Knowledge and Practice

If they can choose, can they also choose a family that has no worries about food and clothing, can provide good material conditions and have well-educated parents?

There are no ifs, so none of these assumptions hold

Therefore, adoption has become a multiple-choice question, which is fine. 28-year-old Xie An feels that he is not qualified to be the father of younger children. Xiao Xingyi is like a special gift from heaven to him who is careful, and he is not caught off guard.

Xie An began to go to the welfare home regularly during the next 3 years of graduate school, and basically kept going to the welfare home 2-3 times a week. Xie An has attached his qualification certificate to the affiliated hospital, and he is doing experiments at the same time as the clinic. He has no winter and summer vacations, so he can only take time off from the night shift, or occasionally go to see Xiao Xingyi after finishing the experiments at school in the afternoon. .

In those few years, he basically took over Xiao Xingyi's homework from junior high school to high school. He still remembered that after the mid-term exam in the third year of junior high school, he specially set aside time for the parent-teacher meeting.

At that parent meeting, Xiao Xingyi, Xiao Bean Sprout’s scores, were posted on the blackboard behind the class on the chaotic grades. Nowadays, schools generally don’t rank, but in order to meet the sense of urgency of the senior high school entrance examination, the class report card is still in the messy grades. Presented in order, Xie An looked at Xiao Xingyi's scores, and then went through the scores of other students in the list from top to bottom.

Well, No.4, if it is a little more stable according to the usual level, there is basically no special suspense in the senior high school entrance examination, and there are quite a lot of key high schools in Shanghai.

Xie An looked at Xiao Xingyi with a face full of relief, and couldn't help but patted his head.

Xiao Xing subconsciously wanted to avoid it, but the moment he stretched out his hand, he stopped again, lowered his head and acquiesced in the action.

Xie An looked at him with a smile, Xiao Xing had never talked much, and he didn't like to fight like other people of his age.

And,,, he seems to have grown taller again?

At that time, the little bean sprouts in the third grade of junior high school could no longer be called little bean sprouts. Xie An found that although Xiao Xingyi was exempted from physical education and did not participate in other outdoor activities, it did not hinder him from growing up at all.

After work, I have to complete the adoption formalities quickly, Xie An thinks this way, and before Xiao Xingyi turns 18, Xiao Xingyi will be an adult after 18 years old, Xie An is a person with entanglement and obsessive-compulsive disorder Pediatrician, the outpatient clinic stipulates that people over the age of 14 are not considered eligible for pediatrics. He had just graduated when Xiao Xingyi was 14 years old, and he did not have the ability or strength to adopt Xiao Xingyi. , just in the first year of regular training after graduation, Xie An can settle in Shanghai after graduation, Xiao Xingyi lives in high school, and can apply to stay in school during winter and summer vacations, so there will be no place to live.

After a few more years, Xie An will apply for affordable housing, and the "children" will have a place to stay when they come back.

Xie An felt that there was nothing wrong with this series of operations, except that it was a little poor and took a long time.

A child is probably the motivation for everyone, especially when you invest your time, energy, and hope that he will grow up healthily as you wish.If possible, Xie An also hopes that Xiao Xingyi is good enough, so that he will have more choices in going to school and working in the future.

After Xie An confirmed the feasibility of this series of operations, he waited with peace of mind until Xiao Xingyi was 18 years old, and then he realized that he seemed to have missed the age for the orphanage to adopt children.

Children over the age of 10 need to obtain the consent of the person to adopt, and the age of adoptable children cannot exceed 14 years old.

Xie An has been frustrated for a long time, feeling as if his IQ has been hit, so many rules and regulations can be followed in place, why didn't he even see the most basic ones?

Is it too many night shifts?Is the book stupid?But even if the time goes back to the time when he just met Xiao Xingyi who was 13 years old, Xie An did not meet the requirements. He was only 28 at that time. Requires ICU intubation to breathe.

Is it like this...

It's just that the adoption procedure really couldn't go through. At that time, Xie An struggled with it for several nights, but couldn't figure it out, so he gave up the procedure completely.

The head of the orphanage reminded Xie An that Xiao Xingyi was actually 18 years old and he could leave the orphanage as long as he wanted.

It's a pity that Xie An was still in the first year of regular training at that time, and he lived in the dormitory of the unit. He was too embarrassed to let Xiao Xingyi sleep with him in a bed that was narrower than the school.

Poverty really made him helpless. Xie An, a newly working adult, faced with Xiao Xingyi, a newly grown adult who was still studying, except for the company he usually spared time, and the resources for annual tuition and miscellaneous expenses and daily living expenses, he was almost stretched. up.

Without the adoption procedures, Xiao Xingyi will have no legal obligation to support Xie An in the future. In fact, Xie An doesn't care about this. He just feels that when he gets old and hospitalized, he has to sign it himself.

In any case, the appearance of Xiao Xingyi made him jump out of the 2 points and [-] line of work and writing a thesis.

When Xiao Xingyi was a little older, the director of the orphanage suggested that Xie An ask Xiao Xingyi if he would stay or not. At this time, it was already the sixth year since he met Xiao Xingyi.

It was Xiao Xingyi's second year in college at this time, and he was already 19 years old.

Xie An used his graduate student to settle in Shanghai and apply for the next set of affordable housing for small households with one bedroom and one living room.

It’s just that Little Bean Sprouts has grown taller than him, and outstanding young people still have excellent grades in college, and just as Xie An speculated, Xiao Xingyi’s asthma has been happening once a year since he grew up, and he hasn’t had an attack until now. pass.

Xiao Xingyi had nothing to worry about. He started to take physical education classes in college, and jogging gradually became less of a problem.

Health problems will no longer hinder him from future employment or education

And when he becomes an adult, he can choose to go out or stay in the orphanage

As for Xiao Xingyi, from the first day when he met Xie An who gave him a lecture patiently, he had a little dependence on the patient person who was unfamiliar at that time.

The initial dependence was very specific. He hoped and looked forward to the arrival of Xie An. He would do his homework well and listen to Xie An tirelessly explaining to him everything from mathematics to science. He would adore this learned man.

When he got older, his dependence and admiration in high school began to be mixed with some irritability. He felt very irritated watching his peers play together. Without doing homework, these irritability turned into complaints in my heart.

Why do you never bother?Are you not tired from work?Isn't the night shift hard?Why are you still giving me lectures here?

Xiao Xingyi's rebellious words only went around in his head a few times, but he didn't say it. Xie An was his light, he didn't know why he was so angry, and he couldn't say it.

So he made wrong questions over and over again when Xie An was lecturing, and after the monthly exam, Xie An found that all the questions he had told Xiao Xingyi were wrong, as if he hadn't, he couldn't laugh or cry.

Fortunately, Xiao Xingyi's rebellion didn't last long. When he saw Xie An come back with deeper dark circles to explain those outrageous questions to Xiao Xingyi, he finally let go of this resentment.

The logic of Xie An's speech was clear and easy to understand. Even though Xiao Xingyi could hear that Xie An had to deal with many small patients during the day, he kept drinking water to moisturize his throat during the lecture, but he still did not miss the interaction with Xiao Xingyi. After confirming that Xiao Xingyi understood everything, he would ask Xiao Xingyi to write it again, or ask himself a question.

Then he smiled generously and praised Xiao Xing for being able to understand everything.

For such a person, Xiao Xingyi's dependence and admiration generate a more complicated emotion. He is a little jealous of Xie An's patience and gentleness, even if he can feel at ease by his side, even if he enjoys such patience and gentleness as a matter of course. People are themselves.

Xie An is the light, and Xiao Xingyi couldn't help being jealous of the brilliance of this light

Thinking back to the day when the sophomore year started, Xiao Xingyi and Xie An moved their things up to the dormitory building one after the other.