The question I answered on Zhihu was discovered by my boyfriend

The question I answered in Zhihu was discovered by my boyfriend by Yaoyao Yiyan

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Q: Do you have any secrets that you can't let your significant other know?

Anonymous User

I hope my boyfriend doesn't like me so much, I'm afraid I will be reluctant when we break up

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Answer Lord, please take a look at the other high praise answer, I seriously doubt that it is your boyfriend! ! !

is sweet(?

my secret 1

Q: Do you have any secrets that you can't let your significant other know?

Anonymous User

Every time I see you, I tell myself, don't fall in love with you, take it easy, just fall in love.

You are such a good person, like the sun, illuminating every dark inch of my heart, I can't imagine, if one day you lose interest in me and leave, what should I do?

I've heard a saying before, it's good for you to leave, otherwise I'm always worried that you will leave.

Feel the same.

Believe it or not, I have thought about it several times, if only you fell in love with someone else now, before I fall into it completely, before I have to be you, you leave me first, so that I won’t be in pain in the future .

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I didn't expect so many people to watch it casually. Thank you for your comments and support.

It is quite right to say that I am hypocritical and worry about gain and loss, and I am not angry at all.I also want to open up and think less, but it's hard, so I try my best.

You don’t need to like it, I don’t want to be popular, I’m afraid of being seen, after all, my boyfriend also plays Zhihu (′??_??)

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You are so bad.

What does it mean to like without telling a story?Want to put me on the hot list? ?

snort!I won't talk, what can you do with me? (′▽｀)ノ

Those who say that the little girl is sentimental and moaning without illness, I still have to refute it. First, the moaning of illness is only aimed at me personally, and does not extend to others; second, I am a man, um, gay. Just forgot to say.

So, are you sure you want to listen?

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Well, I underestimated the power of you rotten girls, and I said it's not enough?

In fact, I really want to tell the story between me and him. After all, because of gender, it is difficult to show affection.

Anyway, it's anonymous, and my boyfriend is not a person who can talk about this kind of topic, so let's talk about it.

I am a junior this year, and my boyfriend is also a junior. I am in Suzhou and he is in Shanghai.

I met him at the subway station half a year ago. Actually, it was quite a coincidence. The time I took the subway back to school, there were so many people. I couldn’t stand upright with a few big bags in my hand. I was rushed up by accident. The flow of people squeezed him down, and he just fell into the arms of a boy.

It’s a bit weird to say that my arms are a bit weird, that is, half of my back hit his chest directly, and he hugged me subconsciously. Well, it sounds very cliche and fake, but it really happened.

I said thank you to him, it’s okay for him to answer me, and then continued to listen to music with headphones on, and didn’t look at me very much, seeing that he didn’t care, I didn’t bother myself, it’s not a big deal, I didn’t take it to heart .

In fact, he looks very good, very young and refreshing, with three-dimensional facial features and a height of more than 1.8 meters.

But being gay, I didn't react because he wasn't my type.

But unexpectedly, he actually stood at the same station as me, got off the train with me, got out of the subway station together, and headed in the same direction together.I thought he was about the same age as me, and I thought he might be from S University. He wanted to say hello to his alumni in a friendly way, but he didn't take the initiative because he was embarrassed, and he stopped me at the school gate.

He said that he has always wanted to visit S University, but S University has access control, and outsiders cannot enter. He originally wanted to enter today, but he will not be able to catch up later. He asked me if I could add my WeChat. he goes in.

You should know that if you want to visit a university, you can lure a student from the school outside the campus and pretend to be a colleague to avoid the inspection by the guards.

It wasn't until I entered the school gate that I realized that next time he came, he could simply pull another student, why did he add me on WeChat?

Sure enough, as I expected, he was premeditated.

That night he chatted with me, showing his kindness to me inside and out. My little radar scanned him and found out that he was the same kind. I asked him directly, and he replied yes, saying that he fell in love with me at first sight.

? ?

What do I have to love at first sight?I am very ordinary (not self-effacing, but really ordinary), if his appearance can get 8 points, I can get 5 points at most.

But I don't know why in his eyes, I am the kind who needs to add three stars to 10 points.I still don't understand it. Others say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but to him, I think it's a lover who becomes blind because of love.

He started chasing me, good morning, noon and night all day long, and shared all the happy things with me. Of course, he is not a very annoying person. The messages he sent me were quite interesting, but it still made me feel a little uncomfortable.

In his own words, he didn't know what happened, and suddenly he became a licking dog, a very, very crazy licking dog.

In this way, he "licked" me for a month.

Well, I really don't want to put this word on my boyfriend's head, although it is his exact words.

Because he is really outstanding. He studied in the best university in Shanghai. He is handsome and has a good personality. Judging from the report card he sent me, his grades are also outstanding.His family should be at least the middle class, and his clothes are not short of famous brands. The key is that he is really sunny and gentle.

Well, except for being a little clingy and occasionally a little naive, I haven't found any shortcomings in him so far.

Such a person, be my licking dog?What is he plotting?

I, a young man from a small county town with no money, no power, no good looks, really feel a little apprehensive.

So I told him and hoped he wouldn't waste his time on me.

As a result, he took the high-speed train to my school to look for me that afternoon when he received the news. In fact, it seemed that we had been entangled for a long time. In fact, that day was the second time we met.

I was very nervous and so was he.We both looked at each other speechlessly, he almost forgot why he came here, touched the back of his head and blushed, the first sentence he said was, I am ×××, you remember me, right?

I broke my merits all at once, and my heart softened for no reason.

Later, I took him to visit my school, which was his wish. At the end, he saw that there were few people and grabbed my hand, and told me that he had made up his mind and must chase me.

Hmm~~ Class is about to start, I will continue to talk after class is over, hey, I suddenly found that the story between me and him can be said for such a long time.

my secret 2

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Let me explode the photo, are you devils? ?I am anonymous, how could it be possible to expose the photos?

I had a two-hour phone call with my boyfriend last night, and I forgot to update it. As soon as I opened it today, I really became popular_(:з」∠)_ You are all bad guys, and you won’t like it if you tell a good story ?

Let me add a digression, Zhihu should not recommend topics that users are not interested in, as long as they are not interested, even if it is a popular answer, it should not be displayed... Boyfriends are more straight than straight men except for their sexual orientation. , He usually doesn't pay attention to this kind of topic, um, I hope.

Continue to write, last time I wrote that he confessed his love, as for my answer - I didn't answer, yes, I turned around and ran away, it was very embarrassing.

You know he stared at me with such beautiful eyes, with red ears, and said that he would definitely catch up with me, brave and fierce, I really couldn't say a word of rejection.

Hey, if I had been more decisive at the time, we should have no further stories.

I left him alone at the school gate, and he sent me a message saying: He went back first, and he will come to me every weekend from now on.

He really came every week. At first I avoided him on purpose, and he just stood downstairs in our dormitory all morning.He took the high-speed train from Shanghai to Suzhou for half an hour, and then took the train from the station to my school for half an hour. He didn't see him, so he went back alone.

I was very distressed and didn't know what to do. I didn't dare to go out on weekends and hid in the dormitory. I was afraid that my heart would soften when I saw him.

Later, my heart relented, and when it was almost noon in the fourth week, I felt that he was going to leave, so I ran downstairs and grabbed him.

I said I really don't understand, you don't understand me at all, why do you like me so much?

He said, then start getting to know you today, you have never given me a chance to get to know you, so I can only wait like this.

I said, if you knew me, you wouldn't like me so much, I'm just an ordinary person who can't be more ordinary.

He said, I am also an ordinary person, I know you are not perfect, but this does not prevent me from liking you.Like is a very unreasonable feeling, I have never experienced it before, and now I meet someone I like for the first time, I don't want to miss it.You give me time, let me know you, you also know me, give me a chance, okay?

... Well, I can't stand it, I give in.

My vanity was greatly gratified, and I know it's despicable, but it was the first time I'd been confessed like this growing up.

I came from a small county town, and I was always the top student in my class in high school, and I was promoted all the way up, but when I went to university, I was dwarfed by so many outstanding people. The personality itself is introverted and not talkative, and the sense of existence in study and life is almost zero. I have lived in college for two or three years with low self-esteem.Suddenly one is so good