【Historical Live Broadcast】Watching videos and being seen by our ancestors

[A bad guy's brainstorming is not as good as a fool's inspiration]

【Idiot teammates are far more terrifying than enemies】

[After watching it, I really feel powerless, as if I can’t even slap the screen.]

[Netizen shares: I've lived in the city for five years and I don't even know how many people live in my neighbor's house across the street. My mom came to stay in the city for two days and told her everything: which building, which day, where she works, how much she earns, and what time she gets off and get off work.]

When I first went out to work, my mom was worried that it would be unsafe for me to rent a house by myself, so she gave my room key to the neighbors across the street and asked them to take care of me. There were three men sharing the house across the street, and she thought she was being clever by finding three men to protect me.

My mom said it was unsafe for me to live alone, so she gave our key to a distant relative who was in his 40s and divorced and had been in jail.

Sometimes I forget to take my keys, so I secretly hide one at the door. When my family finds out, they tell all the neighbors and relatives where it is, and then accuse me of not paying attention to safety. What should I do?

[There's a mother-in-law in the building where my grandma lives who has a big mouth and tells all the bad things to others.]

[Everyone in the building knows that her son-in-law and daughter are cousins, her son-in-law has azoospermia, his granddaughter was conceived by buying sperm, her son-in-law's workplace, etc.

Her daughter and son-in-law are very private and don't greet or interact with their neighbors. As a result, the mole had already betrayed them.

When a bad guy points a gun at you, you can still negotiate with him; when a monkey points a gun at you, you'd better pray that the gun it holds is empty.

"I told my mom not to tell my grandma about me, because she would tell my aunt, and then everyone would know. My mom always said yes, and then the next day she would start answering my grandma's phone calls behind my back [dizzy]"

"My dad cheated on his wife, and my grandma would have to say something to anyone she saw (even if they just chatted for three sentences in line) [naughty]"

"Sometimes it's really beyond my comprehension. My mother often brings over new acquaintances to her home, old men, old ladies, and uncles. Then one time, an old man saw that she didn't set up a stall that day, so he came to her house and harassed me verbally (his so-called story was particularly disgusting). I was very angry. When she came back, I told her the whole story, and she laughed... I told her not to bring anyone home in the future, but she still thought she was innocent and asked what I should do. Should I beat him up?

Sometimes I feel really tired.”

"It turns out that many mothers are like this. I thought my mother was unlucky for me [covering my face], forcing me to look for a job in secret, for fear that it would be ruined."

"My grandma is like this. She comes to my neighborhood and talks about everything all day long. When I ask her to stop, she says [breaks down in tears][breaks down in tears][breaks down in tears]"

"It's easy to understand what parents who love to tell others about their family affairs and who love to belittle their children are thinking.

Simply put, it is because they have no abilities, have achieved nothing in their lives, and have nothing at home, but their relatives and friends have everything and live much better than them.

The only things he can talk about with outsiders are their family affairs and their children. However, their children are ordinary people, not particularly good but not bad either, so he can only pick out things that others won't talk about, such as privacy.

"My dad has a pension, and he brags about it to everyone he meets. I tell him not to brag, but he doesn't listen. Even the security guards in the neighborhood know how much money he has."

"My dad believes everything others say. He doesn't believe anything my family says, not even me [covering his face]"

How can there be someone who loves to gossip so much, telling all the ugly things in the family to others? Don’t they know that family disgrace should not be made public?

Does talking too much make me look good? Or do I just enjoy seeing those disdainful looks from my relatives and neighbors?

What's this habit? You can't stand seeing your family members doing well!

Are there any people who don’t listen to their family members and prefer to listen to outsiders?

How could it be that your own family would harm you? Inside your home are demons and monsters that want to kill you, while outside, there are the Living Buddhas who are saving you from danger.

I don’t understand, I really don’t understand. Not only modern people don’t understand, but our ancestors also don’t understand what benefits can be gained from this behavior.

The experiences of later generations also sincerely suggest: Alas, this kind of person really is, maybe he is used to listening to gossip in the village, and everyone who gets together on the streets and alleys says that he just relies on his big mouth to get by!

The more you talk, the more people will support you. You'll have the illusion that you're doing well. If it really doesn't work, send her back to her hometown, but don't let her leave the village and harm your children again!

To be honest, it's unfortunate to have parents like this. They won't listen to anything you say (ー_ー)

If you say too much, they will scold you for being unfilial and meddling in other people's affairs. But if you can't afford to offend them, then can you not just avoid them? This is also the helpless strategy summed up by our ancestors!

I dare not even think about it if they also encounter the kind of parents who tell everything out loud like the ones above!