At the beginning, Gu Jia and Jiang Nansun were intercepted, and Qiao Yingzi pursued them

"No matter how you're not targeting people, you're still talking to people. Consider their feelings appropriately. Isn't that a basic principle of life?"

Qin Fan became angrier and angrier as he spoke, and reached out to pinch her face.

"Who are you showing off your puffy face to?"

"Brother Qin, I know I was wrong. I will pay more attention next time."

He Minhong is always very proactive in apologizing, but after apologizing, he instantly forgets all his previous mistakes and does not make any progress at all.

Qin Fan withdrew his hand and sighed, "Honghong, do you know why you are always disliked? It's because you think about things in the wrong way."

"What's wrong?"

"You always talk about sticking to the facts and being objective and fair, but you never consider the other issue: everyone's actions have their own purpose."

"For example, the matter between Xiaoyu and her mother. Let me ask you, you must have overheard these things, right?"

He Minhong shrank his neck, his face flushed, and he argued, "I wasn't eavesdropping. They were just talking too loudly. I could hear everything clearly from the bedroom."

"Let's assume you're right. Have you ever thought about the fact that Xiao Yu never told you about her family affairs from the beginning to the end? Even though you know about it, you should also think about why she didn't tell you."

"If I were you, I would understand that if someone doesn't tell me something it means they don't want me to get involved, or they think it's useless to tell me. Then I would pretend I don't know and say nothing."

He Minhong seemed to understand, "I think I understand what you mean. Just like last time, Yu Chuhui deliberately tricked me into saying that she should bring her mother to Shanghai. That was also her intention behind her actions."

"Yes, Yu Chuhui is a very purposeful person. If you think about it for a moment, you will understand what she wants to do."

He Minhong slumped his shoulders. "Interpersonal relationships are so complicated and hard to understand!"

"If it's so hard to understand, then why do you have to get involved? Is it honorable to be accused of meddling in other people's affairs?"

Seeing He Minhong's unconvinced look, Qin Fan was speechless and his tone unconsciously became heavier.

"You have to understand that you're just a small editor, nothing. Even I, with over a dozen companies under my control and hundreds of thousands of jobs under my belt, can't claim to be able to change other people's minds. So how can you, He Minhong?"

Qin Fan’s words were not to be underestimated. If it were an ordinary person, they would either turn against him and start arguing, or realize their own problems. But He Minhong was different.

"sorry!"

Yes, she apologized again and again...

.......

705: Want to eat? Bite gently~

Qin Fan was about to die of a headache. "I don't want to hear your apology. Your apology is insincere and there is no remorse. You just want me to stop talking."

"That's not what I meant, Brother Qin. I listened to everything you said. Really, no one has ever explained so much to me in such a simple and profound way before. I'm very grateful to you."

Qin Fan suddenly asked, "Come to think of it, didn't we agree last time that if you really couldn't hold it in and wanted to talk, you would send me a message. Why are you acting like that again this time?"

He Minhong was embarrassed. "That's because Yu Chuhui and her mother quarreled so fiercely that I couldn't stand it."

"Can you tolerate so many refugees in Africa? Can you tolerate pork prices going up by eight yuan a month? Can you tolerate people in the neighborhood walking their dogs without a leash? Big Mao and Er Mao... Oh."

At this time, Da Mao and Er Mao seemed to have not started fighting yet.

Qin Fan paused. "You can tolerate national affairs and people's livelihoods because you know you don't have the ability to deal with them. You can also tolerate the immoral behavior of strangers because you are timid and dare not uphold justice. But you can't tolerate Xiao Yu's affairs!"

"Since you hold others to such high moral standards, you must also live up to them yourself. But your behavior is very problematic. I don't know how your parents raised you. Didn't they even teach you the basic principle of consistency between words and actions?"

"Xiao Yu is right. No one wants to hear your opinion. You'd better etch this sentence into your mind. Whenever you have something to say, think about whether the other person is willing to listen to it first."

"Is it so exaggerated?"

"Think back, from elementary school to college graduation, over a decade has passed. How many friends do you have that you can get along with? Do you have any close girlfriends?"

Tears welled up in He Minhong's eyes, and he felt extremely aggrieved.

"Friends I made during school don't last that long. After I grow up, I basically don't keep in touch with them anymore."

"You got it wrong. Most of the friends you make as you grow up are based on personal interests and you can't really confide in others. On the contrary, the friendships you make in middle school and high school are purer and can last longer."

Seeing that He Minhong was about to cry, Qin Fan poked her head.

"Why do you feel wronged? If you don't have a friend you can talk to, then you should reflect on yourself and why those friends don't want to contact you."

"The problem is you, understand?"

He Minhong could no longer hold it in and started to sob.

"I've already apologized, and you're still saying this to me. What do you want from me?"

Qin Fan moved to He Minhong, sat next to her, and gently touched her head with his right hand.

Such a close distance, such an intimate action, He Minhong stopped crying instantly, his body stiffened for a moment, and he didn't know how to react.

Pushing him away doesn’t seem appropriate. Moving him somewhere else will make Brother Qin unhappy.

Besides, I don't seem to be too resistant to his intimate actions.

"Since you think interpersonal relationships are too complicated, why don't we just try another approach and not have any interpersonal relationships at all? Just take care of yourself, don't meddle in other people's affairs, and let others not meddle in yours. Do you think that's okay?"

"But if I do that, won't I even be able to make friends?"

"You'll still have no friends if you don't do this!"

He Minhong wanted to cry again. This is the truth, but don’t say it so bluntly!

How hurtful!

"I think it's better to have some constraints on you. How about this? Buy a calendar and put it in your room. When you do a day, circle it. Treat this as a long-term task."

"If you can hold out for a week, I'll treat you to a delicious meal. If you can hold out for a month, I'll give you any gift you want. How's that? Brother Qin, is that good of you?"

He Minhong turned to look at him, his eyes sparkling.

"Really? You can satisfy me with whatever gift I want?"

"If you want me, this might be a little difficult..."

He Minhong blushed again. "What do I need you for? You can't eat or wear anything. Am I going to keep you at home as a wax figure?"

Qin Fan touched his nose and gave a very reasonable suggestion.

"Actually...you can eat it if you want."

He Minhong had no idea about matters between men and women and still couldn't understand what Qin Fan meant.

"How do you eat it? Just eat it raw?"

"It's best not to bite it, otherwise it will hurt. It's better to wrap it with your lips."

This is a very serious academic issue and must be made clear!

He Minhong looked at him with disdain. "You just want to say it's like eating ice cream. Why are you being so obscure? It's not like I haven't eaten ice cream before."

But you definitely haven’t tasted hot ice cream…

This girl was so naive that Qin Fan didn't feel comfortable teasing her anymore.

Just as he was about to say goodbye and leave, He Minhong's cell phone suddenly rang.

"Oops, my mom called me on video."

"Then you answer the phone, I'm leaving first."

Just as Qin Fan was about to run away, he was stopped by He Minhong.

"Don't leave yet. My mother will be worried if she sees me crying. Please help me bear witness and tell her that it's nothing serious."

Qin Fan was surprised. It seemed even more difficult to explain why he appeared in someone else's daughter's bedroom. Was He Minhong really stupid or just pretending to be stupid? He couldn't even tell?

Without waiting for Qin Fan to refuse, He Minhong quickly wiped away his tears and answered the phone.

He's mother's voice came from the phone, "Honghong, Mommy made a few dishes you like and has packed them and sent them to you. Remember to pack this week's dirty clothes and sheets and send them back..."

He Minhong was a little embarrassed. He had been taught a lesson by Qin Fan last time. He was so old but still didn't know how to be independent. This time he was caught red-handed.

"Huh? Honghong, why do your eyes look red? Did you cry just now? Who bullied you?"

"No one bullied me. I just had a small dispute with my roommate. It's over now. If you don't believe me, ask Brother Qin."

He Minhong knew very well how much her mother doted on her. Even if she was telling the truth, her mother would not be at ease. If she didn't explain clearly today, she would come to see her in person tomorrow.

Seeing He Minhong pointing the camera at him, Qin Fan greeted him openly.

"Hello, aunt."

He's mother immediately became anxious, "Who are you? Why are you in my daughter's room?"

706: My daughter’s boyfriend? Let’s have a heart-to-heart!

Qin Fan said, "This is what happened. My name is Qin Fan. Today I came to visit my girlfriend, Hong Hong's neighbor. When I walked into the hallway, I heard her arguing with her roommate, so I came over to help. Look, I just tried to persuade her for quite a while."

It turns out he’s my neighbor’s boyfriend, so it’s okay!

He's mother breathed a sigh of relief. She was not against her daughter having a relationship. After all, her daughter was already working and it was time for her to have a relationship.

But she was really scared when she suddenly saw a strange man in her bedroom.

"Honghong, what happened? Why did you quarrel with your roommate?"

"Auntie, you may not like what I'm saying, but the truth is, your daughter is incredibly nosy. While the mother and daughter were arguing behind closed doors, she went on to send a text message to criticize her roommate."

"Auntie, why don't you put yourself in their shoes? When your neighbors are arguing, would you do this?"

Qin Fan was not very polite when speaking to He's mother. The original drama clearly showed that He Minhong's parents were a pair of fools. He's mother was dissed by Zhu Zhe, Yu Chuhui and Fang Zhiheng more than once, but she didn't react at all. Instead, she thought that her daughter had a problem with her thinking.

If it was someone else, a young stranger who dared to criticize his daughter, even if his daughter had problems, according to the principle of helping relatives and not helping others, he would have to scold her back.

At least they would say, "I don't need you to educate my daughter."

However, He's mother was not an ordinary person. She actually followed Qin Fan's line of thought and thought that if her neighbors had a fierce quarrel, she would go over to mediate, or not help either side, and would definitely not blame either party.

"Honghong, how can you arbitrarily interfere in other people's private affairs? No matter whether what you say makes sense or not, you can't do this, unless they take the initiative to ask you for advice. This is the minimum respect for others."

Seeing that his mother had also started to educate him, He Minhong seemed very impatient.

"Mom, Brother Qin has already said what you said. I also know that what I did was wrong..."

“But I just don’t want to change!”

Before He Minhong could finish his words, Qin Fan interrupted.

"Auntie, your daughter is very stubborn and doesn't learn her lesson. I spoke to her nicely last time. If she really has something to say, she can just send it to my phone. Don't say it in front of others. It's too easy to offend them."

"She agreed to it at the time, but today she's back to her old ways again."

Too much! Too much!

He Minhong looked at Qin Fan angrily. Just give him a hint, so why did he get more and more excited the more he talked?

"Is this happening?"

The more Mother He listened, the more she felt something was amiss. It sounded like her daughter and Qin Fan were getting along well. After all, he was her neighbor's boyfriend. What if they were having an affair...

He's mother didn't dare to think further.

"Honghong, if it's true, as Mr. Qin said, that you keep making the same mistakes over and over again, then you have a serious problem."

"Mom, I know where I made a mistake, and I'm trying hard to correct myself, but this kind of thing can't be corrected in a short time."

"Excuses! They're all excuses!"

Qin Fan leaned over again, making He Minhong so angry that he really wanted to bite him.

"Auntie, listen to your daughter's sophistry. What do you mean by 'it's impossible to change in a short time'? Translated, it means she will continue to make the same mistakes until she finally changes them one day."

He's mother was also a little angry. "Mr. Qin has a point. You should listen. How can you be so stubborn? Especially when you already know you made a mistake. What's the point of your apology?"

"Auntie, just call me Qin Fan."

After a while, Qin Fan had already figured out what kind of person He's mother was.

As long as she can accept the reason, she will not get angry, even if Qin Fan has been complaining about her daughter. In a word, he is a very reasonable person.

But on the other hand, she has no position, or rather, her position is on the side of reason.

This was the first time Qin Fan had encountered such a person. If he didn't form a coalition and bring He's mother along to control He Minhong, he would be doing a disservice to the foolish nature of this mother and daughter...

"Well, Qin Fan, Auntie hasn't had time to ask you yet, what do you do?"

Qin Fan was about to answer when He Minhong interrupted him.