I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 216: Kick Them Out If You Bark Again

Lin Feng: "Brothers, what do you say about this?

In fact, many times people cannot communicate their feelings, even couples.

You said that from a boy's perspective: I work hard for my career, for my connections, for my family, and I strive to make progress and work hard to give my family a better life.

Maybe from the woman's perspective: You leave me alone at home, and you are so tired, and you are so carefree and happy outside, and you don't even take a shower when you come home, and you don't care about your health, who will take care of you when you are sick in your old age. "

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"I'm only making 3,000 yuan and I have to socialize every day, so of course I'll complain about you. But if you're making 30,000 yuan, do you still complain? (dog head)"

"You're wrong. I'm 40 years old and I've never touched alcohol in my life. I can balance work and family."

"Dude, that's just your industry, or you're very capable, but others are not like you. You might be able to do something with two glasses of wine, but I'm going to drink until my stomach bleeds. Can you say I don't want to do things easily?"

"Yes, maybe you have a good education, a good job, or even a good family background, but I don't. If I don't act like a grandson, who will care about me? Nowadays, even street sweepers have to look for people with connections (crying to death)."

"It's really easy to talk when you're standing. I was discussing an order with my boss, and the other side said if you drink 52 of this 10-proof cup, you can get the container job. Do you think I should drink it (grin)?"

"Yes, people are different. You can't use your working methods to model other people. After all, they are in different circles, have different bosses, and have different clients."

Stop arguing!
Let me summarize.

The stream flows: "Making money is called socializing, and not making money is called fooling around (smile)."

elder brother,
Heartbreaking.

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Everyone has their own opinions on the public screen.

Lin Feng touched his stomach and felt a little hungry.

"Brother Shui, how about getting some takeout?"

Yu Huanshui looked at the time and said, "It's expensive to order takeout at this time. I'll go back and see what's left in the refrigerator and make some."

“That’s great.”

Lin Feng has tasted Shui Ge’s cooking and has nothing to say about it.

"Okay, you just live stream it first, and I'll bring it to you when it's done."

"OK! By the way, here is the room key, take it with you, so I don't have to open the door for you later."

"it is good!"

Yu Huanshui took the key and left.

Lin Feng stretched and continued the live broadcast.

Ding~
"Hello, military advisor."

It's a boy.

Raymond Lam: "Hello buddy, what's the problem?"

"Hello, Military Advisor. I am 28 and she is 25. We have been married for two years."

Raymond Lam: "Do you have any children?"

"some."

Raymond Lam: “How old?”

"Seven months."

Lin Feng: "What's the problem now?"

"The average price here was 120 million at the time, and I gave 70, so she didn't have a good relationship with his family."

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Raymond Lam: "What the hell is priced at 120 million?"

"It's a gift."

???

Raymond Lam: "You're marrying a wife from Mars with a gift of 120 million."

"I couldn't afford 120 million, so I only gave 70."

Raymond Lam: "70 is scary, no buddy, where are you from?"

"My FJ."

Lin Feng looked towards the live broadcast room: "Is this place so awesome, guys?"

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"FJ dared to ask for 120 million, so the dowry should be quite a lot."

"For a decent girl from F state, if the bride price is 120, congratulations, you've made a lot of money. The dowry will definitely be several times more."

"Yes, I gave my nephew 200 million yuan as a betrothal gift when he got married, but he gave me a BMW and a house as a return gift."

"Why did our in-laws, FJ, only give 20 yuan as a betrothal gift (bewildered)?"

"There are houses worth hundreds of thousands in the city, and the prices are higher in towns close to the coast."

"The man gave 100 million yuan, and the woman paid back more than 100 million yuan."

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "It seems that this is indeed the case with you guys, but buddy, we have also received a lot of dowry, right?"

Boy: "What dowry? Zero, none."

Lin Feng: "No, there's no quilt?"

Boy: "Yes, I don't even have any quilts. I bought them all myself."

Raymond Lam: "Is the other party's family well off?"

"so so."

Lin Feng: "Above you?"

"No."

Lin Feng: "Does this 120 million include the house?"

"We don't have the concept of buying a house here, we all build our own houses."

Lin Feng nodded: "What about the floors?"

"Fifth floor!"

I knock,

Big villa, man.

Raymond Lam: "70 yuan for the betrothal gift, plus a 5-story villa, what the hell do you want a bicycle for?"

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"FJ people, tell me the truth, are all your villas five stories high?"

"My house is on the seventh floor and has an elevator (dog head)."

"Sister, are you looking for a son-in-law? The kind that can give your child your last name (wink)."

"Sister, I'm your half-sister, let me stay with you for a while (shy)."

"As a person from southern Fujian, I didn't believe it at first, until I went to Quanzhou and really saw many five- or six-story villas (I was envious)."

"How do they make money? (Confused)"

"Because he's smart and can do business."

"Excuse me, there are two kinds of people in FJ, the wealthy and blessed, and the poor and built people like me (smile)."

"I am the same as you, but a little different. I am Jianren without blessings (sunglasses)."

"Then I am the fourth type, a Jian person with neither money nor blessings (crying)."

It breaks my heart, old man.

Hahahaha.

. . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Anyway, you have been married for two years and have a child, what else is the problem?"

Boy: "I don't know either. She used to call her mother all the time, and she didn't argue with me much during that time. But recently she stopped calling and argued with me every day."

Lin Feng: "What are you arguing about? There must be something specific, right?"

Boy: "Just last night, I just didn't wash the dishes, why are you making trouble with me?

Because I was doing cross-border business, I was quite busy and I was probably in a bad mood, so I got angry.
Then I ignored her today. I went out for a social event in the evening. I haven't returned yet. I'm standing on the side of the road and don't want to go back.

Then she kept NMSing me on WeChat, asking if I was on the road, ouch."

Lin Feng: "Brother, please don't stay on the road. I can hear the sound of cars whizzing past. It's late at night, and I'm worried that something might happen to you."

Boy: "It's okay, I didn't drive, I was parked on the side of the road. Let me tell you, we had no money when we first got married because I had emptied my pockets."

Raymond Lam: "Didn't you bring back the 70 yuan betrothal gift, buddy?"

The boy laughed: "How can I bring it back to you?"

Lin Feng: "Isn't it in your wife's hands?"

Boy: "Of course, they are all in her parents' hands."

Lin Feng shook his head: "You said that we are setting up a new family together, and the meaning of the betrothal gift is to be used for the common expenses of the couple and the raising of children after we get married.

But some girls think that giving the betrothal gift to their parents can serve as a guarantee for their marriage.

Once you divorce me, at least I will have 70 yuan in security.

But the facts prove that 70 yuan cannot guarantee anything, nor can it determine your future happiness in life.

I often tell my brothers that the key to happiness is for a couple to work together and be of one mind. "

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"I dated my first love for five years. The betrothal gift was 18 yuan, the engagement gift was 6.6 yuan, and the real estate certificate was in her name. She said the betrothal gift and the real estate certificate were a guarantee for the woman. I was silent when I heard that. I gave the woman a guarantee, but who can give me a guarantee?"

"You thought your friendship would be a relationship, but you didn't expect it to end up as a transaction (smile)."

Hey!
"In fact, I think that the girl's betrothal gift should not only be taken back, but her parents should also give half of it. Life is all about the children's well-being, not about the poor family and the rich family."

like.

"Haha, don't even mention bringing it back, my dad would feel it's a steal if I could bring back half of it."

"My mother is the same. She holds the betrothal gift in her own hands. If she doesn't give me a penny, I will be so angry. I will not provide her with retirement funds in the future. Let her keep the money for her own retirement."

"Shouldn't the betrothal gift be the start-up capital given by both parents to the newlyweds to form a small family? What is there to discuss?"

"But some people don't think so (dog head)."

Impressed!

It's all selfish!

. . . . . .

Boy: "Whenever we quarrel, she brings up the betrothal gift and says that I have a bad attitude." Lin Feng laughed: "What kind of attitude do you want for a 70 betrothal gift?"

Boy: "Because she wanted 120 million, and I didn't give it to her. Her father even said in a sarcastic tone that he didn't have to ask for 120 million, but just wanted to see my attitude. Then my wife got even angrier with me."

Lin Feng shook his head: "Brother, wake up and don't be misled."

He tapped the blackboard and said, "Do you know the logic behind this? It's like someone asking you whether money or face is more important?

I tell you, the answer is definitely money is important.

For example, if a person who earns tens of millions a year gives you a dowry of 50 yuan, this attitude doesn’t seem very good, right?

And if a person who earns 5 yuan a year gives you a dowry of 8 yuan, there is nothing wrong with his attitude.

So which one do you choose?

Only a fool would not choose 50.

Therefore, this so-called attitude is nothing more than a fig leaf for marriage sellers.

The so-called attitude of the dowry is used to make things difficult for the poor.

I say I don’t care if you are poor, I only care about your attitude towards me, but in my heart and actions I have already marked the price.

He has you in his arms and knows you have no choice, so he's trying to extort money from you by getting married.

Because if I directly tell you that you are poor, I will appear to be very snobbish, so I will accuse you of having a bad attitude.

He is just being cunning and profit-seeking.

For the rich, dowry and attitude are an exchange of value.

They didn't dare to ask for a price directly from the rich because they would be seen through for wanting to sell their daughter to get rich.

How to do it?

Show your attitude. Rich people can give as much as they want, and they dare not act rashly.

After all, rich people have no shortage of partners, so if this one is gone, they can just find another one.

Just like when you were a kid, you studied very hard, but as long as your grades didn’t improve, your parents and teachers would definitely say that you had a bad attitude towards studying.

Is it really a matter of attitude?
You have no way to refute it.

Because what they want is just the final score, not the process, let alone the attitude.

If you look at other couples who are in a serious relationship, when they get married, both families and the couple usually serve the family together.

The man gives the betrothal gift and the woman gives the dowry, which contains the love and blessings of the parents and is taken back to the small home.
The money remains in the hands of young people and has nothing to do with their parents.

The so-called attitude is just a fig leaf to cover up bargaining.

He wants face, but he also wants money, and he is playing both sides.

After all, being so incompetent that one has to sell his daughter to make a living is shameful in itself.

But with the word attitude, the feeling immediately becomes different.

It's reasonable to take money out of your pocket.

Therefore, people who use the word "attitude" to kidnap others are generally hypocritical and greedy. "

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

Qingnan: "Oh my god, has this man been hurt by a woman?"

Gouzi: "Have you ever been hurt by a man (smile)?"

Xixi: "Oh, I see. What it means is that the girl's parents help you raise the woman for free, send her to your home when she grows up, and have her serve your whole family, right (vomit)."

Xiao Wan: "Sister, which wife is there who serves her parents-in-law now? Don't make trouble for no reason."

Yaoyao: "That's right, and the military advisor was talking about some girls' parents, so don't bring that into it (thank you)."

Shi Chen: "If you don't want to give a betrothal gift, you can just not get married, and then you don't have to face this problem (rolling eyes)."

Stranger: "You can also choose not to get married, so you don't have to quarrel with others (disdain)."

Mr. Xu: "Oh my god, how come so many women suddenly come into the room!"

Brother Long: "Military Advisor, please be more careful when you speak, or you will lose followers!"

July: "It's fine if it's gone. I'm not a die-hard fan anyway."

Xiao Heliu: "It's time to talk about marriage. It's impossible for the woman to not know the man's financial situation. In this case, for girls who still ask for a high betrothal gift that the man can't afford, I just want to say that of course money is important, but you are worthless, and the time I spent with you is like feeding a dog! The same question is asked in reverse, which one is more important, the husband or the betrothal gift?"

"Brother, what you said is really good (applause)!"

“Comfortable (haha).”

"The last rhetorical question is absolutely amazing (thumbs up)!"

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng glanced at the comments and said, "I can only say that this is a difference in thinking. You must say that there is something wrong with what these girls said, right?
nor.

It's nothing more than trying to gain more benefits for yourself.

But what is the question now?
You can't confuse concepts.

If you talk about feelings, then let's all think about each other. You can't say that you know the other person doesn't have that much, but you still have to have it.

If you don’t give it to me, I’ll say that the other person has no attitude.

Then tell me what attitude is?

I will sell everything I have and go into debt to give you enough for the bride price.

In the end, you're still doing it for money.

Then just be clear, I won’t marry you without this money.

You can't ask for money while also labeling others as not loving enough.

Aren't you being a hooligan?

When talking about money, the price must be clearly stated and not a penny less.

If you can put it together, put it together. If you can’t, split it up.

straightforward.

When talking about a relationship, you have to take into account the other person's actual economic conditions. Everyone should be more tolerant of each other, work hard together, and stop talking about yours and mine.

Right, brothers.

Some girls are just stupid and have no opinions of their own.

He said my family needs 18 yuan, and his family needs 8 yuan.

How to do?
So what do you think we should do?
You fucking know that his family only has 16.

What can you do if you are short of 2 yuan?
What can you do with an extra 2 yuan?
You know he doesn't have that 2, but you still insist that you don't love me enough.

You said you pushed him too hard.

Even if he did everything he could to get the 2 yuan together, he must have been holding a lot of anger before the marriage.

Because you don't understand me.

Then I will definitely find fault with you after we get married.

Think about it yourself, can you live well?
The reason you chose to marry him was because you liked him as a person and wanted to live with him. You were thinking that if life became difficult in the future or if you got sick, he would always take care of you and be good to you.

Isn't this what you should be investigating?
As a result, you are now investigating the bride price.

I just want to ask you, if I give you the 18 or 8, how many years can it guarantee you?

Isn’t the most important thing for the couple to be of one mind and stick together through thick and thin?

Now you are insisting on the bride price and making things difficult for him, yet you are still expecting him to be gentle and considerate to you after marriage. Aren't you just dreaming?

I saw someone on the public screen saying that if others were making 18, why was my salary only 8.

Isn't this just like you putting a price on yourself?

You are only worth 18?
If you really want to count the money, let me tell you that as a human being, you are definitely not measured by money.

So no matter how you calculate it, you are losing money.

The key is what you think.

If you think that this man is going to spend his life with me, love me all his life, and put me first, then tell me what you have lost?

Now you focus on money, you put a price on yourself and devalue yourself.

You say you are fucking stupid?
It’s not that he doesn’t want to give it, he just really doesn’t have it.

You know clearly that he has no money, yet you still ask his whole family to go out and borrow money to give you the bride price.

If the whole family pays it back together after marriage, the other person will definitely feel resentful towards you.

What the hell do you want?

You're shouting about women's rights and equality, but why is there no equality now?

Just tell me the truth and I'll shout.

Yell, yell, yell,
Call you sister!"

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"Hahahaha, killing like crazy, killing like crazy."

"The military advisor has gone mad with killing intent!"

"If you keep barking, you'll be kicked out."

"I think what the military advisor said is still one-sided. If you meet a good man, it's fine not to ask for a bride price, but if you meet a bad man, not asking for a bride price is just digging a hole for yourself."

"What are you trying to do? You've already said he's a bad person. Will he become a good person just because you asked for a gift?"

"That's right, you are an adult, you have to be able to withstand risks. Just like the military advisor said, you can't say that men and women are equal and at the same time emphasize that you are a vulnerable group."

"If you think this man is not right and there are risks, then don't marry him. As someone who has been through this, I can tell you that if there is a problem in a marriage, it must be the person who has the problem, not the gift."

That's so true.

Gouzi: "A woman heard it, and I ate my phone."

Yanghua: "I heard you. Please eat your phone (smile)."

Lemon: "I heard that too. Eat two sets (rolling eyes)."

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Gouzi: ...

Hahaha.

Xiao Wan: "Sisters, this is really not Gouzi's fault. Look at the people above, their words are full of malice (laughing to death)."

Dai Miao: "I understand. Actually, it's the parents who don't listen."

Ruhua: "Yes, and I have been watching this anchor for two days. He has a very positive outlook and often speaks up for us girls."

Uh-huh.

"Welcome to join the big family of military advisors."