Siheyuan: Rebirth 54 years ago, neighbor is stupid

Because Ma Lanlan was in a bad mood, Hu Yong did not stay with her outside for long, but sent her back home directly.

After sending Ma Lanlan home, Hu Yong felt more and more uncomfortable on his way home.

From his point of view, Ma Lanlan's performance today was not good, but it was not very bad either. At least, her performance in front of Li Zhenmin was not that bad. She just had some small thoughts, but that was human nature and would not touch any bottom line.

In addition, the lying was also to cover up for him, so it was not a big sin and would not completely cross out in Li Zhenmin's mind.

As young people, some minor quirks are understandable. Hu Yong thinks Li Zhenmin should not care so much.

But according to Ma Lanlan, Li Zhenmin almost said "get out", which means that Li Zhenmin now hates Ma Lanlan very much?

The more Hu Yong thought about it, the more uneasy he felt, so he turned around and went directly to Li Zhenmin's house.

.........

Li Zhenmin was not surprised to see Hu Yong coming over.

Since he also had to take care of the child, Li Zhenmin invited Hu Yong to go for a walk outside together.

Holding the child, Li Zhenmin walked in front and took the initiative to ask: "Are you here for Ma Lanlan's matter? Do you want me to help her transfer to another position?"

Hu Yong was relieved when his thoughts were exposed, so he got straight to the point and said, "Brother, do you dislike Lanlan?"

Li Zhenmin did not answer directly, but asked: "Tell me first, did you come here on your own initiative, or did Ma Lanlan ask you to come, or did he hint at you to come?"

Hu Yong wanted to say that he came here on his own initiative, but after a little thought, he rejected the idea and replied, "Lan Lan seemed to be in a bad mood when she went back, but she didn't ask me to come. It was my own initiative."

Li Zhenmin got the answer and didn't ask any more questions.

Seeing this, Hu Yong said, "Brother, can't you help Lanlan? You said she is suitable for purchasing work. As for accounting knowledge, she can learn it slowly when she gets the job."

Li Zhenmin still didn't answer, but just listened quietly.

Hu Yong wondered if he had gone too far, so he said, "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have brought this up with you. You have your own ideas for making the decision, but I..."

"But you don't want to make Ma Lanlan unhappy, and you don't want your relationship to become strained?" Li Zhenmin continued Hu Yong's words.

Hu Yong lowered his head and nodded.

Li Zhenmin sighed and said, "I'll remind you one last time. Your behavior is too humble. Feelings are mutual, but I don't see her dedication and effort for you. You are right to protect your relationship, and it's not difficult for me to help. But put yourself in her shoes and think about it. Is she protecting your relationship?"

"You give her a foot, but has she ever given you an inch in return? You are only giving unilaterally, while she is only taking unilaterally."

"If she hinted at the job transfer and lied to me during dinner because she was impatient and young and ignorant, then it's not a matter of maturity or immaturity to ask for it one-sidedly, but she doesn't like you that much."

Hu Yong looked at Li Zhenmin blankly, with a kind of clear and stupid attitude towards emotions in his eyes.

Li Zhenmin continued helplessly: "To put it another way, if I were her, I wouldn't be so flamboyant when we first met, nor would I be so eager to show myself, and I certainly wouldn't make demands when we first met. This is an extremely stupid behavior."

"Besides, even if I really did that, I should be able to react in time after receiving a polite refusal from others."

"Let's take a step back and say that even if they didn't react very well, they wouldn't complain, hint, or instruct you to come forward and continue to plead for mercy on this matter afterwards."

"Think about it, she acted stupid the whole time, didn't realize it, and insisted on her own opinion. When she was rejected, she was incapable of achieving her goal, so she put emotional pressure on you and asked you to solve the problem. Do you really think this kind of person has no problem with his character?"

"If I were him, I wouldn't let you come over, because that would only deepen my bad impression of her. What she should do is listen to my advice, go back and study hard, and then come here to see me every now and then in your name and bring some gifts for the children and the elderly."

"Is it possible that we have become closer? Even if I don't like her, I won't chase her away or refuse to let her in for your sake, right? And if she behaves a little more sensible, won't I change my opinion of her?"

"Also, if I were her, I would remind you to handle your relationship with me well, urge you to make progress, and grow with you, instead of putting pressure on you to bear the brunt of things that I cannot do myself."

"She doesn't like you, but because she doesn't have the ability but wants to get more, so you become her stepping stone. What you are doing now is kneeling on the ground to provide a stepping stone for her to pick the fruit effortlessly."

Hu Yong's brain almost exploded after hearing this: "Maybe she is just willful and ignorant, not that..."

Li Zhenmin interrupted directly: "You don't need to make excuses for her, nor for yourself. If she liked you a little bit, she wouldn't do such a thing. If she liked you a little bit."

Seeing that Hu Yong was having trouble understanding, Li Zhenmin thought of something and said, "You have been together for so long, have you ever thought about the specific situation of her family? What is her family's attitude towards you? Has she ever praised you in front of others? Have you told her about our family's situation?"

"Because you like her, you want to give her everything you know, have, or may have without reservation, so that she can feel your love, but why doesn't she do the same as you?"

Hu Yong subconsciously retorted: "I didn't ask..."

Li Zhenmin was speechless: "Did you not ask, or was she ambiguous and you were too embarrassed to ask? Besides, shouldn't some things be said proactively? Why do you need others to ask? Even if you don't say it proactively, you won't be vague, right?"

Hu Yong: "..."

Li Zhenmin sighed and said, "I didn't reject her because she was immature, but because she didn't care about your feelings, she didn't like you, and her behavior was problematic, so I rejected her. When I rejected her, I also gave her advice, which was a disguised promise to her, right? As long as she does what I say, as long as she thinks about you a little, won't I help her? But she didn't, and she used these little tricks again and again."

Hu Yong curled his lips and said, "Brother, aren't you asking too much of her? Not many people can be so perfect at this age."

Li Zhenmin said unhappily, "I treat her as your partner, and I require her to be my sister-in-law. I don't like and hate my family members to scheme against each other. Do you know why I didn't beat you up now? It's because although you are not mature enough, you won't play tricks on me, and you won't say one thing to me and another behind my back. Because of this, I am willing to support you and train you."

"It's the same with my mom. It's because she's kind and she doesn't scheme like some people in the compound to get benefits from my family that I've been trying to bring her and dad together. Finally, we succeeded and became a family."

"Now do you understand what a family is?"