I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 204: You're not giving up, are you? Give me your boyfriend's phone number

Lin Feng: "Brother, I've given you the answer. Just figure out what to do."

"Thank you, military advisor."

The boy left.

Yu Huanshui: "What about the fourth and fifth years?"

The public screen was also asking curiously.

Isn't that five paragraphs?
Why only three sections?
Lin Feng smiled and said, "Because this year is the third year."

Everyone was stunned.

. . . . .

On the barrage

First letter: In my heart, I have already married you once.

Second letter: I hope you are happy because that is my greatest wish.

The third letter: If the world is noisy, then we can hide away and be happy quietly.

We are waiting for the next two letters. See you next year after five years.

"No, don't you think it's cruel to leave five voice messages for a boy? I was almost getting over it, but the memory of my death suddenly attacked me, over and over again. I was tortured for five years."

"Yeah, this woman is really cruel. She stabs me once a year (terrifying)."

"This is not a recording, this is a sharp knife, one knife a year, each knife goes straight to the heart."

"Have you ever thought about the fact that men live five extra years?"

"If that's what you said, then why not leave 10 or 20 voice messages?"

"Because she just wanted the boy to gradually forget the pain of losing her and start a new life, she didn't really want him to remember her forever."

correct answer!

"And without that voice message, the boy might have gone with the girl and died the night after the funeral.

"That's the right comment, thank you stranger."

"Wow, I'm so touched. I've already started fantasizing about having a girlfriend (crying)."

Go against Tiangang!

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Raymond Lam:

"Love cannot defeat death, but it can warm death. And maybe... there are miracles?"

Come on buddy!

Come,
cheer,

Next person!
Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor!"

It's a girl.

Raymond Lam: "Hello, do you have any emotional problems?"

Girl: "What I want to ask is how to get over a breakup. Military advisor, please don't scold me."

? ?
Raymond Lam: "Why should I scold you?"

Girl: "Because I just begged him not to break up, but I failed."

Lin Feng shook his head: "Sister, when we say that a person's value can never be improved by begging for another person's change of heart,
Your personal charm and personal value can only be reflected when you leave him.

You have to understand,

When does a person love you the most?

That must be the time when he loves me the most when I don't love him.

why?
Because when you don't love him, you can spend more time and attention on yourself, and then you will be attractive. "

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"When I Didn't Love Him" ​​"He Loved Me the Most"

What the hell!

It seems so.

"Summary: Ruthless people only become obsessed with more ruthless people."

Clicked.

"The less you care, the more he'll be attracted to you."

"When you really fall in love with someone, you won't be happy most of the time. Do you believe it?"

"Belief. Because of the desire for gain and loss, the desire for possession, the fear of gain and loss... the whole person's actions and thoughts are deformed (smile)."

"So the end of love is really disgust?"

"Wrong! It was disgusting. I felt like I was blind at the time."

Hahahaha.

. . . . .

Girl: "But when we broke up, I found that I couldn't control myself. We broke up because I saw him chatting with another girl, like in the KTV, but he and that girl were the only ones chatting in the room, and I got very angry.

They talked for a long time, so I asked him if we could discuss this.

But nothing was discussed that night, and the result was that he was unwilling to change.

We were in a cold war for three days, and I couldn't bear it any longer so I went to find him.

He said he was just chatting, nothing more,

He is really tired of me being so suspicious.

He said he didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore.”

Lin Feng: "Sister, don't you understand? He doesn't want to be in a relationship, he just doesn't want to be in a relationship with you."

The girl was silent.

Lin Feng: "Sister, there is a concept here, don't be brainwashed by him, he thinks he is not cheating, he is just simply chatting with the opposite sex.

But in love, a person should keep a distance from the opposite sex around you after you start a relationship.
This is something all adults must do.

If everyone thinks that I am just chatting with another person on the Internet, and regards this as a kind of self-communication, while ignoring the feelings of the other person,
Then you are wrong.

Don't think that you are not wrong just because you don't flirt with others.

I tell you, as long as you are in a relationship, you don't keep a distance from the opposite sex, and you chat with other opposite sex with a "Are you there?"

It’s all original sin!

why?
Because this is an act without a sense of boundaries.

There are no constraints or requirements on yourself.

It's also disrespectful to your significant other.

Some people may say that if you love someone, you must trust them.

it is good!
You may not have any feelings for someone, but that doesn't mean that person isn't attracted to you.

You can control yourself, but you can't control another person's lust.

so,

The fundamental thing is to put an end to this matter.

A sense of boundaries is a compulsory course for all adults when they start a relationship. "

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"Sense of Boundaries" and "A Compulsory Course in Love for Adults"

The military advisor said it very well.

"People who don't have a sense of boundaries will only feel that you are restricting them, but they don't think they are doing anything wrong."

"A sense of boundaries is a respect for me and for this relationship."

"I'm currently facing the same problem, and I don't know where to start. The more I say, the more mistakes I make."

"Same, if you don't say you're upset, you'll definitely end up quarreling (sigh)."

“Never gamble on trust. You have boundaries, and they won’t cross them.”

So well said!
"When two people who both have a sense of boundaries live together, there will be fewer conflicts. This is the case with my husband and I. I don't have any male friends, and he doesn't have any so-called female friends. Occasionally, when he goes out and takes the wrong phone, he won't rush back to change it. All the passwords are our anniversaries or related to me."

envy!

"I have recorded the screen. I will show it to my girlfriend tonight."

. . . . .

Girl: "He said something today. He said he thought about it seriously, but he still couldn't figure out why he wanted to share with other girls, but not with me. He said he still hasn't figured it out."

Lin Feng: "If you can't figure it out, let him die!"

Well. . .

Raymond Lam: "Sister, after breaking up, everyone will dump the problems on the other party.
When I was a kid, after I broke up with someone, I would also think that it was because I did something wrong that led to the breakup of our relationship.

Later I found out it was all bullshit,

It's just that you can't control yourself, you're fickle, you don't love me anymore, it has nothing to do with me.

Sister, don't let your emotions get to you.

Remember one sentence,

We should not always look for our own faults in relationships.

It's obvious that you don't love me anymore in this relationship, but you don't dare to admit it.

Why should I find fault with myself?

I want to find out if there is something I did not do well enough or something I did wrong that led to him breaking up with me.

When I meet this kind of person, I would ask him directly, if I do this well, will you love me again?
If you don’t believe me, just ask.

When asked, they didn't say a word. They were all just trying to pass the buck.

So sister, you have to face the reality.

The reality is that he doesn't love you anymore, and we have to accept it.

After accepting it, you must understand that I don’t necessarily need you.

I'm only in my 20s, there are many guys who are better than you, I'm not bad either, it's not like I can't find new guys, why do you think I'm so cheap?"

Woo woo woo.

The girl suddenly burst into tears.

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"If I change, will you love me?" "One question and one silence"

You are so right!

"She forced me to lose my temper, and then said I had a bad attitude and stuff, and then she totally denied me (crying to death)."

"I can honestly say that I treated her seriously and sincerely, but after we broke up, she said I was disgusting and that everything was my fault. I created a pitiful image for myself among my friends, which made me start to doubt myself (sigh)."

"After the breakup, I saw the worst side of myself (burst into tears)."

"Yes, they don't think of my good points at all, they only say bad things about me, and they put all the problems on me. I always ask myself, am I really that evil?"

"Everyone should wake up. Just remember that when you break up, if the other party says it's your fault and that it's your problem that led to the breakup, then don't think too much about it. It's his problem."

. . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Don't cry, sister, don't make yourself so humble, you have lost your charm.

Think about why he pursued you in the first place?
Why would I be nice to you?
Because I can't have you.

Therefore, the more I can’t get you, the more willing I am to get closer to you.

The charm of anyone in a relationship comes from the fact that they haven’t got it yet. Only if they haven’t got it will they want to understand and explore it.

So sister, don't doubt yourself.
Stop all your fantasies about him.
Stop all your memories,

Stop analyzing any of his social updates and the words he uses in his replies to you.

Don't live in the sweetness and the past.
If you don't love me anymore, then you don't love me anymore.

Some people love to find some high-sounding reasons,

hypocritical!

It's obvious that you don't love him/her anymore, but you don't have the courage to admit it, but you insist on finding a fault in the other person.
Wouldn't it be better to just say it openly?
Every time we break up, they always tell me that it was you who did something wrong that led to the breakup. If you want to withdraw, just withdraw in a dignified manner.

So if you say that you can bring up one thing and solve that problem, can you get back together with me?

Can you fall in love with me again?

No!

why?
Because essentially it means that you don’t love me anymore!”

Woo woo woo…

After Lin Feng finished speaking, the girl cried even harder.

Lin Feng glanced at Yu Huanshui.

The latter also shook his head, looking helpless.

Lin Feng sighed and said, "You just won't give up, right? Come on, give me his phone number."

The girl was suddenly stunned.

Lin Feng: "You can't let it go, I'll help you let it go."

The girl didn’t know what Raymond Lam was going to do, but she still sent him a private message with her boyfriend’s phone number.

Toot~
Toot~
Toot~
After three rings, the call was connected.

"Hello, who is it?"

A male voice came from the other side.

Raymond Lam: "Hello sir, a friend who calls himself a passerby has requested a song for you."

"What? I don't know this guy."

Lin Feng: "Sir, you misunderstood. I am just a passer-by in the relationship."

"No, who are you? Can't you just say his name? You made it so confusing."

Raymond Lam: "Sir, the girl has another message."

"What message? OK, then tell me."

Raymond Lam: "She said I appeared as a passer-by, loved you for a long time, chose you at first sight, but missed you for many years. If you meet someone who can humble you and make you entangled, you will understand how I feel now."

"Oh! I know who it is."

The male voice was filled with annoyance.

Lin Feng: "Sir, don't get me wrong, she is not here to bother you, please listen to this letter patiently."

The man hesitated: "Okay, then hurry up."

Lin Feng: "In order to keep you these past two days, I have said things that I despise myself. I begged you so humbly, but you still don't plan to come back.

I beg you humbly, I beg you humbly, I beg you without any bottom line to save you,
It's not that I'm so cheap.

I am grateful for meeting you.
Thank you for everything about you.

I abandoned my principles and bottom line to keep you, and humbled and fawned on you, just to be with you.
It's not about how good you are.
But I can only see you in my eyes.

But reality is always reality, not a movie. If you miss it, it’s gone.

Since you never thought about being serious with me, why did you bother me in the first place?
Looking back at how we were in the beginning, and now that we are even strangers, we feel so sorry for our determination and joy.

I don't regret our initial encounter at all.

Even I envy your ruthlessness and cruelty, which made me collapse. You made me understand what it means to be deeply in love, and what it means to be worthless.

Do you really think that by putting aside my dignity and looking for you again and again, I am trying to please you in a humbly way?
I'm not.

I just cherish this relationship. I have never accommodated someone like this.

For you, I compromised again and again, I tried my best to keep you.
It's not that no one wants it.
But I don't want anyone but you.

Maybe you will never understand how much courage it takes for someone as proud as me to humbly ask for your permission again and again. "

The boy suddenly fell silent.

Raymond Lam picked up his guitar.

Pluck the strings.

"I put my love into the water
Love is more sad than no love
Every word of the vows made is precious...

I'm afraid of the haggard scenery when I wake up in the middle of the night

How can you not think so?

I've tasted all the pain without you

I was too intoxicated that my thoughts followed me everywhere... "

Raymond Lam's singing was so moving that the boy instantly lost himself in thought.

Many scenes from the past appeared before my eyes one by one.

. . . .

On the barrage.

"I Pay the Price with Love" "Love is More Tragic than Not Loving"

"Oh my god, I actually cried when I heard it."

“Those who have truly loved will burst into tears.”

"I am a playboy and I can't even think of anyone I've truly loved, but I burst into tears when I heard what he said and heard this song."

"I haven't loved either, and I shed tears too."

“It means you’re a romantic.”

. . . . .

Sing a song.

Lin Feng put down his guitar and said, “Brother, what I want to say next is what I want to say to you.

My dear,

If you don’t love, then don’t love.

Say it openly and exit gracefully.

It's a pity that you take yourself too seriously. You don't understand how to fall in love, and you don't know how to deal with a breakup.

He had to resort to cold violence and force the little girl to leave on her own.

Do you think she will pester you?
Or would it make you seem less of a scumbag by letting her leave on her own?

Buddy, there's no need to think of yourself as being so unforgettable.

The girl is not as vulnerable as you think. Just tell her that you don't like her anymore.
Kindness is a hundred times better than your unreturned messages, unanswered calls, cold attitude, and rotten excuses! "

The boy was silent for a moment and said, "Xiao Meng, I... I don't love you anymore. I'm sorry."

Beep beep beep~

The boy hung up the phone.

Lin Feng looked at the screen: "Sister, can you give up now?"

Attached

[Military Advisor’s Remarks: No matter how estranged we become in the end, the kindness I once showed you is real.

Even if there is always a breakup,
Don't let the encounter go to waste.

I hope you don’t regret knowing me and that you were truly happy.

If I could go back to the past, I would choose not to know you. It’s not that I regret it, but I can’t face the current outcome. 】

(End of this chapter)