【Historical Live Broadcast】Watching videos and being seen by our ancestors

[My mood went up and down in these 30 seconds]

[From "This confinement nanny is too vicious" at the beginning to "I'm sorry, auntie, you are thoughtful and far-sighted, and you are an excellent strategist in our country"]

[The story started when a father shared that his wife was PUA-ed by a confinement nanny]

[During the confinement period, she was criticized for being stupid, saying she didn’t know how to change diapers or hold the baby. Whenever she held the baby, she was criticized for holding it in the wrong position and was despised in various ways.]

[When she was about to leave the confinement period, she wanted to learn some methods of taking care of the baby, but the confinement nanny said she was stupid and slow to react, and told her to just lie in bed and rest]

[But the confinement nanny treated this father of hers differently. She kept praising him for being smart, saying that he was the smartest father she had ever seen and that he could learn anything quickly.]

[So, gradually, the father lost himself in the praise and successfully learned all the skills to take care of the baby]

[After leaving the confinement center, his wife didn’t learn any other skills except breastfeeding]

[So, he became the most sensible and caring person in the family]

[Until one day, his wife suddenly said that she realized something]

[Monthly nanny: Although I will leave this home, I will stay here in a different way]

"So this is the wisdom that women should learn, to show weakness at the right time. Don't be too aggressive and do all the work, but still get no thanks. You can only complain about everything, which is not good for your health or family unity. On the contrary, women who are called stupid seem to know nothing, but they live a more comfortable life. I said seem, but they may not know nothing [funny]"

"It is true that none of these three people can be missing. The confinement nanny is very wise, the father is also very responsible, and the mother is also working hard to learn. So a family should either be able to do things or be sweet-talking, or they should not get married and harm each other and the children."

"[Laughing and crying] Just like my mom. To me: How can you be so stupid that you can't even pick a vegetable? Get out of here. To my boyfriend: It's normal to be slow at cooking at first, you'll get the hang of it after a while."

“Although I can’t afford a confinement nanny, I have already learned how to do this.”

"I thought of the doctor who coaxed the child to get an injection, hahahaha, the main point is encouragement [doge]"

“At the beginning: The confinement nanny PUAs the mother? Wants the mother to suffer from postpartum depression?

Middle: The confinement nanny PUAs the mother but praises the father crazily? I dare to ask how old the confinement nanny is. Isn’t she thinking... ?

Ending: Yuesao, you are such a genius, you deserve to be enshrined in the Imperial Temple [oh huh]"

"Look at the beginning: what kind of hanging man, what kind of attitude

After reading: Good, good, you know how to teach a man to fish."

Ancestors: Look at the front, this confinement nanny has no respect for the hostess of the house at all!

After reading it, oh wow, I seem to understand something⊙_⊙It turns out that this confinement nanny is on the side of the hostess!

Forefathers who understand the video: So there is no need to always trouble yourself to do a lot of miscellaneous things by yourself. Sometimes you work yourself to death and get nothing in return. Sometimes it is appropriate to be a little stupid when doing things, and then such troubles will no longer come to you!

The women who are already married have expressed their feelings: So generally speaking, if one lives a good life at home, it doesn’t matter if he or she can’t do housework or is not proficient in it, but he or she must have a sweet mouth!

After all, anyone can do housework, but not everyone can provide the value of beautiful emotions.

If you always do things with your head covered and don't say sweet words, you will end up being seen by others as an honest, capable and easy to bully. You will be exploited by your husband's family and become a shrew. Not only will you be despised by your husband, but you will also be looked down upon by your subordinates.

You always take all the blame on yourself. Don't let yourself end up getting married. Others get married to be wives and enjoy life, but you get married to be a laborer for others!