Yukinoshita's Correction Method
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"Yeah." Hikigaya Komachi had thought the two of them were quite amusing back then... Now that I think about it, it seems Yukinoshita Yukino was really trying to correct Azumanosuke. "Azumanosuke chose to give you victory in the second order, which means that the competitive spirit you worked so hard to cultivate in him... is gone again."
"I'm not helping him take care of Xixi, I'm helping Xixi who needs care." Yukinoshita Yukino pointed out the key point, "I can't hand Xixi who needs help over to Dongyun who needs correction, and while I'm helping Xixi, I can also complete Dongyun's correction."
"So..." Hikigaya Komachi recalled how Azuma had just looked. "Unlike when he was against you at school, Azuma is really obedient at home. Why is he so obedient?"
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"Because of correction." Dong Yunshan hung up the washed bib. "You should have noticed her problem too."
"I listened to her to correct Yukino-chan's problems?" Yuigahama Yui's eyes were filled with confusion. "But she's very good. It's just that her interpersonal skills... But that's not a problem. It's probably part of her personality."
Volume 3: Spring Break at the End of the Semester: Chapter 96: Self-Delusion
"It's remarkable that she can be honest with herself and express her thoughts bravely." Yuigahama Yui lowered her eyes slightly. "I don't think she's bad at interpersonal communication. Instead, after seeing the true nature of interpersonal communication, she chose to stick to herself."
Before meeting Yukinoshita Yukino, Yuigahama Yui had never thought that someone could do such a thing.
In her story, Yukinoshita Yukino is a beautiful girl who is honest, serious, gentle and smart.
What others can't do, Yukinoshita Yukino can do.
What others can do, Yukinoshita Yukino can do better.
So when Yuigahama Yui heard that Azuma Yunshan wanted to correct Yukinoshita Yukino, she always felt that it was a cover and excuse for their relationship.
I'm not trying to help you take care of your sister. I'm trying to correct you. Don't be so self-indulgent and think in the wrong way.
I don't mean to obey you. I'm trying to correct you. Don't be so self-indulgent and think in the wrong way.
That's about it.
"Instead of maintaining interpersonal relationships, she chose to focus her energy on more important things. It's like choosing pears over apples because you prefer them to apples. Of course, this isn't a problem that needs correction." Dong Yunshan carefully rubbed Xibaobao's clothes. "What I want to correct is her excessive perfectionism."
Yuigahama Yui muttered softly: "Xue No just wants to get things done..."
"Well, let me ask you a few questions, and your answers will be based on your impression of Yukinoshita." Dong Yunshan pinched the small piece of clothing and put it aside. "Then you will probably understand what I mean."
"What's the problem?"
"First question: If things don't go as expected, will Yukinoshita think she didn't do a good job, or will she think it's due to external factors?"
"Uh..." Yuigahama Yui tilted her head, "I feel like if it were Yukino, even if others didn't do well, she would think it was her own fault for not thinking it through, and that she should have taken other people's mistakes into account."
"The second question is whether she believes that everything has only two outcomes: success or failure."
"You should know this better than me." Yuigahama Yui recalled the duel between the two. "Yukinoshita always believed that losing is losing, and winning is winning."
“The third question is: Does she believe that everything has a right answer and that you must follow the right answer?”
"Yes!" Yuigahama Yui answered instantly without hesitation for a second.
"Fourth question: Is she persistent in her ideals and sticks to her own ideas more than the demands of others?"
"Yes, yes, yes!" Yuigahama Yui nodded vigorously, "That's it."
"Fifth question: Does she strive for perfection in everything she does, no matter what, and is unwilling to compromise?"
"Yeah," This is one of the reasons why Yuigahama Yui admires Yukinoshita Yukino, "If it were Yukino, she would definitely try her best to do everything to the best of her ability."
"So..." Dong Yunshan paused, "You can't forgive yourself even for the smallest mistake?"
Yuigahama Yui vaguely realized something: "Xue-no is like this."
“Do you often underestimate the effort required to complete a task, or overestimate the impact of a task once completed?”
"Indeed." Yuigahama Yui always felt that what Yukinoshita Yukino said about working hard and being able to achieve things, and wanting to change the world and save other people's lives was very cool, but after hearing what Azuma Yunshan said, it seemed a bit...
Dong Yunshan raised an eyebrow: "So?"
"I'm unwilling to accept failure, I can't forgive my mistakes, the ideal blueprint I painted in my mind is too perfect, and I'm unwilling to compromise in the process. I attach too much significance to what I'm doing, and force myself to keep working hard under high pressure..." Yuigahama Yui bit her lower lip lightly, "This is too hard, something will go wrong...ah!"
Yuigahama Yui let out a short exclamation, finally realizing what the problem Azuma Yunshan was talking about was.
"If I get into the workplace..." Dong Yunshan's eyes revealed a complex emotion, "I'll become that kind of person who works too much for too little, and I'll be a big loser who works too much. I might even die from overwork one day."
"Indeed." Yuigahama Yui nodded worriedly, "Xukino is very talented, so she can handle all kinds of problems in school. But when she gets into society, faced with more complicated situations and more difficult problems, she'll exhaust herself."
"So, while I'm taking care of Xixi, I'll listen to whatever she says." Dong Yunshan further added to his previous answer, "I want her plan to be perfectly executed, and then let her accept the imperfect ending."
Raising a child is not like taking an exam in school, there are no specific scoring standards.
The more I want to do well, the more I feel like I’m not doing well enough.
Even if Yukinoshita Yukino really did her best, how much impact would this week of care have on the future of a six-month-old baby?
This is neither a success nor a failure.
It's just a fact that has to be accepted.
A fact that helps alleviate the problem of Yukinoshita Yukino's excessive pursuit of perfection.
But if it were the other way around, Dong Yunshan would not listen to her.
Then it would mean that Dong Yunshan was deliberately causing trouble.
Not only will it not help correct Yukinoshita Yukino, it will also further increase her distrust of others and make her more stubborn in wanting to do everything by herself.
Yuigahama Yui understood Azuma Yunshan's intentions, but she was still a little worried: "Will it really work?"
"fake."
"Eh?"
"Her problem didn't develop overnight, and it certainly can't be corrected in a week." Dong Yunshan finished cleaning. "We'll take it step by step, slowly."
"It feels very hard..." Yuigahama Yui hesitated for a moment, but decided to ask directly, "Why are you so obsessed with correcting Yukino-chan?"
"I saw someone who needed help, but I didn't have the ability to help at that time." Dong Yunshan stood up to pour water, but paused for a moment before pouring the water away with a loud splash. "Now I have the ability to help, so I can't just leave it alone."
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"If we leave it alone, the problem will only get worse." Yukinoshita Yukino poured out the cream stew from the pot. "Only by providing help when we can can we avoid not being able to help when we need it."
"Whatever you can do now, you should do it now, so that you can do more things in the future." Hikigaya Komachi remembered what Yukinoshita Yukino said, "If you don't do what you can do now, there will be more things you can't do in the future, including what you can do now."
Yukinoshita Yukino nodded slightly: "It's time to eat."
Volume 3: End of Spring Break: Chapter 97: Huge Gap
"So that's what Koyuki-no thinks..." On the way home, after hearing what Hikigaya Komachi said, Yuigahama Yui looked a little depressed, "It's completely different from what I thought. I thought..."
After lunch, under the guidance of Yukinoshita Yukino, everyone played games with Dong Yunxi.
At first, Yuigahama Yui was admiring the cuteness of baby Shio, but she soon realized how hard it is to take care of a child.
Children's moods are really unpredictable.
The same goes for older children.
After sharing the information they had obtained with Hikigaya Komachi, Yuigahama Yui suddenly felt a little lost.
She thought that Azuma Yunshan and Yukinoshita Yukino were two bundles of firewood burning and crackling.
The result is a crackling sound of two ice cubes grinding against each other.
It is not an interaction between lovers, but a correction of each other for the purpose of self-satisfaction.
Rather than feelings, it is more about the responsibilities that you give yourself.
This is not the honeymoon period, it's more like an old couple with little passion left.
Care about each other's illness and help each other in their careers.
How to describe it...
Just get along, no one wants to leave.
The gap is indeed a bit too big.
"Their ideas are quite similar." Hikigaya Komachi was a little surprised. "I thought you would be happy - didn't you say before that it didn't matter, as long as you enjoyed watching it yourself."
"But there's been almost no progress in their relationship." Yuigahama Yui kicked the pebbles on the road. "I thought they would end up in a church, but who would have thought they would be discharged from the hospital."
"So that's what you're worried about..." Hikigaya Komachi tilted her head and looked at her, "Because they're all concentrating on corrections, you feel like there's no spark of romance?"
"Yeah!" Yuigahama Yui nodded vigorously.
"Speaking of which, what do you think of Yukino's cooking skills?"
"Superb!" Yuigahama Yui exclaimed, "I didn't expect Yukino's cooking to be so delicious!"
"Why do you want to eat it?"
"Huh?" Yuigahama Yui was stunned by the question. "Because... I'm hungry?"
Shouldn’t you eat it?
"That's it~" Hikigaya Komachi shook two fingers in the air, then pointed them sharply at Yuigahama Yui, "Because you're hungry, you have to eat! You eat when you're hungry, and you feel happy when you eat delicious food. The two are not contradictory."
"You mean..." Yuigahama Yui suddenly realized, "There are problems that need to be corrected, and sparks are generated in the process of correction, which makes people feel happy. These two things are not contradictory!"
"That sentence, Komachi, gets a high score~" Hikigaya Komachi blinked, her adorable smile revealing her cute little canine teeth. "Even though they haven't noticed it yet, once they fill their tummies... well, about five-tenths full, they'll start to savor the happiness!"
"That's right." Yuigahama Yui murmured, the corners of her mouth raised happily, "Step by step~"
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Today is my day off, and I will definitely not go to Dong Yunshan's house again.
In the room, Yukino Yukinoshita was holding a panda Johnny's doll, clicking on the search results one by one and watching videos of giant pandas.
Originally, it was her rest time yesterday, but she went to Higashi Yunshan's house only because of Yuigahama Yui.
No one invited me today, so of course there’s no need to go.
Nothing was left at Dong Yunshan's house.
No...Isn't it possible?
Yukinoshita Yukino looked at the phone beside her.
No new emails.
It's almost noon.
Let’s have lunch first.
Today it is enough to just do your own part.
After lunch, I took a break and played the piano for a while to relax.
I glanced out the window and it was a bit chilly today.
Dong Yunshan needs to be reminded.
Eastern spruce is in such good health that it may not mind the drop in temperature.
But Dong Yunxi can't do that. If she goes out in this kind of weather, she is likely to catch a cold.
Yukinoshita Yukino picked up her phone and called Azuma Yunshan.
"This is Dong Yunshan - ah~" Dong Yunshan yawned after saying just one sentence.
"Didn't you sleep well last night?"
"It's you." Dong Yunshan's voice was obviously tired. "Well, Xixi slept very restlessly last night. She woke up several times and kept..."
"Whoaaah!"
Before Dong Yunshan could finish his words, baby Xi started crying.
Compared to normal crying, there is obviously more irritability.
Yukinoshita Yukino frowned: "Is she not feeling well?"
"Teething period, it's written in your plan." Dong Yunshan turned on the hands-free mode, picked up Dong Yunxi and comforted her, "Baby~ chew this~"
"Wa ...
Then there was the sound of something being thrown to the ground.
Yukinoshita Yukino took a deep breath and said, "I remember I also wrote down the solution."
"I saw it. I've already used several of them. I can only be quiet for a while..." Dong Yunshan's voice was almost drowned out by Xi Baobao's crying. "Let's not talk about it for now. I'll try again..."
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