The question I answered on Zhihu was discovered by my boyfriend

I want to show him what he looks like on his birthday, and then show up downstairs in his dormitory tomorrow, giving him a surprise!

Hee hee, I get excited just thinking about it!

By the way, there was another anonymous answer mentioned by a friend in the comment area before. I searched for a long time and couldn’t find it. Why did this question suddenly have so many answers? Now there are more than 3000 answers. sour.

It seems that everyone has a little secret that cannot be told.

Could someone help me find it and send me a link?I'd love to see it, thank you very much!

It's getting late, good night everyone!

surprise 2

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(2019.4.20)

I came back from Shanghai, and now I am on the high-speed train.

This birthday seems to have been screwed up by me, and the surprise turned into a shock.

Today I went downstairs to my boyfriend's dormitory and waited for more than half an hour. I finally saw him from a distance. When I got closer, I found that he was being confessed.

Well, confession.

A small and exquisite girl, holding two cups of milk tea in her hands, raised her head to talk to him with a blushing face. I stood a little distance away, but I still heard the words "always" and "like".

I used to say that my boyfriend is very handsome and outstanding, but I can’t describe it because I’m poor at expressing it. I know that everyone doesn’t feel the truth after hearing it. This time I finally know how to describe it. Just his calm look in front of girls now, You can tell at a glance that he must be the kind of person who has been confessed since childhood.

With his hands in his pockets, he seemed to be chatting easily.

I remember once he let me watch his class group chat (he often let me look at his mobile phone, and I don’t know what’s wrong), because he was the monitor, and it seemed that the group secretary was assigning some activity tasks, and the people in the group were chatting with each other. Prevaricating, no one wanted to participate, and then there was no other way, the group secretary invited the squad leader out, without saying a word, he just said "according to the student number, this time the odd number, the next time the double number", the next second, who They didn't dare to discuss any more, and the group was silent.

He said that he was quite prestigious in his class, and many freshmen in the courtyard were quite afraid of him.I didn't believe it at all when I heard it. After all, he was a "dog licking" in front of me, begging for kisses and hugs every day.

This time I finally believed it.

Boyfriend is so cool and cold.

By the way, why am I so calm when this matter is so serious?

Because just when I was wondering whether I should walk away quietly or stay bravely, my boyfriend saw me.

I was standing behind him and he caught a glimpse of me when he turned around.

He looked at me and said, "I'm sorry, I have someone I like." The girl followed his gaze and looked at me, and my whole body froze.

I quickly pretended to be a passerby, dodging my eyes, and wanted to step back.

The girl saw that I was a man, and her complexion became very bad. She snorted at my boyfriend: "You worked really hard to reject me."

The boyfriend frowned, probably because he was a little unhappy about not being able to show affection.

The girl asked again, "Is there really no chance at all?"

"Well, no."

The girl couldn't hold back anymore, she turned around and left, and turned back after taking two steps, pushing the milk tea in her hand into my boyfriend's arms, "I don't want to give it away, I don't want it, it's up to you to solve it."

Then, in front of the girl, my boyfriend tore off the plastic packaging on the outside of the straw, poked open the seal of the milk tea, and handed it to me, "Would you like to drink it? But you don't like desserts, so let's do it for a while?"

The girl finally ran away in anger.

I:"……"

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I'm getting off the bus, I'll write later.

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Hey, why didn't you notice that I was so talkative before?

Some people want to read the follow-up, so I will continue to update it. It is said in the comments that I made it up. I wrote it down to make myself comfortable and to hear other people’s opinions. Everyone just watch the fun and don’t make noise in the comment area. It doesn't make sense.

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I took the cup of milk tea and was dragged by him to a very remote grove. The two sat on the stool, neither of them spoke.

I took a sip of milk tea, it was sweet and greasy, I didn't want to drink it, so I pushed it to him.

He rejected me very rarely: "If you don't drink it, throw it away, and I don't want to drink it either."

"If you don't want to drink, just throw it to me, and treat it as my trash can?"

"You really don't know what I mean?"

I continued to play dumb, "Don't you just want to express your dislike?"

He took a deep breath, probably really angry, he took the milk tea, got up and threw it into the trash can beside him.When I came back, I squatted down in front of me, "Are you angry? Will you be unhappy when someone confesses to me?"

My nose was sore, but I still smiled and said, "Didn't you refuse? I believe you."

"Aren't you unhappy at all?"

How can I answer it?I really don't know, but he kissed me without giving me time to think.

It wasn't the two lips touching each other and rubbing a few times before, it was the kind of kiss that sticks out the tongue. He suddenly became very fierce and hugged me very tightly. I felt that my mouth was so painful from being sucked by him, and he even bit my tongue.My remaining consciousness told myself that I was still in school, and there would be someone at any time, so I pushed him away hard.

My boyfriend's eyes were red, and I knew he was hurt, so I touched his face and said, "You think I'm jealous?"

"You're always so calm, I don't feel safe." He buried his head in my neck and complained sullenly.

It turns out that I am not the only one who feels insecure, and it is quite interesting to say that, obviously we only have each other in our hearts, but we still worry about gains and losses.At that time, my heart felt as if it had been pricked by a needle. It was sore and numb. It was probably distressed. It was the first time that I felt distressed because I liked it too much.

I originally wanted to celebrate his birthday, but I didn't expect such an accident to happen. I saved half a month, and the clothes I bought for him with living expenses were just handed over to him, and I didn't have a candlelight dinner or anything. It sounds very happy and pleasantly surprised, but I know that he is actually quite depressed.I also understood that I should express something to reassure him, but I didn't. I was very afraid. I was afraid that if I took one step forward, I would not be able to turn back.

He took me to the station, and it was not easy to have any intimate behaviors when people came and went, so he stuck to me and secretly took my hand. When I got on the train, I suddenly felt very sad at that moment, and wanted to hold his hand. He didn't let go, but he took the initiative to let go. He stroked my hair and told me to be safe and call him when we arrived.

For a moment, my heart was empty, and I probably knew that I really liked him.

I just re-read the previous content and felt that I was completely off topic. I showed thousands of words of love, but I didn't mention a word of what I said at the beginning.

I started by saying, don't fall in love with him, take it easy, just fall in love.I dare not think about it now.

I am a very stubborn person, even if the people around me can fall in love one after another, or play a game, I still think that love is a very precious thing, and it cannot be handed over to anyone casually.

Some people in the comments asked me if I was so pessimistic about relationships because of emotional injuries.

In fact, I had a love experience before, but it was very naive and short, and I felt that it was not a love at all.When I first joined the gay friend group, there was a senior chasing me. I was very ignorant and didn't refuse. When we met for the first time, the senior was a little bit hands-on, although I thought it was a man. Said, being touched is not a violation, but I still feel quite indifferent.

I told the senior, although we have no relationship foundation now, but take your time, it will take a long time in the future.

I still remember the senior's expression at that time, he raised his eyebrows, looked speechless, and said, "Why do you want to fall in love so much?"

I was quite surprised at the time.

He also said: Why are you acting like a little girl, thinking about the future, let alone one year or ten years, it is too unreliable, it is difficult to graduate together, and you tell others that you are gay after leaving school, do you think Anyone else find it fresh and fun?Society will not accept it.I don't want to delay you. To be honest, I really just want to have fun. Hearing what you said, I know that we are not the same way, and we have no fate.Also, don't believe those people who casually tell you about life, they are all lying to you.

After I heard it, I felt that all three views were shocked, and I deleted his QQ in front of him.

I thought at the time, there must be someone who will seriously tell me for a lifetime, he will trade his life for mine, and that person is not you but it does not mean that there is no one.

Now that this person appeared, I started to panic again.

how to say?My boyfriend is so nice to me now, he gave me full marks from the very beginning, and I was afraid that if I did something wrong, my points would be deducted from him.

I never made requests, nor refused his requests, nor caused trouble for him, nor asked about his life... I always thought that I could be a good boyfriend by doing this, but now I found that I pushed him further and further away.

In fact, I’m not that sensible. On the day I confessed, I was so excited that I didn’t sleep all night. Before going to bed every night, I would read the chat records with him that day. Sometimes I saw other people’s comments in his circle of friends. Nervous, I wanted to ask him but didn't dare to, deleted and deleted in the dialog box and finally didn't send it out, I didn't know it at all.

You said that a person like me should not be able to fall in love.

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Comments (253)

Jiajia ing: Hug the Lord.

Hui Buxiu: The answerer has the same personality as me. I also treat my boyfriend with lukewarmness on the surface. In fact, I like him to death. If I get close, I am afraid that he will be annoyed, and if I am far away, I am afraid that he will like someone else.

Anonymous user (author)? Hui Buxiu: Then what should I do, I can’t go on like this forever, ask for advice!

Gray does not repair? Anonymous user (