After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

"That's because we have a good relationship. You unconsciously put a ten-level filter on me."

Chen Jin asked: "What is a level 10 filter? Don't you think you are beautiful?"

"The tenth level filter means that because we have a good relationship, you like me and you unconsciously beautify me. Of course, I do look pretty good now, but so what? If I marry someone higher up, I will still be looked down upon. Although I don't really care about this, who doesn't want to live a comfortable and worry-free life?

Forget about marrying down. I don't plan to help the poor. Being poor is not terrible, but being poor in heart is terrible. I really can't help you. Besides, I don't want to suffer any loss. If I am asked to help the poor, I'm afraid it's a waste of time. I won't do anything that has no benefits.

You too, don't look for someone who is worse off than you. Love mostly exists in rich families. People at the bottom don't have it. All they have is making do and compromise. Love is something that pops up when you are full and have nothing to worry about. "

"I am the one you are talking about marrying off. Who are you targeting?"

Xia Ran: "Yes, I am pointing at you and myself, reminding myself not to forget my original intention. The truth is that poor people don't have love, they only have life and survival.

Many people marry someone not because of love, but because they can only marry someone like this under the current conditions. If he turns over a new leaf one day, he may abandon his wife and children at any time to pursue the so-called true love.

Find a man with good conditions and sensible parents to have a child with. Even if you can't get along with the man and separate, the child can still benefit from the other side's power and will have an easier time in the future.

I don't have to worry about money, I can earn it myself, so what I lack is power. If I must get married, I will try my best to get it through marriage.

It is best to find a family with rich experience and solid foundation, if for no other reason than for the child's origin. You cannot let your child lose at the starting line, you must strictly control this stage of reincarnation.

Of course, if it is not in our destiny, there is nothing we can do, but we have to dream about it anyway, just in case it comes true."

Xia Ran doesn't ask for love. Where does so much love come from? She just has to do it after weighing the pros and cons.

As long as they have good character, are responsible, take care of their family and have a sense of bottom line, and look decent, it's fine.

She is no longer at the age of romance, and she does not require the other party to be faithful to her. This request is against human nature.

As long as the other party doesn't want to continue, you can be a man and discuss with her in an upright manner to arrange for the child.

"Didn't you say you were looking for a little wolf and puppy? Did you forget?"

Xia Ran: "I haven't forgotten. It's okay to be a little wolfdog or little milk dog for fun, but you can't be a father to a child. What is a little wolfdog or little milk dog? It depends on the appearance and figure, but not the family background and IQ. It's okay to warm the bed, but forget about being a father to a child. I'm not qualified. I'm afraid the child will cry in the future.

If there is a choice, I will definitely choose a marriage with good conditions first. If the marriage is really unbearable, it is still not too late to find a younger partner after divorce, but I can't reverse the order.

If you find a puppy or a wolf first, it will be difficult to get married later. There is no need to make your life more difficult. Of course, unless you have no intention of getting married and having children, you can find whoever you like. "

"What you said seems to make sense. What if the next marriage is let down? Should we divorce or not? If we don't divorce, we can't live together. If we divorce, we've already divorced once. What will others say about us?"

"No one can avoid being let down. It has nothing to do with appearance or family background. It only has to do with the moral bottom line of the person involved. We can't avoid this. Since no one can avoid this risk, the only thing we can do is to try to choose someone with good character to reduce the probability of this happening.

In ancient times, there were even princes-in-law who secretly kept mistresses. But at least they married a princess, and it's hard to tell. It doesn't matter who they marry. Some men will still cheat if they are supposed to. It only has to do with their character and bottom line.

It's like if we both really want to cheat and have sex, it's not easy, as long as we are willing, there are plenty of people who will jump on us. However, people like you and me can't do such a thing at all, because our upbringing and moral bottom line don't allow us to do so.

You see, what restrains us in the end is our sense of shame, education, and moral bottom line. These things have nothing to do with who the other person is, but only with ourselves. They are personal qualities and cultivation, and have nothing to do with who you are or whether you are beautiful or ugly.

Many people think that beautiful women are more popular with the opposite sex and face more temptations. It is true that beautiful people have more opportunities. But in the end, whether to take this path is up to us.

Don’t think that ugly girls and boys are more honest. Often, honest people in the eyes of others may play more frivolously. Because beautiful people usually don’t need to do anything to easily get the favor of the opposite sex.

It’s different for uglier people. On the surface, they don’t have anything to show off. In order to stand out better, they naturally have to find another way. Choosing to work hard in certain aspects is a good idea.

As for what you said, what about being betrayed? If you are betrayed, then so be it. If a dog wants to go out and look for shit, can you stop it or what? Or do you choose to retaliate and go out and look for shit like him? No matter which one you choose, it's disgusting. So, let him eat his shit, and you can find another man to spoil him. The next one will be better and more obedient.

What we can do now is to be more serious, careful, and cautious when making choices, and try to choose a good person. We work hard towards the best direction, and if we meet the worst one, we will face it calmly.

If one day I find that it is not suitable to continue, or I am betrayed, I will immediately put my mood in order, put away my money, and kick him out. My personal opinion is that in case of betrayal, no matter what excuses or reasons, I will choose to leave.

Because I hate dirt and disgust, I am afraid of my physical disgust, I am afraid that I will want to vomit when I see him. For the sake of my own health, it is better to divorce. You can not look at the past, but you have to be clean physically and mentally when you are with me.

I'm not a garbage dump. Rather than fight him to death, I'd rather find someone else. Even if the next person has this risk, so what? I only care whether the other person is clean when they are with me.

As long as you change people quickly enough, you won't have to deal with the shit that comes back. As long as it's not that shit, why bother thinking so much? As for what others think, it doesn't matter. You know best whether you are happy or not. It's none of other people's business."

Moreover, within a few years, the relationship between men and women will become completely chaotic.

Not to mention second and third marriages, there are even fifth and sixth marriages. The environment is chaotic and everyone is the same, so no one says anything.