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After discussing with his parents, Ouyang Dewen was a little disappointed, said hello, and returned to his room.

Picking up the phone, I realized that I missed a video invitation, it was his brother.He dialed back.

Song Yaohui's first sentence was, "Are you playing smart again?"

Ouyang Dewen was a little disheartened, "Yeah, little smart...what's your godmother's reaction?"

Song Yaohui tapped Ouyang Dewen's nose on the screen: "The reaction you want...why, aren't you happy?"

Ouyang Dewen whispered: "I feel sorry for the godmother, I always make her worry about it, and this takes advantage of her love..."

Song Yaohui said sternly: "It's better to say it like this than to say it directly. It's a fact that can't be changed. You have to accept it from the bottom of your heart. My mother also needs a process of acceptance. It won't be too difficult. She is a tolerant person. , when I came out, she accepted it very quickly.

"What we are worried about is that both of us are too big hit by this sexual orientation, and we are even more worried that she will blame me for your sexual orientation. We and my mother have to face this. It's okay, soon will pass."

Ouyang De nodded steadily.

But after all, he was troubled by the guilt in his heart, and he seemed much more depressed these days.

But Xu Ru and Song Changhe were really restless after the video that day, and wanted to call Ouyang Baiwei to ask about it, but they seemed afraid of facing the reality, so they didn't dial the number for several days.

After seeing a new development in Ouyang De's circle of friends that had been quiet for a few days, he clicked in and saw a few words, "Some things have to be faced..."

Song Changhe, who was originally socializing, was ordered by his wife to go home after get off work. After dinner, the two of them dialed Ouyang Baiwei's video call together.

Just as Ouyang Dewen expected, Xu Ru first asked Ouyang Baiwei and his wife worriedly if the child had any unusual behavior recently.

Ouyang Bai sighed slightly in his heart, is the next deception a good one or a strategic one?I feel a little guilty about my old friend.

However, Xu Ru at the other end of the video saw that Ouyang Baiwei and his wife were both worried, and became anxious: "You have something to talk about, why is everyone like this, can the sky still fall?"

Then Lin Qumai said cautiously: "Sister Ru, Tuantuan said that he is gay, he is very distressed and depressed..." Ouyang Dewen has been distressed and depressed these days, but this is because of Xu Ru's attitude toward all kinds of Distress and depression produced by guilt.

But in Xu Ru's ears, this is the child's distress and depression about his sexual orientation that is different from ordinary people!She and Song Changhe looked at each other, feeling a sense of relief of "as expected", as well as helplessness and sadness of "of course".

Song Changhe asked the couple on the opposite side: "Why did you only find out now? Could it be because of Yaohui's influence?"

Ouyang Bai waved his hands again and again: "Changhe, we have no way to determine whether this kind of thing is born or influenced by the environment, not to mention that Yaohui disciplined him very strictly, and wanted to prevent this kind of thing from happening. Yaohui came over last summer , I saw that a male student of mine had a good impression of Tuantuan, and asked us to isolate him from Tuantuan. He said that the road in Huaguo was not smooth, and he didn't want Tuantuan to go down this road due to external influence. So, don't Blame this on Yaohui.

"Furthermore, except for Tuantuan's sophomore and senior year, they come here almost once or twice a year. The atmosphere here is stronger. If you really want to talk about external influences, you are more likely to be influenced by this environment.

"Besides, this kind of thing doesn't mean that you are right, or that you think you are right. Tuantuan is so big, let alone falling in love, and he has never even heard of a girl who has a crush on him. It is probably born like this... "

Xu Ru began to wipe away tears. After she was really sure, she was sad and worried.I am sad that my two children have both embarked on this road, and I am worried about how the children will go in the future.Yaohui didn't worry too much at the beginning, but what about Tuantuan, the child who was raised by the two families since childhood, will he live well in the future?

Seeing that Xu Ru was sad, Lin Qumai had no choice but to comfort her continuously: "Sister Ru, you... don't be too sad, children and grandchildren have their own blessings, we..."

Xu Ru choked up and said: "A few days ago we had a video with Tuantuan, we felt that something was wrong. After Yaohui reminded me, Changhe and I thought of this possibility. It was difficult for us to accept it at first, but in the process of constant guessing and pondering, subconscious dissociation is also happening. Constantly accept this fact. We think more about Tuantuan's mood, is he particularly flustered, confused, at a loss?"

When Ouyang Baiwei and Lin Qumai heard what she said, it was the same plan as they and Ouyang Dewen, but they couldn't be happy.

Seeing their expressions, Xu Ru felt that she had guessed right, and asked them to call Ouyang Dewen over, because she had something to tell him.

Ouyang De listened to his mother saying that he was having a video with his godmother, and that his godmother let him go, he walked to the front of the video nervously, and called out "Godmother, Uncle Song" in a low voice.

Ouyang Dewen has not only been depressed for the past few days, but also has a bad appetite. He was already in a bad mood, and after eating the monotonous and boring Dutch food for so long, he lost a lot of weight.

Seeing his appearance, Xu Ru burst into tears, and the child on the other side also shed tears, and hurriedly took the tissue from Song Changhe to wipe his tears.

"Tuantuan, we don't worry about this kind of thing. You can feel the tolerance and acceptance of the local people for this kind of thing better than the godmother. Although we can't compare with the Dutch country, the social acceptance level is constantly improving. Again No good, you go live with your parents and live an ordinary life like the locals..."

When Ouyang Dewen heard his godmother's words, he finally couldn't help crying, and kept saying "I'm sorry...I'm sorry".Seeing him crying miserably, Xu Ru couldn't help crying.

If it was face to face, it would be unavoidable to cry, but it was so far away, so I had to be comforted by people around me.

Finally, both sides stopped crying, and Ouyang Dewen said to Xu Ru very seriously: "Godmother, I'm sorry that I can't find you a daughter-in-law to accompany you shopping, but I will try my best to satisfy your wish to have a grandson and adopt him." Or a surrogate..."

Xu Ru interrupted him: "Tuantuan, the godmother doesn't ask you to do this, live as you please, and do as you please. The most important thing is not to affect your mood and life because of this matter, and the godmother just wants you You can find the right person to accompany you for the rest of your life, don't be alone."

Ouyang Dewen could only express his deepest wish: "Godmother, Uncle Song, don't be sad because of this..."

Song Changhe sighed: "We are only sad for a while, and it is you, people like you, who are sad. If you have something in your heart that you can't get through, go talk to your brother. He has a stronger mind, and he is also someone who has experienced it. He will give it to you." You helped."

Hearing this, Ouyang Dewen was so guilty that he was about to cry again.Ouyang Baiwei was afraid that his son would be so guilty that he would tell the whole story, so he quickly took over the conversation and comforted Song Changhe and his wife.

After comforting and encouraging each other, the two sides reluctantly prepared to hang up the video, and Ouyang Dewen told Xu Ru that he would go back in two days.

After hanging up the video, Ouyang Bai sighed slightly, "Poor parents in the world!" and made Ouyang Dewen very sad.

Lin Qumai hugged him to his chest and comforted him.

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Xu Ru, who hung up the video, couldn't help but began to wipe his tears again, and Song Changhe could only sigh and pass a tissue, "Don't be sad, although we have been growing up by our side, after all, they are still the children of Baiwei and his wife. They all accepted it readily, so why should we be so sad, let the children know that it should be sad."

After finishing speaking, he couldn't help muttering: "Is it the Feng Shui problem of our old Song family or the genetic problem, why are the two boys like this?"

At this time, Song Yaohui, who just came back from the outside, saw his parents crying silently and sighing, and asked nervously, "Mom and Dad, what's wrong with you, did something happen?"

Xu Ru choked and said, "Tuantuan... sure...he's gay too..."

"Ah?" He was indeed a little surprised. Is this the communication?

Song Changhe saw his expression, and he knew it: "In the future, you will enlighten him more, teach him the knowledge that people like you should know, and teach him to protect himself. Are you saying that he is really influenced by you?"

Song Yaohui chuckled: "Why hasn't he been affected by so many heterosexuals, and why hasn't he been affected by you while living with you all the time?"

Xu Ru felt sad, and couldn't help crying again: "Tell me, what will happen to Tuantuan in the future..."

Song Yaohui sat down and took his father to hand over the tissues, and asked heartlessly: "When I came out, I was not much older than him. Why didn't you see you sad, and just slapped me angrily?"

Song Changhe snorted: "Why do you have rough skin and thick flesh to worry about? Tuantuan is so innocent and careless, how can we not worry about him?"

Song Yaohui was a little puzzled: "You only feel sorry for him, not about 'he is gay'? From now on, we won't have a 'daughter-in-law' in our family, and we won't have any grandchildren for you!"

Xu Ru stopped crying, but still sobbed, "Why don't I feel sad, but Tuantuan must be more at a loss than we are when he knows his sexual orientation. If we don't accept being sad in front of him, He feels even worse."

Song Yaohui thought to himself, he just caught your mind, and this time he used his cleverness well.

Xu Ru said again: "Even if the man you bring back is a man, I can still treat it as a 'daughter-in-law'. As for having a grandson, you can adopt or have a surrogate. Isn't that the case for most gay families in the Netherlands?"

Song Yaohui teased his mother in a good mood: "Well, the little old lady who keeps pace with the times, treats people with tolerance, and has great maternal love!"

After being amused by him, Xu Ru scolded him with a straight face: "I am an old lady at a young age! Father and son are alike, neither of them can talk!"

Song Changhe: Who did I provoke?