he came on the light

Chapter 2

The children gradually joined the game team when they saw the prototype of the necklace. At the beginning, only a few optimistic children were doing it, but as more and more students joined, the children's herd mentality played a positive role. effect, so I slowly started to hold the hands of the students around me.

But there was a little girl about four years old in the crowd. She stood timidly by herself, unwilling to join the crowd's game.

"Xiaoya, why don't you hold your brother and sister's hand?"

Xie Chuyun felt a little embarrassed at first, his eyes were erratic, and he happened to see Xiaoya who was not moving in the crowd.

"I...I...don't want to...no..."

Xiaoya stammered, her big beautiful eyes were wet, she blinked lightly, two lines of teardrops ran across her cheeks, leaving two traces of tears.

"Has Xiaoya always been like this? I mean her verbal expression." Xiang Heng walked towards the dean and asked in a low voice.

"Xiaoya usually doesn't talk very much. Even if we ask her, she will only answer us with nodding and shaking her head. We have done relevant physical examination for her, and the doctor said that her ear, nose and throat are very healthy. Repulsion, unwillingness to communicate and communicate with others." said the dean.

"How old is Xiaoya?" Xiang Heng continued to ask.

"Four and a half years old, her parents died in an accident when she was three years old, and there was no one at home, so she was sent to us. She doesn't like to talk, even our teachers here ignore it. Someone wanted to Adopted her, but after seeing her so quiet, they all gave up the idea of ​​adopting, this incident caused a lot of blows to Xiaoya. Except for Chu Yun, Xiaoya hardly communicates with anyone." said the dean .

"Then can you ask Chu Yun to take Xiaoya to rest first? I'll take the other children to play games first, and I'll go check on Xiaoya's situation right away." Xiang Heng said.

Inadvertently, Xiang Heng proficiently called out this name, feeling a little secretly happy in his heart.

"Okay, I'll go and tell Chu Yun right now." The dean whispered in Xie Chuyun's ear after leaving. After a while, Chu Yun took Xiaoya away, and Xiang Heng continued to play games with other children.

"Today is the first time my brother met you. I want to know your names, ages, hobbies, and what you most want to say." Xiang Heng said to the children. Seeing the blank faces of the children, he continued proofing.

"A willow tree swayed, swayed, swayed, and it reached the Angel Orphanage. It wanted to be friends with me, so it asked me what my name was. I said, my name is Xiang Xiang. I am 27 this year. I like to sleep and play games. I want to say the most. In other words, today’s volunteer brother is really cute.”

The children were a little confused, but with Xiang Xiang's encouragement, some brave children stood up.

"The two willows shook and shook, and they reached the Angel Orphanage. They wanted to be friends with me, so they asked me what my name was? What I said is that I want to grow up quickly."

With the beginning, the students soon got better and better, and the younger children boldly spoke out, although they could not do without the help of volunteers.

Seeing the children opening their hearts little by little, they shook their arms happily, imitating the lovely willow tree.

Due to the large number of people, the game lasted for almost an hour. After the game was over, Xiang Heng asked the children to give their speeches.

Each child has different personality traits and different ages of psychological maturity. Xiang Heng suggested teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, and said that he would come every week to carry out classroom games and mental health checks for the children.

The principal looked at Xiang Heng gratefully, but Xiang Yun was puzzled. His younger brother was used to being indifferent. If she hadn't used force to force him, this guy would definitely not have come to the orphanage. How could he be in the weekly newspaper now? where?

"Thank you, Dr. Xiang, I really thank you for these children." The dean was a little excited. Their orphanage did not have the ability to hire a psychologist. They thought they would let the children's hearts develop, but they didn't expect Xiang Xiang Will offer to help.

"It's okay, let's go and see Xiaoya's situation first! I will send you some other problems I observed by email tonight." Xiang Heng said.

"Okay." The dean took Xiang Heng and Xiang Yun to visit Xiaoya. At this time, Xiaoya was lying in Xie Chuyun's arms, and there was no movement. Everyone thought she was asleep.

"Xiaoya, don't be afraid. Uncle wants to invite you to look at the stars, okay?" Xiang Heng walked to Xie Chuyun's side and patted Xiaoya's back lightly. She knew that the child was in an extremely tense environment It is difficult to fall asleep with her, so he is sure that Xiaoya is pretending to be asleep now.

Xiaoya still didn't move. Xiang Xiang knew that this was children's self-protection tendency. In this protection, even children with limited cognitive ability would form a unique way to protect themselves.

"Twinkle, twinkle, the sky is full of little stars." Xiang Heng gave his sister a wink, signaling him to turn off the curtains and lights in the room.

Xiang Yun quietly told the principal, and then closed the curtains respectively.Xiaoya was still lying on Xie Chuyun's lap, but her body moved subconsciously.

She secretly exposed her head, but found that the whole room was dark, and her little heart was traumatized again. The unpleasant fragment of memory made her tremble subconsciously, and she wanted to call out, but because of long-term depression, she did not. Can't pronounce a single syllable.

"Xiaoya, does it look good?" Xiang Heng asked softly, using an app on his phone, he simulated starlight and smoke clouds.

Xiaoya secretly revealed her small head, because she was covered with sweat from lying on Xie Chuyun's lap for a long time.

"Okay...look..." Xiaoya stretched out her hand to touch it, but she withdrew her hand in the next second, she was afraid that all this was an unreal dream.

"Xiaoya, don't be afraid, you can create your own starry sky." Xiang Heng put the phone lightly in Xiaoya's hand, and there was something he wanted to confirm.

"do not want!"

This time Xiaoya's mood fluctuated greatly, she directly threw Xiang Yun's cell phone out. Although she was only four years old and even a little malnourished little girl, she showed great strength at this moment.

The mobile phone was dropped on the ground and fell to pieces. Everyone was dumbfounded and couldn't believe that this was something Xiaoya would do.

"Dean, come out with me." Xiang Heng said.

The dean felt that he was sweating profusely behind him, and he was at a loss when he heard Xiang Heng call him.

"Dean, don't be afraid. I think Xiaoya is a cognitive abnormality of post-traumatic stress disorder. The scope of trauma is very wide. It may be physical or psychological. It's just that one is easy to observe and the other is not easy to observe. It's just that there is not enough evidence to show that I still need to observe." Xiang Heng said to the dean outside the door of the bathroom.

"Then why did she have such an impulsive reaction just now?" The dean still has lingering fears. Xiaoya may have just thrown a cell phone now, but it may not cause harm to other students in the future.

"I know what you're worried about now, and that's what I'm also worried about. The cognitive impairment caused by the trauma has prompted an aggressive personality in her heart." Before Xiang Heng finished speaking, he was interrupted by the anxious dean .

"Xiaoya is only four and a half years old, how could she have an aggressive personality?" the dean asked nervously.

"This has nothing to do with age. Aggressive behavior first appeared in infancy. In the process of socialization, children will gradually learn to control their behavior due to the demands of the society. But Xiaoya has experienced serious psychological trauma. She Compared with ordinary people, her controlling behavior is weaker. And she has been autistic for a long time, she is unwilling to contact with this world, and is immersed in her small world. Over time, she will describe this small world, but because no one communicates with her, so she Our small world may be evil or wrong, and there is no way to correct these." Xiang Heng hoped that the dean could understand what he wanted to express, but before the dean asked a question, a voice came from behind, Gentle as jade, but a little urgent.

"Then is there any way to help Xiaoya?" Xie Chuyun asked.

"Of course there is a solution, but it may take a while, and someone needs to work hard with Xiaoya." Xiang Heng turned his head to look at Xie Chuyun, and his originally formulaic voice unexpectedly became gentle.

"Huh?" Xie Chuyun didn't quite understand what Xiang Heng meant.

"The opposite of aggressive behavior is pro-social behavior, but because of Xiaoya's self-isolation, it is difficult for her to accept unfamiliar strangers. She is still willing to believe in you and the dean, but the degree of belief is different. From just now The way you hold Xiaoya, she is willing to hide in your arms, which proves that she accepts you and longs for your company. If you really want to help Xiaoya build a sound personality, you must be inseparable from it. Help." Xiang Heng said.

"You have to tell Xiaoya in your own way that this world is beautiful, why there are so many children who make mistakes in this world, but the law protects them. One of the important reasons is that their minds are not yet fully sound. Xiaoya Ya now has obvious obstacles in her cognitive system, she will have a prejudice, that is, she only believes what she thinks and what she sees, she will directly ignore your kindness to her, and even think that you are hurting her, So as to make an instinctive counterattack." Xiang Heng said.

"I can." Xie Chuyun doesn't want Xiaoya to continue living in a wrong personality, she should re-understand the beauty of this world.

"Okay, then can we leave some contact information for each other? Some details may be sent to you after I go back and organize them." Xiang Heng said.

"Okay." Xie Chuyun took out his mobile phone, but thought that Xiang Xiang's mobile phone was smashed by Xiaoya just now, he was a little at a loss, so he had to put the mobile phone back silently.