Bravely enter the heavens and become a god

Ding Zipiao touched her head and said:

"A woman must live for herself...

An independent woman first understands that her life is her own

Live for yourself

Living in your true self is the greatest respect for life.

Believe this sentence, don't live for anyone, including the one you love.

You can give your life for Him, but you cannot live for Him.

When love comes, many women become intellectually "idiots" and give their entire body and soul to the man they think they can entrust their lifelong happiness to.

Little do people know that love is not an entanglement of two people becoming one, but it is about maintaining each other's independence so that the other person can cherish them more.

If you want to win a man's permanent love, you must be an independent woman. An independent woman will make a man respect and cherish her more!

Always be sure to maintain your financial self-respect.

If a woman wants to be independent, she must first be financially independent and have her own career.

Imagine a charming woman wearing a gorgeous and noble evening gown, speaking confidently and behaving elegantly at a banquet.

But the moment she turned around and asked the man for living expenses, her charm faded.

A woman's career is far more important than love

Whether you have someone who loves you deeply or have a stable and reliable marriage.

Don't give up your career for love. Career is a woman's last moat.

Allow women to fight back firmly when they are treated unfairly;

It can give women the courage to kick out the love traitor when they are betrayed in love;

It allows women to move forward on their own with confidence even when they no longer expect love and marriage;

It allows women to always provide their children and parents with a harbor and an umbrella to protect them from wind and rain, no matter what kind of family changes they encounter. "

Luo Ying asked:

“Does a woman have to have her own career?”

Ding Zipiao said firmly:

"Yes, you must...

In fact, this is for the happiness of life.

You will find that many people are unhappy and unhappy because their world is too small.

If you didn't have your own business, what would your life revolve around?

You may feel very happy with your husband and family.

You can also say that I can cultivate my interests and hobbies and do what I like.

But the people who let you do these things and give you the financial support.

If it wasn't you, could you really be so confident?

You can't!

If a girl doesn't have her own career, it's like she's treating her life as a gamble.

What you are betting on is whether this man is good to you, and whether this man will be responsible for you. But I think life should be in your own hands. It is not necessary to achieve a great career to compare with your husband.

But you should always have something that you can do and make your own decisions about.

The reason why a woman is appreciated by men is definitely because of her independence, which makes her attractive. However, if you put aside economic independence and talk about personal independence, that is all nonsense.

Always remember, if you rely on mountains, they will fall; if you rely on people, they will run away.

There is no man in this world who can be relied upon.

The only one we can rely on is ourselves!

Only money earned through your own efforts will not betray you.

Even if a woman is lucky enough to marry into a wealthy family, she still has to live a life of poverty and rely on the money given by the man.

Maybe this is the life that many girls dream of.

But one day the girl suddenly discovered that the man had cheated on her and that he was not her only one.

She found out that he had other women besides herself.

At this moment, the explosion of mentality is like destroying the universe and destroying all fantasies.

When your mentality explodes and collapses, you no longer believe in love and want to leave him, but after leaving him, how will you live?

I had no money, so I didn't even have the courage to leave and could only compromise.

If a woman has her own career in marriage and can make money on her own, would she still be afraid of leaving him?

I'm not afraid anymore!

Career is not only a woman’s confidence.

It is also a bridge for women to connect with this society.

When a woman has no career, she will find herself out of touch with society.

You can no longer understand the rules governing how this society works, and you find yourself unable to get a word in when chatting with others.

They will be eliminated by society and replaced by other women.

At this time, the man will continue to dislike you because your ideas are different from his. He is constantly growing and improving, while you are standing still.

He will feel that the gap between you is getting bigger and bigger, and you are no longer worthy of him!

But when you have a career, you are a shining presence in your career field, and you will have infinite charm! You will deeply attract him, and make him always be on guard against the emergence of competitors to snatch you away! "

After hearing this, Luo Ying's eyes suddenly sparkled, and he said foolishly:

"Wow...I want to be a shining woman like this too!"

She paused and asked:

"When is a woman most attractive?"

Ding Zipiao smiled and said confidently:

"When you are talking at the negotiation table, when you are bargaining with men in the business world, when you want to buy something and you can swipe your card without hesitation, these are your confidence.

When you have a career, no matter what industry it is in.

As long as you have a skill, these are your abilities.

When you have a career.

You will find that new life will continue to appear in your life, new topics will appear, and you will continue to absorb energy. You can also feed this energy back to others. This energy will make you feel alive.

When you have a career, you have status, a reputation, and topics to talk about. Only then can men talk to you and have things to gossip about.

But if you don’t understand anything, you don’t understand business, you don’t understand enterprises, and you don’t understand the industry.

You have not worked deeply in any industry, and you do not have any truly impressive status or skills.

These men will only talk to you about general things and they will not bring you into their lives.

Because he thinks you don't understand him, you are a girl without deep thoughts. When a woman with a real career talks to a man, the man will feel like a spring breeze, and will be deeply attracted to him like a magnet. Only when you make a splash in the chat can you get their appreciation and respect. Only then can you have more high-quality selection opportunities.

Always remember what I told you:

"Women are like flowers. When flowers bloom, butterflies will come!"