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The weather is turning cold, and it is winter in a blink of an eye.

Although the four seasons here are not as distinct as in the north, there is another way of cooling in winter, which once made me miserable as a newcomer.

On the day of the winter solstice, I cooked quick-frozen dumplings for Bai Youyou, although there is no habit of eating dumplings during the winter solstice here, and Yoyo said that my cooking is not as good as his grandma's.

No matter how good I am with this quick-frozen dumpling, Bai Youyou has already remembered it well at a young age. During the summer, his mother came to live for a while, and every day he made delicious food for him in different ways. He remembers everything firmly. Now Still like a few treasures.

In fact, my cooking skills are still good, so I have to make a note here.

I have begun to notice Yoyo's sensitivity and intelligence beyond her years.Of course, it is inevitable for any parent to be blindly confident that their children are smarter and more promising, but I am not.

Because Yoyo is not my own.

But like every parent, I worry that I can't give him a better education and better opportunities.I spent a lot of money to send him to a bilingual kindergarten.Yu Fan also told me more than once, before Yoyo went to school, "You should think about it again."

I don't know what to think.

After finally coaxing my little ancestor to finish eating the dumplings that were not highly rated, I cleaned up the kitchen and came back to build Lego with him.The weather forecast was broadcasting a cooling warning, so I was a little absent-minded.I suddenly began to think back, when did I know that I would eat dumplings during the winter solstice.

Probably after I was admitted to University of U and went to Beicheng.

In college, I got to know the accents of many places, and I also saw a lot of dishes that I had never seen before.There are siu mai stuffed with glutinous rice, and Chao Shou with red oil floating in it.Zimo and I have always loved the spicy hot pot in the canteen of the North District. In today's words, it is really a pearl on the tip of U's tongue.

At the beginning, I was inconceivable that Zi Mo was from Island W, but he liked spicy food very much.

Of course, I can actually have a roommate from w island, which itself is also incredible.

In those days when Zimo and I were galloping around the canteen in the North District, Zimo must have eaten all the peppers in my spicy pot.He would take away the peppers in my pot and pity me for not being able to appreciate the essence of the spicy hot pot.When I went to Carrefour with him for the first time, I was terrified when he bought several bottles of Laoganma.

He said sternly, "Lao Ganma is the quintessence of China!" With the accent he brought from Island W that was exactly the same as that of Lin Chiling, it is still so vivid in retrospect.

Yoyo tugged on my sleeve, interrupting my thoughts.He asked me whether the fountain should be built in the courtyard or on the roof.On his immature face was serious indecision.

This is a bit difficult for his father.I'm not good at making decisions myself, and I'm even less good at making decisions for others.

Bai Youyou's surname is Bai. Of course, he is not my son.But the amazing thing is that I feel more and more that he is beginning to resemble me in many ways, and maybe his personality really depends on the day after tomorrow.And it is said that the boy's IQ is [-]% inherited from his mother, so I am very satisfied with this little ancestor who has no blood and is sometimes difficult to serve.

Yu Fan scoffed at my theory, "That's because Yoyo is good-looking, why don't you try another ugly child? I don't believe you can keep it."

Well, I have to admit that appearance is indeed one of the factors that cannot be ignored.

"Then, Yoyo wants to build the fountain there?"

"I want to build one in the yard and one on the roof."

While talking, Yoyo gestured up and down with the fountain in her hand.No fountain will be built on the roof, I thought.Of course, I wouldn't say that.

"But Yoyo only has one fountain in her hand."

He blinked, as if he understood, "Dad, can you buy me another one?"

"..."

I kind of regret it, I might as well have told him the fountain should be in the yard from the start.

This set of genuine Lego was sent by Zi Mo from Island W. It’s such a big box. I don’t know what kind of commemorative edition it is.Later, after Bai Youyou put it together for the first time, I took a photo and posted it on Moments. Colleagues who know the goods left a message below saying envy.I searched the price on the Internet, good guy, the original price is more than 3000, and it has been out of stock for a long time, and the second-hand one has already sold for tens of thousands.I immediately sent a message to Zimo saying that he spent money recklessly, and he was plausible, "A boy as beautiful as our Yoyo must be rich! If you can't afford it, Feifei, send me to Island W, okay?" ?”

That is, this year, he told Zhou Yuandi that he wanted to adopt a child, but considering the fragile heart of the old man of the Zhou family, the matter finally fell through.

I didn't dare to make trouble with him in this matter, so I quickly asked him to save Yoyo's education fund, and when Yoyo despised me as a poor father, he would go to W Island to join him as a rich godfather.

I didn't expect this day to come so soon, I thought miserably.

The mobile phone received a video request, and Yoyo answered it skillfully, and began to report his daily chores to grandma.After the video, Yoyo had long forgotten about the fountain.

I lead him to pack his toys, take a bath, and tell a story to bed.Yoyo likes to listen to the few stories he likes over and over again. I even doubt that he can tell them better than me.After Yoyo fell asleep, I went back to the living room to check if there were any building blocks or puzzles that had been thrown to the corners.Yoyo's birthday is in the twelfth lunar month, so he's not a Virgo, but he has obsessive-compulsive disorder, he can't do without anything, he must find it until he finds it, and he will never let it go.

This kind of stubbornness and persistence is not at all like me who is happy with the situation, and when I think about it, his mother doesn't seem to be like this either.At this time, I can only put the blame on his father who has never met, and then comfort myself that the child's temper can be changed gradually, as long as I teach it well.

I have never concealed his life experience from Yoyo, and Yoyo is not obsessed with it.He once asked me why he didn't have a mother, and I told him that his mother was dead and went to heaven, and he understood.Later, she came to tell me that Anna in the class did not have a mother, and her mother was also in the sky. It seems that mothers will not be lonely in the sky.After some time, he asked me why he had a different last name than mine, but Tom's last name was Lee, and Tom's father also had the same last name.I told him that I was not the father who gave birth to him, but the father who raised him. He nodded sensibly and didn't feel sad.

It's just that for a long time afterwards, Yoyo thought that the girl was born by the mother, and the boy was born by the father.He asked me confused, why did Susan say that her mother's womb was a little brother, shouldn't the brother be in her father's womb?

I burst into tears with laughter, and posted this joke to Moments, Xiao Qing quickly liked it below and said, "A child can be taught".I was afraid of her, so I quickly replied to her that she was three years old, and I was pretty sure that Yoyo was a straight man, so I told her not to think too much about it.

"Straight or not, it's not up to you!" Xiao Qing replied.

Of course I won't be serious with her, she has always been like this.She wished that all the handsome men in the world were gay, and claimed that "the reason why a straight man is straight is because he has not met the one who makes him bend".

When I met Xiao Qing back then, it could almost be regarded as a subversion of my worldview.

At that time, I was an ordinary teenager who had just come out of an ordinary family in a local province or city. I never thought that men could still like men, let alone that there were girls who were willing to do so.

Xiao Qing is the senior sister of Zi Mo's childhood sweetheart, the two of them have been admitted to U University successively, and both of them are in the Department of Computer Science, so they have a very good relationship.At that time, all of us knew that Zimo liked Senior Sister, and knew that he was happy to support Senior Sister, but we only wished that we had no chance to go through fire and water for Senior Sister.At that time, Zi Mo's pursuit of Xiao Qing was secret and open, everyone could see it, everyone knew about it, but Xiao Qing only regarded him as the little brother next door, cared for him as much as possible, and then remained indifferent.

It was only at a very unexpected timing that I asked Xiao Qing if she knew Zi Mo liked her.Unexpectedly, Xiao Qing chuckled, "When he was in elementary school, he said that he would marry me when he grew up."

The timing was so special, and her answer made such an impression on me.

Because she then said, "Damn it, I've already seen that Zhou Yuandi is wrong!"

By that time, my two roommates had been crushed on each other.

I think [-]% of Xiao Qing's "damn" is her inherent prejudice against Zhou Yuandi, and [-]% is her inability to do anything about this situation.But no matter what, I am totally in admiration of Xiao Qing's unique prediction.

Some people only see handsome guys, while others can see adultery between handsome guys, even adultery that hasn't happened yet.

Xiao Qing benevolently likes all types of handsome guys, of course this also includes gentle and scumbag handsome guys, but Zhou Yuandi, who is gentle and scumbag, is not included.

Although Zhou Yuandi is handsome and has a good family background, whether it is academic performance or student work, he is outstanding in everything, and even his romantic nature is a plus.It is said that in the third year of high school alone, he changed four girlfriends in his busy schedule.Zhou Yuandi's high school is a famous school in the city T next door, and the number of ex-girlfriends and ex-girlfriends' ex-boyfriends who have been admitted to U University together is quite impressive.After entering the university, Mr. Zhou's skills remained unabated, and he won the Department of Foreign Languages ​​in just two weeks of military training. He can be said to be a well-deserved romantic figure in our class.

Xiao Qing reminded Zimo not to get too close to Zhou Yuandi early on, so as not to be infected with rotten peach blossoms.

Facing Xiao Qing's warning, Zi Mo secretly covered his chest and said to me, "Feifei, senior sister really cares about me!"

I was also very moved, "That's right! You have a little confidence too, okay?"

Looking back now, we were really silly and funny back then.

Xiao Qing must have foreseen Zhou Yuandi's imminent catastrophe that Zimo would travel thousands of miles away with her extraordinary eyesight, and it was inevitable.

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