embarrassed not embarrassed

With Chen Wenhao's care and company, the rest of the National Day holiday will not be so boring, and in a blink of an eye, the other three people in the dormitory will be back one by one tomorrow.

Ye Xiaotian thinks that Chen Wenhao is actually pretty good, straight to the point, he has no heart, he is obedient and cute when he behaves, as long as you treat him well, he will treat you better.Although it is true that a dog is a little unreasonable when it loses its temper, it is up to its own temper, and it doesn't matter whether people accept it or not, but there are usually reasons for it, and it doesn't happen for no reason.

So why does he get along badly with his classmates?Ye Xiaotian decided to ask.

In the evening, after Chen Wenhao finished playing games and took a shower, he turned off the light and climbed onto Chen Kai's bed to lie down.

Seeing that his phone was still on, Ye Xiaotian said:

"Hey, let me ask you a question!"

"Ok?"

Chen Wenhao thought that Ye Xiaotian had already fallen asleep, and when he heard talking to himself, he switched from one end of the bed to the other end facing Ye Xiaotian.

"go ahead."

"Well, if you don't want to say it, you don't have to say it!" Ye Xiaotian was afraid that he would accidentally step on some thunder, so he got angry again.

"Move your feet away from the top of my head first, and then talk to me in a different position!" Chen Wenhao said, patting the feet he saw when he raised his head.

"Oh, wait, right now!" After Ye Xiaotian finished speaking, he immediately changed direction and lay head to head with Chen Wenhao.

"Well, what do you want to ask?" Chen Wenhao said

"Well, that, didn't you say that you don't like your classmates, that they don't really want to be friends with you, I just want to ask, why do you think so?" Ye Xiaotian hesitated and didn't know how to ask. exit

"This..." Chen Wenhao didn't expect Ye Xiaotian to remember what he said, but he did say that he would explain it to him next time.

"Didn't you say that you are quite likable? I think you are so familiar with the auntie in charge of the dormitory downstairs. Last time you helped me deliver textbooks to the girls' dormitory, it was easy to chat with girls. How could you talk to the classmate?" Do you get along well with your classmates?"

"How do you know that I don't get along well with my classmates?" Chen Wenhao asked back, the surprise in his eyes was successfully concealed by the environment with the lights off

"I see that you always come to eat with me when you start school, and you always love to come to our dormitory, and you even like to play with us when you play ball. It seems that you have never seen you with your classmates, and that time is also It's not because no one has dinner with you that you went to the graduate school to find your brother, so I wonder if you don't have any friends who get along with you."

Ye Xiaotian rested his chin on both hands, and looked at Chen Wenhao who was lying on his back behind the bed rail through the faint light coming in through the thin bed curtain.

There was a moment of silence in the dark dormitory, Ye Xiaotian waited nervously for Chen Wenhao's answer.

He thought that Chen Wenhao was upset again and didn't want to talk to himself anymore.

This question is actually quite embarrassing. It is Chen Wenhao himself who advertised that he had a sweet mouth and was liked since he was a child, but now he doesn't get along well with his classmates...

"Wen Hao, you're not asleep, are you still listening?" Ye Xiaotian asked softly

"Hmm..." Chen Wenhao responded

"Actually, I don't have many friends. Those around me who want to get close to me and become friends with me are sincere and have a purpose. The only people around me who really care about me are my mother and me. Brother." Chen Wenhao finally spoke again

"Why do you think so?" Ye Xiaotian was a little surprised, how could this kid have such world-weary and cynical thoughts.

"After the military training, the classmates elected the class committee together, and they all chose me as the organization committee member. They thought I didn't know the reason. In fact, when I went to the bathroom, I heard some boys outside saying that my mother is the boss of the import and export company and asked me to be the committee member. In the future, it will be easier for the organizing committee members to organize any social practice activities in the class, and it will be easier for them to talk about their majors, and it will be easier to build a good relationship with me and go to my mother's company or the factory below for an internship."

"I thought they wouldn't know who my mother was so quickly, but I didn't expect them to figure out the situation in my family so clearly not long after school started!" Chen Wenhao said in a contemptuous tone

"So you think they all have a purpose and don't like to be friends with them?"

Ye Xiaotian understood, it turned out that this was the case, probably because of his temper, no wonder he lost his face at that time, which made everyone feel embarrassed, it is understandable that he is not easy to get in touch with and unwilling to be with him.He couldn't get used to this kind of thing, and if his classmates didn't like to be with him, he wouldn't take the initiative to find them.

"In the past, I have met several girls who liked my brother but came to approach me first. I really thought they liked me at first, but in the end they all asked me to help send gifts and love letters to my brother. Probably because I have a lively and outgoing personality, so I was easy to get in touch with at first, but my brother is a nerd type, only interested in things he likes, so it seems difficult to get close to him.”

"In short, those who took the initiative to approach me, those who wanted to be friends with me were almost either because of my mother or because of my brother, or they didn't know it at the beginning, but after they knew it, they all had their own purposes and thoughts .”

"I've really seen enough of these people's faces, so I don't want to be used by others, and I don't want to waste my feelings. If a person treats me sincerely, not for other purposes, then I will treat that person better !"

Chen Wenhao looked up at Ye Xiaotian, who was propping his head behind the bed rail, and said, his eyes were full of sincerity and anticipation, but they were also hidden by the night.

"But I think you are a bit extreme. University is not elementary school, junior high school or high school. It's the same as when you really entered the society. Human relationships are very complicated. It's normal to use and be used. You have to get used to it Just get up."

Ye Xiaotian felt that he could understand Chen Wenhao's feelings. His brother is too good, so he actually has a bit of low self-esteem, but everyone said that grandma likes the eldest grandson, and mother likes the younger son. From Chen Ling's mouth, it can be heard that Chen Wenhao was very popular with his mother and brother when he was young. Doted on, has a stubborn temper, strong self-esteem, has not suffered much setbacks, and is a bit resigned to death. I have met people and things that take advantage of him a few times, and I feel that others treat him well for a purpose, not because they treat him sincerely.

"It doesn't mean that you have to spend your heart and soul on those who approach you with a purpose, but that you have to get used to maintaining a harmonious relationship with those people. I think it's normal for your classmates to have this kind of thinking. If it's me You may be happy to have this advantage, because you can indeed bring more convenience and benefits to your classmates, can't you?"

Ye Xiaotian wanted to try his best to enlighten Chen Wenhao, let him understand that this society needs this kind of relationship between being used and being used, that he doesn't need to be sincere to everyone, and it is impossible to expect anyone to be sincere to him.

"You think that if you didn't hear what those boys said in the toilet, then you shouldn't refuse when everyone elects you as an organizing committee member. As an organizing committee member, you will organize some social practice for everyone. Activities or something, and at this time your mother's resources can indeed provide a lot of convenience."

"Well, what you said is right. If I didn't know what they think, I wouldn't be unhappy on the spot. I still have to be that study committee..."

Seeing that Chen Wenhao was a little moved by himself and started to follow his own train of thought, Ye Xiaotian continued:

"Sometimes being used by others is also a way of socializing. It allows you to make new friends faster and better integrate into the new environment. As long as their purpose is not bad, it is fine to hurt you."

"You think, if you didn't hear what they said at that time, if you became a member of this organization, and your classmates had more opportunities to study and practice because you had more opportunities than students in other classes, wouldn't they trust you more and like you more? You? Then your relationship will not be the same as it is now."

"Although there are not many people who can treat you sincerely, except for your mother and brother, you will definitely meet them. As long as you don't think things are so extreme, don't think of people as only asking for you and not paying for you. That's fine. You have to give others a chance, don't beat them to death with a stick at the beginning and give them a characterization."

"Friends help each other! Don't think of this kind of help as taking advantage of it. Just think that you are capable and can contribute to others. Besides, the more friends you have, the easier things will be. In case you will If you have anything to ask for help from others, use others, right! ”

No one has ever talked to himself like this, and no one has analyzed himself like this.Ye Xiaotian was the first person who discovered his problem and took the initiative to enlighten him.

"Well, how do you think I can have a good relationship with my classmates?" Chen Wenhao asked

Hearing that Chen Wenhao could ask such a question, Ye Xiaotian felt very happy. He didn't waste so long talking in vain.

"It's too simple. Didn't you hear what the boys in your class said in the bathroom? It's not difficult for you to do it, ha ha!" Ye Xiaotian said with a smile

"Oh, I understand what you mean, I will consider it." Chen Wenhao replied

After chatting with Chen Wenhao, Ye Xiaotian quickly fell asleep happily. He felt that he had a sense of accomplishment, and Chen Wenhao, a little extreme kid, was enlightened by himself.

But Chen Wenhao was lying on the bed staring at the dark ceiling of the dormitory, unable to fall asleep.

Suddenly Ye Xiaotian turned over, from lying on his side to sleeping on his back, Chen Wenhao hurriedly climbed onto the bed ladder, opened the mosquito net and stretched out his hand to turn over the sleeping Ye Xiaotian, and stuffed his pillow behind his back to save the trouble He then lay on his back and pressed onto the injured area.

Chen Wenhao crawled back to the bed, turned on the phone screen and lowered the brightness, stared blankly at Ye Xiaotian's face for a while before falling asleep.

When he woke up the next morning, Ye Xiaotian found out why there was a pillow behind him. Looking at Chen Wenhao, who was still sleeping on top of his head, there was no pillow under his head. He knew that he probably fell asleep last night and turned over to sleep , Chen Wenhao stuffed his own pillow behind his back to save him from sleeping on his back and pressing his tailbone.

Suddenly, I recalled a sentence Chen Wenhao said last night: If a person treats me sincerely, not for other purposes, then I will treat that person better.

Looking at his slightly parted thin lips, high nose, and closed eyes under the long eyelashes, his eyebrows and face shape are very similar to Chen Ling.

Oh my god, why do I always think of Chen Ling's face when I see Chen Wenhao?

Ye Xiaotian climbed down the bed ladder, went downstairs to the cafeteria for breakfast after washing up.

"Why did you go down to buy breakfast by yourself!?"

As soon as he entered the door, Ye Xiaotian was questioned by Chen Wenhao who was sitting on the bed with a displeased face.

"I see that you are sleeping soundly, so I don't have the nerve to call you. Anyway, it's the last day, and you won't sleep in tomorrow. Let you sleep a little longer." Ye Xiaotian knew that Chen Wenhao was worried about himself

"Breakfast includes bean curd, deep-fried dough sticks, soy milk, meat and cabbage buns, which one do you want, and eggs!" Ye Xiaotian looked up at Chen Wenhao who had just woken up with a smile and said

"You bought so many, I want tofu and fried dough sticks, and give me a meat bun and eggs!" Hearing so many delicious food, Chen Wenhao suddenly regained his energy.

"Then hurry up and wash your face and brush your teeth, the fritters won't taste good when they're cold." Ye Xiaotian put what Chen Wenhao wanted to eat on Chen Kai's table

Seeing Ye Xiaotian tear apart two fried dough sticks, Chen Wenhao was puzzled: "Why did you separate my fried dough sticks?"

"I want to eat it too, but I only bought one. I didn't expect you to want to eat it too. Anyway, it's two twisted together. If I share half of it, we can both eat it!" Ye Xiaotian felt that this was not just right. Solve the contradiction that both of them want to eat!

"You eat less fried food, eat light food, give me all the fried dough sticks, and you eat other!" Chen Wenhao hurriedly snatched the half-torn fried dough sticks

"Hey, what are you doing? The doctor didn't say that I can't eat fried food. Besides, the two barrels of KFC and French fries had already digested the fertilizer that night. You don't want me to eat fried food now, you It’s not fake! If you want to eat fritters, just say so, what excuse do you use me for? If you grab whatever you want, it’s over if you don’t give it to me!” Looking at the childish Chen Wenhao, Ye Xiaotian couldn’t help laughing.

Chen Wenhao looked at the baby face with a cuter smile, and felt that since he finished chatting with him last night, he always had the feeling that he could see everything at a glance, and really wanted to pull that face into his arms , just like the □□little beauty, rubbing that cute face hard!