Zhang Big Cat recovers from illness at home [Interstellar]

The next day, Yuan Jishan went to work, and Nie Shujie returned to the state of doing nothing at home.

Those who still want to come in to watch the tour find that the anchor is not going out today, and those who want to watch the show of affection find that the wealthy wife has actually gone to work.After Nie Shujie explained, he walked away and scattered, only those fans who came from the study room silently turned on the anchor and studied by themselves, without saying a word.

Nie Shujie was very calm and didn't care at all.

The anchor has always been a special entertainment industry where there is excitement.Yesterday he had a lot of fun to watch here, so there were naturally more people. Today there is no fun to watch, and it is not surprising that people left.

Fortunately, most of the fans did not unfollow him, probably because they wanted to continue to watch him travel on weekends.

Nie Shujie felt that this was enough, proving that his strength as a travel anchor had been recognized.

I thought it was another day of reading, but unexpectedly a passer-by entered his live broadcast room, and then began to confide his dissatisfaction with life to him like swiping the screen.When Nie Shujie saw such a large number of messages, he was almost dumbfounded for a moment, and he couldn't read too many of them.

This passer-by with a sad life should be a woman, and it tells the story of her getting married and entering the life of a full-time housewife with a husband and children.

This passer-by's family conditions are not bad, and her husband was okay at first, but after entering the marriage state, the wife always feels that her husband has problems, her children are always disobedient, and her family treats her very badly.There are so many things, even a tree planted in the community seems to have been deliberately planted there 800 years ago to 'hit' her child.

This kind of venting emotional confession, without even clicking on the attention, probably many anchors will ignore it.

Nie Shujie carefully read all the key content three or four times before asking: "Hello, Sanbai Tangbiancao, what is the most profound thing in your childhood?"

Sanbai Pond Grass: Anchor, I am really suffering.

Sanbai Pond Grass: Why is my fate like this?

Sanbai Pond Grass: The most impressive?There are too many, many things are so profound.

"It's okay, then tell me. I'll take a serious look at it." Nie Shujie said softly.

The gentleness soothed the hearts of passers-by, and the grass beside the Sanbai pond felt a moment of tranquility before they started talking.It feels really good to be cared about.

The grass on the edge of the Sanbai pond wanted to pour out all the misfortunes he had encountered in his childhood, but he didn't know what to say when the words came to his mouth.

Obviously she complained a lot just now, and she knows exactly what she ate these past few days, and when she tried to flip through her previous memories, she couldn't think of anything particularly profound.

She actually has many, but she suddenly forgot at this moment.

Sanbai Pond Grass: I forgot, I do this occasionally.Menopause, there are some problems.

Nie Shujie was very gentle, smiled and nodded in agreement with the other party, and then encouraged him: "It's okay, is there anything else, do you want to talk about your childhood?"

There was a long silence on the side of the grass by the Sanbai pond.

Sanbai Pond Grass: Let me tell you something that I remember now.About my screen name.

"Okay. I'll listen carefully." Nie Shujie leaned forward slightly and moved closer to the camera, giving the audience on the other side an extremely gentle and serious look.

Three White Pond Grass: Three White Grass is also known as pond lotus root.Its flowers are small and clustered in clusters.But one or two leaves on the top are white, some are white lower, and some are only half a leaf, but it looks like a big blooming flower from a distance.

Nie Shujie nodded, without any doubts about the explanation of the herbs.

Sanbai Pond Grass: I was born in a very remote village.There is a building materials factory nearby, and people in our village often go there, digging the ground, making the surrounding area very ugly.Only the wild Sanbai grass by the pond grows beautifully, like a flower.

Sanbai Pond Grass: When I was young, I liked to play there.There was an old lady who lived there, and she didn't drive me away when she saw me, and often gave me food.

Sanbai Pond Grass: Grandma is a poor person. She gave birth to many children, but the filial ones left by accident, and the unfilial ones left her troubles far away.Fortunately, she has the money left by her wife and children, and the neighbors help each other, so she barely survives.

Nie Shujie intuitively felt that this old lady was the key person.

Sanbai Pond Grass: My grandma stopped studying until junior high school, but she often persuaded me to study

Sanbai Pond Grass: Then I went to high school, and when I went back for the summer vacation, my grandma had already left

Three White Pond Grass: I heard...

Sanbai Pond Grass: I don’t know if it’s true

As the word replies got slower and slower, Nie Shujie felt that the truth was about to surface.

Grass by the Sanbai Pond: Grandma fell at home

Grass by the Three White Pond: no one helped it up

Sanbai Pond Grass: That’s it, there’s no need to wait

Seeing the last six words, Nie Shujie frowned empathetically.

This feeling is obviously very painful, longer and more uncomfortable than personal experience.But the dead are gone, but the living have to suffer all the time, thinking about it over and over again, gradually fermenting into more unforgettable pain.

Nie Shujie sighed, and when both of them got better, he looked at the camera and said: "The things you didn't say, maybe you subconsciously feel that these things are not worth mentioning. It's not worth remembering. But ah, You still have to be strong. You just grow by the pond, not another three-white pond grass, and will not continue the fate of others. Happiness is given to yourself. If you don’t even believe that you will be happy, how can others give it to you? What about happiness?"

Three white pond grass: But.

Only two words were typed, but nothing else was said.

Nie Shujie thought for a while, and then said: "Promise me, in the next week, you can do whatever you want. If you want to drink milk tea, then drink milk tea. If you want to watch a movie, then watch a movie. Don't think so More, do what you subconsciously want to do."

Sanbai Tangbiancao: I want to beat my 16-year-old son, what should I do?

Sanbai Pond Grass: I can't beat him

Nie Shujie: "..."

Is this what you should be struggling with?

Controlling the expression on his face, Nie Shujie said in a gentle voice: "No. You must like your child deep down in your heart. Since you love your child subconsciously, why would you want to beat him?"

"I'm angry because things didn't happen as you expected," Nie Shujie said calmly, with infinite tolerance, "You are a gentle person. You don't want to hurt the child, you just want the child to become better. And you have long realized that beating and scolding a child can't make him better, so why would you beat him when you are gentle?"

Sanbai Pond Grass: Right, right, I understand now that you said that.

Sanbaitang Biancao: I don’t really want to beat the child, but I don’t know where to use the anger, and I always feel that nothing is right

Sanbai Pond Grass: What should I do if something happens again?

Before they knew it, the passers-by had regarded Nie Shujie as their savior, hoping that Nie Shujie could give them a good solution to their problems.

"Well." Nie Shujie thought carefully for a moment, and said: "The method must vary from person to person. I can't guarantee whether it will suit you. But if something unpleasant happens to you again, if it is the other party, then you can say, 10 minutes of silence, let's come up with a solution together."

This is equivalent to throwing the problem back, and there is an extra person in my heart who can share my weight.

At the same time, these 10 minutes also gave myself a buffer to calm down.

"The problem has already happened, and it is impossible not to affect it at all." Nie Shujie continued, "The other party may not be able to give a solution, and it may make you even more angry. But you can give yourself a minimum standard of happiness. "

"Be a rascal. Death is a big deal in life. Anyway, I'm still alive today, I'm still full, and I can still do something I want to do in my busy schedule. This is much happier than many people. Isn't it?"

"If you are not enough to compare with the top, then you will have more than the bottom."

"It's not easy to get rich in another family. It's not like the obedient child of another family is really thrown aside and let him grow up wild."

"What should be suffered must be endured, and what should be walked must be walked."

"It's just that other people's father has suffered, but my own father has not suffered."

"I'm not lucky, so I'll eat the bitterness myself, and at least I'll be able to taste some sweetness in the rest of my life. But if I don't eat it myself, then I'll have to continue to suffer from this bitterness for the rest of my life."

Fate is always extremely fair.

If you think it's unfair, it's just that you don't see the suffering of others.

She doesn't see other people suffer, only sees her own hard work, so she can't stop complaining, complaining about everything around her, like everyone is sorry for her.

Sanbai Tang Biancao thanked Nie Shujie and left.

Nie Shujie found that he had gained hundreds of fans while chatting.And his house manager even controlled the screen, and didn't let everyone talk until the grass on the edge of the Sanbai pond had finished asking questions.

Nie Shujie was almost overwhelmed by the vigorous barrage that filled the screen, and his eyes were almost dazzled.

[Little brother Kiss Red is amazing, is it a psychology major in university? 】

"No. I study art. I will indeed read related books."

"It's more about parents' precepts and deeds. My grandma is a hamster and half-orc, so she has her own set of principles."

"My grandma said the most words. When I am old, I can't lift my shoulders or hands. All I can do is listen to your words. At that time, I thought my grandma was very powerful, because she seemed to have a magic. As long as you talk to grandma, you will feel better."

It was probably at that time that he had the idea of ​​engaging in the live broadcast industry.

[So gentle, I'm sorry for the overbearing wife, I'm going to be the concubine of Kiss Red Brother]

"..." Nie Shujie was helpless, "I'm sorry. We don't accept concubines."

[Little brother is really nice.Counseling fees are expensive. 】

"I don't know what to broadcast live. I feel very happy to be able to chat with everyone."

[When did the little brother fall in love with the housing manager? 】

"I can't give an exact date, so I fell in love with him unconsciously. After all, our housekeeper is so handsome, or..." Halfway through the sentence, Nie Shujie, who realized that he had been tricked, hurriedly covered his mouth.

Yuan Jishan, who was drinking coffee during the break: "..."

Slices of yoooooo appeared in the barrage.