The couple made a living in the 1950s.

I really made up my mind to give up my relationship with Wang Wei on a hot afternoon.

It was the third day after I returned home from the vegetarian banquet at his house.

Before this, he had come to my house to see me for two days in a row, but I was so angry that I didn't see him.

I still remember that day, I dressed myself up after having lunch at home.

I rode my bike to his house.

I thought I should see his attitude.

If after marriage, he can put our small family before his parents and sisters in his heart.

From now on, whether his parents and sisters are good or bad, we can all live our own lives.

It was already 1:30 in the afternoon when I rode to the gate of his courtyard house.

Maybe because the weather was too hot, I didn’t meet anyone on my way in.

The door of his house was open, and just as I was about to raise my hand to knock, I heard voices coming from inside.

"Xiao Wei, go find Lan Yu later."

"We have something to say to you."

Hearing this, I moved aside.

"Xiao Wei, your second sister has already found out that when Lan Yu's eldest sister got married, her family gave her a dowry of 500 yuan."

"It was her brother-in-law's eldest brother who said this himself when he was drunk."

"If Lanyu marries you, her family will give you a generous dowry."

"Then have you asked how much betrothal gift Lan Yu's husband's family gave?"

One could already hear the hidden anger in Wang Wei's voice.

When I heard this, my heart inexplicably calmed down and felt a little excited.

"Woooooooo..."

After a while, the intermittent crying sounds of several women were heard from his house.

"Xiao Wei, our dad has a formal job in the factory."

"We sisters were all assigned jobs after graduation."

"But you can see how tired we are every day at the factory."

"We sisters can't compare with Lan Yu. It will be so easy for her to make money in the future."

"You two will have a good life after you get married."

"The only ones who have a bad life are our parents and us."

"If I save some money for the betrothal gift now, my parents will have more money in the future."

Wang Wei sighed from inside, "Sister, I've always wanted to ask you, why did the 400 yuan you agreed to pay me turn into 66 yuan in the end?"

"You still want to say that this 66 yuan was borrowed?"

There was no sound of talking in the room for a long time, so long that I was ready to turn around and leave, and come back to see him tomorrow.

As soon as I turned around, I heard the voice of the third sister of the Bai family coming from inside the house.

"Xiao Wei, Third Sister knows that you like Lan Yu and want to marry her."

"Listen to Third Sister, you don't have to worry. She has been with you for so many years, who else would want her except you?"

"boom…"

There was a sound of tables and chairs colliding in the room. It should be Wang Wei, who was originally sitting, standing up from the chair.

"Third sister, what are you talking about? Lan Yu and I have always been emotional and polite over the years."

"Xiao Wei, Mom thinks your third sister is right."

"Mom knows that Lan Yu is still a virgin."

"But you two have kissed and hugged each other over the years, right? Do you think Lan Yu will abandon you and marry someone else now?"

I don’t know how long I waited outside the door, I only know that I never heard Wang Wei speak again.

I have forgotten how I rode my bike home.

I only remember that Wang Wei's eyes turned red instantly when he came out and saw me standing outside the door.

He never came to see me again, and I tried hard not to think about him.

It’s not that we don’t like each other, it’s just that there are too many people standing between us and we can no longer get married.

At the beginning, I went on a few blind dates, but I always felt awkward no matter how we got along.

It was not until three years later that Sister Yu and I met Lin Manlin at the entrance of her workplace.

At that time, he was walking from a distance wearing a Zhongshan suit.

He curled his lips and looked at Sister Yu. She was obviously exhausted, but there was a smile in her eyes that made people unable to take their eyes off her.

That noon, the three of us had lunch together for the first time.

What I didn’t expect was that at noon the next day, Lin Xilin appeared in front of the city government wearing a military uniform.

I followed the security guard out at that time, and when I saw that it was him coming to find me, I was a little slow to react for a moment.

It wasn't until he came to my senses that I came to my senses.

I couldn't help but take a quick glance at his collar badge and found out that he was a major general. That was the first time I saw an officer of such a high rank.

He is a very charming man, knowledgeable and handsome.

Although he is already forty years old, he looks like he is only thirty-five or thirty-six years old.

The aura of being able to plan and strategize in him seemed to be engraved in his bones since birth.

Sometimes I not only find it funny, but it seems that all the men in Sister Yu’s family have this kind of temperament.

He is also a very good man, from the day we met.

He has never affected my life, but he has never left my life.

I know he is slowly waiting for me to get used to him.

When we were together, every step we took together was part of his plan.

But at that time, I had already been woven into his web and didn't want to struggle anymore.

A month after we met, I brought him home to meet my parents.

He was born in 1919, 13 years older than me, and I thought it would be difficult for both of us to get through the parenting hurdle.

Unexpectedly, after my father had a private chat with him, he was filled with satisfaction towards him.

I once asked him what he said to his father at that time that made him so satisfied with him.

He didn't tell me, and I thought maybe he never wanted me to know.

After we met my parents, we went straight to get our marriage certificate a month later.

The wedding was also held in the military camp according to military customs.

Our eldest son, Jingxiao, was born in August 1961.

This generation of the Lin family is the Jing generation.

Jingxiao, these two words come from, "Viewing Huaihai from the scenery, and Heluo from the clouds"

I still remember how happy he was when he saw his son for the first time. He was as happy as a child.

I'd never seen him so emotional before I was here.

When I was in confinement after giving birth, Hanyu came to see me.

She brought me the news that Wang Wei was getting married to a colleague from the human resources department of their company.

When I heard the news, I was really happy for him from the bottom of my heart.

There has never been any debt between him and me. In that relationship, we treated each other wholeheartedly.

But later on, as we walked, we got separated.

Even though we no longer like each other now, I still hope he can live a good life.

After Hanyu left that day, I made a lot of promises to appease that jealous and unhappy man.