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what is love?

It is trust, understanding and respect.

Yes……

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For the young Huo Zhiju, love is the most incomprehensible thing for him, because he seldom feels emotions.

Huo Zhiju's illness was born, and his family members noticed it when he was about two years old.But it was not discovered because of some unusual performances in his daily life, but because his mother's mental diagnosis was thrown out when the couple quarreled.Only then did his grandparents have a series of follow-up checks on him.

Huo Zhiju has a very early memory and has a camera-like memory. He can still clearly recall what his parents said when his psychological report came out and his parents had a big fight about it.

One said: "I am not born with this disease, nor will it be inherited."

The other said: "Then what happened to that lunatic uncle you lived far away? What happened to Huo Zhiju?"

Then, the mother suddenly became hysterical, as if she had been poked by something: "What Huo Zhiju? How could you call the child by his full name like that? This is our child, our only child!"

Father Huo hinted: "He may not be the only one."

Mom growled and retorted, "No, he's the only one!"

During that time, they were often like this, either they didn't meet each other, or when they met, they would just quarrel until it couldn't be resolved.The most serious time, the two had a falling out in public, and their family scandal made headlines in the entertainment section of the year, and even overwhelmed a famous actor scandal at the time.

The paparazzi is very wicked. They captured the most ferocious and glaring scene of the two scolding each other, and gave it a title - "The Controversy between the Huo and Huo".From a distance, it echoes their grand wedding that year - "The Love of Two Huo Huo".

Yes, Huo Zhiju's parents are both named Huo.

They are also rich and wealthy merchants. In order to distinguish them, they were called "Nan Huo" and "North Huo".The two are rightly married, a golden boy and a jade girl, and they are college classmates who are free in love. They already have a good relationship foundation, which can be called the beginning of a fairy tale.It's a pity that fairy tales are all deceitful. This glamorous marriage didn't last long, and there was only a chicken feather left.

For a long time, Huo Zhiju always felt that he was probably the biggest obstacle in his parents' relationship.Because his father didn't want a mentally ill heir, but his mother insisted on only this one child.

After the bad break up in public, the father, who was always out at night, never came back at all, as if he had forgotten their mother and son.

My mother was very extreme, paranoid, and kept calling my father. If one number was blocked, she would persevere in changing it.She will do these things regardless of time and place.Everyone was exhausted and exhausted by her troubles, and everyone could see that her mental state was very unstable and she couldn't control herself at all.

Many people think that Huo Zhiju must have had a hard time living with such a mother.

But it's not like that.Mother Huo is indeed crazy, there is nothing wrong with that, even she admits it herself.But she never thought of hurting her child, even when she was most out of control.

Even the precocious Huo Zhiju persuaded his mother that he didn't want to see her continue to hurt herself like this: "If my mother really has to have my father, and I can't live a day without him, then let me have another younger brother." He really doesn't care What the hell is his father's property, he can earn more by himself in the future.

"No—!" Huo's mother hugged Huo Zhiju tightly, her eyes were full of stubbornness, she whispered in his ear, "How can you have another child just because your child is sick. Children are not toys, No one can replace your own child."

Many years later, when Huo Zhiju learned about his mother's family situation, he realized that what his mother said was not only for him, but also for herself.

Huo Zhiju's mother is Huo Zhen, Zhenbao's Zhen.It can be seen that when she was born, she was also deeply loved by her parents.

Until she went to elementary school and was diagnosed with mental problems.

It's hard to say whether Ms. Huo Zhen was born with it or was stimulated by some kind of acquired influence, but what is known is that in the early days, she was only a little paranoid, not that extreme, and no different from most children.Maybe with timely treatment and patient guidance, she will be able to recover as before.But her parents chose... to abandon her and have a second child.

Ms. Huo Zhen's family is very rich, and there is no material shortage for her eldest daughter. Send her to the best doctor and buy her the most expensive dresses.But he withdrew all his love, and turned to focus on raising his newborn second daughter.

Only then did Huo Zhen, who longed for love, go to the extreme step by step.

Just before Huo Zhen's world collapsed, she met her husband Huo Tianqiang.The college time of the two became her last salvation.After falling in love, Huo Zhen seemed to be a different person, and she even felt that she had recovered.She was never suspicious, never questioned her boyfriend's social circle, and never checked the post all the time. She tried her best to restrain herself and did everything a gentle girlfriend could do.

Although the relationship between the two is not enthusiastic, it is also very stable, and they went from school uniforms to wedding dresses smoothly.

Before marriage, Huo Zhen was worried that her medical history would make her boyfriend's family unacceptable.But her parents told her they'd figure it out.

Huo Tianqiang really didn't say anything, making Huo Zhen naively think that he really accepted everything from her.In a romantic and dreamy wedding, she happily married her love.She firmly believes that he loves her, so no matter how bad his excuses are because of his busy work and too much entertainment, she will always believe in him and try her best to be a good wife.

Until their only child, Huo Zhiju, was born, everything was like a dream.In other words, there have never been any love fairy tales.Huo Tianqiang cheated many times, and it started before she married him.

Her parents told her that they would take care of everything, just use the evidence of Huo Tianqiang's cheating to shut him up.

It's hard to say, what did Huo Zhen's parents think, and why they didn't choose to tell their daughter after they knew their son-in-law was cheating, but instead threatened him to get married as soon as possible.It may be for the sake of face, it may be that cheating is nothing, it may be for the benefit of the marriage between Huo Huo and Huo, of course, it may be because they are afraid of irritating their sick daughter...

The possibilities are simply too many.

But from Huo Zhen's point of view, her parents could only do this because they couldn't wait to get rid of her, just like getting rid of a trouble.It would be nice if someone could take care of her disease, so what else could she choose?They certainly think so.

And Huo Tianqiang was willing to marry Huo Zhen only because he felt that she didn't care how he was fluttering outside.Huo Zhen's devotion for love, in his opinion, is nothing more than a permission that can always make progress.

All these pasts were slammed into the woman's face by the man at the moment before the husband and wife parted ways.

It was then that Huo Zhen realized that her life was like a big joke, no one loved her at all, and no one wanted her love at all.

Except her son.

She really, really loves her son.

She insisted not to divorce because she knew that she and her son had nowhere to go except here.She was sick, unable to earn her own money, and her parents probably hated her sick son as much as they hated her.She can only stay here with Huo Tianqiang. Anyway, Huo Zhiju is Huo Tianqiang's only son, and Huo Zhiju's illness can be cured.

Huo Zhen can't be regarded as a love brain, but her paranoid personality makes her unable to control herself. As the relationship between husband and wife deteriorates rapidly, her condition becomes more and more serious.

After Huo Tianqiang left completely, she was no longer awake most of the time.

It's just that even in a completely unconscious state, she has been holding her son carefully, for fear that he will be hurt in the slightest.But her love also imprisoned Huo Zhiju's development.She no longer has the concept of giving the child food, drinking water, or sending him to school. She just instinctively protects him, talking crazy things every day, because she feels that people all over the world are going to hurt her son, all the time, endlessly. Gone.

That is to say, Huo Zhiju is smarter and able to learn by himself, otherwise it would be really difficult for him to achieve what he is today.

The fact that Huo Zhen was completely insane was discovered when Huo Zhiju was almost nine years old.His grandparents both passed away in an accident at sea a few years ago, his father had his own small family, and finally his mother's sister, that is, his aunt, realized something was wrong and came to the door.

My aunt is a standard businessman, and she has some feelings for her sister and nephew, but not much.

She gave Huo Zhiju two choices: "With our family's current capabilities, I can only take away one person between you and your mother. Which one do you choose?"

Huo Zhiju chose his mother, and he hoped that she, who was completely insane, could get better care.Moreover, judging from the situation of the Huo family at that time, it must be much more difficult to take away the only heir than to take away a crazy mistress.Huo Zhiju didn't want to challenge his aunt's persistence in the face of this difficulty.

My aunt didn't hesitate, she quickly arranged for her sister to divorce the scum, and...threatened Huo Tianqiang to send Huo Zhiju to a special school in Jiangzuo.

Why choose Jiangzuo?On the one hand, this special school is really famous, and on the other hand, it is also because the Huo family controlled by my aunt is more powerful in the south.

Just in those few years, Huo Tianqiang also intended to enter the southern market. After exchanging some benefits with his aunt, Huo Zhiju finally got the opportunity to receive formal education, but Huo Tianqiang still felt that he had lost his son who was in a special school. Face.My aunt's help to Huo Zhiju ended here, she was really not a person with such deep feelings.

The connection between Huo Zhiju and his aunt is that every year on his birthday, he will receive some photos from his mother.

In the nursing home, Ms Hojen appeared to be well cared for, cleanly dressed and smiling.She has gone completely crazy, forgetting about her illness and her growing up. She has always lived in a carefree childhood. At that time, she was still the treasure of the Huo family and the jewel in the palm of her parents' hands.

Occasionally, when she woke up, she sent Huo Zhiju the last postcard in her life written by herself.

There is no resentment on the postcard, and it is rare that there are no overly extreme words. There is only one thing that she still wants her son to learn even if she is hurt all over.

what is love?

It is trust, understanding and respect.

It's...the moths to the flames without hesitation.

Love is never wrong, what is wrong is just loving the wrong person.

Huo Zhiju felt that he did not love the wrong person, but he felt that he was not the one worthy of Baiyin's love.

"Why isn't it worth it?" Baiyin stood angrily in front of Huo Zhiju, holding Huo Zhiju's psychological report, he was really going to die of anger. "How good you are, do you know?"