Siheyuan: A warm home with wife and children

As Aunt Yan spoke, she became more and more heartbroken, raising her hand to wipe away her tears.

Hearing people outside celebrating makes me feel sad!

Old Man Yan was also upset, but what could he do now that things had already come to this?

Old Man Yan had a plan in mind, but he was unwilling to admit it.

"But if someone is willing," Aunt Yan said, wiping away her tears, "let's talk to Jianguo and make peace!"

“You’re about to retire, and your legs aren’t as strong as they used to be. If we keep going like this, we can’t keep going.”

If this drags on any longer, we might only see each other on our deathbeds.

Now that things have come to this, have Yan Jiecheng and his brothers done anything wrong?

Yes, definitely.

But that's how they were influenced by the environment they were taught by example.

Whose fault is it? Is it Yan Laokou's fault?

He also wanted to raise all the children well.

The reason we teach them those principles is so that they won't be deceived or taken advantage of when they go out into society.

But he never imagined that he would become the first one.

The intention was good, but it was used in the wrong place and the wrong method was taught.

Old Man Yan refused to admit it, saying that these days no father is ever wrong.

A father is never wrong, but if he is wrong, he will keep quiet as if he has bowed his head to you.

What, you want me to apologize to your face?

No way.

What kind of father apologizes to his son? You're dreaming.

"I'm not going," Old Man Yan stubbornly insisted, refusing to budge.

But Aunt Yan was determined to get this done.

"Okay, if you won't go, I will."

Aunt Yan stood up, leaning on the table, and said, "I'm going to move out with my son later, leaving you, old Dongqian, to live your life!"

"You, you have disgraced culture." Old Man Yan was very flustered.

He still has an elderly spouse who serves him meals and talks to him all day to keep him company.

If he loses his spouse, how will he survive alone? Can that even be called living?

"At that time, I'll live with my son, cook for my grandson, and take him to school. You can stay here."

Aunt Yan deliberately seduced him. She thought, "I can't do it myself, and my son can't do it either, but surely my grandson will do!"

She refused to believe that her eldest grandson couldn't handle that old geezer.

Upon hearing the name of his eldest grandson, Old Man Yan was filled with longing!

I haven't seen my grandson in so long. I only managed to catch a quick glimpse of him at school and exchange a few words with him after class.

But lately, I can't even say those two sentences anymore.

The grandson was clearly not close to him; as soon as he opened his mouth, the grandson shouted, "I'm going to play with my classmates, goodbye Grandpa."

They completely ignored him, which made Old Yan even more worried and added a few more wrinkles to his face.

If things continue like this, by the time they get to junior high, high school, and then university, they'll be graduating and starting work.

Wouldn't that mean they wouldn't even recognize their grandparents?

He still wants to see his eldest grandson get married, have children, and enjoy the happiness of three generations living together!

Chapter 431 The Lobbier, Yang Jianguo's Conditions

The braised pig's head is scooped out using an iron hook and placed on the cutting board, instantly creating a lively atmosphere.

First, chop off the pig's snout, then cut off its two ears.

The pig's head is split in half, then further divided into small pieces, making it easy to distribute to each family.

The pig's nose and cheek meat, along with the two pig ears, were sliced ​​up and served as a snack with drinks.

Once the meat was plated and served, its aroma filled the air. Aunt Yan came through the doorway, followed by an unwilling Old Yan.

"Happy New Year, Auntie and Uncle Yan."

"Happiness, happiness, and happiness to you too."

"Have fun, everyone. I'm busy right now, so I'll stop here," Yingzi said, and then went back inside to continue her work.

I felt a little awkward not calling them "couple," so I decided to keep my conversation brief.

Aunt Yan glanced at the dishes on the table and felt envious.

If all their children were here, their house would be just as lively.

Moving closer to Yang Jianguo, Aunt Yan called out, "Jianguo, Auntie wants to discuss something with you."

As Yang Jianguo served the dishes, he readily replied, "Go ahead."

"that."

Seeing that there were people everywhere, Aunt Yan said, "How about we go to the side and talk?"

Yang Jianguo thought for a moment, then nodded and said, "Okay, please wait a moment."

He took off his apron and said to Huaihua, "Huaihua, come and plate all the dishes."

“Come on, let’s talk over there.” Yang Jianguo pointed to the courtyard wall and led the way to the neighboring ‘Book Sea’ courtyard.

"Auntie, there's no one here. What can I do for you?" In the quiet courtyard, cheerful laughter could still be heard.

But the happier they were, the more upset Aunt Yan felt.

"Jianguo, I need your help."

Aunt Yan grasped his hand, her face full of pleading, "Please help me get Jie Cheng and Jie Fang to mediate, okay?"

Peacemaking? What are we negotiating?

When Yang Jianguo looked up, he saw Yan Laokou looking like he wanted to disappear into the ground, and he suddenly realized what was going on.

"You mean you want them to come back?" Yang Jianguo asked bluntly.

Aunt Yan nodded vigorously and said, "Yes, that's how it is. Your uncle and I both think so."

Yang Jianguo had no doubts about her; after all, it was Old Yan!

There was probably some reluctance involved, but all that was left was a bit of stubbornness.

"I understand what you mean." Yang Jianguo paused slightly, as if considering for a few seconds.

Then he asked, "So, how do you plan to resolve this matter?"

Judging from Aunt Yan's expression, it seemed like she thought she could do it.

Yang Jianguo immediately said, "Auntie, I can find the person for you so that your family can sit down and talk things over."

"I can also act as a mediator for you, to mediate and offer some advice."

"But I can't agree with Jiecheng, so you have to listen to your parents. Do you think I can say that?"

Yang Jianguo knew in his heart that she must think he was the one who could speak.

If Yang Jianguo were on the old couple's side, their words would definitely carry weight.

But is this the solution?

It's interesting that you're pretending to be a loving father and filial son. How long can you keep up the act?

Even if you initially consider your own reputation, that reputation won't last a lifetime.

Not to mention him, even the Jade Emperor is no match for him.

You need to address the problem at its root, eliminate any misunderstandings between you, and communicate and reason with each other.

Even if the bones are broken, the tendons still connect the father and son.

If someone can truly cut off all contact with you for the rest of their life, it's because they're still angry with you.

Another possibility is that they didn't realize they were wrong, since that's exactly how you two taught them.

You have to take care of yourself, earn your own money and spend it as you see fit, and take good care of your own little family.

Those are your exact words, Teacher Yan. How is it wrong for me to do what you taught me?

That's why people say Yan Laokou (Old Man Yan) brought this on himself; he dug his own life into this mess!

If you, as a father, can calculate with me, as my child, then we can calculate with you too.

Now that things are settled, I don't owe you anything.

I'll give you the money every month, and we'll each live our own lives, that's right!

As for retirement, can't you still move around?

If you're really in your seventies or eighties and can't move around, who will take over your house and your money?

Who should be responsible for taking care of you in your old age? That makes sense, doesn't it?

"So what do you mean, Jianguo? Just say it," Aunt Yan urged readily, wanting him to give her some advice.

People are waiting for the holiday, so she can't say much.

Who knows when the next one will be?

“It’s not that I meant anything, but it’s up to you two to come up with a plan. Let’s lay everything out and discuss it clearly.”

"Whoever is at fault should admit it, and once they admit it, they should apologize. They should talk things out and resolve any misunderstandings."

Yang Jianguo clapped his hands and laughed, "That settles it."

Yang Jianguo's explanation was simple, and Aunt Yan was somewhat tempted.

Old Man Yan was displeased. "Oh, so you mean I'm in the wrong and I have to apologize to them?"

"I won't do it." Old Yan shook his arm, put his hands behind his back, turned around, and didn't even look at him.

Seeing his expression, Yang Jianguo didn't hesitate: "Then I can't help you with this, ma'am, you should look for someone else."

If you ask me for help, I will help if I can.

Offering suggestions and setting up a plan is fine, but you need to demonstrate a problem-solving attitude.

What, am I supposed to help you act like a tyrant and bully others with your power?

Don't say you're not my biological father, even if you were, it wouldn't work.

If that's the case, he can't help.

“Jianguo, Jianguo, don’t worry. I admit my mistake. It’s all my fault. I didn’t teach my siblings well.”

Aunt Yan grabbed him with one hand and patted her chest with the other, choking back tears.

Seeing her like this, Yang Jianguo didn't feel comfortable leaving: "Auntie, that's not what I meant."

“Let’s admit who’s wrong. You’re wrong, the four siblings are wrong, and Teacher Yan is wrong.”

"This wasn't something anyone wanted to cause, but it's already happened, isn't it?"

"Jie Cheng actually told me his thoughts; he felt that this place was like a hotel."

"You have to calculate everything: meals, weddings, even the smallest details."

"After starting work, I should have had a relaxed time, but I spent all my money paying off debts."

"He doesn't know what home feels like. All he knows is that he has to pay for food, rent, and utility bills every month."

"He's useless with all this!" Old Man Yan couldn't help but retort, only to be met with his wife's angry glare when he turned his head.

Feeling guilty, I turned my head away from her and muttered under my breath, "So buying groceries and cooking, burning coal doesn't cost money?"

Yang Jianguo ignored him and continued, "If you've really thought it through, I'll try making a call and asking right now."