【Historical Live Broadcast】Watching videos and being seen by our ancestors

I want to go out and play

My dad: I can’t do it myself, girls alone can’t do it, and boys can’t do it [grin]]

[Me: I went to play with my childhood friend for two days (my mom knows my childhood friend)

My mom: Oh, you go.

The night before going out

My mom: Don’t go. My eyelid twitching is unlucky. I don’t want you to go.

Me:? I have already made an appointment with someone and you are saying this to me now?

My mother: Do we have to go if we make an appointment?

I:? ? ? ? ? ?

In the end, I not only went, but also played for an extra day [grin]]

"In fact, some parents are worried about your safety. After all, there are many news reports about adults being killed. As their child, you are not within their sight. Some parents will be uncertain about your safety. After all, in their eyes, you are always that child."

"But parents also need to learn to let go slowly. Some things ultimately need to be experienced by children themselves."

"I've been working for two or three years, but my dad is still worried when I go on a long trip. Last time I wanted to go to Suzhou, I told my dad a week in advance, but he said no, so I didn't say anything. On that day, I went to Suzhou to play for a day. My dad called me and told me I was in Suzhou, but he didn't say anything. [OK][OK][OK]"

"Mom and Dad: Why don't you go out for a walk!

Me: No.

Mom and Dad: Let’s go visit our friends.

Me: No.

Parents: Hey, so-and-so, your former classmate is back, go play with him.

Me: No. [doge]”

"Young people should go out and have fun. Seeing more of society will bring more invisible benefits than doing a few sets of questions."

“Parents: You are already 17 years old, go out and have a walk by yourself.

Me: I don’t dare to talk to strangers, and I follow my parents when buying things. [Crying]”

"I go out to play with the money I earn from my part-time job as a tutor, but I will also communicate with the parents.

I feel like the situation in the video isn't about who the money belongs to, but about the lack of communication and trust between parents and children.

Some parents know when to let go, others need to communicate

The kind that is rude and unreasonable and can't communicate at all...emm, we are all adults, we can be responsible for ourselves, just go out and have fun, no need to notify us [doge]"

"I seldom go out, but one time some of my classmates came to my city, and I went out to have dinner with them.

I was in my 20s, and my parents called me frantically. It was just after eight o'clock, and they called me more than a dozen times. I was really angry and lost my temper.

My parents: It’s for your own good, it’s for your own good. "

I am really annoyed. There is something wrong with me. I don’t like to talk or socialize. I am even afraid of it. I have only been out of the house a few times since I was a child. Then my parents said that I am too introverted, don’t know how to communicate with others, and don’t understand the ways of the world. It’s ridiculous.”

"It's normal. I wanted to go out of the province after graduation. I wanted to see the world while I was still young, but I was not allowed to go. No matter what, I was not allowed to go. Later I found a job in Kunming, but my boss refused to make me a permanent employee at the end of the year.

My family told me to come back and rest first. When I got home, they found me a job near home. I could go home on weekends, and there was a curfew at 10 p.m., and I had to hand in a thousand yuan salary every month. I've gotten used to it. After all, I have to be a punching bag when I go home."

As adults, the ancient elders said: I just don’t want my children to go too far. It’s so dangerous out there. If you’re not careful, they’ll be taken away and eaten by wild wolves and dogs. Then you’ll have to search all over the mountain for them.

If we are lucky, we can kill the wolf. If we are unlucky, we won’t even find its body!

Mr. Zhang from the county: I dare not let my precious daughter go.

Of course, even if they were released, they would have to be accompanied by several strong attendants. Otherwise, it would be very dangerous for women to be alone outside, and young women would be kidnapped by kidnappers if they went out.

There is no doubt that the older ones will be taken advantage of by those shameless perverts outside. If they get pregnant at home for no apparent reason, how can we, the Zhang family, maintain our reputation?

……

A wandering son: Alas! A mother worries when her son is thousands of miles away, and I don't want to be an unfilial son.

But I will grow up, too. Do I have to stay at home all my life and never go anywhere? Do I have to stay on my own little piece of land and farm for generations?

The world outside is always wonderful. The world is so big, I want to go out and see it!