Fall in love with the ex Bai Yueguang

Tan Ke returned to the company and went to the company's health room first.

Long Whale's health room mainly provides psychological counseling for employees.

After the last consultant left, the company has not been able to find a suitable person. It happened that Tan Xin was called back from Africa by his father, so Tan Ke simply called his younger sister to take over.

Seeing her brother come in, Tan Xin held her chest as if she had seen a ghost in broad daylight: "Isn't it? I don't want to give you psychological counseling, I will be very stressed!"

"Stop acting." Tan Ke pulled a chair and sat down, "I want to ask you something, is there any way to quickly relieve the tension?"

Tan Xin thought for a while: "It depends on the specific situation, how nervous are you?"

"Speaking English will make you nervous, and you may be so nervous that you can't speak at all." Tan Ke said.

Tan Xin asked: "Have traumatic experiences? Excessive criticism? Ridiculous?"

Tan Ke nodded.

"It is difficult to find a quick solution to this situation." Tan Xin gave a negative answer, "Because the body already has its own predictive mechanism, as long as the brain recognizes a specific situation, the entire neural pathway will operate spontaneously , to secrete cortisol and catecholamines. Once in this state, it is impossible to suppress the physiological response by taking deep breaths and self-comfort."

"Generally speaking, long-term consultation is required, with diet, exercise, family support, and when necessary, medication control." Tan Xin came to the final conclusion, "Quick relief is unlikely."

Tan Ke frowned and said nothing.

He heard from Fang Xian that Shen Zhichuan was very anxious to thank Li for his English because there was a public event recently.

Although he comforted Xie Li today, the comfort was obviously not enough, it was useless, it was just a bowl of chicken soup.

He thought for a while, and then asked Tan Xin: "If he is allowed to speak in public under such circumstances, the situation will not get better, right?"

Tan Xin shrugged: "Of course, this is equivalent to strengthening his bad experience, and the experience of failure will only deepen the trauma. Forcing the patient to repeatedly enter the scene that frightened him, from the doctor's point of view, this is already mental abuse. .”

Tan Xin was extremely curious: "Brother, who are you asking for, are you nervous because our family doesn't speak English?"

Tan Ke coughed dryly and said lightly, "A friend."

Tan Xin raised her eyebrows, and said in a tone of voice: "Oh, my sister is really incompetent. I don't know when my brother has a friend who makes him care so much. My brother has stopped kissing me."

She also pretended to sigh.

Tan Ke broke the ground, with an unnatural look on his face.

He also knew very well in his heart that his attention to Xie Li had far exceeded the normal level, even surpassing the two partners he had dated before.

Especially since he entered Huajie, he has been very busy, and he has never paid attention to others.

Xie Li was the first one in a long time to let him solve his personal problems during working hours.

Tan Ke forcibly changed the topic: "What about the medicine? Are there any medicines that can relieve tension?"

Tan Xin frowned slightly, and didn't quite agree with this idea: "First of all, medication must be carefully evaluated, because drugs that act on the central nervous system or hormone-blocking drugs all have side effects. If the condition has not reached a certain level, if it is just simple It is impossible for an ethical doctor to prescribe medicines for such patients.”

She pointed to herself: "Your sister and I, the medical ethics index is over the top, I will not give you advice on medication."

Tan Ke was silent for a while, then stood up: "Well, it seems that this is the only way to go."

He still has a job, so he can't stay here forever with Tan Xin.

In the evening video conference, the analyst here read the analysis report of the medic to the ppt.

Tan Ke listened for a while, and began to lose his mind involuntarily.

He couldn't help but wonder how Xie Li would solve this matter.

The best solution, of course, is for Xie Li to tell Shen Zhichuan himself that he will not participate in that activity, and then start receiving counseling and treatment, striving for a speedy recovery.

Based on his understanding of Shen Zhichuan, although that person sometimes has a very poisonous mouth, his heart is still soft, so he wouldn't force Xie Li to go.

But he doubted whether Xie Li would take the initiative to speak up.According to Xie Li, this problem should have existed for a long time.

If Xie Li could speak to Shen Zhichuan by himself, then he would have said it long ago, so it wouldn't be delayed until now.

So the whole matter is very likely to lead to the worst outcome, that is, Xie Li is unwilling to tell Shen Zhichuan, so he can only force himself to speak on stage. In the end, due to excessive nervousness, he failed to speak in public, leaving a heavier psychological shadow.

Tan Ke seldom worries about something that cannot be resolved and is difficult to give up.

Rationally speaking, he has tried his best, but emotionally he is unwilling to accept this result.

Tan Ke stared at the projection screen with a stern expression, a pen in his hand was pinched and clicked.

The analyst who read the PPT thought he was dissatisfied with the content and panicked.

The other people in the conference room did not dare to show their atmosphere, and sat upright.

After reading the PPT, Tan Ke still didn't respond, and said nothing with a cold face.

Fang Xian was in charge of Long Whale's domestic team in the past.Fang Xian is very easy to get along with, usually joking and very close to the people, and will not lose his temper with his subordinates when there is a problem at work.

Tan Ke previously led the business in the United States, and communicated with China through video.Every time my colleagues in China are picked on in the video, they are picked up to the point of being bruised.

As big as a specific decision, as small as a wrong punctuation mark in a PPT, it can arouse Tan Ke's dissatisfaction.

Colleagues in the Chinese team were terrified of him.

Last year, the old whale began to slowly shift its focus back to China. Everyone in the Chinese team was in danger, counting the days to count their own death.

No one in the conference room dared to speak, for fear that they would become the one that blew up the boss' temper.

Or the American colleague in the video jokingly called his name: "Are you paying us three times the overtime wage just to let us appreciate your face?"

It was almost ten o'clock when Tan Ke got home from get off work.

After working out, he read the information for a while, and after taking a shower, he lay on the bed and tossed and turned for more than an hour without feeling sleepy.

Looking at the time, it was past two o'clock.

His working hours are very long, and his average sleep time from Monday to Friday is less than five hours. He relies on exercise and weekend sleep to maintain his state, and he basically sleeps in bed.

This was the first time he had trouble falling asleep in bed.

On the way back from the car, he decided not to interfere too much. After all, Xie Li's matter should be resolved by himself.

If Xie Li couldn't open his mouth to explain the difficulties to Shen Zhichuan, he couldn't make the decision on Xie Li's behalf.

But when he was lying on the bed, he felt that this decision was inappropriate.

If Xie Li could speak by himself, he would have done so long ago.

If he couldn't speak by himself, Tan Ke stared at the lines on the ceiling and thought, he was just watching the child being mentally abused.

He likes the way Xie Li smiles, his eyes are dark and full of vitality.He hoped that Xie Li could keep smiling like this.

Tan Ke couldn't fall asleep at all.

He took out his mobile phone and called Fang Xian.

Fang Xian is at the racing track, surrounded by the sound of roaring engines: "What's the matter, I almost put in the wrong gear when your call came in. No, why are you still up? What time is it?"

Tan Ke got a headache from the noise over there, and rubbed his temples: "Find a quiet place, I have something to ask you."

Fang Xian thought there was something wrong with his new hedging strategy, so he quickly got out of the car: "What happened?"

Tan Ke's tone was dignified: "How was Carson's catatonic aphasia cured back then? How long did it take?"

Fang Xian almost thought he heard it wrong: "You didn't sleep and called in the middle of the night just to ask this?"

He paused, and immediately recalled: "Damn, you really have a situation with that little boy."

Tan Ke did not deny it.

Fang Xian chuckled: "Okay, the iron tree is blooming."

Tan Ke's tone was bad: "Say it quickly after you finish laughing."

Fang Xian became serious: "I feel that he is actually not as serious as Carson. Carson would have completely refused to communicate with him. That little boy should just be too nervous about someone, or my identity made him nervous, for example, he was afraid Embarrassing yourself in front of strangers, stuff like that."

There was no sound on the other end of the phone.

Fang Xian greeted him twice, and he was answered with a "beep" busy tone.

Tan Ke pulled Tan Xin out of his sleep again: "Would it be helpful to create the illusion that there is no one around?"

Tan Xin held up the phone in a daze: "Who? What? Oh, you said the one you asked in the afternoon. It should be. If he can say it in a place where no one is around, then he can. Brother, are you crazy? What time is it, let's talk tomorrow, okay?"

Tan Xin hung up the phone.

Tan Ke called Assistant Xiao again.

Assistant Xiao was also very dissatisfied, but he maintained basic respect for his generous annual salary: "Boss, what do you want?"

Tan Ke said: "Help me check the contact information of the boy who took us to the astronomical observatory last time. You are responsible for contacting Lanzhou University, so you should be able to find it."

Secretary Xiao resisted the drowsiness: "Yes."

Tan Ke's tone was very domineering. CEO: "Okay, give it to me in half an hour."

Tan Ke has a crazy idea.

If Xie Li could speak relaxedly in a private environment—

Isn't it just an activity?Is there any need for sponsorship?

He came to be a sponsor, and he came to set up the venue.

If Xie Li is still too nervous to speak when the time comes, then ask someone to pull the electric switch of the venue.

Isn't it just money?

Can a problem in this world that can be solved with money be called a problem?

The author has something to say: Assistant Xiao: Don't get angry, don't get angry, no one will replace you when you get sick, and the boss is a fool.