Bravely enter the heavens and become a god

Ding Zipiao paused and continued:

"Women in the three realms are all the same, divided into four categories"

Luo Ying asked:

"Which four?"

Ding Zipiao continued:

“The first category is beautiful, but most of these women are just pretty girls;

The second type is aggressive and decisive, never dragging their feet, and is suitable for making friends at work;

The third type is very utilitarian, willing to pay any price for money or future prospects;

The fourth type is considerate and will occasionally play dumb to maintain a man’s self-esteem and face. This is the real smartness.

However, many men believe that the first three types of women are becoming more and more common, while the last type is becoming increasingly rare. "

Luo Ying asked in confusion:

“Why are considerate women the rarest?”

Ding Zipiao said seriously:

"Being considerate does not mean that women should deliberately please men.

It's about your attitude towards yourself and others...

Knowing how to be tolerant can help you carry the world with you.

Knowing how to be grateful can help you overcome difficulties with gentleness…

Learn to think from other people's perspectives and tolerate the mistakes made by others...

The Buddha once enlightened me and said:

All conflicts in the three realms come from different positions.

The same thing looks completely different when viewed from the left and the right.

There is no right or wrong, only different stances.

It's just a different perspective on the problem...

If you can look at the problem from the other side's perspective and understand others...

Then there will be no contradictions in the three realms….

Many times, it seems that we understand and tolerate others, but in fact we are letting ourselves go...

Keep yourself away from the vicious circle of mental exhaustion...

Always remember this sentence:

Endure the calm for a while...

Take a step back and the world will be wider...

An understanding woman, no matter what the circumstances, will never treat the man around her as her private property, nor will she demand that the man obey her all the time.

Because she knew that although this man was her closest and dearest lover in this life, this man's heart belonged to her, but more importantly, to himself.

Because an understanding woman will not complain that a man has no time to accompany her when he is busy at work.

Of course, she would not deliberately reveal that the man did not have much affection for her. She knew clearly that men were men after all, and the title of "men" given to them by society required them to be upright.

In a man's blood and bones, without career, love has no place to land;

Therefore, career is better than love;

Without a career, you have nothing.

An understanding woman knows that a good man is like an eagle circling in the blue sky. When the eagle spreads its wings, it enjoys the freedom of flying high.

When it is tired of flying and needs to rest, it will return to the woman and linger on to enjoy the love that nourishes it and makes it full of vitality. "

Ding Zipiao stared into Luo Ying's eyes and said seriously:

“Always remember, don’t trap anyone in the name of love.

After all, the sky is high and birds can fly freely. I once said that my heart is higher than the sky.

Love is nothing, freedom is my main theme!"

Luo Ying nodded seriously:

"Oh, I get it!"

Ding Zipiao suddenly turned back and said to Luo Ying with a wry smile:

"Do you think what I said is a bit self-deceptive?"

Luo Ying asked in surprise:

"why?"

Ding Zipiao's laughter was filled with helplessness and sadness.

Deeply said:

"I miss someone so much...

Love that cannot be achieved hurts you to the bone…

But I use this self-deceiving words to comfort myself...

To deceive yourself...

Isn’t it ridiculous…”

Luo Ying was hurt by her words.

She asked cautiously:

"Sister Zi Piao, what does it feel like to miss someone to the extreme?"

Ding Zipiao looked up at the sky, sighed and said:

“Maybe it’s the pain!

Life itself is a series of partings and meetings, forgetting and beginnings again and again, but neither keeping him nor forgetting him was achieved.

Memories are like a blunt knife, repeatedly torturing our most painful nerves.

Later in this long life, we could no longer see each other, and I realized that no matter how strong the wind was, it could not blow back to the past. It was heartbreaking, but it might also be the feeling of helplessness!

It seems that life shouldn’t be like this, but we can only do this.

I once thought that among all the myriad things in this world, there were only three that I loved.

But later I realized that there are only three of them in the world.

The moon in the water, the flower in the mirror, you in the dream...

But this ending really doesn't match my determination to do it even though I knew it was impossible!

I am not by your side, but you are by my side. I cannot get you when I want you, and I cannot forget you. This is my longing for you!"

Luo Ying burst into tears when she heard this and asked again:

"Sister Zi Piao, if the person you love doesn't reply to your message, are you going to continue looking for him?"

Ding Zipiao looked at Luo Ying and asked solemnly:

"Luo Ying, do you think it's impolite to not reply to messages or to send messages?"

Luo Ying replied:

"Of course it's the one who doesn't reply to messages!"

Ding Zipiao smiled bitterly, shook her head and said:

“It is impolite to keep knocking on a door that is unwilling to open to you.

When someone becomes slow to reply to your messages or stops replying altogether, don't worry that something will happen to him.

When he ignores you, he may be trying to warm up someone else. He is just accompanying someone more important than you, or he is doing something more important than you.

People’s desire to share will never change. If they don’t spend it on you, they will be satisfied somewhere else.

Everyone only contacts the people they miss! ”

When Luo Ying heard this, he felt a pain in his heart.

But he tried to hold back the tears in his eyes and asked:

"so what should I do now?"

Ding Zipiao touched Luo Ying's head lovingly:

"If someone really likes you, he won't be able to ignore you for a long time. He will try his best to squeeze into your world.

No matter what method I use, I will contact you. Liking you is useless. Liking you too much is useless. Only liking each other is useful!"

Luo Ying burst into tears upon hearing this. The emotional resonance between women instantly broke her defenses, and tears covered her entire face...

"Then he definitely doesn't love me anymore!"

Ding Zipiao saw her crying and panicking, hugged her distressedly and asked:

"What's wrong? Why are you crying so sadly?!"