Abnormal Diagnostic Manual

fetish 03

"How about it?"

"What's the matter?" Qi Yu leaned back on the chair and answered the phone lazily, "I asked him a few small questions that weren't shy, and he turned into a rage and ran away."

"..."

"Come to my house for dinner today, and I will cook pork ribs for you."

Sheng Ming frowned on the other side of the current. Qi Yu returned to China for a few years and they hadn't met each other. They tacitly pretended that each other was a stranger. , Sheng Ming's self-protection mechanism subconsciously reminded him not to have too much contact with Qi Yu.Sure enough, this person can't get along with him, once they come and go, it will be endless, and it's really talking about brothers and friends.

"Your assistant is very uncooperative, we need to discuss further incentives." Qi Yi immediately added as if thinking that the other party would refuse.

When the doorbell rang, Qi Yu was bringing out the last dish.Living alone in a foreign country for several years, he has trained Qi Yu, a young master with ten fingers not in the sun, to become an omnipotent chef.

The tablecloth with hairpin flowers, the exquisite and shiny tableware, the wine that has been decanted, and a few candles placed by the table, all of them showed Qi Yu's exquisite style.

It also made Sheng Ming, who just entered the door carrying a beer and wearing shorts, feel very... stupid.

"Didn't you say to eat ribs?" Sheng Ming said through gritted teeth.

Qi Yu innocently pointed to the exquisite black pepper lamb chops on the table.

……

After dinner, the two nestled on the balcony, each with a bottle of beer, looking up at the stars, and started "science teaching" by the way.

"Your assistant is a fetishist, which is a type of perversion. The so-called perversion is also a perversion. Sexual psychology and sexual behavior are different from normal people." Qi Yu clinked glasses, He raised his head and took a sip. The iced beer is worth all the heat-reducing magic weapons in the hot summer.

Sheng Ming leaned against the railing and looked at him.

"There are so many different views on the theory and treatment of paraphilias, and many people like to take Freud's theory that paraphilias are caused by childhood problems that carry over into adulthood."

Freud's infantile sex/desire theory divides people into oralstage, analstage, phallicstage, latencystage, and genitalstage (oral stage, anal stage, sex bud stage, latent stage, and reproductive stage).

Freud believed that the essence of personality is formed during the first five or six years of life.People are in these five stages, and each stage is related to a specific erogenous zone. If you encounter problems at a certain stage and do not get the corresponding desire satisfaction, then you will stay in this stage forever.

The happiness of the oral stage comes from the oral cavity, and satisfies oneself through biting, sucking, and swallowing. If a person at this stage is not satisfied, he will be fixed in the oral stage after he grows up. He may engage in a lot of oral activities, such as Said that he likes to eat, is addicted to smoking, addicted to kissing, and is very clingy.

For those in the anal/anal stage, the pleasure comes from defecation in the early stage, and the pleasure comes from restraining defecation in the late stage.People who are fixed in the anal/anal stage show cleanliness, stinginess, and obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Sheng Ming took a sip of beer, Qi Yu couldn't help but patted him on the back with a smile, and stretched his hands up unconsciously, touching the other's neck twice without any trace, and continued: "Every three or four Boys at this age are all in the stage of sexual buds, and boys at this age like their mothers, so they have an Oedipus complex. Oedipus knows it, that’s the one who kills his father and marries his mother unconsciously. Oedipus Complex is also Oedipus complex, according to Freud, the boy loves his mother too much, he will show hatred to his father, because the father is the enemy who snatches the mother, but at the same time the boy is also afraid of the authoritative father, this fear forms castration anxiety , fearing that his father would punish him by castration.

"The counterpart to the Oedipus complex is the Electra Complex, the Electra Complex. Freud said that girls think they are supposed to have a penis and are just taken away from it. Girls adore their father and like him precisely because of him Having a penis and she doesn't have it is called penisenvy (penis jealousy), and women diss mothers because their mothers also don't have a penis.

"Freud believed that if these complexes were not resolved properly, it would lead to various sexual perversions."

"Then in the incubation period, the boy is overly afraid of his father, gradually loses interest in sex, and instead focuses on studying or other things, and then devotes himself to sex/love under the influence of Libido during the reproductive period.

"Actually, Freud's theory greatly exaggerates the role of the unconscious. Opponents believe that his explanation of children's sexuality/desire lacks testability, but any science should be able to verify that it is wrong-this testability, however Freud Lloyd's theory can be said to be justified, similar to sophistry.

According to Freud's explanation of fetishism, the boy believes that since his mother and other women have been castrated, his own object is also in danger, resulting in castration anxiety.Then, in order to relieve castration anxiety, boys will look for penis substitutes in their mothers and other women, trying to prove that their mothers have not been castrated, and they may preserve their penises, so fetishes arise.But that doesn't account for the fact that some women also have fetishes. "

Sheng Ming was amazed when he heard it, but at the same time felt a little nauseous.

Qi Yu laughed and opened another bottle of beer, tapped Sheng Ming's bottle and continued: "There is also a behaviorist view that it is the result of reactive conditioning, and I agree with this view. Sexual experience, especially masturbation, if paired with an unconventional sexual stimulus, this stimulus has the potential to become something sexually arousing in him. For example, if a child experiences In addition to sexual arousal, it may lead to his fetishization of women's underwear."

"There are also false perceptions that someone develops in childhood that can lead to perverted behavior reinforcement. For example, if a boy is naked/exposed in front of a girl, if the girl is happy or curious about it, the boy may think "oh, girls like this" , he will still repeat this kind of behavior when he grows up, and now there are often such exhibitionists in the alleys near many schools. This is because the wrong ideas in childhood have not been corrected, and the parents have not made a decision in terms of sexual value Role model, child's lack of self-esteem, poor social skills, lack of understanding of sex/love, the combination is abnormal.

"From a biological point of view, because the central nervous system partially controls sexual arousal, sexual perversions may be related to neurotransmitter dysfunction. Sometimes rapists are castrated/castrated or Brain surgery, or anti-androgen drugs, as an alternative to prison time. Antidepressants are also said to be effective in treating paraphilias."

Qi Yu talked eloquently and then subconsciously switched to English. After all, he has studied abroad for many years, and he first became famous abroad. English is more convenient for him and can communicate more accurately.

Sheng Ming had no choice but to interrupt him by raising his hand in a stop gesture. With all due respect, a businessman like him can only understand economic reports, and hearing these psychological terms made his head hurt.

"We can start with a variety of angles, see what exactly is causing your assistant's paraphilia, and then try various treatments. People with paraphilias often have other problems , Substance abuse, marital problems, personality disorders, irritability, anxiety, depression, etc. So this will be a long-term process, it is difficult to cure them all, and the treatment is just to help quit the behavior of sexual/inverted behavior.” Qi In the end, Yu concluded succinctly.

"Well, I'll have a good chat with him." Sheng Ming lazily stood up straight, with his elbows propped on the railing, his hair was messed up by the wind.

Qi Yu couldn't help but went up and rubbed it randomly, in exchange for the other party to stare fiercely, Qi Yu took advantage of it and smiled triumphantly: "Do you trust him?"

"It's okay. I dug him up with great effort, and it's very easy to use."

"What if he can't be cured?"

Sheng Ming frowned and didn't speak. It wasn't until Qi Yu looked at him that he looked directly at the other party and said lightly, "I believe in you."

Qi Yu was stunned, and his heart was pounding when he was shocked by Sheng Ming's words. His old heart seemed to have returned to ten years ago, and he felt irresistible emotions.Sheng Ming didn't realize at all what kind of bomb he dropped just now, which blinded Qi Yu's eyes. He just raised his hand to check the time, then put a cold wine bottle on Qi Yu's face, and said, "Sleep!" went."

Qi Yu reacted for a long time before jumping up suddenly and chasing after him: "You want to stay overnight at my house?!"

Sheng Ming looked at him incredulously like a beast: "You mean it's so late and I've drank so much, I still need to take a taxi back to my home?"

Well, the straight man Sheng Ming is very simple and straightforward, I can't imagine anything.Qi Yu suppressed his beating heart, and reluctantly took out a new set of quilts from the closet and threw them on Sheng Ming: "Go, Ma Liu, go to the guest room."