Knowledge and Practice

Xiao Xingyi arrived at Xie An's outpatient room on time, changed into a school white coat, and sat next to Xie An. There were not many patients in the outpatient clinic, so Xiao Xingyi basically couldn't help him except for writing case reports non-stop. What are you busy with?

The knowledge in school was not enough to support his diagnosis, so he was only responsible for recording the medical history, and Xie An still had to decide the rest of the diagnosis and treatment.

Even when recording the medical history, Xiao Xingyi did not dare to write casually. He went through all the knowledge he had read before the exam in his mind.

After such an afternoon, apart from all kinds of patients, there is no other distracting thoughts in my mind.

I don't know whether it was unintentional or deliberate, Xie An looked at Xiao Xingyi beside him, and said with a smile: "It will be more enriching when you are busy. I will go back later, and I will explain to you a few cases that I encountered today."

"it is good"

Xiao Xing responded as soon as he heard the voice, his Xie An could always guess what he wanted to say in advance.

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At the door of the consulting room at 7:30 in the evening, Xie An was still waiting quietly outside the door. Once he got used to this 40 minutes, it would be no different from the usual time.

At the same time, Xiao Xingyi took a seat on the sofa in the consulting room, and Dr. Yuan greeted Xiao Xingyi kindly with a paper note: "Xingyi, we distinguished last time, you have many emotions, there are some simple ones. , you can express it now, today we have to deal with the rest."

"it is good."

"It's still the same process. We need to find out these emotions from our ordinary life together. Can you share with me, what happened today?" Dr. Yuan looked at Xiao Xingyi, quietly waiting for his answer

"In the afternoon, I was in the consulting room with Xie An. He saw a lot of patients. He took me with him and told me about the conditions of these patients in detail. He was very patient, and he was very patient with everyone." Xiao Xingyi slowly Said.

"Oh, then the Xie An you mentioned is indeed a patient doctor." Dr. Yuan paid attention to Xiao Xingyi's words and deeds. The expression changed from the original radiance to a little blurred. She carefully probed: "But I saw that you were a little unhappy? What happened?"

"No, I just want to be like him and become like him." Xiao Xingyi's eyes became darker and duller.

"Xingyi, how do you feel in your heart now?" Dr. Yuan looked at the young man, waiting for his answer.

"I'm a little sad, I will never be like him." Xiao Xingyi lowered his head, and a dull voice came out of his throat.

"Really? But I heard a feeling. You can see if this word is suitable to describe it—longing." The words of the counselor in her heart instantly pierced the haze of the teenager, and she continued to ask sharply: "Xingyi, you can say For a moment, what did he do to make you feel this way?"

"In other words, those situations will trigger your emotions, his words, or which thing?" Dr. Yuan changed the phrase, and at the same time left Xiao Xingyi more time to understand and answer. .

"He will answer everything I encounter, such as a question I encounter, ask him, he will read the book for a long time at night, and then respond to me the next day."

"..." Dr. Yuan was silent for a while, and then continued to ask: "Is there anything else? It's still a similar situation."

"He picked me up from school and stayed with me..." Xiao Xingyi originally wanted to say more, but after listening carefully to the doctor's questions and answers, he gave an accurate response: " It's a similar situation, no matter what, he responds."

"Xingyi, I don't know if I understand right? These are very normal states. For example, you ask the other party a question and he gives a reasonable answer." Dr. Yuan used the gentlest way to make sure she heard The matter: "He also made a very objective response to your difficulties, is that so?"

"Yes." Xiao Xingyi agreed seriously.

"And as long as you respond to this kind of response from him, you will subconsciously have this kind of emotion, right?"

"That's right." Xiao Xingyi continued to respond.

"That Xingyi, do you know? These are some very basic emotional needs, just like when a child cries when he is young, his parents will respond to him." Dr. Yuan paid attention to Xiao Xingyi's reaction. , while drawing a picture on the white paper: "Xingyi, you are also a medical student, do you know the five needs of Malos?"

"Simply put, the first level is the physiological needs, water, food, sleep, after getting enough food and clothing, it will reach the second level of needs."

"The second level is the need for safety. Only when we reach this level can we go to higher needs. This level is like a parent responding to a child's crying. These are instinctive and basic emotional needs. .

"It's hard for me to imagine that when you were crying when you were young, no one around you paid attention to you?"

Xiao Xingyi looked at the series of pictures and words on the paper, and understood her explanation and intention, but with a little insightful resistance: "So?"

"Xingyi, do you like this feeling?" Dr. Yuan was not in a hurry to deny this state, and a professional psychologist would not be in a hurry to help the person who came to consult to make a decision: "Do you want to enter this state from this state?" To the next state?"

"In an easy-to-understand way, there is no right or wrong. Everyone grows up in different ways. For example, an older child and a younger child have 3 candies in their hands, and then they see that others only have 2 candies. , then he will be happy too."

"Children will feel that if you don't have what I have, they will be very happy."

"And the older kid, let everyone share the candy, so he can be happy."

"You don't have to make a decision now, do one. But you have to think about what you want? Then we can make a better plan together. Every road has its pros and cons. As long as you have A general direction does not have to be so clear, so no matter what happens, we can better face and adapt to it." Dr. Yuan's words made Xiao Xingyi fall into a long silence.

Every change in the trajectory of life happens in everyday life that is so ordinary that it can no longer be ordinary.

Xiao Xingyi seemed to realize something.

After a long silence, he made his own decision.

The author has something to say: I originally wanted to write a lot in this chapter, but I didn’t want to procrastinate Xingyi, and I couldn’t bear to give him too much suffering. Thank you for reading, and the next chapter will be over.