The most incredible person among my fans

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[Have you even spent a second listening to their voices.

When I write this sentence at the beginning of the article for you to read, maybe you will feel a little offended.Maybe you know why I wrote this article, as you guessed it, today I want to speak out for a group of disadvantaged women in this world who have suffered sexual assault and are unable to speak out for various reasons, Or the voice is so faint that it is difficult to be heard.You will say, of course I know that there is such a group, and I really pay close attention to them, and even speak out for them, the so-called listening to their voices, of course I did.

But what I want to say is that you didn't do it, and even I who wrote this article didn't do it.Please take it easy and let me start from the beginning.

I first met rhyme at the beginning of last year. In March, my last book "Fence" was on sale. I went to the bookstore to sample, and met her who came to buy books through the floor-to-ceiling glass in the cafe.She looked calm, beautiful, and low-key, with a mask covering her face.At that time, I was very new to the entertainment industry, and I was not familiar with her existence. I just thought that such a woman, with her posture, pace, and mannerisms, was surprisingly good, and she might be an artist.

It was only later that I learned that the woman I met in the bookstore that day was Xie Yunzhi. Is she a genuine actor, or a star in the entertainment industry, or an actress in the entertainment industry?Either way, but I still like to call her an actress.It is because she really regards acting as her lifelong career, and spends all her energy on polishing this craft, making her emotions more real and her skills more exquisite.But she is not famous, excluding the factors of people like me who are not familiar with the entertainment industry, among those who are familiar with the entertainment industry, she is not a popular existence.People may know her and can name one or two of her masterpieces, but that's all.I can't help but wonder, because in my eyes, she should be popular, and people should praise her efforts and her beautiful qualities, but why is it the opposite?Could it really be that the world held too much ill will for an actress like her?Or is it just another cliché, blaming the system and the bad atmosphere in the circle?

I wanted to do an experiment, so I wrote the script boldly, relying on my three years of reading dramas, and encouraged my elders and friends to come up with such a project for me to shoot a web drama, and invited her to star in it.I wanted to get to know her, to understand her, but at first it was just out of a starting point like an anthropologist conducting an experimental investigation.

It went well, I invited her, got to know her, and got to know her.Unexpectedly, within reason, she is almost the same as I imagined, but very different.I think she loves acting, maybe because she has great enthusiasm for this line of work. Her life should be full and her emotions should be abundant. She will love to observe and imitate. thought.However, the fact is that apart from acting, her life is almost only reading, watching movies, exercising and sleeping, which is extremely monotonous.Her emotions are not very abundant, at least she never shows it on the surface, and she always appears calm and self-possessed.She also doesn't like to observe and imitate very much. If she doesn't read when she is alone, she will definitely miss it.Her eyes are like a mirror, you can only see yourself and the world reflected in it, but you cannot see the color of her soul.

What kind of person is this?The more I understand her, the more familiar I am with her, the more I find that there seems to be some kind of inexplicable gap between me and her.Her heart is always closed, her eyes are looking at you, but it seems that she is not looking at you, falling into the void.Her mind wanders occasionally, and when she's empty, she looks like a delicate fragile object reflecting light.Or maybe the fragile item was actually shattered, but it was glued and repaired, missing pieces and leaving cracks that couldn't be removed.She was careful not to let people see her cracks and gaps. For this reason, she did not hesitate to cast a layer of mirror outside the injured body, so that people could not see it clearly, but it could still reflect the dazzling light, just like it was before it was broken. .

I felt this way about her before I knew what she had been through.And after I knew everything, I realized that my feelings were not groundless. I have always had the ability to accurately touch the secrets of others' hearts, but this fulfillment made me extremely sad.

I seem to understand why she doesn't become so popular, she is chased and intercepted outside, but struggles in vain inside, she never pretends to be false, and it is even more difficult to compromise.The light reflected by the mirror dazzled some people's eyes, and some people's teeth were bitten by the intractable hard shell. She couldn't be red, and she didn't want to be red.

I then asked myself a question: Did I even spend a second listening to her voice.In fact, after I learned that she had been sexually assaulted, I never asked her about the past, pretending that I didn't care, and she didn't seem to intend to tell me.As I write, I still haven't sat down to listen to her tell me this unspeakable story.I learned the details of the incident that happened that year from other people's narration and her self-narration to the camera.I was inexplicably thankful about it, I seemed to have difficulty facing it, and so did she, so she lost her speech and I seemed to lose my deafness.

In the past few days, I have read too many news records and investigative reports on the anti-sexual assault movement. I have seen people shouting loudly for them, forwarding them frantically on social media software, calling for friends, and enthusiastically surging.But in fact, most of them have never sat in front of a victim and listened to her narrate the terrible experience.Maybe someone will refute me, why do we want to uncover their scars, if they don't want to mention it, then don't mention it.

Yes, we have no right to force their voices.But if they don't speak up themselves, how can we speak up for them?You didn't listen to what they said, so how can you be sure that what you said on her behalf is what she wanted to say?I am not blaming those who have worked hard in the anti-sexual assault movement, I am just thinking, maybe our work can be done more meticulously and cautiously, calmly and objectively, to avoid secondary harm, and to avoid our one-time With a passion for justice, he was taken advantage of by some caring people.

Facts have proved that the perpetrators of sexual assault can always find reasons to justify themselves, and this society has great malice towards women who have been sexually assaulted, and is not afraid to speculate on them with the most evil thoughts.This is undoubtedly helping the evildoers, making it harder for sexual offenders to be punished and unscrupulous.We watched the victimized woman, from a poor victim, to a woman who was distorted by thousands of rumors or sold her body for profit, and she couldn't explain it.Those who speak for her are also unable to argue, because no matter what you say, someone will always refute with a universal sentence: You are too naive.As if he was the witness and witness of the incident, he stood at the scene of the crime and watched the whole process.He analyzed with relish, seemingly well-organized and well-organized, but in fact the logic was chaotic and mixed with a lot of groundless speculation, but he used the common prejudices and emotions in people's minds to make countless people nod in conviction, shouting that this is the truth.In the end, the author swiped his pen and said that this is just speculation and does not represent the truth, as if he had cleared his relationship.

Yeah?You know that in the post-truth era, the truth is created by people.And what you believe, is the truth.

As long as you put the slightest bit of malicious speculation on the victim and post such speculation in the public space to win the attention and praise of the public, this maliciousness will multiply exponentially and become part of the force that distorts the truth.Maybe when the results of the police investigation come out, and the results of the court judgment come out, those so-called conjectures have been proven to be nonsense, and there are still people who uphold their own ideas and are complacent, thinking that they have insight into everything and are alone in the world.Because nonsensical conjectures such as "people with background can do official work" can also be passed down through the ages and be immortalized forever.

So, did these people take even a second to listen to their voices?They don't need to listen, their job is to write the script, and then put the relevant characters into it, and he becomes a big director applauded by everyone.His audience didn't want the truth, they just wanted to see a good show.Singing on the stage and applauding off the stage are all clowns reveling in other people's painful stories.

In this era, thinking is a compulsory quality, silence is a valuable virtue, and listening may be a luxury.

Yunzhi is very brave, she dares to tell the public.She has spoken, and listening is all we need to do.I hope that people can sit down, get rid of unnecessary emotions, get rid of hateful distractions, face to face with them, feel the real emotions and temperature, that is the most real appearance in the world.Because you listen, you think; because you think, you are sensible; because you are sensible, you are gentle.

Yunzhi once said, I hope that everyone in the world can be treated with tenderness. If so, it is even more necessary for us to cultivate ourselves and achieve others, and practice the way. 】

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comment:

[Great God wrote it really well, and said it so rightly. 】

[I finished reading every single word, it was deeply inspiring, but also chilling, the current world is really too difficult.I just hope everyone is well. 】

[This article is really full of famous sentences, excerpts may be used in the future. 】

[Cultivate yourself and reach others, practice the avenue.It's the most simple principle of being a human being. It's a pity that too many people in this world don't know how to behave. 】

[It can be seen that some words in this article were hidden, but in fact, it was also a response.No matter what, I hope you will be happy. 】

[The great god's language is still calm and restrained, full of sarcasm, but there are a lot of lyrical sentences in the first half of this article, which is very touching to read.God is really moved...]

[Great God, please take good care of her!I feel so sorry for her. (cry loudly)]

[Good and evil will be rewarded in the end, it’s not that the time has not yet come. 】

[Jumping clown, I feel the same way.This article has translated many of my unspeakable feelings into words, and it really is a great writer. 】

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Forward:

[Actor Xie Yunzhi:

You will be my talker from now on.

@锦如林: Have you even spent a second listening to their voices...]

Jin Rulian: [Then how do you sort the garbage? (doge)]

Actor Xie Yunzhi: Reply to @锦如连: Don’t leak a single word that exists in your mind! (angry)

[My god, you guys are so sweet, let me forget it. 】

[Sister is so cute, it's great to meet the sister of the Great God. 】

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