Do not lie to me
Chapter 14
So Shang Xuechen doesn't understand love.At the age of 12, people will begin to form their own worldview, and will form their own cognition of the world based on the influence of the growth environment and self-judgment. 12 years old is the age to imitate adults and learn from others.Shang Xuechen met his uncle at his home when he was 12 years old, and watched the quarrel between his father and uncle every day, so he didn't understand love when he was 12 years old, and he still doesn't understand love until now.
After eating, the two walked into the elevator to go downstairs and go out, and then went their separate ways.The viewing elevator can go down very well to see the outside scenery through the glass wall.
"Why are you telling me this?"
Shang Xuechen lay on the elevator looking at the scenery outside the window, Ji Shuping's words passed over his ears without any pain, as if he didn't hear it and still concentrated on looking at the scenery outside the window.
After a while, the elevator reached the ground floor with a "ding" sound, Shang Xuechen turned around to go out, just stepped out of the elevator door with one foot, but Ji Shuping grabbed his wrist and pulled him into the elevator again.After the elevator door closed, Ji Shuping pressed the button on the top floor again, and the elevator began to ascend.
"Why did you tell me this?" Ji Shuping didn't let go of Shang Xuechen's wrist.
Shang Xuechen twisted his wrist, but Ji Shuping held it tightly, "Do you know the psychology of love?" Ji Shuping didn't say anything, just grabbed him with his hands, and looked at him without blinking.
Shang Xuechen gave up struggling and let him hold on, sighed and continued, "When humans choose a mate, they will unconsciously choose a spouse who is similar, close, and familiar to themselves. Similarity is the prerequisite for you to know and deeply understand this person. Proximity is to reduce the spatial distance to create a psychological space for cultivating feelings. The sense of familiarity is the social circle. It is impossible for the domineering president on TV to fall in love with the slum girl, because the three elements of the premise of love cannot be touched.”
Shang Xuechen met Ji Shuping's gaze, "Ji Shuping, you are the only son of Ji's real estate, and your mother is the daughter of Shaw Heavy Industries. As for me, my father is a drug dealer and my mother is a street girl. There is no similarity. Not to mention the social circle, you are a famous family, there is no stain, I hang out at the nightclub, it is very dirty. As for the proximity, our backgrounds are so different, even if we are so close now, Nor can it eliminate the psychological gap between us. What do you think we have in common?"
"I'm telling you, I'm teaching you to recognize it. Let's just play around," Shang Xuechen broke away from Ji Shuping and grabbed his hand, "It's impossible to love each other."
Shang Xuechen pressed the button on the first floor, "So, I will give you a discount, 1 million, I will compensate you for wasting a year of time, not counting your body."
"Then I'm not at a disadvantage. The body doesn't count, and the relationship doesn't count. Then what did I buy for 500 million?"
"When you asked for 5000 million, you just asked me to be your playmate. I am from a bad background and now I am willing to automatically reduce the price, and buying splurge can stimulate dopamine in the brain, and you will feel satisfied."
"Shang Xuechen, competitions, video games, and night parties can all stimulate more dopamine, but why didn't you mention sex. You were obviously addicted to sex before."
Shang Xuechen frowned at him, "You want to have sex with me? The reason for not mentioning sex is simple, I don't want to be next."
The elevator door opened, and Ji Shuping followed Shang Xuechen out, "Shang Xuechen, you are really the son of a drug dealer, aren't you the son of a scammer? You say one thing in theory, but in fact you want to retreat. Are you worried? We can’t get 5000 million, so the price is reduced to 500 million, and we have to be empty-handed.”
Shang Xuechen stopped, "It is you who proposed to play a game with 5000 million, not me."
Ji Shuping smiled and walked up to Monk Xuechen, "I just want to ask you a question."
"You ask."
"The similarities, proximity, and familiarity you mentioned earlier, I don't quite understand the relationship between these elements and love. I hope you can give an example, using online dating to illustrate."
Shang Xuechen choked, these things are really useless in online dating, many traditional psychological theories have been subverted in the Internet age, and people's hearts have become more complicated. Everyone taps the keyboard and gathers together to become a mob.It seems that Ji Shuping is really not easy to fool.
"Shang Xuechen, have you ever played games? Did you know that the largest marriage market in China is the online game Qingyuan?"
"Cough cough, online love is dying at the sight of light, and a thousand-mile marriage is struck by lightning." Shang Xuechen spoke with his neck stuck. When he was in college, he didn't have money to buy a laptop, and he didn't have time to go to Internet cafes. Where did he play any online games? , I even failed the C language course twice, and the game was just playing slot machines in high school.He can easily understand the changeable human emotions, but he can't do formula programming or game leveling.He is so familiar with computers that he doesn't poke on the keyboard with two index fingers when typing.
Shang Xuechen bit the bullet and walked forward, while Ji Shuping followed behind with the corner of his mouth curled up.The more Shang Xuechen thought about it, the more uncomfortable he felt, and he turned around and shouted at Ji Shuping in a very bad tone, "You're not going to work, are you?"
Ji Shuping dialed his wristwatch, "The difference between a homeless person and a CEO is just rich and poor. You haven't found another job anyway, why don't you continue to help me look at the villa, five days a week."
Shang Xuechen's angry white eyes almost rolled out of their sockets, Ji Shuping went up and held his shoulders, "Then accompany me to the playground this weekend."
Shang Xuechen patted Ji Shuping's hand off, "How old are you, what playground are you going to. The villa is full of surveillance cameras installed by you, why do you want people to watch?"
Ji Shuping stuffed his hands into his trouser pockets, "There seems to be no age limit in playgrounds. You say that the human body can't remember happiness, so we'll be happy all the time. Come with me to the playground. I'll remove the monitoring, and you want to take money from me , I can’t get nothing, at least I can order you.”
"What playground are the two big men going to have fun?" Shang Xuechen muttered in his heart that he was neither a child nor a couple. He didn't expect that behind Ji Shuping's ice face was a girl's heart, "I think we should go wash Foot City, find a pretty girl to pinch your feet, find a handsome guy to massage, and finally take a sauna and take a shower." Shang Xuechen has never been to a place like an amusement park, and he feels that he is too out of place .His family background only allowed him to see entertainment venues such as underground casinos, Footwashing City, and nightclubs.
Ji Shuping shook his head silently in his heart, he never thought that Shang Xuechen would look like this on the inside, he liked Shang Xuechen's appearance, and had learned his cunning, but regardless of these things, Shang Xuechen almost wore a big gold chain , break off a piece of garlic and eat it.
The two slandered each other in their hearts, Ji Shuping insisted again and again, and finally Shang Xuechen compromised and decided to meet on Saturday.
After setting the time, Shang Xuechen was too lazy to argue with Ji Shuping, so he hired a taxi and left.Ji Shuping watched the taxi disappear around the corner, turned around and walked back. He had to go back to the underground parking lot to pick up the car.Passing by a clothing store, I went in and bought a short-sleeved shirt.The plaid shirt that Monk Xuechen wore today was from the same brand, but this one he bought was more exaggerated than the one he was wearing today. The black shirt was printed with gaudy tiger head patterns all over it.
Ji Shuping carried his bag and walked towards the parking lot in a good mood. He was still some distance away from the car, and just as he saw the front of his car, someone walked around him from the other side of the car. It was his driver, Uncle Kang.The smile on the corner of Ji Shuping's mouth froze, and he smiled at Uncle Kang unnaturally.
Naturally, Uncle Kang didn't pay much attention to the change of expression on Ji Shuping's face. He bent slightly and straightened up again, and greeted his young master politely, "Master, you often drive out by yourself recently. The chairman asked you to call her . She was worried."
Ji Shuping nodded, he understood, turned around and called his mother with a blank expression.The phone rang twice before being hung up.It's normal, he knows his mother is probably in a meeting, and his mother is always busy.
Ji Shuping stood in the underground parking lot holding his cell phone and waiting for his mother to call him back. Uncle Kang cautiously asked behind him, "Master, why don't you get in the car first."
Ji Shuping ignored him, the hand holding the phone was sweating, and the other hand was still clutching the bag, which was the clothes he bought for Shang Xuechen.Shang Xuechen told himself his background today, in order to scare him off, but Ji Shuping didn't care.His background is actually not much better than Shang Xuechen's.They are all loveless families, and no one is more miserable than the other.
Ji Shuping held the bag and thought, he listened to the past that Shang Xuechen took the initiative to talk about today, would there be a day when Shang Xuechen would be able to quietly listen to him talk about his past.Ji Shuping felt that his problem had come out again, and he found a person with a bad background, a rebellious and somewhat stubborn person like before, thinking that they would take him away without knowing the heights of the world.When he was a teenager, he found such a girl. He thought he was close to escaping, but he was caught and trapped under the name of various mental illnesses.Now, he has found such a boy, but Shang Xuechen is smarter, he wants to try again, make Shang Xuechen fall in love with him, make him willing to take risks for himself, maybe he will succeed this time.
In this world, not only slum girls have Cinderella dreams, dreaming that one day they will fall into the eyes of the prince.Rich people also have Cinderella Syndrome, which is not true, kind and beautiful, nor is it true love is invincible.It's because rich people play with cars and women, get tired of playing with them, and watch too much flashy, so they play innocent with a lighter taste, so as to satisfy their patriarchal desires.
Regarding why Ji Shuping likes to find people with bad backgrounds, in their family, his mother is the one with the highest power, and doing so can dispel his mother's doubts.And he was just looking for a sense of balance from them, hearing their tragic life experiences and thinking, I'm not that bad.Give them a little favor and impress them with material things, but they can only repay in the name of love when they are penniless.In fact, Ji Shuping still lacks love, and people of the same status as him may not be devoted to him, and love him desperately.
Ji Shuping squinted his eyes and thought for a while, the phone in his hand vibrated.He calmed down again and again before picking it up and answering the phone, "Chairman."
"I heard that your whereabouts have been a little weird recently?"
Ji Shuping himself said directly, "I have my eyes on a boy."
The phone was silent for two seconds before speaking, "The doctor told me in advance that if I was mentally unstable, my sexuality might be blurred."
"He didn't like me, saying that my family was too rich and he couldn't afford it."
"Then he has self-knowledge." There was another two seconds of silence on the phone, "It looks like it can be used for entertainment. If you confirm the relationship, remember to sign a non-disclosure agreement."
"Well, I got it." After hanging up the phone, Ji Shuping breathed a sigh of relief, turned around and sat in the car, looked at the four-dimensional space in the car and thought, people hate restraint, so why do they always make the space where they usually stay four or four Fang Fang, the car is like this, and the house is also like this. How is it different from a cage?
The driver, Uncle Kang, glanced at Ji Shuping in the rear seat with his eyes closed in the rearview mirror.All the way carefully drove him back to the company.After seeing Ji Shuping returned to the office, he secretly sent a message to the chairman to report his itinerary. For the first time, he received a text message reply from the chairman, which said, keep an eye on the two of them.
After eating, the two walked into the elevator to go downstairs and go out, and then went their separate ways.The viewing elevator can go down very well to see the outside scenery through the glass wall.
"Why are you telling me this?"
Shang Xuechen lay on the elevator looking at the scenery outside the window, Ji Shuping's words passed over his ears without any pain, as if he didn't hear it and still concentrated on looking at the scenery outside the window.
After a while, the elevator reached the ground floor with a "ding" sound, Shang Xuechen turned around to go out, just stepped out of the elevator door with one foot, but Ji Shuping grabbed his wrist and pulled him into the elevator again.After the elevator door closed, Ji Shuping pressed the button on the top floor again, and the elevator began to ascend.
"Why did you tell me this?" Ji Shuping didn't let go of Shang Xuechen's wrist.
Shang Xuechen twisted his wrist, but Ji Shuping held it tightly, "Do you know the psychology of love?" Ji Shuping didn't say anything, just grabbed him with his hands, and looked at him without blinking.
Shang Xuechen gave up struggling and let him hold on, sighed and continued, "When humans choose a mate, they will unconsciously choose a spouse who is similar, close, and familiar to themselves. Similarity is the prerequisite for you to know and deeply understand this person. Proximity is to reduce the spatial distance to create a psychological space for cultivating feelings. The sense of familiarity is the social circle. It is impossible for the domineering president on TV to fall in love with the slum girl, because the three elements of the premise of love cannot be touched.”
Shang Xuechen met Ji Shuping's gaze, "Ji Shuping, you are the only son of Ji's real estate, and your mother is the daughter of Shaw Heavy Industries. As for me, my father is a drug dealer and my mother is a street girl. There is no similarity. Not to mention the social circle, you are a famous family, there is no stain, I hang out at the nightclub, it is very dirty. As for the proximity, our backgrounds are so different, even if we are so close now, Nor can it eliminate the psychological gap between us. What do you think we have in common?"
"I'm telling you, I'm teaching you to recognize it. Let's just play around," Shang Xuechen broke away from Ji Shuping and grabbed his hand, "It's impossible to love each other."
Shang Xuechen pressed the button on the first floor, "So, I will give you a discount, 1 million, I will compensate you for wasting a year of time, not counting your body."
"Then I'm not at a disadvantage. The body doesn't count, and the relationship doesn't count. Then what did I buy for 500 million?"
"When you asked for 5000 million, you just asked me to be your playmate. I am from a bad background and now I am willing to automatically reduce the price, and buying splurge can stimulate dopamine in the brain, and you will feel satisfied."
"Shang Xuechen, competitions, video games, and night parties can all stimulate more dopamine, but why didn't you mention sex. You were obviously addicted to sex before."
Shang Xuechen frowned at him, "You want to have sex with me? The reason for not mentioning sex is simple, I don't want to be next."
The elevator door opened, and Ji Shuping followed Shang Xuechen out, "Shang Xuechen, you are really the son of a drug dealer, aren't you the son of a scammer? You say one thing in theory, but in fact you want to retreat. Are you worried? We can’t get 5000 million, so the price is reduced to 500 million, and we have to be empty-handed.”
Shang Xuechen stopped, "It is you who proposed to play a game with 5000 million, not me."
Ji Shuping smiled and walked up to Monk Xuechen, "I just want to ask you a question."
"You ask."
"The similarities, proximity, and familiarity you mentioned earlier, I don't quite understand the relationship between these elements and love. I hope you can give an example, using online dating to illustrate."
Shang Xuechen choked, these things are really useless in online dating, many traditional psychological theories have been subverted in the Internet age, and people's hearts have become more complicated. Everyone taps the keyboard and gathers together to become a mob.It seems that Ji Shuping is really not easy to fool.
"Shang Xuechen, have you ever played games? Did you know that the largest marriage market in China is the online game Qingyuan?"
"Cough cough, online love is dying at the sight of light, and a thousand-mile marriage is struck by lightning." Shang Xuechen spoke with his neck stuck. When he was in college, he didn't have money to buy a laptop, and he didn't have time to go to Internet cafes. Where did he play any online games? , I even failed the C language course twice, and the game was just playing slot machines in high school.He can easily understand the changeable human emotions, but he can't do formula programming or game leveling.He is so familiar with computers that he doesn't poke on the keyboard with two index fingers when typing.
Shang Xuechen bit the bullet and walked forward, while Ji Shuping followed behind with the corner of his mouth curled up.The more Shang Xuechen thought about it, the more uncomfortable he felt, and he turned around and shouted at Ji Shuping in a very bad tone, "You're not going to work, are you?"
Ji Shuping dialed his wristwatch, "The difference between a homeless person and a CEO is just rich and poor. You haven't found another job anyway, why don't you continue to help me look at the villa, five days a week."
Shang Xuechen's angry white eyes almost rolled out of their sockets, Ji Shuping went up and held his shoulders, "Then accompany me to the playground this weekend."
Shang Xuechen patted Ji Shuping's hand off, "How old are you, what playground are you going to. The villa is full of surveillance cameras installed by you, why do you want people to watch?"
Ji Shuping stuffed his hands into his trouser pockets, "There seems to be no age limit in playgrounds. You say that the human body can't remember happiness, so we'll be happy all the time. Come with me to the playground. I'll remove the monitoring, and you want to take money from me , I can’t get nothing, at least I can order you.”
"What playground are the two big men going to have fun?" Shang Xuechen muttered in his heart that he was neither a child nor a couple. He didn't expect that behind Ji Shuping's ice face was a girl's heart, "I think we should go wash Foot City, find a pretty girl to pinch your feet, find a handsome guy to massage, and finally take a sauna and take a shower." Shang Xuechen has never been to a place like an amusement park, and he feels that he is too out of place .His family background only allowed him to see entertainment venues such as underground casinos, Footwashing City, and nightclubs.
Ji Shuping shook his head silently in his heart, he never thought that Shang Xuechen would look like this on the inside, he liked Shang Xuechen's appearance, and had learned his cunning, but regardless of these things, Shang Xuechen almost wore a big gold chain , break off a piece of garlic and eat it.
The two slandered each other in their hearts, Ji Shuping insisted again and again, and finally Shang Xuechen compromised and decided to meet on Saturday.
After setting the time, Shang Xuechen was too lazy to argue with Ji Shuping, so he hired a taxi and left.Ji Shuping watched the taxi disappear around the corner, turned around and walked back. He had to go back to the underground parking lot to pick up the car.Passing by a clothing store, I went in and bought a short-sleeved shirt.The plaid shirt that Monk Xuechen wore today was from the same brand, but this one he bought was more exaggerated than the one he was wearing today. The black shirt was printed with gaudy tiger head patterns all over it.
Ji Shuping carried his bag and walked towards the parking lot in a good mood. He was still some distance away from the car, and just as he saw the front of his car, someone walked around him from the other side of the car. It was his driver, Uncle Kang.The smile on the corner of Ji Shuping's mouth froze, and he smiled at Uncle Kang unnaturally.
Naturally, Uncle Kang didn't pay much attention to the change of expression on Ji Shuping's face. He bent slightly and straightened up again, and greeted his young master politely, "Master, you often drive out by yourself recently. The chairman asked you to call her . She was worried."
Ji Shuping nodded, he understood, turned around and called his mother with a blank expression.The phone rang twice before being hung up.It's normal, he knows his mother is probably in a meeting, and his mother is always busy.
Ji Shuping stood in the underground parking lot holding his cell phone and waiting for his mother to call him back. Uncle Kang cautiously asked behind him, "Master, why don't you get in the car first."
Ji Shuping ignored him, the hand holding the phone was sweating, and the other hand was still clutching the bag, which was the clothes he bought for Shang Xuechen.Shang Xuechen told himself his background today, in order to scare him off, but Ji Shuping didn't care.His background is actually not much better than Shang Xuechen's.They are all loveless families, and no one is more miserable than the other.
Ji Shuping held the bag and thought, he listened to the past that Shang Xuechen took the initiative to talk about today, would there be a day when Shang Xuechen would be able to quietly listen to him talk about his past.Ji Shuping felt that his problem had come out again, and he found a person with a bad background, a rebellious and somewhat stubborn person like before, thinking that they would take him away without knowing the heights of the world.When he was a teenager, he found such a girl. He thought he was close to escaping, but he was caught and trapped under the name of various mental illnesses.Now, he has found such a boy, but Shang Xuechen is smarter, he wants to try again, make Shang Xuechen fall in love with him, make him willing to take risks for himself, maybe he will succeed this time.
In this world, not only slum girls have Cinderella dreams, dreaming that one day they will fall into the eyes of the prince.Rich people also have Cinderella Syndrome, which is not true, kind and beautiful, nor is it true love is invincible.It's because rich people play with cars and women, get tired of playing with them, and watch too much flashy, so they play innocent with a lighter taste, so as to satisfy their patriarchal desires.
Regarding why Ji Shuping likes to find people with bad backgrounds, in their family, his mother is the one with the highest power, and doing so can dispel his mother's doubts.And he was just looking for a sense of balance from them, hearing their tragic life experiences and thinking, I'm not that bad.Give them a little favor and impress them with material things, but they can only repay in the name of love when they are penniless.In fact, Ji Shuping still lacks love, and people of the same status as him may not be devoted to him, and love him desperately.
Ji Shuping squinted his eyes and thought for a while, the phone in his hand vibrated.He calmed down again and again before picking it up and answering the phone, "Chairman."
"I heard that your whereabouts have been a little weird recently?"
Ji Shuping himself said directly, "I have my eyes on a boy."
The phone was silent for two seconds before speaking, "The doctor told me in advance that if I was mentally unstable, my sexuality might be blurred."
"He didn't like me, saying that my family was too rich and he couldn't afford it."
"Then he has self-knowledge." There was another two seconds of silence on the phone, "It looks like it can be used for entertainment. If you confirm the relationship, remember to sign a non-disclosure agreement."
"Well, I got it." After hanging up the phone, Ji Shuping breathed a sigh of relief, turned around and sat in the car, looked at the four-dimensional space in the car and thought, people hate restraint, so why do they always make the space where they usually stay four or four Fang Fang, the car is like this, and the house is also like this. How is it different from a cage?
The driver, Uncle Kang, glanced at Ji Shuping in the rear seat with his eyes closed in the rearview mirror.All the way carefully drove him back to the company.After seeing Ji Shuping returned to the office, he secretly sent a message to the chairman to report his itinerary. For the first time, he received a text message reply from the chairman, which said, keep an eye on the two of them.
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