Ancient women awaken: loving yourself is the way to go

"Until that day, the general saw his daughter suffer and his eyes turned red. He said that he supported his daughter to learn martial arts in order to prevent her from being bullied, but he never thought that his daughter would still suffer injustice.

That day, she picked up the red tasseled spear again, and she was very heroic and powerful, just like you were shocked when you saw me pounding the table. Who would dare to mess with her? !

This is why her husband changed his temper.

So, if you have any interest or hobby, you might as well speak out boldly. Sometimes people criticize you because of their ignorance."

Miss Zuo stood up first. Since she met the sisters in Zhuyuan, she no longer revolved around the third master Rong as she did in the past. Instead, she calmed down and followed her mother to learn how to manage the household and run the family business.

Thanks to her creative ideas, her store's profits increased.

Listening to her mother's praise and looking at the shop owner's admiring eyes, she felt a sense of pride in her heart.

She suddenly realized that she could gain such a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction through her own efforts.

Thinking back to her past infatuation with Young Master Rong San, she suddenly found it a little ridiculous.

At that time, she was bewitched by the sweet words of Mr. Rong San. The words "Since I met you, there is no room for anyone else in my eyes" made her feel her own importance.

Looking back now, those sweet words are nothing but passing clouds. Compared with the sense of accomplishment gained from my own hard work, they are simply not worth mentioning.

Knowing that the sisters in Zhuyuan were rescued by Nanny Yan, she couldn't wait to be the first to step forward.

She stood tall and confident as she spoke of her hobbies: "I like doing business and counting money!"

When these words were spoken, many girls were shocked.

In their eyes, doing business means being in the spotlight, and counting money means being tainted with the smell of copper.

Feeling the countless malicious gazes, Miss Zuo grabbed the corner of her clothes and gritted her teeth without showing any fear.

But he looked at Nanny Yan with caution in his eyes.

"This hobby is very real, and it coincides with my own." Shen Xingxi smiled, "To be honest, my hobby when I was a child was also counting money."

"Have you ever experienced the days of not having enough food to eat or clothes to wear? If you are interested, you can go to the west of the city and see that there are many people who have never even eaten meat buns.

When people mention money, it is always associated with vulgarity. However, without money, one cannot even have food to eat. Is it possible for people to live without money at all?

So why do you say that people who like money are vulgar?

Because I wanted to make money, I got acquainted with the current Queen, and was also on the last disaster relief donation list, with the amount of donation ranked at the top.

So do you still think money is vulgar?

What is vulgar is the people who do anything for money, not the money itself.

So, do you understand what I just said: people’s criticism is sometimes just the result of their ignorance?

Thank you student for sharing. You are very brave and I believe you can achieve your goal.

Anyone else willing to tell me about their hobbies?"

A girl stood up timidly and said, "I want to be a doctor, is that okay?"

"Doctors are kindhearted and they save lives by healing illnesses. Why do you think that's not possible?" Shen Xingxi gave her an affirmative smile. "It is because of doctors that there are fewer diseases and fewer deaths and separations in the world. Isn't that a good thing? I think this hobby is great."

The girl pursed her lips and said, "But my family members say that I only study unorthodox methods."

Shen Xingxi: "The key lies in your determination. Now you live in the academy and can only go home once every ten days. Your parents can't influence your thoughts. As long as you abide by the laws and academy rules, you can choose the life you love.

The college will offer interest classes. After the class, your hobbies will be counted. If you can't think of one for the time being, then choose a few classes that you are slightly interested in.

You can also change your interests midway, but you will have to make up for the courses you have already taken in private.

Anyone else want to share a hobby? ”

Someone started the conversation and received supportive responses, and the girls began to talk about their hobbies.

Until one girl said, "I like to play the piano, but my mother always says that I don't play the piano just for fun, but because I want my future husband to appreciate me."

Shen Xingxi: "The word 'hobby', its essential meaning is to pursue what you like in your heart, that pure love and persistence.

Whether you are proficient in playing the piano or not, it should not be a reason for your future husband to be unwilling to appreciate you.

Piano playing is just one of your talents. It may show your tenderness and elegance, but your value is far more than that.

What's more, women nowadays are no longer confined to the boudoir.

You can do business, take the imperial examinations, and use your wisdom and hands to create wealth and accumulate knowledge.

You have money, knowledge and all kinds of conditions. As long as you put in a little more effort, how can you lose to men?

You can win respect and appreciation on your own, so why should you rely too much on the appreciation of your future husband?

Girls, why am I talking to you about ambition? Because the times we live in have changed dramatically.

In the future you will have countless paths to choose from. You no longer have to rely on your future husband to change your life. You can fight for a future with your own efforts!

On the road ahead, you will have countless paths to choose from.

You can choose to go out of your home and see the wider world;

You can choose to devote yourself to your career and use your talent and passion to create miracles;

You can choose to pursue knowledge and constantly improve your literacy and abilities.

No matter which path you choose, you can use your own efforts to strive for a brighter future.

She pointed at the word "ambition" and spoke in a more sonorous and powerful voice: "Girls! Are there no women in this world who are knowledgeable and well-informed? Are there no women who are skilled in martial arts and brave in fighting? Is there no army composed of women in history who have made great contributions to the country and the nation?

The world has proven with countless examples that what men can do, women can do as well, and even do better. Why do we still have to rely on men to live?

Why should I spend the rest of my life having children and doing housework in the backyard?

Why should we be forced to be jealous and endure pain because of men’s infidelity and unfaithfulness?

Are you willing to watch your husband take a concubine and can only endure and cry silently?

Are you willing to let your life be controlled and follow the same path as your predecessors?

If you are unwilling to accept this, then let us work together! The other gentlemen and I will find a way to abolish the seven grounds for divorce and other unfair regulations, and you can work hard for the life you desire.

Remember, your life is your own, and your choices are about your future and happiness. No one can bear your pain and suffering for you, but no one has the right to stop you from pursuing your ambitions and happiness! "