walk across the bridge of fog

15.

"I think the answer should be that the person who has a bad relationship is more likely to be depressed. Because this is not in line with common people's cognition, it is worth mentioning for me to think about it. But I really don't know why." He Ren answered very direct.

Duanmu smiled and nodded.

"I know, you are implying that I have a bad relationship with Wenxin. But, you are wrong, I love Wenxin. We have a very good relationship. Although we don't often go out to eat together, we are very harmonious and happy when we are together. This is The most meaningful time in my life. I hate the person who killed Wenxin!" He Ren's last words were fierce.

The smile on Duanmuqian's face faded, she was going to explain to He Ren, but now she was stunned in her seat.Duanmu was irritated, she tightened her lips, she was restraining her emotions.

Such a dramatic scene appeared at the beginning of the diagnosis and treatment.Duanmu clearly felt He Ren's aggressiveness.

The diagnosis and treatment came to a standstill.

Yu Xiaobu's words quickly flashed through Duanmu's mind, "Don't think about it, don't take all the responsibility on yourself. No one drives to kill others, especially when you haven't violated any traffic rules. Come on, in my opinion, there is no responsibility at all. Besides, who should be responsible for your own serious injury? Are you going to blame the truck driver again? It’s not over yet?!"

Yu Xiaobu's words made some sense.

Duanmu considers avoiding He Ren's last sentence, which is the resentment caused by the pain. As a psychiatrist, he must learn to tolerate and deal with this kind of anger.

So Duanmu pulled He Ren back to the original diagnosis and treatment plan.

"You guessed it, it is the person who is in an unhappy marriage that is more difficult to get out of the pain and fall into depression. This is a finding of psychological research. There are many reasons, and the most prominent reason is "regret". " said Duanmu Pause here for a moment to observe He Ren's expression.

He Ren's train of thought was taken away by Duanmu again, "Regret? Who regrets? Regret what?"

"Let's analyze the happy marriage first. The basic characteristics of happy love are deep feelings and mutual respect. We call it a growth relationship. People will get satisfaction and dignity from this relationship, and they will become mature and learn to tolerate Not perfect, face your heart openly. This maturity and no regrets can help you overcome the huge pain and start a new life.”

He Ren's face became more and more difficult to look at.She clearly felt that Duanmu was referring to Sang Huai.

Duanmuqian didn't give He Ren a chance to fight back, and signaled He Ren with his hand to let him finish speaking.

"Conflicted emotions are inherently regrettable, so the state of mind after widowing is even more complicated. Regrets for mistakes that can never be undone, times that can never be recovered. This is called remorse. Worse, deep down There may be another kind of sorrow hidden, mourning for the years I wasted."

He Ren said angrily, "I know, since you found out about my relationship with Wenxin last time, you have assumed that I am in the second situation. You just want to remind me that Wenxin is not worthy of my love or my sorrow , you just want me to deny this feeling, and then quickly forget Wenxin. You want me to recover quickly, too lazy to see my endless sadness. Am I right? This is what you call a well-designed and creative Diagnosis and treatment plan?"

"He Ren, I didn't identify anything. Because you didn't tell me too much about Wenxin, you always talked about your feelings, your feelings. I don't know Wenxin because you didn't tell me. I said So many, just want to analyze your relationship with you. I want to know which one. Or not any of the above. Then please tell me. Otherwise, I can’t help you.”

"It turns out that you don't know anything, and you can't help me at all. I have been here three times, and this is the fourth time. I have spent thousands of dollars. Now you tell me, you still have nothing for me I know. Could it be that I spent a lot of money and spent hours here just to sit here and grope around, and maybe we will bump into a solution by chance?" He Ren mentioned the medical fee again, which seems to be in her name. The hidden knife will deal with Duanmu after a while.

He Ren used money to humiliate Duanmu, and described Duanmu's help in his own diagnosis and treatment as a purely commercial act in order to resolve his anxiety.Yes, He Ren was very anxious, and she realized that Duanmu was getting closer to some long-term and secret anxiety. . . . . .remorse?

Duanmu was very angry.She was silent for a long time.

Duanmu was not only angry with He Ren when he talked about fees, but even more angry that He Ren said that his diagnosis and treatment were blindly groping around.

"I'm sorry. I didn't mean it." This time, He Ren softened first. "Please press the delete button to delete the sentence just now."

Duanmu nodded, "It has been deleted."