender, sometimes even More than caring about cultivation."

Me: "It should be said that the disciples of Yanxing Sect pay special attention to gender first, so other monks who get along with them are also brought to care. For example, sometimes when some male cultivators see female cultivators screaming because of bugs , would laugh at 'It's not as big as your fingernail, what are you doing in such a frightened state? Look at your screams, the bugs are petrified', I can't think of the word 'female' in the whole sentence, because if a man Xiu screamed like that, and they laughed like that. At this time, they mocked the scream, not the gender."

Me: "But if it is a monk from Yanxingmen who is screaming, the word 'female' is likely to be included in the same ridicule, because their impression of Yanxingmen is likely to be bound to 'female'. 'female' is almost As part of the name of a disciple of the Yanxing Sect, outsiders sometimes subconsciously and redundantly say it when talking with a disciple of the Yanxing Sect, just like subconsciously thinking of a demon when talking with a disciple of the Demon League."

Me: "If we must divide, in fact, the first impression of many sects on monks from outside sects has the characteristics of a small category other than the big category of 'monk'. For example, for the disciples of the Demon League, everyone's first impression is 'monster' For the disciples of Yinyang sect, the first impression is "ghost cultivator", for the disciples of Jianzong, the first impression is "sword cultivator", the medicine sect is Danxiu, Zhongsumen is Confucianism cultivator, and Yanxingmen is female cultivator .”

Me: "In most people's minds, this kind of impression is not malicious, it's just an impression. Everyone has an 'impression' of other people or things that they know a little bit, and that impression may be right or wrong. Anyway, it is A method of memory or identification, used by oneself, is often affected by other people's impressions."

Daoyou Zhou: "It's not just a matter of impression, but many fellow Daoists feel that getting along with disciples of the Yanxing Sect is very tiring. Many times they feel that they do not mean sexism, but the disciples of the Yanxing Sect interpreted that meaning. I also used this to be hostile to them, making them feel wronged. In order not to be so wronged, next time when they get along with the disciples of Yanxing Sect, they will pay special attention not to have any words or actions that seem to be discriminatory, but such special attention makes them It feels awkward, and, even if you pay special attention, you will still be picked on."

05210 - conflict of values

Daoyou Zhou: "Yes, they feel that they have been picked on by disciples of the Yanxing Sect, but the disciples of the Yanxing Sect feel that they are the first to do something bad. There are some fundamental differences between the disciples of the Yanxing Sect and outsiders. Among disciples of the school, we are all human beings, but we cannot understand each other, so that some people are not willing to get along with disciples of Yanxing sect, and many of those who are willing to get along with them have... Sexual purposes."

Me: "From the perspective of the general environment, there are indeed some people who will act with sexist connotations and say that kind of words, but they don't think it is discrimination, and even feel that they respect women. If the disciples of Yan Xingmen Let these people understand where the discrimination lies, then it may be beneficial for both parties to improve their cultivation. And if the disciples of Yanxing Sect don't explain, but just blacklist those people in their hearts, and then treat them with the attitude of treating blacklist members, Then they might feel uncomfortable."

Me: "Yan Xing's disciples will carefully study the words and actions that are common in social customs but contain sexist meanings, but most people don't care about understanding those at the low cultivation stage, they even understand their main profession So-so, it's impossible to be interested in understanding theories that aren't directly related to their upgrades."

Me: "They speak and act according to social customs, and they don't think they have a problem, so they think that the disciples of Yanxingmen who think they have problems are unreasonable, and the disciples of Yanxingmen have systematically learned discrimination at the stage of low cultivation. In all aspects, I am shocked that "I have been discriminated against so much all the time", so when I encounter the customary discrimination mentioned in the textbook in reality, I have experienced it but was not aware of it, and I will be very angry. It's an outburst of anger accumulated over a long period of time, so angry that I don't even want to understand the other party's 'unintentional'."

Me: "This is a conflict of values. If you are a monk with a high cultivation level, you will communicate calmly and understand each other, but if you are a monk with a low cultivation level, you are too arrogant, so the conflict will break out more serious, and even make some Yan Xing The disciples of the sect felt hopeless that the whole world is against female cultivators. This is not the fault of disciples of the Yanxing sect, nor can it be regarded as the fault of the cultivators who unintentionally practiced discrimination. Perhaps, it can only be said to be the fault of the world, right?"

He Daoyou: "Could it be that the training system of the Yanxing Sect is not appropriate? Because the disciples were systematically taught about gender discrimination when they were just getting started, that is, when their cultivation base was still low, which led to the unsteady low cultivation. I suddenly felt dissatisfied with my disciples under the impact of information combined with their own actual experience. Wouldn’t it be better if I didn’t point out these things at the beginning, and then teach them slowly after the disciples have reached a high level of cultivation?”

05211-Project

Me: "The disciples taught by the seven great energy systems only have the three levels of cultivation of the Qi Building Fund Pill, but at the same time, the seven major disciples generally stay in the Qi training period for a relatively short time, and some disciples even have already passed the training level when they started. It's the foundation building period. In addition, although the Jindan period is still receiving classroom education, more time has been spent on missions and adventures. I often leave the sect for several months, and I don't have much time to attend lectures, so in summary Look, the foundation building period is the key stage of classroom education in the seven systems, so... that's it."

He Daoyou: "But Yunxia Sect will not concentrate on telling disciples what loyalty is, why loyalty is needed, what are the disadvantages of disloyalty, what are the examples of loyalty and disloyalty in the past dynasties... Basically, they are subtle in daily life. Let the disciples understand. Why didn't the Yanxingmen educate so gently?"

Me: "It's not the same. Emphasizing loyalty has the meaning of restraint. Too much emphasis can easily make people, especially the low-cultivation disciples rebellious. Therefore, the disciples who are willing to join the Yunxia Sect know that the Yunxia Sect needs it. If they are loyal, Yunxia Sect only needs to strengthen their initial impression in their daily life, and let them understand that 'loyalty is not only restraint, but also power and assistance'."

Me: "As for 'discrimination'... Many female cultivators just know that Yanxingmen will protect female cultivators who are discriminated against when they choose to join Yanxingmen, but they don't really understand how pervasive discrimination is in daily life , they need some enlightening awakening and understanding that in addition to being protected, they also have a responsibility to protect—and the latter is more important than the former.”

Me: "The subject Yan Xingmen is facing is actually very complicated, because it is too everyday, so many times people don't think about 'why is it like this'. It is different from loyalty, sword, and elixir. It's not like a subject, so Yan Xingmen has to solemnly tell his disciples 'it is a subject' and 'what kind of subject it is', first strip the daily routine to something less routine, and trigger thinking before starting serious research. "