Time flies, eyebrows become books

【28】

The way he dealt with it was different from what I imagined. He didn't directly showdown with Lin Sha, but euphemistically expressed to his aunt that Lin Sha was not the girl he wanted to date, and asked his aunt to try not to invite her without his knowledge.At the same time, keep a certain distance when interacting with Lin Sha.It's also not my intention to let him go to the showdown, so I have no problem with this approach.

My work status was still as busy as ever, and gradually I went to his house less often, and I didn't know about Lin Sha's situation, and we stopped chatting as if we were avoiding it intentionally.He struggled with work and Ph.D. studies. His major is that the higher the academic qualifications, the better. Therefore, his family supports him to study again. Anyway, he is not in a hurry to earn money to support the family.But he was a little hesitant, thinking that only after work could he become a fully independent person, and he could think more about himself or our relationship.I also support him to study for a Ph.D., because I know that the road is long and difficult, and I hope he will stay in a relatively simple environment for a while, while also taking into account the reality.

Finally, with our unanimous support, he chose to continue his studies.But in terms of where to go, I disagree with his parents.Regarding the issue of studying abroad, my uncle has already given in a step, so I hope he can apply for a doctoral candidate at N University, and I hope he will continue to study with his current supervisor.I admit that this is my selfishness. I don't want him to go to the north, and I don't want us to be too far apart.But reason tells me that he is capable of making better choices, and I should fully support him.Everything is developing in a good direction, except that my aunt is still in and out of the hospital frequently, and Ziqi and I are working and studying smoothly.

Accidents always come too suddenly. It was already March in Yangchun, and suddenly I received a call from my uncle, saying that my grandma had passed away.It was like a bolt from the blue, because I had only seen her two months ago, and there was nothing unusual about her.It is said that when everyone was eating together, she got up to go to the toilet, but she didn't come back for a long time, so my sister-in-law went to look for her, but she didn't expect that she had collapsed in the toilet.I heard that she was still breathing at that time, but everyone lacked common sense of first aid, so they moved grandma to the bed to lie down. Unexpectedly, she died later, and it was too late to send her to the hospital for emergency treatment.Feeling helpless and sad, I hung up the phone, tears streaming down my face.I rushed back to my hometown that night and stayed at home for a week to take care of the funeral.During that time, my emotions were particularly dark, because the world and my closest people also left, and the endless loneliness and hesitation eroded me.When I was most helpless, Ziqi was not by my side. I even wondered if we were an open lover or any ordinary couple, would his family support him to go home with me and accompany me through the most tormenting time? .