Since there is space, it is naturally the best to buy it for 0 yuan

Shen Ruyi's words made Yiren furious. "So heartless? Don't you have any feelings or love?"

Shen Ruyi smiled, "What else? This is definitely the true thought of most men here.

Love is a rare thing. You may not find it even once in a million miles. Most people cannot see it.

Most people's marriage is about compromising, making do, and weighing the pros and cons.

In the eyes of some men, women are just tools and consumables that can be used and sacrificed.

The love or feelings that are reported or praised in daily life are all deliberately packaged illusions. Anyone who believes them is a fool.

Do you remember who got married before we left Beijing?

The betrothal gifts were so generous that people in the capital said that this was true love, otherwise they would not have been willing to pay such a large amount of betrothal gifts.

Why doesn't anyone mention the dowry? The bride's family usually gives more dowry.

So, don’t talk about love or not. The reason why the man pays so much money and so many betrothal gifts is because of this.

He knew that no matter how much he sent, the other party would bring back multiples.

This is the fundamental reason that led to this incident, not love or not.

If the girl's family withholds all the dowry and there is no child left, their attitude will change immediately.

How much a man is willing to pay depends entirely on how valuable you are and how much value you can bring to him.

It’s not about whether you are excellent or kind.

They treat people differently based on their social and natural attributes.

If you are valuable, he will value you, think you are precious, and think you deserve all the good things in the world.

If you have no value, he will think you are worthless, too cheap, and you are not worthy of his nobility and all the good things.

In fact, women are not much better. They are all the same. They all value value.

Everyone wants to find what they need from the other person, rather than giving specifically.

If you don't believe me, look at that girl crying and begging to marry a blind, deaf and lame man?

They all strive to be good-looking, have a good family background, and have strong personal abilities.

For example, if some families marry their daughters off to a wealthy family, they will generally endure the other party's attitude no matter how bad it is.

If they marry down, any shortcomings of the other party will be magnified and criticized by them.

Have you ever seen a father-in-law find fault with his son-in-law who married into a wealthy family?"

If you don’t believe it, just look at how people get married in later generations.

The poorer the family's conditions are, the higher the bride price they ask for and the more stringent the conditions are.

If the other party has good conditions, don't even bother to propose conditions. It would be a blessing to be able to marry the girl smoothly.

Men and women are the same. They get married because they want something from their partner, without exception.

It’s just that everyone wants something different, which makes it look different to the outside world.

I feel that this person is attentive, but that person is not.

In fact, we are all looking outside instead of looking within ourselves.

Just like those people who seem to be extremely affectionate and willing to die for each other, in essence they are not giving, but still begging.

Asking for the other person's response, asking for the other person's attention, and asking the other person to return the same feelings.

Yiren:……

Shen Ruyi continued, "It's the same for men. Their wives' families are powerful and influential, and they can draw on their strength.

Even if he doesn't like this woman, he will still respect her.

Because the other person has someone behind him, the other person is useful to him and he can't afford to offend the other person, so he has to respect him.

Otherwise, no matter how much he likes a woman, if she has no power, no influence, and no wealth, he will not marry her openly.

At best, you can coax her back to add some beauty to your life and keep your bed warm.

So when you see through this little thing between men and women, you will find it boring.”

Yiren said helplessly: "I realized I shouldn't have talked about this with you.

I talked to you about my parents’ relationship before, but after that I felt that family ties were boring.

After this conversation, I feel like marriage is meaningless, and having children is meaningless. I find that I am almost empty-handed.

Shen Ruyi gave him a disdainful look and said, "You can't achieve anything, because you can't even pass the test of eating meat."

Yiren laughed, "Hahaha, it's true. So, I am only fit to be an ordinary mortal."

"Being an ordinary mortal who controls his own destiny is an extremely rare thing, so we should cherish it.

I really cherish the present day, I really think the present day is the best and happiest day for me."

"You're right. Our days are already in heaven. We should be content.

"What about this matter? Is there nothing we can do? What if the emperor issues an imperial decree?" Yiren asked.

Shen Ruyi sighed, "It's very simple to issue an imperial decree to deal with this matter, I can indeed do it.

However, I think it is happier for a child who is not loved by his parents to die shortly after birth than to die after suffering all the hardships in this world.

So, I won’t take care of this matter.

Early death and early reincarnation is not just empty talk. If placed in a specific mood and environment, it is the truth.

How do you know that this child is willing to be born and suffer?

I do have a way to keep them alive temporarily, but what about after that? Who among us can keep an eye on them every day?

What's more, even if we could keep an eye on this matter every day, it would be of no use.

Because essentially this is someone else's family affair, we can't interfere too much.

Are you going to make them work like slaves? I can't do that.

Rather than letting them struggle to survive like cattle and horses, it is better for them to die early and be reborn.

At least she didn't suffer any more than the moment of her death."

Why use other people's sacrifices and sufferings to gain merit for yourself?

She, Shen Ruyi, was not a very good person, but she was not that bad either.

Yiren was silent for a moment, feeling a little sad. What was going on?

"What about this child I rescued today? Just leave her to die?"

Shen Ruyi said: "Otherwise, given her situation and condition, she will definitely die.

If I were this child, I wouldn't want to live. As for whether others are willing to live, I don't know.

Of course, this is just my personal opinion, which is a bit biased and cannot represent everyone’s opinion.”

"This truth is really hard to bear."

"That's it. People and things in this world can't stand deep scrutiny. Just make do with what you have and be happy every day."

Yiren still felt she should do something, "So we just leave her alone?"

Shen Ruyi said helplessly: "What else can you do? You can control this one girl, but can you control all the girls in the world?

You can't control it, so don't get involved in it.

Otherwise, giving others hope and then telling them that you can't help or save them will make them even more desperate.

What's more, the child's parents and grandmother are such people. How can you be sure that the child is not like their parents and grandmother?

Whether you keep it for yourself or give it to someone else, it will be a hidden danger and trouble for others.

Why bother? You can't yell at others just to save this person's life. Where is the value of saving people then?"